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Hiiii how was your day?

A girl can help a guy through her family connections
Tell your dad or mum something ,you know?
Someone like me can't asked a guy for money because it makes me shame.

Paulo3ree:
Hey dear, your view on the op's subject will be well appreciated 👍🏻

Happy month
Smile smile

Specialbaby:
Op how old are you?

Good question. The guy sounds like a juvenile.

She dey busy dey masturbate

Usmanovic95:
The girl is obviously dodging every means to put the guy in a position to ask her out. She doesn't respond to call and chat ,so how will he arrange a session to fix that, in his dream? That girl wiseness pass that bro's level.
The only way he can take charge of the situation is to temporarily ignore her. There is a saying women are just like shadows,when you chase them ,they flee from you but when you flee from them ,they run to you.

Do you even read his post. How is she dodging any means for him to ask him out, simp.
Mumu talk.
They ate at a restaurant and talk for long and you come here telling me she's dodging.
If he ask her out and the girl begin to see him as boyfriend then he can come here and complain about her not responding to message.

Solofresh2:
This girl no be confusion. She sabi wetin she dey do well well. You be like "offline boyfriend" or "nostalgia snack" for her.

· School time/When she visit: You be main character. She buy you thing, she yarn for hours, she dey play "love" and "marriage".
· Once she comot go her life: You vanish for her mind. Phone no dey ring, message no dey reply. You don turn to "See you next time".

Why she dey do am?
E sweet for her. You give am that good feeling of attention, love, and past memory WHEN E SUIT HER. But that feeling no reach to make you important for her daily life. Na why you no fit contact am online. You dey for "physical zone" only.

Your plan to cut her off no be wickedness, na common sense.
You dey tire yourself for person wey get your time only when e cheap for her. Na pattern and you don see am clear clear. If you continue, you go just dey on standby like generator wey dem no dey use.


· Believe her actions, ignore her sweet school-time mouth. Her true action na the silence for phone.
· Stop to dey follow her play film. No run go when she call. No dey hug and kiss like boyfriend when you know say you no be for her mind.
· Comot her for that "potential wife" mind. Carry your mind go where e go see peace. Find person wey go want you for online and offline, for today and for tomorrow.
· No need long talk or announcement. Just stop. If she appear again, greet am fine, but make you busy. Your silence go talk pass thousand words.

She don show you who she be. Your work now na to believe am and use your energy for better thing. This one na "gbaski-gbas-ki" relationship. E dey chop your peace. Let am go.

Make a request from her that will cost her time and money, she is probably reaching out to you the best way she knows
Why money, - its a substance she has in abundance and can easily spare (don't ever think on depending on her finances so you don't forever damage your masculine nature, remember whatever you learn requires effort to unlearn)
Why time,- same reason, it's something she have and can spare for the one she cares for

Just small small, everything go dey well defined

[My take, - she may be a good girl that comes out of her shell when her a/lone life becomes unbearable and you're always available to welcome her, in essence I doubt she's a biz girl that looks for who to make her feel normal

Just forget about her for now. Face your life

Diamond098454:
Hiiii how was your day?

A girl can help a guy through her family connections
Tell your dad or mum something ,you know?
Someone like me can't asked a guy for money because it makes me shame.
Happy month
Smile smile

Best wishes ✨
Thank you.

Now this guy is interested in the girl, guide him on how to achieve it
I want to learn too

You want NL to come for my head
My name is not good in this forum Narialand brotherhood will come for me

Paulo3ree:
Best wishes ✨
Thank you.

Now this guy is interested in the girl, guide him on how to achieve it
I want to learn too

But that's the truth.
U Imo men too dey do longer throat. Una no get d steeze at all. How u go dey dia a girl go dey buy food for you?No Anambra man ,no matter how poor,,go gree chop food wey a girl pay for. Na dem go pay for the food. An Anambra man get this Odogwu mentality which u people from Imo , especially Owerri zone no get.
Look,d babe na my sister. She no rate you at all. Better goan look for ur fellow Mbaise abi Obowo babe go marry.

