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Re: She Beats Me Before Our Kids — Bolt Driver Laments Domestic Violence From Wife by Habbeyy(m): 6:17pm On Feb 03
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
I thought we were taught women are the weaker vessels. angry

Reminds me of one Kwale girl I almost dated back in 2018.. I asked her Jokingly what she does for a living angry To my greatest surprise,she said she offload bags of rice and beans from trailers in the market. Bag of beans? angry. Babe,as heavy as bag of beans? angry angry. Like wtf!!! angry Omoh,I had to observe her carefully ,na once I begin see say true true say she get muscle angry What really scared me the most was when she sat on my lap, angry. Omoh, how girl nyash go stiff like coal tar wey Julius Berger construct?angry. Na once I RAN for my dear life bruh angry
grin grin grin ask those who have dated a lot of girls, you'll notice that many women are actually strong especially when they really want to display their madness. How you go marry girl wey strong pass you
Re: She Beats Me Before Our Kids — Bolt Driver Laments Domestic Violence From Wife by tunary(m): 6:19pm On Feb 03
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
I thought we were taught women are the weaker vessels. angry

Reminds me of one Kwale girl I almost dated back in 2018.. I asked her Jokingly what she does for a living angry To my greatest surprise,she said she offload bags of rice and beans from trailers in the market. Bag of beans? angry. Babe,as heavy as bag of beans? angry angry. Like wtf!!! angry Omoh,I had to observe her carefully ,na once I begin see say true true say she get muscle angry What really scared me the most was when she sat on my lap, angry. Omoh, how girl nyash go stiff like coal tar wey Julius Berger construct?angry. Na once I RAN for my dear life bruh angry
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Lol
Re: She Beats Me Before Our Kids — Bolt Driver Laments Domestic Violence From Wife by agentNija(f): 6:19pm On Feb 03
merrymike47:
rotfl... guy hw va naw? You really cracked me up. Why you run? 😂 someone that could have helped to be lifting your family burden.
So you really believed that lie? Create a thread now to talk about how your day went and watch him say he has the same experience like you did. Only him has the same experience with everyone in the world.
Re: She Beats Me Before Our Kids — Bolt Driver Laments Domestic Violence From Wife by pussyphilia(m): 6:20pm On Feb 03
My type of lady.

Strong and no nonsense lady
Re: She Beats Me Before Our Kids — Bolt Driver Laments Domestic Violence From Wife by remele2(f): 6:23pm On Feb 03
Imagine the man saying he is staying in the marriage bcus he wants to protect the family..

No be juju be that??

Baba u need protection from ur family oooo , u can't protect ur self na family u wan protect abi...

As e don be like diz, just run comot for house if u no fit send her away...Lol ,who born u to even send her away, u go collect smack down..

Just run for ur life
Re: She Beats Me Before Our Kids — Bolt Driver Laments Domestic Violence From Wife by Diamond098454(f): 6:23pm On Feb 03
Such a gentleman
Flangelo12:
Because he's nice.

Not like he cannot snuff her, but he chooses to be civil.
Re: She Beats Me Before Our Kids — Bolt Driver Laments Domestic Violence From Wife by Softmen: 6:23pm On Feb 03
pussyphilia:
My type of lady.

Strong and no nonsense lady
Pussyphilia well-done. You go outside hustle today ?
Re: She Beats Me Before Our Kids — Bolt Driver Laments Domestic Violence From Wife by adecz: 6:25pm On Feb 03
[quote author=Rep9jaCom post=138323640]A Bolt driver has opened up about enduring domestic violence from his wife, sharing how fear and financial pressure have forced him to remain in the marriage.

[b]He explained:



The driver added that his wife humiliates him publicly, calling him “stupid” and “useless,” and has no shame in letting neighbours witness the abuse.

Despite this, he remains in the marriage, citing the need to protect his family and maintain peace.

According to him maybe if she had married a non quiet man she’ll love him but he can’t do anything as being quiet is his nature.


🚨🚨🚩🚩🚩🚩🚷🚷🚷🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚨🚨

👉 Mr man, you are hereby informed
that, we the brotherhood have
disowned you.👎


Starting from tomorrow, you must start
tying wrapper, while your wife should
wear trousers and agbada..😠😠😠

o
Re: She Beats Me Before Our Kids — Bolt Driver Laments Domestic Violence From Wife by GenFunction: 6:29pm On Feb 03
Omo.
Some guys dey see shege.
What's meant to be ENJOYED would now be ENDURED.

