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A lady has sparked conversation online after revealing what type of men she believes women are truly attracted to.

According to her, the dynamics of love and attraction have been often misunderstood by the male gender.

She explained,

“Ladies don’t like soft men. We don’t love calm men. We love toxic men. We come to realize that when a man is too soft, it looks as if the relationship, the marriage will spoil. But when a man has a sprinkle of toxicity, that’s when the love comes out.”

The lady reveals that ladies love fighting for love so when there’s nothing to fight about, they don’t like it.

The post, which has gone viral, prompted mixed reactions online, with some agreeing with her views on passion and attraction, while others criticised the idea that conflict fuels love.

Watch the video below…

“Ladies don’t like soft men. We don’t love calm men. We love toxic men.” ~~ Lady reveal the type of guys all ladies truly wanthttps://t.co/F2hDnkYcRF pic.twitter.com/c8KfW5cw9E

— Rep9ja.Com (@Rep9jaNg) February 7, 2026

https://www.rep9ja.com/viral/lady-reveals-men-girls-want/

People love things on so many different ways...
It depends..

And when the toxic men unveils the beast in them on them,they begin to cry out and tag all men to be the same. Whereas,she was the one who presented her kuntus to a werey in a platter of gold


Ever wonder why you'd see a pretty lady dating a popular cultist and you'd be like --"is this lady okay at all?" While the same time rejecting advances from the supposed soft men whom they so much hate to relate with?

Misplaced priority. I believe you not

Confused set of gender...


There is this TV reality dating show I started watching recently. If you hear the reasons women use in selecting and rejecting men they have relationships with you would weep and cry for the way they reason.

Very unpredictable, impulsive, confused ( saying that again for emphasis) and unserious people- Most of them!

She looks about 19/20. She has the energy. Let’s see her claim the same at 46. Body go tell am.

She still young na

Toxic man for marriage abi, oju e a pa bo

Is she speaking French? Which one is 'we'?

Merry100:
Is she speaking French? Which one is 'we'?

You it is all of you

She is just confessing what we have been saying since. You women are ivus and it is only ivu people that you would like.

brain54:
Confused set of gender...


There is this TV reality dating show I started watching recently. If you hear the reasons women use in selecting and rejecting men they have relationships with you would weep and cry for the way they reason.

Very unpredictable, impulsive, confused ( saying that again for emphasis) and unserious people- Most of them!

You're even an unserious person to be watching uselessss shows.

Zonefree:
You're even an unserious person to be watching uselessss shows.

This one no even know wetin he wan talk...





Efulefu!

So men watch reality shows as well? I might be a woman, but I personally never liked them.

I'd rather watch cartoons than a reality tv show.

brain54:
Confused set of gender...


There is this TV reality dating show I started watching recently. If you hear the reasons women use in selecting and rejecting men they have relationships with you would weep and cry for the way they reason.

Very unpredictable, impulsive, confused ( saying that again for emphasis) and unserious people- Most of them!

Samantha125:
So men watch reality shows as well? I might be a woman, but I personally never liked them.

I'd rather watch cartoons than a reality tv show.

Good for you...

Confused mumu thing

That's what you saw your parents doing.

That is the type of men she likes not me

Toxic men will not see me

I love them soft and romantic

Until she's kill

This is not new na

Women like men that are not push over.

If you're too soft, they will be talking to you any how and take advantage of you. Especially those women that are wild.

Most women will say they hate smokers, they like God fearing or gentle men. But in reality those smokers or bad Guys are the ones they fall for. Not talking of tout or local agbero smoker but men that have level and smoke.

Most of the things they say that they hate in public is what they admire Inside.

Only few women can tell you they like toxic men. Most don't admit it but they do

Please spell words correctly when you post,

These days everybody is interested in what will make them trend, they don't think about the future implications. Ugh!

Anyways, Madam speak for yourself alone.

There are women that flee from every appearance of toxic men. Some of us really love our peace of mind too much.

The lady said nothing but the truth.

Have too much carbon dioxide and nitrous IV oxide so that you can become a toxic man🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

richiemcgold:

You mean toxic men like me 👇, right?

Where you take dig this picture from?


Omoh e don Tey.


Who observed say nairalanders no dey use meme on their comments like before?

Where is Kobojunkiee?

I'd like to hear her views on this woman's statements?

giacomogiovanni:
Where is Kobojunkiee?

I'd like to hear his views on this woman's statements?

Kobojunkie is a man oooo

She Should Get Married to a Muslim Man

Do most women know what they really want?

I don't blame her at all. I blame those who go hard and get critical on men that brutalize them

Wetin this one know...abeg go n face your studies