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EbereGod:
Its very quick to spot them.

1. Many lazy jobless guys spend time in salons carving their beards and trimming their hair. Many salons house jobless lazy guys.

2. You see them hanging around game houses and bet shops.

3. Any little money they have, they first visit cosmetic shops.

4. The seeming religious ones like to join church choir.Their targets is those clueless cheap church girls.

5. They hang around friends with real money,but them gossip pass person wey get the money, jists full their mouth

6. They won't leave their rich friends cologne, eye wears and wristwatch to breathe.

7. They always believe they will make it, their confidence is out of this world, but laziness won't let them " make " it

8 They spend so much time on nairaland and social media watching meaningless stuffs.

9. They look tidy during physical presentation, but please don't visit their homes, you will be disappointed.

10. They hardly contribute anything financially during social gatherings but makes most suggestions.

11. Some can sleep like they are injected.

12. They don't blame themselves but those around them.

13. Many of them eventually try to be pastors or attach themselves to one whose ministry is booming

14. Avoid them, their mouth can sweet for talk!

15. You find them at parties even when not invited, and they try to dress better than even the celebrant. Don't be fooled.

Wow, you know so much about them. You sure u not one?

Let the gist start from, who made the man jobless!

Was he jobless before or after marriage?

demoBaba:
I don't know your definition of laziness....he can't do yes sir, to someone which is doesn't make him lazy...just like me, I can't work for someone

But 8f the reverse is the case you would have called the woman lazy baa?

Dzzzz:
Is it not too early for Vawulence😂

Nigerian Women and vawulence are good partners

Sirchiboy:
Women that married a lazy and jobless men , share your experience

Why did you marry him in the first place

Yet those men with joblessness are still better than most Nigerian ladies.
Very lazy set of people,may God never make me to meet broke Nigerian girls.

Oh he's now lazy because he can't provide jst for 3 weeks. Men please put yourself ahead of any woman

QuinQ:
Wow, you know so much about them. You sure u not one?

I'm a female, but I hope I didn't struck a nerve.

indigenous234:
Wow… Are you speaking from a first hand experience or you dedicated your time to studying the characteristics of broke guys?.

I'm a natural psychologist. If I was abroad, I will be highly paid. I discern people quiet easily.

Marc3500:
Ur number 1,3 and 4 are inaccurate

I didn't generalise. There's no fallacy here.

EbereGod:
I'm a female, but I hope I didn't struck a nerve.

"Didn't strike" NOT "didn't struck"
How come a female knows so much about men?
Hmmmm

Let's be realistic. There are so many lazy men in the streets. A good example is my friend. He got admission in 2017 and up till now he's still in school because laziness couldn't allow him to read at graduate on time. When I got admission in 2019, we stayed together. Each time I choose to on light at night to read he started complaining that he doesn't like seeing light while sleeping . The act forced me to be going to night classes almost every night. He spent most of his time in church fellowship neglecting school and be parking overs every semester. Immediately I graduated, I started teaching in one secondary school though the pay was small but it was ok for me as a young graduate because it helps me to be small independent on my own without bordering my parents. I served my small income and open a POS business for someone to manage for me while still teaching. When I asked him to look for a job, he will reply me that his aim is to work in a place that will be paying him at least 200k for the start. He doesn't contribute in anything financially and greediness is his second name. A little money that he has will be going into sporty and Msport. At times when I will be telling him that I don't want to marry late my guy will just reply me that he needs to have at least 40m before he settle down. When I moved for service, my guy will be taxing me every now and then I suddenly discovered that it has become a tradition then I decided to blocked him

maybe the op should have just use only lazy .

a man may be hardworking and loose his job which describes him as jobless temporarily but not lazy.

some may have a job but be lazy coming to work or place of bizness.

pocohantas:
My aunty is married to one. Sadly she isn't on NL. All she does is disturb me for money. There are many women married to such men.

A real Nigerian, lazy, jobless man? That can't be right. They're all billionaires. Slaying animals for their family's dinner or raking in millions nightly to sustain the lives of their lazy wives and children.

BRATISLAVA:
A real Nigerian, lazy, jobless man? That can't be right. They're all billionaires. Slaying animals for their family's dinner or raking in millions nightly to sustain the lives of their lazy wives and children.

Lol! They are plenty o. If you ask the question the right way, these same guys here will agree. For example, rather than asking women to share their experiences, ask "Why do career woman marry deadbeat husbands?" 😂😂😂

Women date upward

The thread will be empty

pocohantas:
Lol! They are plenty o. If you ask the question the right way, these same guys here will agree. For example, rather than asking women to share their experiences, ask "Why do career woman marry deadbeat husbands?" 😂😂😂

That will be juicy. But here's the thing: deadbeat guys will drown out any other voice on such a thread.