Which brings me to 'How una dey even take select spouse sef'?
Re: She Beats Me Before Our Kids — Bolt Driver Laments Domestic Violence From Wife by jojothaiv(m): 6:29pm On Feb 03
Kingray10:
It sounds funny now since He's a Man
But if it's the other way round, Internet no go let men rest
Scan the comments and you'll see that this thread is female shy, now let's reverse the roles and you'll see them coming out from their hiding with their usual takes and gives.

I know some of them who like sitting on the fence will be like there must be a reason for the woman to beat the man so fingers crossed, anyhow beings.

The man should run away
Re: She Beats Me Before Our Kids — Bolt Driver Laments Domestic Violence From Wife by GenFunction: 6:34pm On Feb 03
jojothaiv:
Scan the comments and you'll see that this thread is female shy, now let's reverse the roles and you'll see them coming out from their hiding with their usual takes and gives.

I know some of them who like sitting on the fence will be like there must be a reason for the woman to beat the man so fingers crossed, anyhow
beings.

The man should run away
It's one sided. But then
Male or female, we both know whats good/bad.
But then,
THE MAN SHOULD RUN AWAY grin
Maka ndu
Re: She Beats Me Before Our Kids — Bolt Driver Laments Domestic Violence From Wife by Mexyz(m): 6:42pm On Feb 03
Diamond098454:
I called you this morning to send some cash to you but you off call on me and I called again and again you refused picking.
That door have closed
Forgive him please and send him whatever you have for him.

God bless you
Re: She Beats Me Before Our Kids — Bolt Driver Laments Domestic Violence From Wife by ttmax09(m): 6:46pm On Feb 03
Kingray10:
It sounds funny now since He's a Man
But if it's the other way round, Internet no go let men rest
Oh pls, the guy isn't a man please.
Re: She Beats Me Before Our Kids — Bolt Driver Laments Domestic Violence From Wife by Blackdisciple(m): 6:48pm On Feb 03
Financial pressure make you divorce from an abusive and toxic marriage but not to stay or remain in it..

This man no try at all
Re: She Beats Me Before Our Kids — Bolt Driver Laments Domestic Violence From Wife by merrymike47(m): 6:49pm On Feb 03
agentNija:
So you really believed that lie? Create a thread now to talk about how your day went and watch him say he has the same experience like you did. Only him has the same experience with everyone in the world.
😂 well, I don’t have to believe, I just found the humor and played along. It at least made me laugh.
Re: She Beats Me Before Our Kids — Bolt Driver Laments Domestic Violence From Wife by Bahamas95(m): 6:51pm On Feb 03
This story might be fake but things like this happen.


I know of a woman back then in my former street who was always panel beating her husband. The thing became too much and it got the women in the neighbourhood angry.......One fateful day all the women came together and gave the wife community beating. That was the end of the nonsense.


If you see this woman you go wonder why the man marry her in the first place, the woman dey very huge like bodybuilder.
Re: She Beats Me Before Our Kids — Bolt Driver Laments Domestic Violence From Wife by ned009(m): 6:52pm On Feb 03
Rep9jaCom:
A Bolt driver has opened up about enduring domestic violence from his wife, sharing how fear and financial pressure have forced him to remain in the marriage. Rep9ja reports,

In a heartfelt confession, the man revealed that he often waits outside his home until midnight to ensure his wife has fallen asleep before returning, fearing violent reactions if he earns less than expected.

He explained:


The driver added that his wife humiliates him publicly, calling him “stupid” and “useless,” and has no shame in letting neighbours witness the abuse.

Despite this, he remains in the marriage, citing the need to protect his family and maintain peace.

According to him maybe if she had married a non quiet man she’ll love him but he can’t do anything as being quiet is his nature.

Watch the video below…



https://www.rep9ja.com/viral/she-beats-me-bolt-driver-laments/
Too many men face this pain,na just shame no dey fit make em come out to spill...
Re: She Beats Me Before Our Kids — Bolt Driver Laments Domestic Violence From Wife by Diamond098454(f): 6:53pm On Feb 03
Smile smile smile
How was your day?
Mexyz:
Forgive him please and send him whatever you have for him.

