i wonder o

Cos of money.
Cos of insufficient supply of men.
remember it is supply and demand, and demand is on the high side

Insufficient men i think is key as well.

That is what i tell the bunch against polygamy and accuse men practising polygamy as bad. The issue is it takes two to tango, as long as there are women in supply and willing to go into polygamy there will be men to go after them.

these women arent forced into dating, neither are they raped but the willingly date married men and some also willingly marry them.

From now till eternity there will always be women ready to date married men from UK to India, From Africa to Australasia , it is just a fact and reality of life people like to shy away from.

Lagosboy:

From now till eternity there will always be women ready to date married men from UK to India, From Africa to Australasia , it is just a fact and reality of life people like to shy away from.

Lol

everybody ve diff reasons. money, respect, fame, commitment and care so wat do u think?

For different reasons including love, good sex, availability, financial reasons, revenge etc.

but dont they think of the nemesis, as in it would happen to them wen they too get married.

and also don't they have a conscience? adultery destroys marriages so why encourage it. i find it really annoying.

my take on it is this. if you prefer polygamy then that is another thing entirely. but it is wrong to cheat.

you see, if a girl is dating a married man and she has no plans to marry him i think it is wicked. and it means she has no regards for the institution of marriage, which means she will cheat when she eventually gets married.

please let me know your thoughts.

as a final note, same goes for guys sleeping with married women, but there is no point talking about such because guy like that are usually the irresponsible type.

Gentlelady:

For different reasons including love, [size=18pt]good sex,[/size] availability, financial reasons, revenge etc.

What kinda good sex can a married man give you when you have to share the longo?

culture, greed, poverty, pressure, revenge ,envy etc.



who was saying good sex? Forget that side. The sex isnt better than a single guy's own.

Unless na money or the thought of getting one over on the wife/wives, is what "sweetens" the sex.

tpiah:

culture, greed, poverty, pressure, revenge ,envy etc.
who was saying good sex? Forget that side. The sex isnt better than a single guy's own.

Unless na money or the thought of getting one over on the wife/wives, is what "sweetens" the sex.

hahahahahaha

poverty? lies, so poverty made men marry more than one wife?

beingme:

poverty? lies, so poverty made men marry more than one wife?

why do girls date married men.

Not why do married men cheat.

no strings attached?

Fhemmmy:

What kinda good sex can a married man give you when you have to share the longo?

Sharing the longa does not make the sex bad.  I know a lady that was dating a guy who left her and married someone else, till date she still has sex with him and her reason is that the guy is good in bed.  Different strokes for different folks.  We are stating reasons why girls date married men.

Why do married men go after single girls?
We all have reasons behind our actions.

most of the time these ladies are ignorant of the fact that the men are married
other times, they do it for spite
yet again some do it cos the men keep coming
or they happen to fall in love with the wrong guy

@ AM AVALIABLE MARRIED MAN, FOR ANY AVALIABLE GIRL,

Practice makes perfect.

Married men, more often than not have mastered the act of sex. . . They also have the money to go around too

tayoTFC:

@ AM AVALIABLE MARRIED MAN, FOR ANY AVALIABLE GIRL,

Sharrap dia!!!     

Even if u do such, respect yourself and keep it low. . .

mediocrity syndrom

Gentlelady:

Sharing the longa does not make the sex bad.  I know a lady that was dating a guy who left her and married someone else, till date she still has sex with him and her reason is that the guy is good in bed.  Different strokes for different folks.  We are stating reasons why girls date married men.

I am sure it is not that the man is married that made the sex to be really good, it is all cos the man is just good on his own.
It is an individual thing and has nothing to do with being married, else, no woman will have to go and look for a better acting man.

Fhemmmy:

I am sure it is not that the man is married that made the sex to be really good, it is all cos the man is just good on his own.
It is an individual thing and has nothing to do with being married, else, no woman will have to go and look for a better acting man.

The fact still remains that she is dating a married man because of good sex!

Please do not misunderstand me.  Not all married guys give good sex and not all guys who give good sex are married.  A guy that is good in bed will not lose his sexual prowess cos he got married and a guy who is not good will not become a grade A just because he got married.  , well,  except he got married to an experienced lady who is willing to teach him and if he is willing to learn.

I have also met girls who believe they are in love with a guy who is married!  Sickening!

A great deal of the time it is the money.Now money not necessarily because the girl is in want but b/c money is a charm. It can turn a frog into a prince.

Then there are the other things like emotional support, security and yes I agree respect when its an open affair.

For those among us who are holier than the pope, this is sth we met and it is not sth that is goin to stop any time soon. If you have a girl child do everything you can to empower her so that if she chooses to date a married man it will be on her own terms. For now, you may wish to go to the religious section to save urself some headache.

tpiah:

culture, greed, poverty, pressure, revenge ,envy etc.

who was saying good sex? Forget that side. The sex isnt better than a single guy's own.

Unless na money or [b]the thought of getting one over on the wife/wives, is what "sweetens" the se[/b]x.

How ludicrous can some argument get? You just cant help but wonder. You hate a woman, then you go Bleep the husband to make you feel better with yourself. Any way sha wetin person not go hear for NL. If this can be true then I am ready to induce serious gbege in my wife's office.

Because they can.

Ans: For many selfish reasons. But sensible girls are only in it for the short run. Any girl hoping to "snatch" another woman's wife is truly despicable. Not that dating a married man, whether for love, money or great sex(and it has been proven that married men are usually hot in bed - why else would their wives marry them ) is a good thing. It is wrong in every way, but please, tell that to the skirt-chasing husband who won't settle down and stay with the wife they married "till death do them part" .

Its depend on ones choice.,i know der must be a reason backing it up if u want to date a married man because der are some consequences behind it.

They date us cos ANI OWO, AWA CLASSY ATUN LENU LENU

how abt
because they were too chicken to say "no"?

Flesh and blood did not reveal that to u man!