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StillDtruth:
She was good before she got converted and became a downfall

Devil was good too 😂

I think it's better we're giving bad people who turned good, instead of good people who turned bad... 99.9% of earth problems would have been solved

Drsnives:
Sure..
There's eve for every Adam specially designed by God for that Adam.
Luckliy for me, God directed me to mine..
It's been one success story from one to the other since my marriage.
This month 15 will be our 1year anniversary
Please I need 1000likes to celebrate it

Please wait until the 15years before you start blowing your horn

In fact, if you are wise wait until you are 70 before you start blowing your horn for you do not know how long female Adam was good before she converted and became a eve to him.

Offpoint1:
Devil was good too 😂..

We know him as the devil because he became the evil exactly as female Adam (good) is more known by the name of Eve because she became bad.

And if you prefer dealing with hoping on bad people turning good, we have not seen you prove it by your marrying and loving an olosho

He fit even send olosho to some people wey dey go Ndokwa, Cynergy and Triple T Oluti to useless those girls and later start saying good girls no dey again. Poweredcom please take note

Most choices are made by us.
It's all based on luck

NO!

I think so. Awaiting my special woman this year

polite2:
No special person of any sort. Find yourselves attractive and compatible then proceed.

Remember God himself is not involved in finding wife or husband.

Romans and family section is full of those who did that.

StillDtruth:
We know him as the devil because he became the evil exactly as female Adam (good) is more known by the name of Eve because she became bad.

And if you prefer dealing with hoping on bad people turning good, we have not seen you prove it by your marrying and loving an olosho

I rather marry an olosho that I'm aware is an olosho, than to marry an angel that will turn into olosho

AeroplaneApple:
Most choices are made by us.
It's all based on luck

Luck is what unbelievers use to get anything. And we know their results

StillDtruth:
Luck is what unbelievers use to get anything. And we know their results

There many unbelievers who are well married.
There are also many pastors and prophets with divorce

If you need examples, let me know

Dry correct. Nothing like Soulmate o. Thank you for this expose’

Offpoint1:
I rather marry an olosho that I'm aware is an olosho, than to marry an angel that will turn into olosho

Ok.

I rather choose to marry an angel while hiding in God and keeping eyes on the movements of the enemies coming to the evil unto us

Nope.. he already gave us sense, eyes and ears needed to do that

AeroplaneApple:
There many unbelievers who are well married.
There are also many pastors and prophets with divorce

If you need examples, let me know

Go and check it, they are not unbelievers for they did the right things. And of course unbelievers too claim pastors and prophets

Naustine:
Nope.. he already gave us sense, eyes and ears needed to do that

Romans and family section is full of those who did it

DeltaBachelor:
Dry correct. Nothing like Soulmate o. Thank you for this expose’

That is for you unbelievers

StillDtruth:
That is for you unbelievers

lol. I meant very though, not dry

judewrites:
📖 Genesis 3
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¹¹ And he said, Who told thee that thou wast naked? Hast thou eaten of the tree, whereof I commanded thee that thou shouldest not eat?

¹² And the man said, The woman whom thou gavest to be with me, she gave me of the tree, and I did eat.

When queried by God for eating the forbidden fruit, Adam replied to God saying,

"It was the woman you gave me who gave me the fruit to eat" (paraphrased)

In other words, 'its the wife you choose for me that put me in all this mess.'

Humorously, it's said that since Adam complained about the wife God gave Him, from that day on, God decided that man would choose for himself whom he would marry.

Realistically, Adam couldn't refuse Eve because she was created specifically for him.

Unlike Adam's situation, God doesn't have a special person for one to marry, but will rather guide to a person suitable for one.

📖 Whoso findeth a (true) wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD.
— Proverbs 18:22

The Bible didn't say whoso finds 'the' wife, but 'a' wife.

This means God has His options for you to marry, but It takes God's favour to find a good woman or man suitable for you for marriage.

For example out of ten women/men you are considering for marriage, God can guide you to one or two He feels will be best for you.

That's why repeated fornication often confuses sound judgement on the right person to marry because it defuses God's favour.

In fact, so many have missed God's best for them because they couldn't control their sexual appetites.

However, no two people are exactly the same; even identical twins differ in some areas.

This is why we should never compare our spouses with others or dissatisfaction will slowly creep in.

Celebrate 🎉 your spouse's uniqueness because you chose to marry him/her out of billions of people.

The quote in bold is not talking about marriage!! It's an allegory talking about the moment someone becomes SELF KNOWING or CONSCIOUS.

If you follow artificial intelligence news, you'll notice that the debate among programmers is whether artificial intelligence should be programmed to become SELF CONSCIOUS. The reason for the debate is because it's a risky thing to do. If that happens, humanoid artificial intelligence could oust the human race. People like Elon Musk has already predicted it. And he's right!!

In nature, it's from that moment of self consciousness that you take charge and be in control. That's all that part of Genesis is saying.

