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Re: Cheating Is Not Enough Reason To Leave A Man — Woman Sparks Debate by delpee(f): 9:40am On Feb 11
There's really no yes or no answer on this matter. Circumstances differ.
Re: Cheating Is Not Enough Reason To Leave A Man — Woman Sparks Debate by Helinuss: 9:42am On Feb 11
Cheating is not enough reason for a man to leave a woman
Re: Cheating Is Not Enough Reason To Leave A Man — Woman Sparks Debate by Sirtee19: 10:14am On Feb 11
Can you substantiate your assertion of "all men cheat". If you have said most men, I wouldn't have objected to your assertion. If you believe that all men cheat, then all women cheat too. Which means you are a cheat too. There will always be an exception in every ALL.
Re: Cheating Is Not Enough Reason To Leave A Man — Woman Sparks Debate by pocohantas(f): 10:21am On Feb 11
Good for you, but I will leave immediately.
It is not my body you will release strange demons and diseases into. There are women like you that don't mind, hopefully cheating men can find your type and marry you all.
Re: Cheating Is Not Enough Reason To Leave A Man — Woman Sparks Debate by bigiyaro(m): 10:49am On Feb 11
Most women that leaves because of a cheating man, nearly always ends up being a cheating tool to other men, especially married men. They either become side seggs relive objects to married men or play things for small boys or both.
Re: Cheating Is Not Enough Reason To Leave A Man — Woman Sparks Debate by meobizy(m): 10:50am On Feb 11
Women innately know. They speak otherwise only on social media. Go to universities and see girls performing threesomes with their friends’ boyfriends to cure horniness. I remember one guy from my school days who cycled through three friends who agreed with themselves. The situation lasted for three years and into their NYSC service. Women are sickening. I envy gay men.
Re: Cheating Is Not Enough Reason To Leave A Man — Woman Sparks Debate by Jman06(m): 11:04am On Feb 11
OmoOshodi:
Cheating is in our blood ... infact cheating is our calling

Allow us to cheat in peace..

This is my 11th year in marriage...I never knack another woman out of my marriage despite plenty opportunity to do so cry
Conscience no gree me
Truly, na conscience things o. Me personally, once I'm inlove with one lady, I find it very difficult loving another to the point of cheating with her. My conscience and the love I have for my woman will not let me.
Re: Cheating Is Not Enough Reason To Leave A Man — Woman Sparks Debate by kiddaz: 11:25am On Feb 11
franchasofficia:
I said it on the other thread.

A worthy man or a great husband is not determined by his sexual conduct alone. Any lady that rates a man based on his sexual weakness alone will definitely end up with horrible men.






The only perceived wrongdoing I know many good and wonderful married men commit against their wives is "having extramarital affairs" or keeping mistresses outside their marriage, and why I don't usually see this as a big deal is because that is how every sexually active man was created from birth; to want to explore or mate with other women he finds attractive, it's a natural deficiency in all sexually active men.


The few sexually active men (if any exist) that stay sexually faithful to one partner till death are those that did it out of extreme commitment to religious doctrines and those that lacked the privilege, the opportunities and financial capacity to explore.



So long as a man respects his wife, treats her well, takes very good care of her and the kids, takes full responsibility of the family and dependents, respects himself by being absolutely discreet with his affairs, I see no big deal in him having extramarital affairs responsibly, only his maker and God can judge him on the last day, thank you all for your attention to this matter
Gbamsolutely bro
Re: Cheating Is Not Enough Reason To Leave A Man — Woman Sparks Debate by kiddaz: 11:32am On Feb 11
pocohantas:
Good for you, but I will leave immediately.
It is not my body you will release strange demons and diseases into. There are women like you that don't mind, hopefully cheating men can find your type and marry you all.
Just make sure he's always protected physically and spiritually datzzoll cheesy
Re: Cheating Is Not Enough Reason To Leave A Man — Woman Sparks Debate by Bahamas95(m): 11:41am On Feb 11
Towma:
What about STDs? Should wives also keep quiet and be treating diseases because their husbands are animals that lack self control?
The last time I checked condoms are still being sold at the pharmacy.
Re: Cheating Is Not Enough Reason To Leave A Man — Woman Sparks Debate by Gunayo(m): 11:57am On Feb 11
OmoOshodi:
Cheating is in our blood ... infact cheating is our calling

Allow us to cheat in peace..

