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Personally, I'd say no.

Yes, the sales boy maybe acting on the fiance instructions, but honestly he's supposed to also use his head.

As a guy, you give her the money and if oga comes, you tell him. If him shout or becomes angry, you call the woman tell her incase of next time.

Also, I honestly don't think that oga/sales boy relationship is ordinary or the man no rate the wife to be at all.

What would be your reaction if this lady was your sister?

Well, is the boy aware she is his boss Fiancee??

The boy was following his boss orders but slapping and tearing the lady's cloth Nahh

Lol……protect you?? U wey dey fight for street nor need protection..u be werèy naaaa

.. broke and entitled…. Ordinary 600 naira, u nor get… u still dey fight small boy for public attempting to forcefully enter shop managed by an employee

shes lucky its not the man considering cancelling the wedding…..

All these fake stories seff..

It's not about the money bro.

If my woman comes to my place of business, I'd expect everyone to give her the best of treatment just as they would give to me.

advanceDNA:
Lol……protect you?? U wey dey fight for street nor need protection..u be werèy naaaa

.. broke and entitled…. Ordinary 600 naira, u nor get… u still dey fight small boy for public attempting to forcefully enter shop managed by an employee

shes lucky its not the man considering cancelling the wedding…..

All these fake stories seff..

Tharmon:
Well, is the boy aware she is his boss Fiancee??

The boy was following his boss orders but slapping and tearing the lady's cloth Nahh

like seriously.

Even if I ask you not to give anybody money and my sister comes around with a bike man, I expect you to still use your head and settle it.

When I come back, you tell me and next time i go tell you whether or not you should have done it.

No be even say na big money.

Host78:
It's not about the money bro.

If my woman comes to my place of business, I'd expect everyone to give her the best of treatment just as they would give to me.

Did i say its about money ??

Baba if he happen to you…. Sack your sales boy that u instructed not to give money to anybody and marry your street fighter

If this happens, I'll sack the boy immediately I get back and even beat him if I can.

Him no get sense at all

advanceDNA:
Did i say its about money ??

Baba if he happen to you…. Sack your sales boy that u instructed not to give money to anybody and marry your street fighter

and yes, she's very right to be angry with the boy.

Though I'd have caution her about getting into fight but at the same time, there's a bike man waiting to be paid, so it's still understandable.

Host78:
If this happens, I'll sack the boy immediately I get back and even beat him if I can.

Him no get sense at all

Everybody and their choice…Me i nor fit marry street fighter ooooo

Everybody na street fighter, just That your own turn of events never reach naim make.

Imagine say u dey emergency and unconscious and na the műmü dey control the shop

advanceDNA:
Everybody and their choice…Me i nor fit marry street fighter ooooo

Host78:
Everybody na street fighter, just That your own turn of events never reach naim make.

Oh okayy…..now i understand why u nor see anything wrong in the dirty, classless behaviour of the woman..
So U seff na street fighter ….

See nothing you fit call me go excuse the boys behavior.

I've been a sales boy before and one thing you learn is to respect your oga's wife and then his siblings.

She felt disrespected and reacted. Even for Bible, when potipher wife talk, dem potipher first follow him wife talk.

Everyone get place for this life and that sales boy dey forget him place.

advanceDNA:
Oh okayy…..now i understand why u nor see anything wrong in the dirty, classless behaviour of the woman..
So U seff na street fighter ….

Host78:
See nothing you fit call me go excuse the boys behavior.

I've been a sales boy before and one thing you learn is to respect your oga's wife and then his siblings.

She felt disrespected and reacted. Even for Bible, when potipher wife talk, dem potipher first follow him wife talk.

Everyone get place for this life and that sales boy dey forget him place.

Baba.. we don conclude ooo.. marry your street fighter

How come she didn't have 600 Naira for bike? She's not ripe for marriage yet. The boy should be arrested for assault if he struck her though. He could have let her into the store and collect the money at least he knows her and it's not a case of robbery or theft

The lady in question lacks sense, why not collect 600 from the neighbors and pay. Since your husband to be is your ATM.

And wait for him to come, than fighting the sales boy. If I am the man I will cancel the marriage.

Most girls marry with empty pockets.