God bless you
Re: She Beats Me Before Our Kids — Bolt Driver Laments Domestic Violence From Wife by tishbite41(m): 6:59pm On Feb 03
Samantha125:
What's stopping him from leaving her though? Because there's no peace in being constantly beaten, especially infront of your children... It's like he's waiting to leave her in a coffin.

Reminds me of this one lady back home who once beat up her boyfriend early in the morning and chased him out of the house naked... The guy had to walk back home in his birthday suit... One would think he'd never want to have anything to do with her ever again after his walk of shame, but the following day they were spotted having a good time together...🤦🤦🤦
You're funny

Stories from SA
grin grin grin
Re: She Beats Me Before Our Kids — Bolt Driver Laments Domestic Violence From Wife by jojothaiv(m): 7:01pm On Feb 03
GenFunction:
It's one sided. But then
Male or female, we both know whats good/bad.
But then,
THE MAN SHOULD RUN AWAY grin
Maka ndu
He should run away o, no need to prove masculinity here o.
Re: She Beats Me Before Our Kids — Bolt Driver Laments Domestic Violence From Wife by GenFunction: 7:07pm On Feb 03
jojothaiv:
He should run away o, no need to prove masculinity here o.
Like real RUN o.
I love smart people
When they are smart and realistic ehn, omo is better, it's even best.
Re: She Beats Me Before Our Kids — Bolt Driver Laments Domestic Violence From Wife by IMPARTIAL: 7:14pm On Feb 03
Is this real? Or, you wan just post something!
Re: She Beats Me Before Our Kids — Bolt Driver Laments Domestic Violence From Wife by erniok2: 7:14pm On Feb 03
Lamba!!! The girl enter his eyes and he automatically declared the wife witch
Re: She Beats Me Before Our Kids — Bolt Driver Laments Domestic Violence From Wife by Naustine(m): 7:16pm On Feb 03
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
I thought we were taught women are the weaker vessels. angry

Reminds me of one Kwale girl I almost dated back in 2018.. I asked her Jokingly what she does for a living angry To my greatest surprise,she said she offload bags of rice and beans from trailers in the market. Bag of beans? angry. Babe,as heavy as bag of beans? angry angry. Like wtf!!! angry Omoh,I had to observe her carefully ,na once I begin see say true true say she get muscle angry What really scared me the most was when she sat on my lap, angry. Omoh, how girl nyash go stiff like coal tar wey Julius Berger construct?angry. Na once I RAN for my dear life bruh angry
Bro what is this na😄😄😄
Re: She Beats Me Before Our Kids — Bolt Driver Laments Domestic Violence From Wife by Kalulu44: 7:17pm On Feb 03
agentNija:
Another lamba from the master himself. You are the only human being who has the same experience with everyone in the world. Only you. Once people open a thread to narrate their experience you'll be here to say you has experienced it before. Oga you don cast for nairaland. No one believes anything you say again so slow down the lies.
Guy, are you jealous of the attention he gets thru his witty and laughable comments. You need to slow down and take it easy, cus all I can perceived here is you hating someone you don't know for no just caused.
.
And point of correction to one of your words up there. It's: "you have experienced it before, not you has experienced before"
Re: She Beats Me Before Our Kids — Bolt Driver Laments Domestic Violence From Wife by SlavaUkraini: 7:21pm On Feb 03
ruggedtimi:
by now bag of beans for full your house.
Na bags of beating for full his house..
Re: She Beats Me Before Our Kids — Bolt Driver Laments Domestic Violence From Wife by Zico777(m): 7:23pm On Feb 03
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Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
I thought we were taught women are the weaker vessels. angry

Reminds me of one Kwale girl I almost dated back in 2018.. I asked her Jokingly what she does for a living angry To my greatest surprise,she said she offload bags of rice and beans from trailers in the market. Bag of beans? angry. Babe,as heavy as bag of beans? angry angry. Like wtf!!! angry Omoh,I had to observe her carefully ,na once I begin see say true true say she get muscle angry What really scared me the most was when she sat on my lap, angry. Omoh, how girl nyash go stiff like coal tar wey Julius Berger construct?angry. Na once I RAN for my dear life bruh angry
Re: She Beats Me Before Our Kids — Bolt Driver Laments Domestic Violence From Wife by Naustine(m): 7:24pm On Feb 03
Imagine a woman beating me with my height, biceps and triceps? I laugh
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