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Re: I Want To Marry This Girl But She Keeps Doing This Should I Quit Her. by Love800(m): 7:21pm On Feb 02
Both of you has not yet define your union/relationship. Why are both of you into eachother? You need to answer that.

Stop the texting and calls and focus on ur life. Have you made money and atleast an investment(purpose)!
Let her be the one calling you.
Re: I Want To Marry This Girl But She Keeps Doing This Should I Quit Her. by do4luv14(m): 7:22pm On Feb 02
Goodmarlian:
There is this girl I have known since we were in school, she is beautiful, independent and very outspoken, she thicks almost all my boxes except one thing,just like most girl do, this girl hardly reply chats, Infact any means to contact her online never works.

When we were in school this girl buys me things whenever she visits ,gives me attention and talks to me for hours, and sometimes she whines me about marriage, the girl is from Anambra while I am from imo she told me she doesn't have friends from imo except me, that she doesn't even know why she likes me.

Whenever she wants to go home I grab her by the waist and peck her to test if her intentions are romantic she will just smile and go.

I have given up all my romantic intentions towards her since last year and moved on but she came around last week Thursday, called me on phone that she is in an eatery opposite school that I should come around, so I went to see her there she hugged me we talked and once again she bought food and drink for me and we gisted about a whole lot of things she started calling me her love you see whining again? After that day she said I should call her or chat her up, I laughed and told her she has forgotten she hardly replies chats and calls, she laughed meaning she knows what she is doing.

OK this morning I chatted her up to thank her for her hospitality that day till this moment she hasn't replied I just tire for the girl grin

I am thinking about making a drastic and brutal decision of not having anything to do with her again, even if she contacts me.
I will Advice you to Calma, most independent ladies are like that, they don't like chatting Online

Even now there was these girl, I see around were I hustle, actually she too is hustling, but she hardly can Online,

Something came that I need to speak with her, there she opens up , since then been getting her to chat little by little,

Bros focus and and keep it safe and simple, there is something she might like, post that thing on your status she will see it and comment, from there fire your chatting shot
Re: I Want To Marry This Girl But She Keeps Doing This Should I Quit Her. by Omoawoke(m): 7:22pm On Feb 02
Goodmarlian:
There is this girl I have known since we were in school, she is beautiful, independent and very outspoken, she thicks almost all my boxes except one thing,just like most girl do, this girl hardly reply chats, Infact any means to contact her online never works.

When we were in school this girl buys me things whenever she visits ,gives me attention and talks to me for hours, and sometimes she whines me about marriage, the girl is from Anambra while I am from imo she told me she doesn't have friends from imo except me, that she doesn't even know why she likes me.

Whenever she wants to go home I grab her by the waist and peck her to test if her intentions are romantic she will just smile and go.

I have given up all my romantic intentions towards her since last year and moved on but she came around last week Thursday, called me on phone that she is in an eatery opposite school that I should come around, so I went to see her there she hugged me we talked and once again she bought food and drink for me and we gisted about a whole lot of things she started calling me her love you see whining again? After that day she said I should call her or chat her up, I laughed and told her she has forgotten she hardly replies chats and calls, she laughed meaning she knows what she is doing.

OK this morning I chatted her up to thank her for her hospitality that day till this moment she hasn't replied I just tire for the girl grin

I am thinking about making a drastic and brutal decision of not having anything to do with her again, even if she contacts me.
You better enjoy the free food she’s giving you before you die of hunger so you don’t lost in two ways

She has a serious man somewhere that’s blasting her kitten regularly and paying her bills
Re: I Want To Marry This Girl But She Keeps Doing This Should I Quit Her. by jaephoenix(m): 7:27pm On Feb 02
Diamond098454:
Everytime billing what do you mean by this billing billing billing? Haven't you seen guys that doesn't wait for there girl to ask them for something before they do it?
Sorry,we dont associate with homeless girls
Re: I Want To Marry This Girl But She Keeps Doing This Should I Quit Her. by tropaz(m): 7:28pm On Feb 02
Why is the devil hell bent on punishing young men in this Nigeriahuh Wetin man do devil nahhuh I will remember you in my daily prayers henceforth.... Peace be with you as you find your path in life!!!! Nawa ooooooooo
Re: I Want To Marry This Girl But She Keeps Doing This Should I Quit Her. by Aroyjunior(m): 7:28pm On Feb 02
This one no even get sense.
Small woman drama inside a whole lot of Africa magic you Dan dey run.
Smh
Re: I Want To Marry This Girl But She Keeps Doing This Should I Quit Her. by Nobody: 7:29pm On Feb 02
Goodmarlian:
There is this girl I have known since we were in school, she is beautiful, independent and very outspoken, she thicks almost all my boxes except one thing,just like most girl do, this girl hardly reply chats, Infact any means to contact her online never works.

