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advanceDNA:
Ofcouse marriage works but not because of all u are claiming… ur marriage is one year old where couples fvck like rabbits…u forming authority on marriage in such a short time of experience is just funny

SpencerForbes:
The last time God actually handpicked a wife, [b]Adam ended up blaming Him for the outcome. Since then, [b]I don't think He’s been in the business of directly choosing spouses for people[/b]

Even the situation with Hosea and Gomer was more of a divine lesson than a "happily ever after" setup. Nowadays, He might give you signs or a bit of direction, but the final decision is 100% on you. You have to step up, use your head, and choose your own "poison" yourself.

Drsnives:
I know whom I got married to..
She's the few exceptional goodly ladies we still have in this planet

Igbophobia:
Does God have a special person for you to marry? I'll answer you from the scripture and from experience. The answer is a big yes.

From scripture, remember when Adam was alone? The bible says God brought all the beasts to Adam and it was Adam that named them. There's a twist there: the bible says but none of the beasts was found fit for Adam. Later when God made Eve, Adam saw and named her because she was his flesh and bone.

In a spiritual sense, there is an eve for every Adam. If an Adam misses his Eve, he ends up with a beast.

On a personal level, I've been tempted to marry someone but God through His Spirit warned me not to.

This should be clear enough at least for the believer: marry in God's will or marry a beast. This could be why christians are admonished to at least marry another Christian. That minimum is for Christians who don't care about finding God's will in marriage.

What marrying another believer does for you is minimize your marital pains because they bear the same Spirit, unlike the calamity of marrying an unbeliever which effectively makes satan your father-in-law.

Marrying by 'finding a wife' is a sure recipe for disaster. If not now, later because even if you marry someone you think is a Christian, they may not actually be. For instance, there are many people in church today who are not Christians because their names are not written in heaven because they're walking in darkness such as fornication, hatred, internet fraud and many other sins. Would you say you found a good thing if you marry someone like that?

You see the logic you propounded above? It originates from Christians especially pastors who are guided, not by the Spirit of God but by their flesh.

Zocalite:
The situation of garden of Eden is different from now ( after the fall ).

Hopefully you get it

peleson1:
It doesn't change God
And God was not unaware it was going to happen that way except you are saying that God could see the fire before the fall

TheStoriesOfMan:
The Creator doesn't choose spouses for mortal. He is not in the matchmaking business.

His plans are far beyond husband and wife matter.

Zocalite:
You don't get brother, things have changed but God can't change

Did Adam pray for eve?

Nowadays if you want to get a wife, after praying you check other qualities too

Examine the Isaac - Rebekah or Jacob scenerio

Thanks

peleson1:
If you pray , God will answer and show you your wife .
If u sample lots of names and ask God,God will show you the one out of the he names that is your wife . Stop contradicting yourself

advanceDNA:
There are so many decisions that will present itself in a person’s life once we arrive this cosmos.

My question is why is that its marriage time yall start looking for how to drag God into decisions u already made from ripples of other decisions

Yall chose school by yourself
Chose house on your own..
Took any available job after 1000 applications..
Even chose country to japa to
Heck! U even saw her big yansh before approaching.
But somehow yall drag God into it …….

tete7000:
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If you live by faith, you should choose nothing by yourself, even the choice of food you eat should be dictated by God. The school you go, God should have input in it. God is interested in every aspect of a believer's life, down to what some of you will term mundane. It is why the scripture says "The just shall live by faith"

blueAgent:
Dey play