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Flowing from the lessons i am learning about marriage and sex and all the information gotten from commenters in my threads, now I have seen another thing that hits us husbands in our marriages.

Now flowing from my last thread
https://www.nairaland.com/8607331/never-marry-not-rich-small and my experience this afternoon, it has just hit me big time another reason why we husbands cheat, no, scratch that, have sex with another woman, for, for today i just experienced a very great and strong need to leave my wife alone and go out to get satisfaction from another woman.

And now I appreciate that, that same tiredness will still fall on the second woman, so reason will dictate that i should not try to have only one woman most especially as I am not even trying to sololize her, so she is free to be unavailable, hence reason immediately tells me that i am free to have women in the waiting.

And so, now I see how amd why a faithful devoted may go straight from there to a man with a string of girl/women sex friends.

Or, if my wife had a sister, cousin or friend too close who has been calling me since but I was ignoring, tomorrow, if I still feel like this i just might answer their call or may even make the call myself.

Ah thank God I am not working in an office (and now I see why I was always very uncomfortable with either me or my wife working in an office) for now I see that the mini skirt hot super intelligent, capable and beautiful secretary or colleague whether married or not will now be a target.

I pity husbands and wives working in office, it would be extremely difficult for you people to stay faithful

And so, now is the time for me to see whether i have truly learnt from my guys who went side chicking. I see all their troubles and hells and disasters, i think, i will just stick to masturbation till my dick cuts. At least, it would be pleasurable vasectomy after all Nigerian hospitals prevent us from doing vasectomy.

Citroen19digit:
Flowing from the lessons i am learning about marriage and sex and all the information gotten from commenters in my threads, now I have seen another thing that hits us husbands in our marriages.

Now flowing from my last thread
https://www.nairaland.com/8607331/never-marry-not-rich-small and my experience this afternoon, it has just hit me big time another reason why we husbands cheat, no, scratch that, have sex with another woman, for, for today i just experienced a very great and strong need to leave my wife alone and go out to get satisfaction from another woman.

And now I appreciate that, that same tiredness will still fall on the second woman, so reason will dictate that i should not try to have only one woman most especially as I am not even trying to sololize her, so she is free to be unavailable, hence reason immediately tells me that i am free to have women in the waiting.

And so, now I see how amd why a faithful devoted may go straight from there to a man with a string of girl/women sex friends.

Or, if my wife had a sister, cousin or friend too close who has been calling me since but I was ignoring, tomorrow, if I still feel like this i just might answer their call or may even make the call myself.

Hmmm! You are on point

This explains why I sometimes want to travel without the wife. I could sense that there is an advantage to being absent from her life

Now i understand, threads like this https://www.nairaland.com/8600512/signs-she-wants-second-round#138341826 deceive us into thinking that our partners will forever be like this, keeping us thinking that they would enjoy sex with us till death.

Meanwhile, they will expire and leave us hungry and unsatisfied as they now hate participating

If she's won't participate then get her friend no sorry not that. Get someone willing

When she catch you tell her not to slap and disgrace the sidechick she should put her frustration on you.

Dtruthspeaker:
Hmmm! You are on point

This explains why I sometimes want to travel without the wife. I could sense that there is an advantage to being absent from her life

As you are going outside there to get the hot romantic sex you desire , tell your wife to stop ridiculing and fighting sidechicks that is not there fault. Married women should fight there unsatisfied husband not there sidechick

Sorry dude, but I'm far too busy outsmarting you with my brain to care much about your libido.

We got kids to train to survive this harsh world, so forgive me for prioritising elsewhere.

If you want, I can give you small change to go service your libido at the local olosho down the road. Just know that afterwards, your libido will forever not be my concern.

Have a Wife you keep at home
Have a Side Chic for curing Konji...

This is the secret of keeping your family strong

Do not bother wife for sex
Just go and meet your side chick.

Discussion for people with no future ambition. The only topic that interest them must be sex related

Dtruthspeaker:
Now i understand, threads like this https://www.nairaland.com/8600512/signs-she-wants-second-round#138341826 deceive us into thinking that our partners will forever be like this, keeping us thinking that they would enjoy sex with us till death.