When we were in school this girl buys me things whenever she visits ,gives me attention and talks to me for hours, and sometimes she whines me about marriage, the girl is from Anambra while I am from imo she told me she doesn't have friends from imo except me, that she doesn't even know why she likes me.

Whenever she wants to go home I grab her by the waist and peck her to test if her intentions are romantic she will just smile and go.

I have given up all my romantic intentions towards her since last year and moved on but she came around last week Thursday, called me on phone that she is in an eatery opposite school that I should come around, so I went to see her there she hugged me we talked and once again she bought food and drink for me and we gisted about a whole lot of things she started calling me her love you see whining again? After that day she said I should call her or chat her up, I laughed and told her she has forgotten she hardly replies chats and calls, she laughed meaning she knows what she is doing.

OK this morning I chatted her up to thank her for her hospitality that day till this moment she hasn't replied I just tire for the girl grin

I am thinking about making a drastic and brutal decision of not having anything to do with her again, even if she contacts me.
Lmaooo girl wen de beg another guy to reply her and crying why is he so busy.

These nigerian men una mumu well well. Una go see people wen no like una, una go still de waffle about liking them.

Anyways
Re: I Want To Marry This Girl But She Keeps Doing This Should I Quit Her. by Zocalite: 7:30pm On Feb 02
Omo you fall hand big time

Girl that doesn't pick your call or reply chat just called you to come eat, and you just run there

Hope she didn't hold your hand like school son
.....

You are emotionally too weak to be in a relationship with that girl or any girl

Grow up
Re: I Want To Marry This Girl But She Keeps Doing This Should I Quit Her. by lexzyy(m): 7:30pm On Feb 02
BlaqJagz:
She's keeping you as the last option, she's probably dating two or three guys at the moment. I think you should wait and see if two out of them disappoint her then she will start replying you messages


You know a patient dog eat the fattest bone but as for you, you no go even see bone chop
She might be married sef
Re: I Want To Marry This Girl But She Keeps Doing This Should I Quit Her. by daben1(m): 7:31pm On Feb 02
From your write up, she's not even your girlfriend and you want to marry her
Re: I Want To Marry This Girl But She Keeps Doing This Should I Quit Her. by Dennisochampa: 7:31pm On Feb 02
So if I tell u make u leave her... U go really leave her?? I suppose find you wipe u wire for back..... Oga focus o.....

Weigh your options.... If she's not cheating... I don't see why her not replying chats should be a problem abi u no get work?? Because if you get werin dey keep you busy, u for no dey look for who go dey reply your chats.... But like I said.... Weigh your options and follow your heart.....
Re: I Want To Marry This Girl But She Keeps Doing This Should I Quit Her. by isan(m): 7:32pm On Feb 02
She doesn't like you
Re: I Want To Marry This Girl But She Keeps Doing This Should I Quit Her. by SAMBARRY: 7:32pm On Feb 02
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Bro,you better focus on the food and other freebies you're gaining from her and forget about going into any worthless relationship with her angry.

Abi you wan dey chest billing wey no suppose concern you at all? angry
eni tie tibaje ton weni kunra nie


In a generation where to find a good wife is like looking for 100 million dollars in nigeria, a man was lucky to meet a girl that scored 9/10 and the thing you can think from your wicked and evil mind is how to exploit a girl that genuinely loves him. Omo anyone who has any kind of involvement with you is In danger because dealing with a selfish and exploitative person like breeding snakes in your home. The day it feels like it can attack you.thats what you are

Who told you that you will ever meet a partner that will tick all your boxes. This man even met a good woman in this generation and this is the malicious advice you can give

Omo you're wicked and evil o just in case no one told you, I'm telling you.