There was one deadbeat thread though. Man, that was a freaking good one. Ah, the deadbeats were up in arms and it was horrifying the things they did. And they were Cameroonian deadbeats being outed

The number of deadbeat men is geometrically proportional to the number of kids they birth with one woman. Can't remember what that thread was called.

BRATISLAVA:
That will be juicy. But here's the thing: deadbeat guys will drown out any other voice on such a thread.

There was one deadbeat thread though. Man, that was a freaking good one. Ah, the deadbeats were up in arms and it was horrifying the things they did. And they were Cameroonian deadbeats being outed

The number of deadbeat men is geometrically proportional to the number of kids they birth with one woman. Can't remember what that thread was called.

Trust me they won't. You just have to phrase your question to be female-bashing. Yesterday there was a thread asking men married to uneducated and unskilled women to share their experiences and they took that thread to 7 pages. Less than 5% stood up for these women. The remaining 95% called them liabilities. But if it were a thread highlighting the Pros of working women. Same men would have gathered to tell you working women are not submissive, while praising SAHMs.

Bro, life can be really miserable, and we can’t know it all.
When I got married, I was still in school,no skill, no job,just faith. My wife also had no schooling and no skill at the time.
Today, I earn six figures. I’m not rich, not poor,just average.
The irony is that after 15 years of marriage, we went our separate ways. 💔

Omoawoke:
The thread would be empty because for a woman to marry a jobless man, it means that woman is at the bottom of the bottomless hole..

Women date upward.

The only time a woman would describe her husband this way is when she’s obviously bitter, pained and frustrated and then looking for lies to justify her loss

🤣 That third guy must be a Manchester United fan. Life don tire am. Sleepy Joe😆

Sirchiboy:
Women that married a lazy and jobless men , share your experience

pocohantas:
My aunty is married to one. Sadly she isn't on NL. All she does is disturb me for money. There are many women married to such men.

I'm guessing she has "gbakamu", as Yoruba people will say. She has accepted her fate.

Love is blind, but na inside marriage eye dey clear.

LordFaraday:
Bro, life can be really miserable, and we can’t know it all.
When I got married, I was still in school,no skill, no job,just faith. My wife also had no schooling and no skill at the time.
Today, I earn six figures. I’m not rich, not poor,just average.
The irony is that after 15 years of marriage, we went our separate ways. 💔

What caused this separation? Do you mind sharing?

pocohantas:
Trust me they won't. You just have to phrase your question to be female-bashing. Yesterday there was a thread asking men married to uneducated and unskilled women to share their experiences and they took that thread to 7 pages. Less than 5% stood up for these women. The remaining 95% called them liabilities. But if it were a thread highlighting the Pros of working women. Same men would have gathered to tell you working women are not submissive, while praising SAHMs.

I only pity women who actually listen to them. There's no winning with their logic.

One would think that SAHMs are their dream. But nothing is more dangerous than a lazy and broke Nigerian man: he's a needy, fragile gold digger.

Sigh.

LordFaraday:
Bro, life can be really miserable, and we can’t know it all.
When I got married, I was still in school,no skill, no job,just faith. My wife also had no schooling and no skill at the time.
Today, I earn six figures. I’m not rich, not poor,just average.
The irony is that after 15 years of marriage, we went our separate ways. 💔

Interesting, but what led to the separation?

YourGFsnatcher:
Feminists and their nonsense

Truth is, such menfolk exists. Let’s talk about them so their numbers can be reduced to the barest minimum and parasitism stopped in the society.

bestman09:
No man is lazy. Probably lost his job or business for sometimes but women will always be women. Take care of them 😊 for 30 years without people outside knowing and if something bad happens to the man, and they take care of the family for 1 year, the world will hear about how jobless and lazy the man is.

Lazy men exist. Such men are out to live off women. They are found in almost all cultures. The English call their likes “Gigolo.” The Yoruba call them “Faworaja.”

tiswell:
No man is lazy,get your facts right

omorr some men are lazy oo.. Speaking from experience

QuinQ:
"Didn't strike" NOT "didn't strike"
How come a female know so much about men?
Hmmmm

Noted!
Is there a global constitution against females acquiring
Knowledge about men?

Please it's " knows" and not " know".

Which kind question be this?

EbereGod:
Noted!
Is there a global constitution against females acquiring
Knowledge about men?

Please it's " knows" and not " know".

Well, it is suspicious when a female knows more about men than men.
As for strike/struck, know/knows, see original posts below

QuinQ:
Well, it is suspicious when a female knows more about men than men do.
As for strike/struck, know/knows, see original posts below

Noted! @ original post.

It's seen as suspicious to many in this part of the world.
Knowledge should be vast.

EbereGod:
Noted! @ original post.

It's seen as suspicious to many in this part of the world.
Knowledge should be vast.

Not too vast - example, you spend your time studying marriage customs in ancient Cartegonia