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We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want - Romance (3) - Nairaland

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Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by Mrexcell(m): 12:03am On Feb 08
Just say nigerian badly brought up or abused women love toxic men and not every woman in the world. This is the reason some of them regularly get killed by their toxic boyfriends and husbands.
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by Honeydew3040: 12:32am On Feb 08
don't worry until dem blind u eye,
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by Osariemen12: 1:12am On Feb 08
Definitely a Yoruba lady.
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by Hhh4444: 1:22am On Feb 08
Y
Natbrowny:
If a Man claim he understands this female gender.

His brain should be in class with Einstein's and be studied
you cannot understand women and love them. Men who truly understand women avoid them.
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by Dogalmighty17: 1:25am On Feb 08
giacomogiovanni:
Where is Kobojunkiee?

I'd like to hear her views on this woman's statements?
I take god beg you. No summon that sour spirit come here.
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by ElGenio39: 1:53am On Feb 08
Hand never reach you na why 🙄
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by Mathewrichard99: 2:36am On Feb 08
Gbos gbas every day like table tennis game if she dare marry a head slammer. Ain't difficult at all for
Most Muslims to beat their wives.......seen several like that especially In the North......
Antoeni:
She Should Get Married to a Muslim Man
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by Kingson28: 3:52am On Feb 08
She came from a toxic family. She is a RED FLAG.
FLEE!
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by DonFreshmoney(m): 4:39am On Feb 08
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brain54:
Confused set of gender...


There is this TV reality dating show I started watching recently. If you hear the reasons women use in selecting and rejecting men they have relationships with you would weep and cry for the way they reason.

Very unpredictable, impulsive, confused ( saying that again for emphasis) and unserious people- Most of them!
Whats the show?
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by zedman1(m): 5:24am On Feb 08
TheStoriesOfMan:
Kobojunkie is a man oooo
That girl/boy is just confusing us on this forum. I thought he/she was a boy at first, then later she revealed herself to be a girl. Then lately, she admitted he/she is a boy. I'm thinking he/she is Bobrisky.
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by senatordossy(m): 5:24am On Feb 08
She d find man to send to prison not to love. A man can't be toxic without being abusive n violent
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by DrAda(f): 5:36am On Feb 08
You not We
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by chikeFavor2000(m): 5:38am On Feb 08
She is saying the truth, ladies don't like it when a man is predictable and peaceful all the time. Normally sef every man need small werey to stand as a Man in this era of femin!sm.
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by mysticwarrior(m): 6:25am On Feb 08
This one still dey swallow Eba for her parents house na, by the time she don dey marriage with man for house she go come know as e dey be.
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by ozo13(m): 6:59am On Feb 08
brain54:
Confused set of gender...


There is this TV reality dating show I started watching recently. If you hear the reasons women use in selecting and rejecting men they have relationships with you would weep and cry for the way they reason.

Very unpredictable, impulsive, confused ( saying that again for emphasis) and unserious people- Most of them!
abeg what is the name of the TV reality show please.
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by Unrated900(m): 7:18am On Feb 08
I have met a woman who tells me she likes to be beaten before intimacy
I was shocked
Some expected things are happening oooo
If u know u know
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by DonroxyII: 7:25am On Feb 08
Hier:
She should speak for herself please, and stop generalizing, it's funny that these women think they are some sort of prize that must be earned. Omo, me too I'm a prize, if you are not my spec, carry yourself go front

It's funny many men just want to please these women. Omo, person no dey please woman oooo. You will lose yourself in the process. Some of these girls have been over damaged
✅👌
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by DonroxyII: 7:29am On Feb 08
Hier:
These woman are always trying to set the pace for men. Very manipulative set of being, always exercising their influence over weak men.
That girl in the OP is Demonic .... only a .F.vck.tard would love Toxic Men ... She doesn't even know what she is talking about ...

No Sane Woman who built her Existences on Sane World would loves a Toxic Man because his Toxicity would definitely crumbles your world....

But You see Girls that built their Existences around Men, they are always push overs by this Toxic Men and she has gotten adapted to the Abuses so tey when you are now treating her like a Queen, She finds you Boring ... ...

