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My Manhood Refuses To Wake Up With Hookup Girls—is This Spiritual? by LordVoldemort02(op): 8:47pm On Feb 03
I don't really know how to put this, but I need help. I’m not a very religious person so I hardly go to church, but something strange is happening to me.

Lately, anytime I’m with a hookup girl, my 'junior brother' refuses to rise. Omo, the shame is too much. This has happened three times now. The annoying part is that as soon as I get home and do a little 'handwork,' it stands firm and strong.

Other times, it might rise, but it will refuse to release. Today was the final straw. I hired a girl and the same thing happened. I had to pay her off, called another one, and I still faced the same disappointment.

I’ve left the hotel now, but I’m 100% sure that once I reach home, the urges will start again. I’m only 25 and I don’t even 'self-service' that often—maybe once or twice a week.

Please, is this a medical issue or are my village people at work? Has anyone experienced this before?
Re: My Manhood Refuses To Wake Up With Hookup Girls—is This Spiritual? by kpankpangolo: 8:52pm On Feb 03
Chai, person don old for this forum. Children of those days are now disturbing us with issues we long resolved.

LordVoldemort02:
I don't really know how to put this, but I need help. I’m not a very religious person so I hardly go to church, but something strange is happening to me.

Lately, anytime I’m with a hookup girl, my 'junior brother' refuses to rise. Omo, the shame is too much. This has happened three times now. The annoying part is that as soon as I get home and do a little 'handwork,' it stands firm and strong.

Other times, it might rise, but it will refuse to release. Today was the final straw. I hired a girl and the same thing happened. I had to pay her off, called another one, and I still faced the same disappointment.

I’ve left the hotel now, but I’m 100% sure that once I reach home, the urges will start again. I’m only 25 and I don’t even 'self-service' that often—maybe once or twice a week.

Please, is this a medical issue or are my village people at work? Has anyone experienced this before?
Re: My Manhood Refuses To Wake Up With Hookup Girls—is This Spiritual? by LordVoldemort02(op): 8:56pm On Feb 03
kpankpangolo:
Chai, person don old for this forum. Children of those days are now disturbing us with issues we long resolved.
Be like I have a spiritual wife 😞
Re: My Manhood Refuses To Wake Up With Hookup Girls—is This Spiritual? by Kingsley1169: 8:56pm On Feb 03
LordVoldemort02:
I don't really know how to put this, but I need help. I’m not a very religious person so I hardly go to church, but something strange is happening to me.

Lately, anytime I’m with a hookup girl, my 'junior brother' refuses to rise. Omo, the shame is too much. This has happened three times now. The annoying part is that as soon as I get home and do a little 'handwork,' it stands firm and strong.

Other times, it might rise, but it will refuse to release. Today was the final straw. I hired a girl and the same thing happened. I had to pay her off, called another one, and I still faced the same disappointment.

I’ve left the hotel now, but I’m 100% sure that once I reach home, the urges will start again. I’m only 25 and I don’t even 'self-service' that often—maybe once or twice a week.

