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Most Women I approach do reject me I can tell you that 30 years of my life I have only bedded 3 women,not like I am counting but I am just telling you my reality,I think I am average In looks and I am not doing bad financially.no matter how hard I have tried women reject me I try being a bad boy It doesn't work I try being a good boy it still doesn't work, I feel.

Maybe I have a poor personality naturally that is not attractive because from childhood I have being abused and talked down on by both my parents and guardians and it took a toll on my self esteem and confidence even till date.i still struggle with insecurities.

However this is where it gets tricky, most of my friends girlfriend and wives do make advances on me but I avoid them even though it can be very tempting, I don't like betraying my friends even though some of them have betrayed me in the past with women but my conscience wouldnt allow me do such.

Currently a yoruba friend of mine who happens to be a nice friend to me is dating an igbo girl, since this girl knew I am igbo she doesn't let me rest, she will always speak igbo to me and flirt, to avoid trouble I always reply her with English, so my friend will not think I am secretly doing something with her, she doesn't hide it, and she is not the only one, she will view my WhatsApp status anytime I post and comment on them and like the posts, call me bad boy when I post big freaky pix.

I begin to wonder why normal single ladies do not make advances on me like that but ladies in relationships and marriages, lately I am having bad reconsiderations maybe I should start having affairs with these my friends babes because konji is killing me..

You won't understand the stress you are saving yourself from.....in future you will understand

A whole 3..that's too much body count at just 30.

Kanufootsoldier:
Most Women I approach do reject me I can tell you that 30 years of my life I have only bedded 3 women,not like I am counting but I am just telling you my reality,I think I am average In looks and I am not doing bad financially.no matter how hard I have tried women reject me I try being a bad boy It doesn't work I try being a good boy it still doesn't work, I feel
maybe I have a poor personality naturally that is not attractive because from childhood I have being abused and talked down on by both my parents and guardians and it took a toll on my self esteem and confidence even till date.i still struggle with insecurities.
However this is where it get tricky, most of my friends girlfriend and wives do make advances on me but I avoid them even though it can be very tempting, I don't like betraying my friends even though some of them have betrayed me in the past with women but my conscience wouldnt allow me do such.
currently a yoruba friend of mine who happen to be a nice friend to me is dating an igbo girl, since this girl knew I am igbo she doesn't let me rest, she will always speak igbo to me and flirt, to avoid trouble I always reply her with English so my friend will not think I am secretly doing something with her, she doesn't hide it, and she is not the only one, she will view my WhatsApp status anytime I post and comment on them and like the posts , call me bad boy when I post big freaky pix.

I begin to wonder why normal single ladies do not make advances on me like that but ladies in relationships and marriages,lately I am having bad reconsiderations maybe I should start having affairs with these my friends babes because konji is killing me..

Jus imagine what a grown up man is saying. Who told you there is any benefit in sleeping with women you are no married to. Better get your self busy with something more productive. Or go and get married. You have slept with three women you are not married to and you call it just three.

Check if you have body or mouth odour.

You say you don knack 3, hmmm, che na 20 you want to knack before you eventually settle down.

At 30 years is not a time to start thinking of knacking sha. That's for people in the 20s.

You need to start thinking about how to raise a home, a family and establish a career.

Jamesvito:
You won't understand the stress you are saving yourself from.....in future you will understand

He doesn't know that it is a blessing in disguise.

Once a girl says yes to you, a hole has been created in your pocket.

Everyday debit alert.. Na blessing be that?

The less body count the better.

Sickness boku.

Attitude could be the issue

It's unfortunate that we pay more attention to others mistakes without even consciously aware of ours.

Most of the stingy people for example are not consciously aware they are stingy

Don't mind him
Maybe he wants to sleep with 30 women since he's 30 years by then he will start seeing himself as a real man

OritaIbadan:
Jus imagine what a grown up man is saying. Who told you there is any benefit in sleeping with women you are no married to. Better get your self busy with something more productive. Or go and get married. You have slept with three women you are not married to and you call it just three.

Focus on making money,if konji is disturbing you,go ashawo quarter

May GOD have mercy on you.

You are here wailing over your inability to participate in fornication for some time now, while people are thinking of living right to avoid hell on judgement day.

Elusive001:
May GOD have mercy on you.

You are here wailing over you inability to participate in fornication for some time now, while people are thinking of living right to avoid hell on judgement day.

Does that even exist once you die it's all over you return to the state you were before you were born you remembered nothing

No girlfriend: no problem

Kanufootsoldier:
Does that even exist once you die it's all over you return to the state you were before you were born you remembered nothing

So how do you know that it does not exist?

OritaIbadan:
Jus imagine what a grown up man is saying. Who told you there is any benefit in sleeping with women you are no married to. Better get your self busy with something more productive. Or go and get married. You have slept with three women you are not married to and you call it just three.

Bless you my brother.

Satan is really playing poker on the lives of many. Many are hoping to break free from sexual immorality, while this one is dying to engage in it.

You dey mastub.ate, the spirit dey drive women away.

Kanufootsoldier:
Most Women I approach do reject me I can tell you that 30 years of my life I have only bedded 3 women,not like I am counting but I am just telling you my reality,I think I am average In looks and I am not doing bad financially.no matter how hard I have tried women reject me I try being a bad boy It doesn't work I try being a good boy it still doesn't work, I feel.

Maybe I have a poor personality naturally that is not attractive because from childhood I have being abused and talked down on by both my parents and guardians and it took a toll on my self esteem and confidence even till date.i still struggle with insecurities.