Be who findeth a wife findeth a good thing

Isn't that simple and clear enough for one to know he has to go out and find a wife? But yet many will be sitting around waiting for God to send the right woman ...or for the pastor to pick one for them ...then be wondering why the marriage never worked out from jump .

That's why I'm on nairaland. I'm looking for the rib of my ribs, flesh of my flesh. I must get married this year.

God does not have anyone in mind for anyone to marry though He knows who everyone will marry.

God doe not chose a partner for anyone though in response to a prayer he could arrange to meet or come across someone with whom you can

fulfill His plan and purpose for your life, though you bear the responsibility of making the move.

God does not show anyone in dreams or vision whom he/she will marry. No precedent of such in the bible.

While God is interested in your marry he will lead you to but he will not chose for anyone. Why? Gen 3:12.

No one will stand before God and blame his/her misdeeds, failures etc referencing what Adam said to God in the passage.

There are more than one person for everyone

The world is too big for you to be looking for one allocated person that your path may never cross

femi4:
There are more than one person for everyone

The world is too big for you to be looking for one allocated person that your path may never cross

Romans and family section is full of people who did that

Igbophobia:
Does God have a special person for you to marry? I'll answer you from the scripture and from experience. The answer is a big yes.

From scripture, remember when Adam was alone? The bible says God brought all the beasts to Adam and it was Adam that named them. There's a twist there: the bible says but none of the beasts was found fit for Adam. Later when God made Eve, Adam saw and named her because she was his flesh and bone.

In a spiritual sense, there is an eve for every Adam. If an Adam misses his Eve, he ends up with a beast.

On a personal level, I've been tempted to marry someone but God through His Spirit warned me not to.

This should be clear enough at least for the believer: marry in God's will or marry a beast. This could be why christians are admonished to at least marry another Christian. That minimum is for Christians who don't care about finding God's will in marriage.

What marrying another believer does for you is minimize your marital pains because they bear the same Spirit, unlike the calamity of marrying an unbeliever which effectively makes satan your father-in-law.

Marrying by 'finding a wife' is a sure recipe for disaster. If not now, later because even if you marry someone you think is a Christian, they may not actually be. For instance, there are many people in church today who are not Christians because their names are not written in heaven because they're walking in darkness such as fornication, hatred, internet fraud and many other sins. Would you say you found a good thing if you marry someone like that?

You see the logic you propounded above? It originates from Christians especially pastors who are guided, not by the Spirit of God but by their flesh.

this was not reviewed to you by fresh and blood!

To find wife in Nigeria these days, it will take forever. Every girl is turning unto olosho even at the age of 15, they don sabi fornication pass you wey dey 30 or 25. May God help us.

faoogoke:
God does not have anyone in mind for anyone to marry though He knows who everyone will marry.

God doe not chose a partner for anyone though in response to a prayer he could arrange to meet or come across someone with whom you can

fulfill His plan and purpose for your life, though you bear the responsibility of making the move.

God does not show anyone in dreams or vision whom he/she will marry. No precedent of such in the bible..

Be there, as many people have experienced, i knew my wife even long before I knew and met her. It was so i don't know how to explain it that i knew her name and her immediately after she said it.

Then for precedent, what do you think happened to Isaac and Rebecca and the servant?

When God is in your life, you would know that your steps are guided.

Originalsly:
Be who findeth a wife findeth a good thing

Isn't that simple and clear enough for one to know he has to go out and find a wife? But yet many will be sitting around waiting for God to send the right woman ...or for the pastor to pick one for them ...then be wondering why the marriage never worked out from jump .

Have they not been searching and searching since? Even the bible said "a good wife who can find?".

Well, keep searching

StillDtruth:
Romans and family section is full of people who did that

They are living in oblivion

Everything start n end on NL

The ways of God are not the ways of man, he does what pleases him for his glory.

Drsnives:
Sure..
There's eve for every Adam specially designed by God for that Adam.
Luckliy for me, God directed me to mine..
It's been one success story from one to the other since my marriage.
This month 15 will be our 1year anniversary
Please I need 1000likes to celebrate it

Prayerfully pray for God to lead you to yours, if you go by sight you'll regret it for the rest of your life.
Wives are like parcel wrapped, some are packaged liabilities, some packaged industrious, honest, respectful and loyal parcel. After marriage you unwrapped the gift and recive the content

No likes yet u never start, most marriages encounter kassala and break up within 5 to 10 years of marriage, till then time would tell cos it’s the only natural phenomenon that changes angels to demons

SpencerForbes:
The last time God actually handpicked a wife, Adam ended up blaming Him for the outcome. Since then, I don't think He’s been in the business of directly choosing spouses for people

Even the situation with Hosea and Gomer was more of a divine lesson than a "happily ever after" setup. Nowadays, He might give you signs or a bit of direction, but the final decision is 100% on you. You have to step up, use your head, and choose your own "poison" yourself.

hahahaha 🤣, no be small poison my brother.