Please, is this a medical issue or are my village people at work? Has anyone experienced this before?
Your brain is playing games with you
Re: My Manhood Refuses To Wake Up With Hookup Girls—is This Spiritual? by LordVoldemort02(op): 9:08pm On Feb 03
Kingsley1169:
Your brain is playing games with you
You might be right. Maybe my brain is actually playing me. But the thing is, I hate any game that makes me waste my cash for nothing. I’m a guy that ladies normally beg to come over, so I know my capacity. But lately, even after taking two bottles of Action Bitters, 'junior brother' just refuses to rise for these hookup girls. It’s only when I get home that it stands firm. The psychology part is what’s confusing me because I’m just 25 and I need to get my vibe back.
Re: My Manhood Refuses To Wake Up With Hookup Girls—is This Spiritual? by Freshandfitpod: 9:25pm On Feb 03
Stop fornicating and accept Jesus into your life, Jesus heals when you come in full repentance.
Re: My Manhood Refuses To Wake Up With Hookup Girls—is This Spiritual? by Nobody:
Go and appease the gods. Your spiritual wife doesn’t want you to masturbate and be with other ladies. Just get married fast so you’ll stop patronizing them. I think handwork also has also been a major factor. Try to desensitize yourself from self work for a week or two. Your body is used to the fast action and quick fix of masturbation so when it gets to a lady, you worry about performance. I’ll love to help you though.
Re: My Manhood Refuses To Wake Up With Hookup Girls—is This Spiritual? by Samantha125(f): 9:47pm On Feb 03
Your love machine is now your junior brother?🤣🤣🤣🤣
Re: My Manhood Refuses To Wake Up With Hookup Girls—is This Spiritual? by LordVoldemort02(op): 10:00pm On Feb 03
Samantha125:
Your love machine is now your junior brother?🤣🤣🤣🤣
My junior brother is messing with my brains oo. He wants to cause low self esteem but I’m bigger than him.
Re: My Manhood Refuses To Wake Up With Hookup Girls—is This Spiritual? by Uuuju: 10:07pm On Feb 03
It's a simple stuff. Before you start sleeping with your partner. You need to do for.eplay with her.











If your pen.is is not hard, it will not enter! So what you need to do is that you will be pressing her and fingering her. Till your pen.is will rise up!
The pen.is cap is the e.rotic area for men. For women, itnis the CL.itoris. so all you have to do is eat plenty food, no need to smoke, cigarett.e, alcohol or we.Ed to get hard. Eat fruits like water melon, tiger nuts(aya) dates (dabinu) , before you start, and you don't need to spend 30minutes or one hour on top. Five minutes or ten minutes don do you. S.ex no be punishment, na enjoyment. After first round(first five minutes) . if you still get energy, you can go second round (but don't pass or do more than ten minutes)/anything fifteen minutes you are going be that

If you are not physically fit, do not sleep with woman, SE.X no be work na pleasure.


Get a good paying job!
Rich men have less time for women!
Re: My Manhood Refuses To Wake Up With Hookup Girls—is This Spiritual? by LordVoldemort02(op): 10:25pm On Feb 03
Uuuju:
It's a simple stuff. Before you start sleeping with your partner. You need to do for.eplay with her.











If your pen.is is not hard, it will not enter! So what you need to do is that you will be pressing her and fingering her. Till your pen.is will rise up!
The pen.is cap is the e.rotic area for men. For women, itnis the CL.itoris. so all you have to do is eat plenty food, no need to smoke, cigarett.e, alcohol or we.Ed to get hard. Eat fruits like water melon, tiger nuts(aya) dates (dabinu) , before you start, and you don't need to spend 30minutes or one hour on top. Five minutes or ten minutes don do you. S.ex no be punishment, na enjoyment. After first round(first five minutes) . if you still get energy, you can go second round (but don't pass or do more than ten minutes)/anything fifteen minutes you are going be that

If you are not physically fit, do not sleep with woman, SE.X no be work na pleasure.


Get a good paying job!
Rich men have less time for women!
Even guys who are well-off make time for a social life now and then. I’m working an average job that keeps the bills paid, but I can’t exactly ignore my physical needs—especially with health concerns like prostate health in the back of my mind. So, once or twice a month, I head out to have some fun.

The issue is that a lot of hookup culture is "pay and go." There’s rarely any time for pre-intimacy; they usually just expect you to jump right in and get it over with. It’s frustrating because even when I’m ready to spend a few minutes enjoying the moment, sometimes things downstairs just don't cooperate when you're being rushed.
Re: My Manhood Refuses To Wake Up With Hookup Girls—is This Spiritual? by Uuuju: 3:53am On Feb 04
There is no need to turn SE.X which is a fun having act to rush hour.










Rushing is actually not part of the act. You need to calm down, once you rush in, then what's the fun part?