Goodmarlian:
Really woooww I never knew she has a spokesman

You are a bad guy

femi4:
Start dating her friend, she ll come around

Goodmarlian:
There is this girl I have known since we were in school, she is beautiful, independent and very outspoken, she thicks almost all my boxes except one thing,just like most girl do, this girl hardly reply chats, Infact any means to contact her online never works.

When we were in school this girl buys me things whenever she visits ,gives me attention and talks to me for hours, and sometimes she whines me about marriage, the girl is from Anambra while I am from imo she told me she doesn't have friends from imo except me, that she doesn't even know why she likes me.

Whenever she wants to go home I grab her by the waist and peck her to test if her intentions are romantic she will just smile and go.

I have given up all my romantic intentions towards her since last year and moved on but she came around last week Thursday, called me on phone that she is in an eatery opposite school that I should come around, so I went to see her there she hugged me we talked and once again she bought food and drink for me and we gisted about a whole lot of things she started calling me her love you see whining again? After that day she said I should call her or chat her up, I laughed and told her she has forgotten she hardly replies chats and calls, she laughed meaning she knows what she is doing.

OK this morning I chatted her up to thank her for her hospitality that day till this moment she hasn't replied I just tire for the girl

I am thinking about making a drastic and brutal decision of not having anything to do with her again, even if she contacts me.

You should try calling her first before making a decision. If she doesn't respond or call back then know she isn't really interested so you cut your losses and leave her alone.

Goodmarlian:
There is this girl I have known since we were in school, she is beautiful, independent and very outspoken, she thicks almost all my boxes except one thing,just like most girl do, this girl hardly reply chats, Infact any means to contact her online never works.

When we were in school this girl buys me things whenever she visits ,gives me attention and talks to me for hours, and sometimes she whines me about marriage, the girl is from Anambra while I am from imo she told me she doesn't have friends from imo except me, that she doesn't even know why she likes me.

Whenever she wants to go home I grab her by the waist and peck her to test if her intentions are romantic she will just smile and go.

I have given up all my romantic intentions towards her since last year and moved on but she came around last week Thursday, called me on phone that she is in an eatery opposite school that I should come around, so I went to see her there she hugged me we talked and once again she bought food and drink for me and we gisted about a whole lot of things she started calling me her love you see whining again? After that day she said I should call her or chat her up, I laughed and told her she has forgotten she hardly replies chats and calls, she laughed meaning she knows what she is doing.

OK this morning I chatted her up to thank her for her hospitality that day till this moment she hasn't replied I just tire for the girl

I am thinking about making a drastic and brutal decision of not having anything to do with her again, even if she contacts me.

She's preying on your weakness. You're too emotional and she knows. She only needs you around to fulfill her desires and once she has gotten that, she'll shift you one side. This girl you're dying for is chasing another guy somewhere. She's just using you to pass time. She doesn't love you. She's just a flirt and that's why you can do all those things with her and she'll see nothing wrong. Some ladies are so open to the point that you'll think they are falling for you but na lie. Marrying that lady would be your greatest mistake in life. A woman that puts you as top priority would never leave your messages pending for a long time. She is s*xchatting another guy seriously somewhere or banging him while you're busy dropping messages that would never be opened until she is ready to play with your feelings as usual

Diamond098454:
You want NL to come for my head
My name is not good in this forum Narialand brotherhood will come for me

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Until then, please carry on with your possible guidance for the guy in this situation

Diamond098454:
You are a bad guy

I am just trying to help a brother

Westman001:
Do you even read his post. How is she dodging any means for him to ask him out, simp.
Mumu talk.
They ate at a restaurant and talk for long and you come here telling me she's dodging.
If he ask her out and the girl begin to see him as boyfriend then he can come here and complain about her not responding to message.

Picture this scenario, a girl invite you to a restaurant, bought and paid for the food you without you contributing a dime. Do you ideally think that is the best time to ask such a girl out or wait for another moment when the onus will be on him to return the favour,this would have been a perfect option which I think the guy will have been exploring but the girl is not giving chances for such meet up. The girl perfectly understand what she is doing bro.

By telling him to make out with two friends?

femi4:
I am just trying to help a brother

Goodmarlian:
There is this girl I have known since we were in school, she is beautiful, independent and very outspoken, she thicks almost all my boxes except one thing,just like most girl do, this girl hardly reply chats, Infact any means to contact her online never works.

