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| Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Hullcity: 10:35pm On Jan 28 |
Kudos to u for ur courage. It takes courage n faith to begin this journey |
| Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by NotOfThisWorld(f): 12:34am On Jan 29 |
That's good. Congratulations to you and your wife. |
| Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by spiceadole(f): 5:54am On Jan 29 |
You guys are still getting married and this one even sounds excited about it. Lol Men will say one thing online while doing another offline. Marriage doesn't benefit them , women are evil, bla bla bla yet they can't stop getting married. |
| Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Dtruthspeaker: 9:13am On Jan 29 |
Gbadugbakun:In her country she can marry you or rather she would soon be free to marry you. But, guy, you no like yourself ooo. You see bad thing yet you won go there. Hian ok oo |
| Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by folake4u: 2:53pm On Jan 29 |
Lol. I thought Marriage doesn't benefit men but you don open thread due to excitement on getting married. You for kuku do Tiktok content about "GRWM on meeting my in-laws". ![]() |
| Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by pocohantas(f): 3:14pm On Jan 29 |
folake4u:This one in particular is always online telling us men don't benefit from marriage. But he has left his fellow Ministers of Bannies to go do introduction, even open thread to tell us. I pity his colleagues on here. 😂😂😂😂😂😂 |
| Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Jman06(op): 3:46pm On Jan 29 |
pocohantas:Lol....poco my poco! I finally found a good girl who made me change my stance. I really love her and will never mistreat her! |
| Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by pocohantas(f): 3:52pm On Jan 29 |
Jman06:Naso! I hope she is 16yo and uneducated as you advise young girls and men here. Or she also made you change your mind on that? |
| Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Jman06(op): 3:54pm On Jan 29 |
pocohantas:She's 20 years old and still within the age range I wanted. |
| Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by pocohantas(f): 4:04pm On Jan 29 |
Jman06:I asked if she is 16yo and you say she is 20. 20 is an adult and of legal age. Why did you decide to get married and to an adult after advising men on Nairaland to do the opposite for years? |
| Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Jman06(op): 4:12pm On Jan 29 |
pocohantas:I never advised anybody to marry 16 years old. My opinion has always been that girls of 16years old can still marry and that age of consent should be reduced to 16yo. I've always said here that I prefer girls in the age range of 18 to 22yo. I would have said 16-22yo but that would mean going against the current law on age of consent. |
| Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by pocohantas(f): 4:15pm On Jan 29 |
Jman06:You did actually advise people to marry teenagers and said the only people against it are bitter old women. Why didn't you marry one since you think it is right? Why do you encourage what you do not prefer? You never preferred marriage, but now you are so excited to be married that you created a thread. Even simps haven't done this. Anyway, I knew this day will come and I am happy to witness it. Hopefully your mentees can learn as you update us more. |
| Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Jman06(op): 4:25pm On Jan 29 |
pocohantas:If the law on age of consent had been modified to reduce consent age to 16, I would have reduced my preferences to between 16 and 22yo but it has not been changed. If I wear a lawyer and I'm to handle a case where a man is being prosecuted for marrying a 16yo, I'll definitely discharge and acquit him |
| Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Samantha125(f): 4:31pm On Jan 29 |
How old are you? if you don't mind me asking... I want to check something...🤔🤔🤔 Jman06: |
| Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by pocohantas(f): 4:31pm On Jan 29 |
Jman06:Jman, please rest. I never took you serious and this is not surprising. Let your bros on the FP follow you to be saying men don't benefit from marriage. They will be here when you start posting abacha and fufu pictures like the malignant one. |
| Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Jman06(op): 4:33pm On Jan 29 |
Samantha125:Sorry, I can't disclose my age on a public forum |
| Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Samantha125(f): 4:39pm On Jan 29 |
Yet you disclosed your girlfriend's age...🤔🤔🤔... Are you that old?😅😅😅 Jman06: |
| Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by folake4u: 5:01pm On Jan 29 |
pocohantas:Imagine my shock when I opened this thread and it's the notorious monicker always championing that marriage doesn't benefit men. A case of "Do as I say, not what I do". Na mumu dey believe their mouth. |
| Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Jman06(op): 5:51pm On Jan 29 |
Samantha125:I'm young dear. I don't disclose my age for personal reasons. |
| Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Samantha125(f): 9:08pm On Jan 29 |
But you disclosed your girlfriend's age, why? Jman06: |
| Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Jman06(op): 9:53pm On Jan 29 |
Samantha125:Because she's not on this forum |
| Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by pocohantas(f): 9:57pm On Jan 29 |
folake4u:I didn't know you are familiar with him. I was shocked when I followed your comment and saw it is Jman. I am very sure about a month ago, I saw him arguing with his life that men do not benefit from marriage. But na him create thread, not the 20yo girl. |
| Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Samantha125(f): 9:59pm On Jan 29 |
Still, this is a faceless forum, what do you think I'd do with your age? Harm you? What's your age group then? ![]() Jman06: |
| Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Jman06(op): 10:18pm On Jan 29 |
Samantha125:Okay, 30-35yo |
| Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Samantha125(f): 10:25pm On Jan 29 |
The age gap is too much, but at least you're not her sugar daddy. Jman06: |
| Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Jman06(op): 10:30pm On Jan 29 |
Samantha125:It's not too much. That's the age gap for most couples in this part of the world. In fact, our fathers were 20-30years older than their wives yet they had great marriages. Marriage is better when the man is way older because at that age, the men have seen it all and are wiser than their younger selves, so they're ready to make their marriages work. |
| Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by budaatum: 10:37pm On Jan 29 |
Samantha125:Couples who want to remain married don't start off with "in case things don't workout", because just thinking "in case things don't workout" will make you do what will make things not work out. |
| Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by budaatum: 10:41pm On Jan 29 |
Dtruthspeaker:One single person is your "women hate men"? I guess you'd never marry a woman then. |
| Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by budaatum: 10:42pm On Jan 29 |
| Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by folake4u: 11:05pm On Jan 29 |
pocohantas:I am actually, I always try to avoid his monicker like plague. 😂😂 Let's not be surprised if his 20yr old wife influences him to be creating Tiktok content soon. |
| Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Dtruthspeaker: 3:10am On Jan 30 |
budaatum:I have pointed out several examples in the past. |
| Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Dtruthspeaker: 3:15am On Jan 30 |
Jman06:She's 20 and you want to marry her? You are not serious. Its clear that you are joking |
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