OK what if she is your wife, you will just be rushing everyday,

Hello dear take off your PA.nts I am in a hurry, ta ta ta, you slee.p with her and go,

First day, like that second day like that, on the third day do you think she will be happy.

Take your time and relax, fore.play is the best.
Kis.s her, touch her, fond.le her brea.STS , touch her nipples, Fi.nger her, rub her CL.itoris




Abi when we are not from Russia?


Where you dey rush go.!


You can even lie flat on the bed and tell her to fx.ck you!



Why do some RI.CH guys ask their partner to give them lap dance, pole dance or ride them?


And the first round doesn't matter.

What matters is how quick you recover from the first ejac.ulation.
For man, after releasing sper.m, the penis becomes flat and he has ended SE.X, we all know that

But if you are not healthy enough, it takes a lot of healthines.s and being sexually active for your pen.is to rise again for second round !

Some men on the bed with their wife might go like
First round 5minutes 10:00pm
Second round 7min 10:30pm
Third round 10 minutes 11:00pm.

On the bed, no drugs, no cigarette, no we.Ed, no alcohol, just natural but may be herbs or other real whole healthy foods!

May be you should check the foods that you are eating!
Milk, eggs, fish , beans, and other foods too are very good to recover quickly,
Bananas, watermelon, with the seeds (but you will purge oo) , GORONTULA, SEEDS, and so on and so on.

And when your eyes don dey turn, stop doing ta ta ta on top of her, don't kill your self.

Stop riding, take a break!
Continue next time!
He who fx.cks and run, lives to fx.ck next time
Re: My Manhood Refuses To Wake Up With Hookup Girls—is This Spiritual? by LordVoldemort02(op): 7:51am On Feb 04
Uuuju:
There is no need to turn SE.X which is a fun having act to rush hour.










Rushing is actually not part of the act. You need to calm down, once you rush in, then what's the fun part?

OK what if she is your wife, you will just be rushing everyday,

Hello dear take off your PA.nts I am in a hurry, ta ta ta, you slee.p with her and go,

First day, like that second day like that, on the third day do you think she will be happy.

Take your time and relax, fore.play is the best.
Kis.s her, touch her, fond.le her brea.STS , touch her nipples, Fi.nger her, rub her CL.itoris




Abi when we are not from Russia?


Where you dey rush go.!


You can even lie flat on the bed and tell her to fx.ck you!



Why do some RI.CH guys ask their partner to give them lap dance, pole dance or ride them?


And the first round doesn't matter.

What matters is how quick you recover from the first ejac.ulation.
For man, after releasing sper.m, the penis becomes flat and he has ended SE.X, we all know that

But if you are not healthy enough, it takes a lot of healthines.s and being sexually active for your pen.is to rise again for second round !

Some men on the bed with their wife might go like
First round 5minutes 10:00pm
Second round 7min 10:30pm
Third round 10 minutes 11:00pm.

On the bed, no drugs, no cigarette, no we.Ed, no alcohol, just natural but may be herbs or other real whole healthy foods!

May be you should check the foods that you are eating!
Milk, eggs, fish , beans, and other foods too are very good to recover quickly,
Bananas, watermelon, with the seeds (but you will purge oo) , GORONTULA, SEEDS, and so on and so on.

And when your eyes don dey turn, stop doing ta ta ta on top of her, don't kill your self.

Stop riding, take a break!
Continue next time!
He who fx.cks and run, lives to fx.ck next time
Thanks a lot. This helps a lot.
Re: My Manhood Refuses To Wake Up With Hookup Girls—is This Spiritual? by Skj13777: 7:52am On Feb 04
Take agbo jedi from time to time . It helps harden your errection. Ladies like a hard penis . If it's as hard as wood its more enjoyable than if it's soft like banana. Secondly avoid rushing in , thirdly remove your mind from the act while your at it. You can even think of something making you angry or afraid , this helps you last few mins longer than if your thinking of the act your performing. Finally change position regularly to reduce the tension . You can also close your eyes from time to time for few mins at a stretch. Change speed unexpectedly makes the the lady cum faster
Re: My Manhood Refuses To Wake Up With Hookup Girls—is This Spiritual? by duduade(m): 8:19am On Feb 04
at 25 years old