When we were in school this girl buys me things whenever she visits ,gives me attention and talks to me for hours, and sometimes she whines me about marriage, the girl is from Anambra while I am from imo she told me she doesn't have friends from imo except me, that she doesn't even know why she likes me.

Whenever she wants to go home I grab her by the waist and peck her to test if her intentions are romantic she will just smile and go.

I have given up all my romantic intentions towards her since last year and moved on but she came around last week Thursday, called me on phone that she is in an eatery opposite school that I should come around, so I went to see her there she hugged me we talked and once again she bought food and drink for me and we gisted about a whole lot of things she started calling me her love you see whining again? After that day she said I should call her or chat her up, I laughed and told her she has forgotten she hardly replies chats and calls, she laughed meaning she knows what she is doing.

OK this morning I chatted her up to thank her for her hospitality that day till this moment she hasn't replied I just tire for the girl

I am thinking about making a drastic and brutal decision of not having anything to do with her again, even if she contacts me.

I am talking from.experience she is deeply in love with you ...but she is afraid not to make mistake ...she has been hurt in the past...she is just being careful ...don't give up yet ...you will ve the lucky one ...she is using all her strategy to test you

Diamond098454:
By telling him to make out with two friends?

Not really..just to make her feel she's not doing enough

Women are competitive

Smile smile smile
Have a sweet bed rest
I have 8am lecture tomorrow gat to sleep now
Good night.

Paulo3ree:
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Until then, please carry on with your possible guidance for the guy in this situation

Goodmarlian:
There is this girl I have known since we were in school, she is beautiful, independent and very outspoken, she thicks almost all my boxes except one thing,just like most girl do, this girl hardly reply chats, Infact any means to contact her online never works.

When we were in school this girl buys me things whenever she visits ,gives me attention and talks to me for hours, and sometimes she whines me about marriage, the girl is from Anambra while I am from imo she told me she doesn't have friends from imo except me, that she doesn't even know why she likes me.

Whenever she wants to go home I grab her by the waist and peck her to test if her intentions are romantic she will just smile and go.

I have given up all my romantic intentions towards her since last year and moved on but she came around last week Thursday, called me on phone that she is in an eatery opposite school that I should come around, so I went to see her there she hugged me we talked and once again she bought food and drink for me and we gisted about a whole lot of things she started calling me her love you see whining again? After that day she said I should call her or chat her up, I laughed and told her she has forgotten she hardly replies chats and calls, she laughed meaning she knows what she is doing.

OK this morning I chatted her up to thank her for her hospitality that day till this moment she hasn't replied I just tire for the girl

I am thinking about making a drastic and brutal decision of not having anything to do with her again, even if she contacts me.

Bro the reason I mentioned is for you get this message direct. Listen, the girl in question actually came back because you stopped text or calling her like you use to. She only came to get the validation from you to know if you still like her. The moment you gave her the call you have ticked that box. Now bear in mind it does not mean she also like you but that validation is what she came for. My sincere advise to you is let her go. Dont text or reply again and watch what she does. Be the alpha male

Diamond098454:
Smile smile smile
Have a sweet bed rest
I have 8am lecture tomorrow gat together sleep now
Good night.

Nice 👍🏻

Goodmarlian:
There is this girl I have known since we were in school, she is beautiful, independent and very outspoken, she thicks almost all my boxes except one thing,just like most girl do, this girl hardly reply chats, Infact any means to contact her online never works.

When we were in school this girl buys me things whenever she visits ,gives me attention and talks to me for hours, and sometimes she whines me about marriage, the girl is from Anambra while I am from imo she told me she doesn't have friends from imo except me, that she doesn't even know why she likes me.

Whenever she wants to go home I grab her by the waist and peck her to test if her intentions are romantic she will just smile and go.

I have given up all my romantic intentions towards her since last year and moved on but she came around last week Thursday, called me on phone that she is in an eatery opposite school that I should come around, so I went to see her there she hugged me we talked and once again she bought food and drink for me and we gisted about a whole lot of things she started calling me her love you see whining again? After that day she said I should call her or chat her up, I laughed and told her she has forgotten she hardly replies chats and calls, she laughed meaning she knows what she is doing.