This is my 11th year in marriage...I never knack another woman out of my marriage despite plenty opportunity to do so cry
Conscience no gree me
The funniest thing is that she might not satisfy you and always deny you sex for flimsy excuses.
Re: Cheating Is Not Enough Reason To Leave A Man — Woman Sparks Debate by donleo92(m): 12:02pm On Feb 11
Deepspirituals:
shocked Always the Case because Single Guys are not Mostly Available to take care of Single Mother's and there likes .
And moreover, single guys are busy with small small girls
Re: Cheating Is Not Enough Reason To Leave A Man — Woman Sparks Debate by oluxy(m): 12:29pm On Feb 11
franchasofficia:
I said it on the other thread.

A worthy man or a great husband is not determined by his sexual conduct alone. Any lady that rates a man based on his sexual weakness alone will definitely end up with horrible men.

Absolutely right.
Only a blind person would not see wisdom in what you write.

This i would tell you is a solution to homes or women whose man are indulging in infidelity.







The only perceived wrongdoing I know many good and wonderful married men commit against their wives is "having extramarital affairs" or keeping mistresses outside their marriage, and why I don't usually see this as a big deal is because that is how every sexually active man was created from birth; to want to explore or mate with other women he finds attractive, it's a natural deficiency in all sexually active men.


The few sexually active men (if any exist) that stay sexually faithful to one partner till death are those that did it out of extreme commitment to religious doctrines and those that lacked the privilege, the opportunities and financial capacity to explore.



So long as a man respects his wife, treats her well, takes very good care of her and the kids, takes full responsibility of the family and dependents, respects himself by being absolutely discreet with his affairs, I see no big deal in him having extramarital affairs responsibly, only his maker and God can judge him on the last day, thank you all for your attention to this matter
Re: Cheating Is Not Enough Reason To Leave A Man — Woman Sparks Debate by JimD(m): 12:29pm On Feb 11
APOSTLECHUMA:
BIBLE POINT, THERE IS NO BIBLE VERSE THAT SUPPORTS DIVORCE BASED ON ADULTERY AND MANY DONT KNOW THIS, DIVORCE WAS ONLY APPROVED FOR THE CAUSE OF FORMICATION AND MANY DONT KNOW THE DIFFERENCE. JESUS PREACHED FORGIVENESS IN MATTHEW 18 BEFORE MATTHEW 19 WHERE HE PREACHED ON MARRIAGE AND DIVORCE. WHAT THE PHARISEES HEARD FROM.HIM MADE THEM TO CONCLUDE THAT MARRIAGE WAS NOT WORTH ENTERING INTO BECAUSE JESUS DIDNT APPROVE DIVORCE THERE BASED ON ADULTERY BUT FOR FORNICATION AND A MARRIED MAN OR WOMAN DONT COMMIT FORNICATION.
Twist and turns
Re: Cheating Is Not Enough Reason To Leave A Man — Woman Sparks Debate by Olasquare4real: 12:33pm On Feb 11
Hhhhhhhhmmmmmmm, this is a good and sensitive topic and I really love the way this our beloved lady treated this topic, not giving the men the go ahead for adultery oooo,but let view it in this angle, when lady's caught their husband with another lady or woman,they decided to let go of that relationship and at the end of the day,becomes second or third wives to another or end up with an unresponsive element, later regretting their actions, well such is life,lady's or women please be cautious, if you truly love that man,you will leave him for another's woman at all.
Re: Cheating Is Not Enough Reason To Leave A Man — Woman Sparks Debate by Towma(f): 1:03pm On Feb 11
Bahamas95:
The last time I checked condoms are still being sold at the pharmacy.
Condoms don't protect against all STDs

Condoms burst/break

#stay faithful to your partner.
Re: Cheating Is Not Enough Reason To Leave A Man — Woman Sparks Debate by holuwarlay08(m): 2:00pm On Feb 11
and she will start dating another woman husband as well. which means the new man is now cheating with her, what she run for initially
Goo0dHardDick:
Aby woman who lives a man because he cheated on her is an unwise woman!

She'll be replaced with his side chick. It her loss
Re: Cheating Is Not Enough Reason To Leave A Man — Woman Sparks Debate by DrFunmisticGlow: 2:03pm On Feb 11
franchasofficia:
I said it on the other thread.

A worthy man or a great husband is not determined by his sexual conduct alone. Any lady that rates a man based on his sexual weakness alone will definitely end up with horrible men.






The only perceived wrongdoing I know many good and wonderful married men commit against their wives is "having extramarital affairs" or keeping mistresses outside their marriage, and why I don't usually see this as a big deal is because that is how every sexually active man was created from birth; to want to explore or mate with other women he finds attractive, it's a natural deficiency in all sexually active men.