Meanwhile, they will expire and leave us hungry and unsatisfied as they now hate participating

This is true. All these sex talks make it seem like it would always be like that. Nothing warns you that it gets to a time that she would not want you visiting her over the same thing that she wants which all these talks hammer in all the time

Citroen19digit:
We had discussed and argued extensively and truthfully over this going outside thing and we see what happened to the couples who did that, so I am sufficiently informed to know that going outside is as drinking cobra venom in a bottle of wine.

And, seeing how women have been hitting on me even when i was not interested, therefore, it is right for married women to fight and pour H2SO4 those cobras called side chick

She shouldn't dare......

You have some valid points


But I really think women are manipulative with sex

Diamond098454:
She shouldn't dare......

I see this happening to you

https://www.nairaland.com/8599351/wife-reportedly-kills-husband-girlfriend#138138455

Diamond098454:
When she catch you tell her not to slap and disgrace the sidechick she should put her frustration on you.

So you are a side chick.

Ah! Forget that one oo. Imposicant. This is where my wife must commit a crime. After or before she stabs me, she and her friends will cutlass her or something,

I'm not.
But married women should disgrace there husband instead of sidechick

Dtruthspeaker:
So you are a side chick.

Ah! Forget that one oo. Imposicant. This is where my wife must commit a crime. After or before she stabs me, she and her friends will cutlass her or something,

I'm not a sidechick

vdestro:
I see this happening to you

https://www.nairaland.com/8599351/wife-reportedly-kills-husband-girlfriend#138138455

Diamond098454:
I'm not.
But married women should disgrace there husband instead of sidechick

This means that you are indeed a side chick and every wife knows her husband which is why they always know to attack the side chick

Hmmmmm hmmmmm
Am not

Dtruthspeaker:
This means that you are indeed a side chick and every wife knows her husband which is why they always know to attack the side chick

Citroen19digit:
Flowing from the lessons i am learning about marriage and sex and all the information gotten from commenters in my threads, now I have seen another thing that hits us husbands in our marriages.

Now flowing from my last thread
https://www.nairaland.com/8607331/never-marry-not-rich-small and my experience this afternoon, it has just hit me big time another reason why we husbands cheat, no, scratch that, have sex with another woman, for, for today i just experienced a very great and strong need to leave my wife alone and go out to get satisfaction from another woman.

And now I appreciate that, that same tiredness will still fall on the second woman, so reason will dictate that i should not try to have only one woman most especially as I am not even trying to sololize her, so she is free to be unavailable, hence reason immediately tells me that i am free to have women in the waiting.

And so, now I see how amd why a faithful devoted may go straight from there to a man with a string of girl/women sex friends.

Or, if my wife had a sister, cousin or friend too close who has been calling me since but I was ignoring, tomorrow, if I still feel like this i just might answer their call or may even make the call myself.

what give your wife pleasure and satisfaction is commitment and not sex. Weak men care about women sexual satisfaction. She has no right to deny you sex what so ever time, and you have no right to deny her commitment what so ever time. If she tells you no sex, tell her no commitment.

Diamond098454:
I'm not a sidechick

Your words even here stand against you, so surely the aforementioned shall surely befall you.

Really? That's if I'm dating a married man abi?

vdestro:
Your words even here stand against you, so surely the aforementioned shall surely befall you.

Diamond098454:
Really? That's if I'm dating a married man abi?

You know already.

You are harsh on me
Why?

vdestro:
You know already.

Diamond098454:
You are harsh on me
Why?

It's your conscience speaking to you for I have not said anything harsh.

Really?

vdestro:
It's your conscience speaking to you for I have not said anything harsh.

Diamond098454:
Really? That's if I'm dating a married man abi?

You don't need to date a married man to adulteryrate with him. Hook up has proven that

Hmmmmm
You think all the girls do that nonsense?[quote author=Dtruthspeaker post=138365995]You don't need to date a married man to adulteryrate with him. Hook up has proven that [/quote

Diamond098454:
Hmmmmm
You think all the girls do that nonsense?

We see all who do it whenever they do it. And as we have already seen here, all of you are doing it.