No wonder werey girls full everywhere. All this aunty Shakira dancers are the kind of girls you deserve
Re: I Want To Marry This Girl But She Keeps Doing This Should I Quit Her. by Diamond098454(f): 7:33pm On Feb 02
Some girls you called homeless in this forum can makes you a big boy tomorrow
Don't look down on people
jaephoenix:
Sorry,we dont associate with homeless girls
Hmmm hmmm homeless
Smile smile smile
Re: I Want To Marry This Girl But She Keeps Doing This Should I Quit Her. by banku: 7:33pm On Feb 02
She just wants to call the shots while she keeps you around. Guys tend to dominate once they are sure the girl is in their possession
Re: I Want To Marry This Girl But She Keeps Doing This Should I Quit Her. by LockDown69(m): 7:34pm On Feb 02
Run ooooo! grin
Re: I Want To Marry This Girl But She Keeps Doing This Should I Quit Her. by bobogogo: 7:36pm On Feb 02
Dont abandon her and never see her as a lover.
Take her as your very very good friend.
Both of you might be of great help to each other in the future.

I have seen ladies help the destinies of men they are not in love with.
Re: I Want To Marry This Girl But She Keeps Doing This Should I Quit Her. by merits(m): 7:37pm On Feb 02
Naustine:
LoL..I get this bro.. if she ticks all the boxes, go for her. I have a feeling she is waiting or wanting you to man up. Fix a date with her...then officially ask her to be your girlfriend. If she agrees, your luck, she says no, you move on, she doesn't give u a straight answer , move on too. I feel she is waiting for u to make ur intentions known. U are obviously working with assumptions here. Good luck nwune
This your advice sweet me die, that was the same thing I did one beautiful Igala corper lady that year in PH, Immediately I noticed she's taken me for granted with fake love I just invited her for date and I told her my mind and she told me the reason she can't date me and from there everyone departed peacefully and move on at the end God gave me beautiful young girl that I married today and we both were living well with our children.This life too small than one yeye girl dey give person unnecessary headache abeg.
Re: I Want To Marry This Girl But She Keeps Doing This Should I Quit Her. by greatseed: 7:38pm On Feb 02
Goodmarlian:
There is this girl I have known since we were in school, she is beautiful, independent and very outspoken, she thicks almost all my boxes except one thing,just like most girl do, this girl hardly reply chats, Infact any means to contact her online never works.

When we were in school this girl buys me things whenever she visits ,gives me attention and talks to me for hours, and sometimes she whines me about marriage, the girl is from Anambra while I am from imo she told me she doesn't have friends from imo except me, that she doesn't even know why she likes me.

Whenever she wants to go home I grab her by the waist and peck her to test if her intentions are romantic she will just smile and go.

I have given up all my romantic intentions towards her since last year and moved on but she came around last week Thursday, called me on phone that she is in an eatery opposite school that I should come around, so I went to see her there she hugged me we talked and once again she bought food and drink for me and we gisted about a whole lot of things she started calling me her love you see whining again? After that day she said I should call her or chat her up, I laughed and told her she has forgotten she hardly replies chats and calls, she laughed meaning she knows what she is doing.

OK this morning I chatted her up to thank her for her hospitality that day till this moment she hasn't replied I just tire for the girl grin

I am thinking about making a drastic and brutal decision of not having anything to do with her again, even if she contacts me.
Whenever she is not around you, just know she has gone back to the underworld & she is not allowed to use phones there. Good luck bro grin
Re: I Want To Marry This Girl But She Keeps Doing This Should I Quit Her. by AllBlack: 7:38pm On Feb 02
Goodmarlian:
OK this morning I chatted her up to thank her for her hospitality that day till this moment she hasn't replied I just tire for the girl grin
See finish. Seems you need her more than she even notices your existence.

Vibe no dey. Abort mission.
Re: I Want To Marry This Girl But She Keeps Doing This Should I Quit Her. by fyneboi79(m): 7:42pm On Feb 02
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Bro,you better focus on the food and other freebies you're gaining from her and forget about going into any worthless relationship with her angry.

Abi you wan dey chest billing wey no suppose concern you at all? angry
grin
Re: I Want To Marry This Girl But She Keeps Doing This Should I Quit Her. by abobote: 7:42pm On Feb 02
You want to marry a girl who constantly buys you food without reciprocation.
Anyway, Anambra girls don't like marrying Imo state guys, they believe we are lazy and more focused on schools and fine boy.
I'm from Imo state
Re: I Want To Marry This Girl But She Keeps Doing This Should I Quit Her. by adecz: 7:45pm On Feb 02
Up your game..