That's what happened in "Hell" !! ...

The wicked the better ! ... Awon Omo Weyrey!
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by boomcity009(m): 7:44am On Feb 08
An an
Lol grin grin grin

Zonefree:
You're even an unserious person to be watching uselessss shows.
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by Wotowotoman: 7:45am On Feb 08
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
And when the toxic men unveils the beast in them on them,they begin to cry out and tag all men to be the same. Whereas,she was the one who presented her kuntus to a werey in a platter of gold angry


Ever wonder why you'd see a pretty lady dating a popular cultist and you'd be like --"is this lady okay at all?" While the same time rejecting advances from the supposed soft men whom they so much hate to relate with? angry
Ogbeni, abeg I get two questions for you. Do you have something called a job? You don see tow tow b4? 🤔
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by GorillaApp(m): 8:01am On Feb 08
Thazard:
Where you take dig this picture from?


Omoh e don Tey.


Who observed say nairalanders no dey use meme on their comments like before?
The golden days of nairaland.
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by Omowale2023(m): 8:04am On Feb 08
Hier:
The painful part is, they always make men look like they are not enough. Some will say, they can't date a 2 minute man, meanwhile they are the ones who overused their down there and they will throw the blame of not satisfying them on another innocent man who lived a good life all along
Why should you be a 2 minutes man?
Work on yourself, the burden of performance falls on a man, not on a woman.
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by Greattha: 8:13am On Feb 08
Yh...Toons are relaxing...they're the go to when there're no movies...except them ones promoting that long alphabetical agenda IYKYK.

Reality shows suck. IMO.



Samantha125:
So men watch reality shows as well? I might be a woman, but I personally never liked them.

I'd rather watch cartoons than a reality tv show.
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by Paulo3ree(m): 9:04am On Feb 08
Rep9jaCom:
A lady has sparked conversation online after revealing what type of men she believes women are truly attracted to.

According to her, the dynamics of love and attraction have been often misunderstood by the male gender.

She explained,


The lady reveals that ladies love fighting for love so when there’s nothing to fight about, they don’t like it.

The post, which has gone viral, prompted mixed reactions online, with some agreeing with her views on passion and attraction, while others criticised the idea that conflict fuels love.

Watch the video below…



https://www.rep9ja.com/viral/lady-reveals-men-girls-want/
Wrong exposure
There is a phrase for it in psychology
That's when you stay so long in abusive relationship
Blissful relationship feels weird or untrue, and this forces the individual to seek what is familiar or known
A terrible and pittieable state
IT IS A PITY
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by Jozzy4: 10:47am On Feb 08
brain54:
Confused set of gender...


There is this TV reality dating show I started watching recently. If you hear the reasons women use in selecting and rejecting men they have relationships with you would weep and cry for the way they reason.

Very unpredictable, impulsive, confused ( saying that again for emphasis) and unserious people- Most of them!
Title?
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by Jumbojax(m): 11:44am On Feb 08
These confused girls are only trying to confuse men as well, na why Dem dey talk this rubbish. Fish cannot teach you how to catch fish.
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by deyreintrouble: 12:17pm On Feb 08
Paulo3ree:
Wrong exposure
There is a phrase for it in psychology
That's when you stay so long in abusive relationship
Blissful relationship feels weird or untrue, and this forces the individual to seek what is familiar or known
A terrible and pittieable state
IT IS A PITY
You mean Familiarity Trap or Trauma Reenactment?
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by Anaconda76: 12:18pm On Feb 08
Sigmund Freud, the founder of psychoanalysis, after studying women for over 30 years died while trying to answer the question "What do women want?"---they people are just "wonderful"
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by Zubydeangelo(m): 12:22pm On Feb 08
Y'all coming for the girl's head, why should a man be soft in the first place?
Re: We Don’t Like Soft Men. We Like Toxic Men — Lady Reveals Type Of Men Girls Want by davillian(m): 12:28pm On Feb 08
your woman should fear, respect and love you.
you dont need to be toxic to achieve this....
if you give women chance they would create and take chances
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