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Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by KonTagiousBull: 9:51pm On Feb 07
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
And when the toxic men unveils the beast in them on them,they begin to cry out and tag all men to be the same. Whereas,she was the one who presented her kuntus to a werey in a platter of gold angry


Ever wonder why you'd see a pretty lady dating a popular cultist and you'd be like --"is this lady okay at all?" While the same time rejecting advances from the supposed soft men whom they so much hate to relate with? angry
It will now turn men are........
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by Jman06(m): 9:51pm On Feb 07
This is one reason why I don't pity women going through domestic violence. They usually see the signs from the onset and get attracted to those signs instead of running away from them.

When they start collecting gbas gbos they'll start looking for sympathy. Very confused gender!
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by AlphaTaikun:
Rep9jaCom:
A lady has sparked conversation online after revealing what type of men she believes women are truly attracted to.

According to her, the dynamics of love and attraction have been often misunderstood by the male gender.

She explained,


The lady reveals that ladies love fighting for love so when there’s nothing to fight about, they don’t like it.

The post, which has gone viral, prompted mixed reactions online, with some agreeing with her views on passion and attraction, while others criticised the idea that conflict fuels love.

Watch the video below…



https://www.rep9ja.com/viral/lady-reveals-men-girls-want/



There's really NOTHING new here. For centuries, women have NEVER loved soft men. They've always craved for a bit of drama in their lives, otherwise the relationship would be boring. That's the way they are naturally wired... They subliminally crave for some resistance and headwinds. Women are subconsciously solution providers as well seeking to improve on problems and situations in their lives and that of those around them.

However, so, many men are clueless about these time-tested relationship specifics, hence they do NOT like to stir up some form of discontent and they get ditched down the road for being too nice or boring like that nice Brazilian soccer star who got ditched by his wife for being too nice. To be the ultimate man, do NOT be extremely toxic towards her by beating her up or talking down on her making her lose her self-esteem. Just be firm and say what you mean. Do NOT agree with her all the time like you're a door mat... That shows you're a man with "balls of steel."
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by Akin4tado(m): 9:52pm On Feb 07
Na only 9ja babes dey reason like this. Omo!
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by Hier(m): 9:54pm On Feb 07
She should speak for herself please, and stop generalizing, it's funny that these women think they are some sort of prize that must be earned. Omo, me too I'm a prize, if you are not my spec, carry yourself go front

It's funny many men just want to please these women. Omo, person no dey please woman oooo. You will lose yourself in the process. Some of these girls have been over damaged
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by bikefab(m): 9:56pm On Feb 07
She is speaking for herself, not for all women
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by Hier(m): 9:58pm On Feb 07
These woman are always trying to set the pace for men. Very manipulative set of being, always exercising their influence over weak men.
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by Natbrowny: 10:00pm On Feb 07
If a Man claim he understands this female gender.

His brain should be in class with Einstein's and be studied
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by Hier(m): 10:01pm On Feb 07
brain54:
Confused set of gender...


There is this TV reality dating show I started watching recently. If you hear the reasons women use in selecting and rejecting men they have relationships with you would weep and cry for the way they reason.

Very unpredictable, impulsive, confused ( saying that again for emphasis) and unserious people- Most of them!
The painful part is, they always make men look like they are not enough. Some will say, they can't date a 2 minute man, meanwhile they are the ones who overused their down there and they will throw the blame of not satisfying them on another innocent man who lived a good life all along
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by pussyphilia(m): 10:04pm On Feb 07
And me I love toxic ladies! I get so hard being with a pretty hot lady who is violent and domineering. God help me o
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by Dpopsman123(m): 10:07pm On Feb 07
She seems not to know the difference between tough and reasonable.

She's apparently not working.
After been Used, she'll start looking for a reasonable man to manipulate and settle down with !

I clap for you





Rep9jaCom:
A lady has sparked conversation online after revealing what type of men she believes women are truly attracted to.

According to her, the dynamics of love and attraction have been often misunderstood by the male gender.

She explained,


The lady reveals that ladies love fighting for love so when there’s nothing to fight about, they don’t like it.

The post, which has gone viral, prompted mixed reactions online, with some agreeing with her views on passion and attraction, while others criticised the idea that conflict fuels love.

Watch the video below…



https://www.rep9ja.com/viral/lady-reveals-men-girls-want/
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by Fujiyama: 10:07pm On Feb 07
Samantha125:
So men watch reality shows as well? I might be a woman, but I personally never liked them.

I'd rather watch cartoons than a reality tv show.
^^^
Most grown ups (real grown ups) know its scripted rubbish - all for entertainment.

The problem is that far too many people (some young and sadly, some not so young) believe it's real.

It's important to know what's out there so that one can stay as far away from these 'true believers' as possible.
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by being(m): 10:09pm On Feb 07
Every young person- both boys & girls needs a worthy mentor.. their brains are still not full developed until late 20s.. they need reasonable older people that call them to order
Rep9jaCom:
A lady has sparked conversation online after revealing what type of men she believes women are truly attracted to.

According to her, the dynamics of love and attraction have been often misunderstood by the male gender.

She explained,


The lady reveals that ladies love fighting for love so when there’s nothing to fight about, they don’t like it.

The post, which has gone viral, prompted mixed reactions online, with some agreeing with her views on passion and attraction, while others criticised the idea that conflict fuels love.

