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Emeskhalifa:
Isn't it better to marry the right person than end up with the wrong person?

so why waste her time considering the fact that other potential guys could have been ready to accept her

Bahamas95:
He's a wicked guy, why waste her time when he isn't ready to marry her?



Before I got married there was this Akwa-Ibom girl I had something with. I noticed her character and I told her I ain't ready for serious relationship. She said no problem that's she's ok with it, maybe she was hoping I would change my mind which never happened.......Few months later she saw me with another girl, ( now my wife) though she felt sad but she accepted her fate because I made it clear to her from day one she isn't my type.

Na the same women de leave men after sponsoring them for higher education and marry another man

Emeskhalifa:
Isn't it better to marry the right person than end up with the wrong person?

The debate is, what is he still doing with her? Most especially when the woman doesn't know his decision has been made regarding their relationship

nurudeen181:
Is dating someone a promise that one will marry them now

It depends on what the lady wants, most lady would like the relationship to end in marriage, no lady would like to be used and dumped.

The woman had been seeing signals but she ignored.

Gangsters. Both of them

Don't believe X's stories, this never happened

Its all for clout

Let's even agree that this happened, one year into a relationship is enough for a woman to ask his man where the relationship is going

If he is not sure after one year the kind of woman you are, he should let you find your level

The post is pure sensationalism to bash men once again

If clubbing brought us together, doesn't mean we must end up as husband and wife. as a guy, I know relationship is a little complicated but except it was part of your initial agreement, relationship is not an automatic ticket to marriage for both men and women. no do pass yourself for any relationship.

Take this secret from me as a man , Man knows who they want to marry but that doesn't stop them from keeping you and be doing the do.

alphonsoolajide:
https://x.com/i/status/1929231770743878086



https://eyesoflagos.com/2026/01/29/shes-not-my-type-for-a-wife-after-three-years-dating/

Sirmwill:
He is probably waiting And hoping she turns out to be his type for a wife with time

Exactly. The guy might have been waiting for her to behave herself since without result.

I have a similar situation under my nose right now. I started to date this banny by October. She's all beauty but lack discipleine. Even though she's willing and open to learn, the energy required is exhausting. Worst part is, she told her main friend that she's madly in love and if i jilt her, shell end it all.
I had a police case last time that i was put away for days, this girl wanted to stab herself to death. Na god save everything

He will cry last if he misses a good girl.

From experience, this statement usually focuses on physical aspects.

Biko, if she doesn't have gross bad character and she's not from Ifite , stick to your loyal and respectful woman.

On the flip side, some guys stick to greedy, disrespectful baddies because they wanna bag "high class" babe (very wrong idea of who a high-class babe is). If that's the case, better trash her and move on with your life.

mechanics:
Since he knows she's not his type of woman, he shouldn't hold her down and promise her false hope.

Remind me again where in the original post you read he was giving her false hope or holding her down? The story says she is his girlfriend and that's that.

There should be a special place in hell for time wasters like this.

Bahamas95:
He's a wicked guy, why waste her time when he isn't ready to marry her?



Before I got married there was this Akwa-Ibom girl I had something with. I noticed her character and I told her I ain't ready for serious relationship. She said no problem that's she's ok with it, maybe she was hoping I would change my mind which never happened.......Few months later she saw me with another girl, ( now my wife) though she felt sad but she accepted her fate because I made it clear to her from day one she isn't my type.

As it should be. Define your relationship early on in the relationship to avoid stories that break the heart.

Sonnobax15:

But why waste her time?

But then again,in as much as I don't condone what the guy did to her,but the truth is that bannies had been doing that to guys since the days of Solomon . And the funniest thing is that they see it as a normal thing.

NOT EVERYONE DESERVES SUCH TREATMENT, DONT TAKE PEOPLES VULNERABILITY AND NAIVETY TO UNDO THEM

Fake news.

At least let her know on time so that she can heal and start afresh with someone more deserving.

This cannot be too much to ask

I agree

Tammy2705:
NOT EVERYONE DESERVES SUCH TREATMENT, DONT TAKE PEOPLES VULNERABILITY AND NAIVETY TO UNDO THEM

That man must be a very wicked man

alphonsoolajide:
https://x.com/i/status/1929231770743878086



https://eyesoflagos.com/2026/01/29/shes-not-my-type-for-a-wife-after-three-years-dating/

He is wicked.

Ishilove:
As it should be. Define your relationship early on in the relationship to avoid stories that break the heart.

Ya, my mum always warned me not to promise any woman marriage.

My wife is the first woman I introduced to my parents. And I did that after I was 100% she's the right person.


Back then I noticed some funny things about my female friends and I advised myself, that's a story for another day.

He should leave her if he's not going to marry her. Women and men don't think the same way.

Whe the coochie is sweet, the eater will never want to let go of it easily...

Let him continue eating the coochie abeg...

This 2026 not 1996. Na women dey use men dump men now. Where man wan fit use woman dump in this day and age. Some women just need someone to aid their lifestyle and that's all

mechanics:
It depends on what the lady wants, most lady would like the relationship to end in marriage, no lady would like to be used and dumped.

HelenaWills:
X and their imaginary stories.

Laughable

While it might be x and their imaginary stories, sometimes it happens. Majority of Nigerian women are only good for the relationship, but never good for a wife.

He intelligently dodged a bullet

Pharaoh4rin:
I have a similar situation under my nose right now. I started to date this banny by October. She's all beauty but lack discipleine. Even though she's willing and open to learn, the energy required is exhausting. Worst part is, she told her main friend that she's madly in love and if i jilt her, shell end it all.
I had a police case last time that i was put away for days, this girl wanted to stab herself to death. Na god save everything

Blackmail and evil manipulation like imprisonment and bondage

alphonsoolajide:
https://x.com/i/status/1929231770743878086



https://eyesoflagos.com/2026/01/29/shes-not-my-type-for-a-wife-after-three-years-dating/

Just watch how his next relationship won't last up to 3 years and his mind will still remain unmade!! Nature has a way of dealing with one if we play with affection of another...it's proven many times over...

You go come see wife material before we say jack una don divorce. Now 3yrs old girlfriend material go come turn out to be soulmate. All of una dey gba

89green:
Carry this your moon moon news commot for here, Nairaland sef...they push anything to fp

You people take everything too serious. NL is a forum, they thrive on both hot topics and mundane once like this. Quora and Reddit have far more mundane news and i dont see U.S and UK people insulting their own

EvilMerodack:
You people take everything too serious. NL is a forum, they thrive on both hot topics and mundane once like this. Quora and Reddit have far more mundane news and i dont see U.S and UK people insulting their own

Not an insult, point of correction and we don't have to be like the Countries you have listed up there abeg