OK this morning I chatted her up to thank her for her hospitality that day till this moment she hasn't replied I just tire for the girl

I am thinking about making a drastic and brutal decision of not having anything to do with her again, even if she contacts me.

If na school you dey, face your education, if you no dey school, go look for money! Na money be bobo! Her last hugging still get effect for your body, are you feeling 🍯 already 😂 😂 😂 Nothing wey person no go see. You must be below 20yrs.

You are friendzoned. Free yourself and move on. Just hugging without gbenshing, letting a girl buy you food. You should not even be thinking about marriage or relationship, focus on your studies and get a side hustle.

Na you dey stress yourself, she no see you as dating material, but she likes you as a friend cos you're cool and probably fun to be with.

Get a gf of your own, and continue enjoying her freebies, who knows, she can give you a taste someday.

It's better you have a female friend, who sees you as a genuine friend. She'll do everything and anything to keep you at her corner always.

Pls make the drastic and brutal decision now, you don't know the value of a gold until you lost it

InvertedHammer:
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You are just a pet that she feeds once in awhile to feel good about herself. That's all.

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.I wouldnt give a flying fk if I was op ..

I'd munch till eternity ..

Diamond098454:
Everytime billing what do you mean by this billing billing billing? Haven't you seen guys that doesn't wait for there girl to ask them for something before they do it?

Madam, have you ever heard of a book called Brighter Grammar? 🤔

Diamond098454:
Some girls you called homeless in this forum can makes you a big boy tomorrow
Don't look down on people

Hmmm hmmm homeless
Smile smile smile

Diamond the great woman with a Landcruiser, please come and make me a big boy, I no get any level.

fredopareto:
All she needs from you is Ur gbola...invite her and give it to her just d way she likes it ..

I second this ..

She seem like she wants something sexual, something of some bad boy ish vibe from op but oo dey play lover boy and she got bored ... ...

Welcome to the friend zone.

Goodmarlian:
There is this girl I have known since we were in school, she is beautiful, independent and very outspoken, she thicks almost all my boxes except one thing,just like most girl do, this girl hardly reply chats, Infact any means to contact her online never works.

When we were in school this girl buys me things whenever she visits ,gives me attention and talks to me for hours, and sometimes she whines me about marriage, the girl is from Anambra while I am from imo she told me she doesn't have friends from imo except me, that she doesn't even know why she likes me.

Whenever she wants to go home I grab her by the waist and peck her to test if her intentions are romantic she will just smile and go.

I have given up all my romantic intentions towards her since last year and moved on but she came around last week Thursday, called me on phone that she is in an eatery opposite school that I should come around, so I went to see her there she hugged me we talked and once again she bought food and drink for me and we gisted about a whole lot of things she started calling me her love you see whining again? After that day she said I should call her or chat her up, I laughed and told her she has forgotten she hardly replies chats and calls, she laughed meaning she knows what she is doing.

OK this morning I chatted her up to thank her for her hospitality that day till this moment she hasn't replied I just tire for the girl

I am thinking about making a drastic and brutal decision of not having anything to do with her again, even if she contacts me.

For where, there is nothing drastic or brutal in your decision, you cannot even make decision talk less of a brutal one. Do you even have balls to make decision when it concerns a woman.

A woman you haven't been in talks for long, called and fed you, and you immediately started thinking of marrying her? My friend go get a life . She has not responded to your text and you're restless? Please go get a job.

If no one would tell you, I, zagorakis, would tell you that you are a SIMP and a danger to yourself and the society.

Usmanovic95:
Bro, that girl know say if she dey respond to your chat, na love talk you go dey follow her yarn not business talk. It's easy to tell that it's either the girl is in phase she still want to catch cruise before settling for a relationship or she has another love interest . She knows she is toying with your emotions and she is enjoying every bit of it.You just have to man up and ignore her like she doesn't exist cos if you keep following her gullibly, your case go be like ozo of big brother that year.

Hehehehe OzO is goated in the Simple world...