Watch the video below…



https://www.rep9ja.com/viral/lady-reveals-men-girls-want/
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by TheStoriesOfMan: 10:10pm On Feb 07
pussyphilia:
And me I love toxic ladies! I get so hard being with a pretty hot lady who is violent and domineering. God help me o
Blink twice if you need help.
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by DonroxyII: 10:10pm On Feb 07
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
And when the toxic men unveils the beast in them on them,they begin to cry out and tag all men to be the same. Whereas,she was the one who presented her kuntus to a werey in a platter of gold angry


Ever wonder why you'd see a pretty lady dating a popular cultist and you'd be like --"is this lady okay at all?" While the same time rejecting advances from the supposed soft men whom they so much hate to relate with? angry
Weyrey Girls are Many than Normal Girls .

Weyrey Girls Love Weyrey Men

Normal Girls Loves Normal Guy .....
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by Deicide: 10:14pm On Feb 07
Poco can you confirm this?
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by Samantha125(f): 10:18pm On Feb 07
But there's nothing wrong with watching the shows for mere entertainment, I just didn't know that men watch them as well.

Movies are also scripted, but we still love and watch them.
Fujiyama:
^^^
Most grown ups (real grown ups) know its scripted rubbish - all for entertainment.

The problem is that far too many people (some young and sadly, some not so young) believe it's real.

It's important to know what's out there so that one can stay as far away from these 'true believers' as possible.
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by Hahjascho(m):
Seems she’s confused.

When her illusion is finally confirmed, they will start blaming all men to be wicked. Why won’t there be plenty single mothers?

SMH
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by engrchykae(m): 10:35pm On Feb 07
The most confused gender in the galaxy
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by 12345baba(m): 10:37pm On Feb 07
Female gender sef
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by Day169: 10:37pm On Feb 07
That's why marriage/relationship counsellors reveal, those type of ladies are liable to die young! undecided
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by Fujiyama: 10:39pm On Feb 07
Samantha125:
But there's nothing wrong with watching the shows for mere entertainment, I just didn't know that men watch them as well.
^^^
Oh yes some men do watch them. There's no accounting for taste.

Samantha125:
Movies are also scripted, but we still love and watch them.
^^^
Yes...but in movies the lines are somewhat clearer. There's a cast and a script and the actors have their lines. With 'reality' TV shows it gets more confusing (for the naive and the gullible) because they're fed the illusion that reality TV shows aren't scripted. Its easy for the lines to get blurred for people whose lives revolve around 'entertainment'.
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by Day169: 10:40pm On Feb 07
Samantha125:
So men watch reality shows as well? I might be a woman, but I personally never liked them.

I'd rather watch cartoons than a reality tv show.
.. such ladies (as you) often have a good sense of humour. wink
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by Sirianese: 10:51pm On Feb 07
brain54:
Confused set of gender...


There is this TV reality dating show I started watching recently. If you hear the reasons women use in selecting and rejecting men they have relationships with you would weep and cry for the way they reason.

Very unpredictable, impulsive, confused ( saying that again for emphasis) and unserious people- Most of them!
Of course by 46 experience would've taught her that such men are bad news in the long run...same with men who start off liking baddies and ashawo-types because of wild sex, but later realize that character is more important than sex when marriage is involved
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by Maxitomxane(m): 10:52pm On Feb 07
Antoeni:
She Should Get Married to a Muslim Man
💀💀 grin By the time he slams her head 5 times shouting the word, her head go reset.
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by baby124: 11:00pm On Feb 07
Who is We? I only see one person talking. Obviously this person needs help and she obviously does not speak for all women. She speaks for herself and other personalities within her.
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by Montana23: 11:23pm On Feb 07
Love is poison, love is pain..they wants things that makes their mind race that activate the dopamine..if they are not troubling in love..they don’t want it
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by BILLSMAN: 11:27pm On Feb 07
That girl is just showcasing her new makeup to find who wan buy market.
What she is also saying is that her market can be sold to both responsible and irresponsible(toxic) fellow, so anybody can buy.

That's the summary!!
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by LockDown69(m): 11:40pm On Feb 07
Confused gender I tell you. What do they really want? grin
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by debbydams(f): 11:48pm On Feb 07
Rep9jaCom:
A lady has sparked conversation online after revealing what type of men she believes women are truly attracted to.

According to her, the dynamics of love and attraction have been often misunderstood by the male gender.

She explained,


The lady reveals that ladies love fighting for love so when there’s nothing to fight about, they don’t like it.

The post, which has gone viral, prompted mixed reactions online, with some agreeing with her views on passion and attraction, while others criticised the idea that conflict fuels love.

Watch the video below…



https://www.rep9ja.com/viral/lady-reveals-men-girls-want/
you and who?
Speak for yourself oo...
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by davidque: 11:53pm On Feb 07
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Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by davidque: 12:01am On Feb 08
On second thought, I think she was trying to express the attraction for a man who is both soft (caring and calm when necessary) and tough and assertive when necessary. a man who will pamper and spoil her sometimes and completely ignore at other times. A man who commands a mix of these will likely get a woman to get stuck on him. A man who know how and when to serve hot or cold. That's what i feel. Her choice of the word "Toxic" is wrong and i bet she has no idea what toxic really means, else she wouldn't ask for the pinch of it, not to talk of a sprinkle
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