The few sexually active men (if any exist) that stay sexually faithful to one partner till death are those that did it out of extreme commitment to religious doctrines and those that lacked the privilege, the opportunities and financial capacity to explore.



So long as a man respects his wife, treats her well, takes very good care of her and the kids, takes full responsibility of the family and dependents, respects himself by being absolutely discreet with his affairs, I see no big deal in him having extramarital affairs responsibly, only his maker and God can judge him on the last day, thank you all for your attention to this matter
So women should cheat too.

As far as she respects her husband and is a good wife and mother.

Your point is noted

If you're married, I hope your wife cheats on you and chooses to respect you too
Re: Cheating Is Not Enough Reason To Leave A Man — Woman Sparks Debate by DrFunmisticGlow: 2:08pm On Feb 11
bigiyaro:
Most women that leaves because of a cheating man, nearly always ends up being a cheating tool to other men, especially married men. They either become side seggs relive objects to married men or play things for small boys or both.
Any studies to back up this your statement?
Re: Cheating Is Not Enough Reason To Leave A Man — Woman Sparks Debate by DrFunmisticGlow: 2:15pm On Feb 11
Dogalmighty17:
Men do not cheat. You don't cheat on what you spend money on. If I have a car and I want to test run another, will it be said I cheated on my car?
Is a woman your property?

This is a very useless/irrelevant analogy.
Re: Cheating Is Not Enough Reason To Leave A Man — Woman Sparks Debate by zedman1(m): 2:31pm On Feb 11
stainlink:
Hmm.
It's a deal breaker for so many people.

I can take so many marital or relationship vices but not cheating
Are you a man? Are your married? If yes, for how long? If not, as faithful as you think you are now, get married first and pray never to fall.
Re: Cheating Is Not Enough Reason To Leave A Man — Woman Sparks Debate by sweetkev(m): 2:32pm On Feb 11
Juoflife1:
As it is not a reason to leave a woman as well. Marriages can still work after cheating. Pray for your partner, male and female. Temptation is too much
Women should not cheat.
Re: Cheating Is Not Enough Reason To Leave A Man — Woman Sparks Debate by franchasofficia: 2:44pm On Feb 11
DrFunmisticGlow:
So women should cheat too.

As far as she respects her husband and is a good wife and mother.

Your point is noted

If you're married, I hope your wife cheats on you and chooses to respect you too
This thing has nothing to do with gender equality; if a man can do it, woman should do same....yes I am married, and if my wife feels she finds fulfillment and joy in keeping an extramarital affairs, who am I to judge her? Its left to her and her values....nobody can hold down a spouse that decides to play away match....not when you don't carry her on your back everyday, all the time....so I am not bothered about that.....God created man and woman differently with various weaknesses and deficiencies more peculiar to different genders and if you dig deeper, they are for a reason, but as humans, we want to make sure we forcefully balance every human affair/activities in order to maintain a false sense of gender equality and balance which can never be achieved till the world ends.


Do have a wonderful day and thanks for your attention to this matter cool
Re: Cheating Is Not Enough Reason To Leave A Man — Woman Sparks Debate by DrFunmisticGlow: 3:14pm On Feb 11
franchasofficia:
This thing has nothing to do with gender equality; if a man can do it, woman should do same....yes I am married, and if my wife feels she finds fulfillment and joy in keeping an extramarital affairs, who am I to judge her? Its left to her and her values....nobody can hold down a spouse that decides to play away match....not when you don't carry her on your back everyday, all the time....so I am not bothered about that.....God created man and woman differently with various weaknesses and deficiencies more peculiar to different genders and if you dig deeper, they are for a reason, but as humans, we want to make sure we forcefully balance every human affair/activities in order to maintain a false sense of gender equality and balance which can never be achieved till the world ends.


Do have a wonderful day and thanks for your attention to this matter cool
As far as you are fair and expect to tolerate a cheating partner the way you would want to be tolerated if you are/were a cheating partner, then I have no issues with you.

You can have a good day
Re: Cheating Is Not Enough Reason To Leave A Man — Woman Sparks Debate by DrFunmisticGlow: 3:17pm On Feb 11
sweetkev:
Women should not cheat.
They should actually, they are hypergamous in nature and need to have as many partners as possible to secure the best resources.
Re: Cheating Is Not Enough Reason To Leave A Man — Woman Sparks Debate by vdestro: 3:25pm On Feb 11
APOSTLECHUMA:
BIBLE POINT, THERE IS NO BIBLE VERSE THAT SUPPORTS DIVORCE BASED ON ADULTERY AND MANY DONT KNOW THIS, [b]DIVORCE WAS ONLY APPROVED FOR THE CAUSE OF FORMICATION [/b]AND MANY DONT KNOW THE DIFFERENCE. JESUS PREACHED FORGIVENESS IN MATTHEW 18 BEFORE MATTHEW 19 WHERE HE PREACHED ON MARRIAGE AND DIVORCE. WHAT THE PHARISEES HEARD FROM.HIM MADE THEM TO CONCLUDE THAT MARRIAGE WAS NOT WORTH ENTERING INTO BECAUSE JESUS DIDNT APPROVE DIVORCE THERE BASED ON ADULTERY BUT FOR FORNICATION AND A MARRIED MAN OR WOMAN DONT COMMIT FORNICATION.
Awon fake apostles don drop quote.