Feldie:
How come she didn't have 600 Naira for bike? She's not ripe for marriage yet. The boy should be arrested for assault if he struck her though. He could have let her into the store and collect the money at least he knows her and it's not a case of robbery or theft

Na my type be the boy, I dey follow oga instruction to the last order and I no dey thief, na why all my former bosses like me till date na go I dey hear, why will you board bike without having money as a lady,why una dey wife all these broke ladies all because you want to answer married man I trust your fiance is igbo na their way I am igbo too, you go suffer for years break away from poverty still come marry poverty join body.

Host78:
If this happens, I'll sack the boy immediately I get back and even beat him if I can.

Him no get sense at alland yes, she's very right to be angry with the boy.

Though I'd have caution her about getting into fight but at the same time, there's a bike man waiting to be paid, so it's still understandable.

Abeg don't go into business, you are more likely to fail..
Why your agbero sister with entitlement mentality go board bike without holding tfare, and also, when she reached her man's place and the matter reach that level, she no fit find one POS collect just 1k instead of forming Oga's madam

D Boy did nothing wrong here, he was just following oga's instruction. How do you expect a salesboy to allow an unknown lady go to the cash register and take out business cash without oga's permission, haha make una try dey reason sometimes.
Oga is a real gee and understands how women behaves when you give them a little allowance

From 600, e go enter 1k, from 1k to 10k.
I go warn both the boy and the girl

Let us be real here.
I'm Igbo and i served a master for 8 years. The boy is absolute right in his action as the most important aspect of the Igbo apprentice system is complete obedience to your master only. It is even possible for the master to set a trap for his boy by setting up such a scenario and the boy will be severally punished if he compromised on the instruction given to him. And it is very wrong for the said lady to try to force her way into the shop to take anything, whether money or anything as the shop was entrusted to the said boy. The lady is not even married to the man yet but even if they are married, most men settle their wives with money at home and don't like them coming to the shop to disturb EXCEPT those that stays together with their wives in the shop.

The said lady is a thug for fighting the husbands boy. She doesn't respect the man, if not she would have waited for him to return and complain to him.
How can she be going out without money for a bike? Can she swear that she don't have N600 TO TRANSFER TO THE BIKE MAN? She is not a wife material, PERIOD!

Broke lady wanted to marry.

She must be a fool, ordinary 600 is making her miserable.

She was looking for protection with her broke nature.

Better quit and move on with your useless life. Who cares.

The guy is even helping you out.

This shows the girls is not responsible. The boy is a trustworhy hand. I a lady is visiting her man, she should at least have transportation.

The man should improve the boy's wages because of this act. They haven't even tied the knot and she already wants to turn his business into her private ATM

Why is a lady going around without money to pay transport in 2027? That is not a wife. That is a leech and a robber trying to forcefully break and enter a business premises she has no claim to be in.

You can’t afford 600 naira and you want to get married?

Who believes internet stories anyway?

Tharmon:
Well, is the boy aware she is his boss Fiancee??

The boy was following his boss orders but slapping and tearing the lady's cloth Nahh

Don't judge the boy cos you haven't heard from him

Aunty, cancel the wedding.

When you see another husband to be, please don't forget to post updates on Nairaland too.

He should be the one to cancel the wedding, why should he marry somebody that can't afford 600 Naira bike ...with the way you move you will ruin that that mans business in no time

Host78:
Personally, I'd say no.

Yes, the sales boy maybe acting on the fiance instructions, but honestly he's supposed to also use his head.

As a guy, you give her the money and if oga comes, you tell him. If him shout or becomes angry, you call the woman tell her incase of next time.

Also, I honestly don't think that oga/sales boy relationship is ordinary or the man no rate the wife to be at all.

What would be your reaction if this lady was your sister?

First thing first, my sister can never be in her shoes. This lady in question has no value to offer but her obueh hence the disrespect she got from her fiancé who has no regard for her even to the extent of codedly supporting his boy over his fiancée. If this lady is valuable, the servant boy will get that money for her quickly with the belief that the lady doesn’t have cash at hand. She deserves the slap and a resounding one.

A slay queen who couldn't afford ₦600 to sort bills is not due for marriage