However this is where it gets tricky, most of my friends girlfriend and wives do make advances on me but I avoid them even though it can be very tempting, I don't like betraying my friends even though some of them have betrayed me in the past with women but my conscience wouldnt allow me do such.

Currently a yoruba friend of mine who happens to be a nice friend to me is dating an igbo girl, since this girl knew I am igbo she doesn't let me rest, she will always speak igbo to me and flirt, to avoid trouble I always reply her with English, so my friend will not think I am secretly doing something with her, she doesn't hide it, and she is not the only one, she will view my WhatsApp status anytime I post and comment on them and like the posts, call me bad boy when I post big freaky pix.

I begin to wonder why normal single ladies do not make advances on me like that but ladies in relationships and marriages, lately I am having bad reconsiderations maybe I should start having affairs with these my friends babes because konji is killing me..

Kanufootsoldier:
Most Women I approach do reject me I can tell you that 30 years of my life I have only bedded 3 women,not like I am counting but I am just telling you my reality,I think I am average In looks and I am not doing bad financially.no matter how hard I have tried women reject me I try being a bad boy It doesn't work I try being a good boy it still doesn't work, I feel.

Maybe I have a poor personality naturally that is not attractive because from childhood I have being abused and talked down on by both my parents and guardians and it took a toll on my self esteem and confidence even till date.i still struggle with insecurities.

However this is where it gets tricky, most of my friends girlfriend and wives do make advances on me but I avoid them even though it can be very tempting, I don't like betraying my friends even though some of them have betrayed me in the past with women but my conscience wouldnt allow me do such.

Currently a yoruba friend of mine who happens to be a nice friend to me is dating an igbo girl, since this girl knew I am igbo she doesn't let me rest, she will always speak igbo to me and flirt, to avoid trouble I always reply her with English, so my friend will not think I am secretly doing something with her, she doesn't hide it, and she is not the only one, she will view my WhatsApp status anytime I post and comment on them and like the posts, call me bad boy when I post big freaky pix.

I begin to wonder why normal single ladies do not make advances on me like that but ladies in relationships and marriages, lately I am having bad reconsiderations maybe I should start having affairs with these my friends babes because konji is killing me..

guy do wetin dey your mind. Start sleeping with your friends gfs. You'll be doing your friends a huge favour. No let konji kill you. Maybe that's the way you're able to get women. Shalom

KingDashx:
You dey mastub.ate, the spirit dey drive women away.

if the person come stop the masturbation nko? 👀

Baba! Focus on money wey you dey find.
Your Queen will come

Then him go dey get babes.

Tenrack:
if the person come stop the masturbation nko? 👀

I think you should be celebrating,my thoughts though.

Kanufootsoldier:
Most Women I approach do reject me I can tell you that 30 years of my life I have only bedded 3 women,not like I am counting but I am just telling you my reality,I think I am average In looks and I am not doing bad financially.no matter how hard I have tried women reject me I try being a bad boy It doesn't work I try being a good boy it still doesn't work, I feel.

Maybe I have a poor personality naturally that is not attractive because from childhood I have being abused and talked down on by both my parents and guardians and it took a toll on my self esteem and confidence even till date.i still struggle with insecurities.

However this is where it gets tricky, most of my friends girlfriend and wives do make advances on me but I avoid them even though it can be very tempting, I don't like betraying my friends even though some of them have betrayed me in the past with women but my conscience wouldnt allow me do such.

Currently a yoruba friend of mine who happens to be a nice friend to me is dating an igbo girl, since this girl knew I am igbo she doesn't let me rest, she will always speak igbo to me and flirt, to avoid trouble I always reply her with English, so my friend will not think I am secretly doing something with her, she doesn't hide it, and she is not the only one, she will view my WhatsApp status anytime I post and comment on them and like the posts, call me bad boy when I post big freaky pix.

I begin to wonder why normal single ladies do not make advances on me like that but ladies in relationships and marriages, lately I am having bad reconsiderations maybe I should start having affairs with these my friends babes because konji is killing me..

Between 14 years and 28 years, I had count of probably 100 ish im sure its more.

But now im a new creature old things passed away.

Jamesvito:
You won't understand the stress you are saving yourself from.....in future you will understand

This, my friend, is gold.

Op, listen to this Man of Wisdom for your sanity

E be like say you won make them poison the guy
🤣😂

Tenrack:
guy do wetin dey your mind. Start sleeping with your friends gfs. You'll be doing your friends a huge favour. No let konji kill you. Maybe that's the way you're able to get women. Shalom

What's the matter that you

If you are not disable or too ugly, and your hands not deceiving you, man shouldn't have problems in dating women.



Going back to your epistle, I CAN SEE YOU WANT PUBLIC VALIDATION FOR YOUR DIRTY PLAN, TO SLEEP WITH PEOPLE WIVES AND GFs without guilty conscience.

But remember everything has repercussions, wen u continue doing it, a time will come, you will shift to your wife sister and finally your biological daughters.

Hope okpto no dey come out of ya mouth brush well.

Work on your self esteem bro, women dislike men with low self esteem, have a very good dressing sense, boost your self confidence, have a very good sense of humor and try to always be in control, dont talk to women like they want to do u a favor or anything, rather u r the one that want to render your favors.

Problem nor dey finish
This one sef dey...

Comrade at 30 you don already bed three women
How many you want bed before you marry and settle down?

In my community your mates at 30 are still virgin boys and girls and here beding three women at just 30

U NO GET PROBLEM SEF. Hhgggbhhbb