As if you don't know that Jesus was referring to sexual immorality whether called Fornication in kjv or sexual immorality in esv and some other bibles.

Apostle wunnd you dia.
Re: Cheating Is Not Enough Reason To Leave A Man — Woman Sparks Debate by vdestro: 3:30pm On Feb 11
Before nko, what shall an oloshuure say na? Abegi, unto the next news.
Re: Cheating Is Not Enough Reason To Leave A Man — Woman Sparks Debate by 9galen217: 4:46pm On Feb 11
You are not alone.
10 years and counting... I can't bring myself to cheat on her. Not sure how those other men do it.
Stay committed and faithful.
OmoOshodi:
Cheating is in our blood ... infact cheating is our calling

Allow us to cheat in peace..

This is my 11th year in marriage...I never knack another woman out of my marriage despite plenty opportunity to do so cry
Conscience no gree me
Re: Cheating Is Not Enough Reason To Leave A Man — Woman Sparks Debate by Rutherinspace: 4:47pm On Feb 11
franchasofficia:
I said it on the other thread.

A worthy man or a great husband is not determined by his sexual conduct alone. Any lady that rates a man based on his sexual weakness alone will definitely end up with horrible men.


The only perceived wrongdoing I know many good and wonderful married men commit against their wives is "having extramarital affairs" or keeping mistresses outside their marriage, and why I don't usually see this as a big deal is because that is how every sexually active man was created from birth; to want to explore or mate with other women he finds attractive, it's a natural deficiency in all sexually active men.


The few sexually active men (if any exist) that stay sexually faithful to one partner till death are those that did it out of extreme commitment to religious doctrines and those that lacked the privilege, the opportunities and financial capacity to explore.



So long as a man respects his wife, treats her well, takes very good care of her and the kids, takes full responsibility of the family and dependents, respects himself by being absolutely discreet with his affairs, I see no big deal in him having extramarital affairs responsibly, only his maker and God can judge him on the last day, thank you all for your attention to this matter
This is a very faulty reasoning but I'm not surprised because it's regurgitated in different forms.

The claim that all men are “created” to cheat is not biology — it’s justification.

Yes, men can feel attraction to multiple women.
But attraction is not the same as action.

Human beings are not animals ruled by impulse. We have: Self-control, moral reasoning, and Empathy. The ability to choose long-term stability over short-term pleasure

If “natural desire” excused behavior, then anger would justify violence, and greed would justify theft. Society exists because adults control impulses.

Plenty of men feel attraction and still choose loyalty. That proves it is a decision, not a biological destiny.

The claim that faithful men are either extremely religious, or too poor/unattractive to cheat is insulting to men and tells a lot about your personality.

Many financially successful, attractive, socially powerful men remain faithful. Not because they lack options — but because they value integrity and emotional peace

I always say it loudly. The family defines society - if a man cannot keep to a simple commitment to a woman, how can the same man fulfill political promises to society?

In environments where men are praised for cheating, more will cheat.
In environments where integrity is respected, more men remain faithful.

This shows its cultural conditioning — not biological inevitability.

Behavior is shaped by upbringing, peer influence, and cultural norms. I have many male friends who are financially successful and stick with their wives. I tell everyone extra marital affairs is expensive and not worth it.

Please, let's reject such lazy, backward thinking in favor of accountability and open communication.

A good read: Invisible Women: Data Bias in a World Designed for Men
Re: Cheating Is Not Enough Reason To Leave A Man — Woman Sparks Debate by IBB007(m): 4:50pm On Feb 11
lol…it’s obvious this one is suffering from low self esteem
Re: Cheating Is Not Enough Reason To Leave A Man — Woman Sparks Debate by sweetkev(m): 6:28pm On Feb 11
DrFunmisticGlow:
They should actually, they are hypergamous in nature and need to have as many partners as possible to secure the best resources.
Hell no. Men and women are different. Not good for a woman to cheat. It's a sin and a disgusting act.
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