The gehl luvz you, but trying to
see how committed you are..

By the way, you don show her blokkos 👉👌💓??😉😉😉
Re: I Want To Marry This Girl But She Keeps Doing This Should I Quit Her. by Olaskybab: 7:46pm On Feb 02
Goodmarlian:
There is this girl I have known since we were in school, she is beautiful, independent and very outspoken, she thicks almost all my boxes except one thing,just like most girl do, this girl hardly reply chats, Infact any means to contact her online never works.

When we were in school this girl buys me things whenever she visits ,gives me attention and talks to me for hours, and sometimes she whines me about marriage, the girl is from Anambra while I am from imo she told me she doesn't have friends from imo except me, that she doesn't even know why she likes me.

Whenever she wants to go home I grab her by the waist and peck her to test if her intentions are romantic she will just smile and go.

I have given up all my romantic intentions towards her since last year and moved on but she came around last week Thursday, called me on phone that she is in an eatery opposite school that I should come around, so I went to see her there she hugged me we talked and once again she bought food and drink for me and we gisted about a whole lot of things she started calling me her love you see whining again? After that day she said I should call her or chat her up, I laughed and told her she has forgotten she hardly replies chats and calls, she laughed meaning she knows what she is doing.

OK this morning I chatted her up to thank her for her hospitality that day till this moment she hasn't replied I just tire for the girl grin

I am thinking about making a drastic and brutal decision of not having anything to do with her again, even if she contacts me.
Seems the lady is in a relationship. She probably had issues with her partner that day, and U were used as a temporary succor. If their issue degenerates, you'll definitely be her rebound.

My advice: Be a man, tell her want you want. Define the relationship!
Re: I Want To Marry This Girl But She Keeps Doing This Should I Quit Her. by Sonofwar: 7:51pm On Feb 02
You are still a kid, just focus on your hustle. All of this on a lady you haven't asked her out officially
Re: I Want To Marry This Girl But She Keeps Doing This Should I Quit Her. by SonOfWords(m): 7:53pm On Feb 02
Pikin wey suppose dey read book dey bring him biscuit love chronicles come nairaland, and one wayward moderator even decide to front page the garbage😐💀.
Re: I Want To Marry This Girl But She Keeps Doing This Should I Quit Her. by Exceed15: 7:53pm On Feb 02
U r just her shock absorber. Start dating someone else and don't look forward have something serious with her
Re: I Want To Marry This Girl But She Keeps Doing This Should I Quit Her. by TheControversy: 7:54pm On Feb 02
Mumu
Re: I Want To Marry This Girl But She Keeps Doing This Should I Quit Her. by MrSly(m): 7:54pm On Feb 02
Goodmarlian:
There is this girl I have known since we were in school, she is beautiful, independent and very outspoken, she thicks almost all my boxes except one thing,just like most girl do, this girl hardly reply chats, Infact any means to contact her online never works.

When we were in school this girl buys me things whenever she visits ,gives me attention and talks to me for hours, and sometimes she whines me about marriage, the girl is from Anambra while I am from imo she told me she doesn't have friends from imo except me, that she doesn't even know why she likes me.

Whenever she wants to go home I grab her by the waist and peck her to test if her intentions are romantic she will just smile and go.

I have given up all my romantic intentions towards her since last year and moved on but she came around last week Thursday, called me on phone that she is in an eatery opposite school that I should come around, so I went to see her there she hugged me we talked and once again she bought food and drink for me and we gisted about a whole lot of things she started calling me her love you see whining again? After that day she said I should call her or chat her up, I laughed and told her she has forgotten she hardly replies chats and calls, she laughed meaning she knows what she is doing.

OK this morning I chatted her up to thank her for her hospitality that day till this moment she hasn't replied I just tire for the girl grin

I am thinking about making a drastic and brutal decision of not having anything to do with her again, even if she contacts me.
I don't just know what you want. You are in friend zone with little freebies of hospitality and winning of love but you end up taking the whole process serious. Usually the men are the last to take love with a girl seriously. I do not know why you doing the opposite.
Re: I Want To Marry This Girl But She Keeps Doing This Should I Quit Her. by folake4u: 7:57pm On Feb 02
Lol this sounds like SS2B plaything.
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