It is well
Only God knows what the world 🌎 is turning into
Re: My Manhood Refuses To Wake Up With Hookup Girls—is This Spiritual? by LordVoldemort02(op): 8:57am On Feb 04
duduade:
at 25 years old

It is well
Only God knows what the world 🌎 is turning into
Is 25 too young or too old, I don’t get it?
Re: My Manhood Refuses To Wake Up With Hookup Girls—is This Spiritual? by LordVoldemort02(op): 8:58am On Feb 04
Skj13777:
Take agbo jedi from time to time . It helps harden your errection. Ladies like a hard penis . If it's as hard as wood it’s more enjoyable than if it's soft like banana. Secondly avoid rushing in , thirdly remove your mind from the act while you’re at it. You can even think of something making you angry or afraid , this helps you last few mins longer than if your thinking of the act you’re performing. Finally change position regularly to reduce the tension . You can also close your eyes from time to time for few mins at a stretch. Change speed unexpectedly makes the the lady cum faster
Thanks a lot, I really appreciate.
Re: My Manhood Refuses To Wake Up With Hookup Girls—is This Spiritual? by Yangyang: 11:58am On Feb 04
You need to engaging in pre-intimacy first. It's a common thing bro you don't need to think much about it.
And make sure you are really attracted to the girl and she's also in the right mood for secx. You'll be fine
Re: My Manhood Refuses To Wake Up With Hookup Girls—is This Spiritual? by Precious201010(m): 4:02pm On Feb 04
grin pre-intimacy with olosho? Wonders have ended
Re: My Manhood Refuses To Wake Up With Hookup Girls—is This Spiritual? by LordVoldemort02(op): 5:01pm On Feb 04
Yangyang:
You need to engaging in pre-intimacy first. It's a common thing bro you don't need to think much about it.
And make sure you are really attracted to the girl and she's also in the right mood for secx. You'll be fine
Thanks a lot. I really appreciate.
Re: My Manhood Refuses To Wake Up With Hookup Girls—is This Spiritual? by LordVoldemort02(op): 5:01pm On Feb 04
Precious201010:
grin pre-intimacy with olosho? Wonders have ended
Na…. We’ll just upgrade to all night hookup ladies instead of short time. And it will be discussed beforehand.
Re: My Manhood Refuses To Wake Up With Hookup Girls—is This Spiritual? by Jerkbaba: 7:28pm On Feb 04
You're not man enough. You're anxiety is off the roofs. You have to relax and be in moment.
Re: My Manhood Refuses To Wake Up With Hookup Girls—is This Spiritual? by udede(m): 8:52pm On Feb 04
The economy of Nigeria has made most men loose their erection. For me, since the day Tinubu removed fuel subsidy and the economy went berserk. I no dey remember kpekus again.
Re: My Manhood Refuses To Wake Up With Hookup Girls—is This Spiritual? by Kingsley1169: 7:49am On Feb 05
LordVoldemort02:
You might be right. Maybe my brain is actually playing me. But the thing is, I hate any game that makes me waste my cash for nothing. I’m a guy that ladies normally beg to come over, so I know my capacity. But lately, even after taking two bottles of Action Bitters, 'junior brother' just refuses to rise for these hookup girls. It’s only when I get home that it stands firm. The psychology part is what’s confusing me because I’m just 25 and I need to get my vibe back.
Your inner mind is scared of hookup maybe what you have seen,heard or whatsoever about them, that's why.

So, totally avoid hook up. Your type do better in relationship than hookup
Re: My Manhood Refuses To Wake Up With Hookup Girls—is This Spiritual? by Spaceclenzy1(m): 11:48am On Feb 05
Bro stop hook up girls, stop mastabation..... Redefine your life and focus on yours goals... 25 years and ur focusing on your erection.. Guard ur Sexual Energy..
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