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Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by Emeka71(m): 12:49pm On Feb 14

PurityOrNothing:
Valentines Day or not, flee immorality

Happy Valentine's Day.

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by GanagiBitrus: 12:52pm On Feb 14

Kalulu44:
Common knowledge, but not common knowledge to those that I listed there

What's your point?
Indiscriminate sex has no negative consequences?

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by Kalulu44: 12:58pm On Feb 14

GanagiBitrus:
What's your point?
Indiscriminate sex has no negative consequences?

Give me the scientific proof

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by bennsikak: 1:46pm On Feb 14

There was no abortion or drugs for abortion that time neither yahoo boys or girls. But now this attitude of new generation have change alot of things in human life, to me..o i have to test before i marry.

Purity or Nothing Global Movement*
DAILY PURITY DIGEST

Date: *14th February 2026*

Topic: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day

Scripture:
"But at the beginning of creation God 'made them male and female.' 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.'" - Mark 10:6-8

*THE PURE WORD*

Truthfully, romantic relationship with the opposite gender has placed many young folks into terrible issues that has left terrible indelible scars on a lot of them; while some have been unfortunately sent directly or indirectly to their early graves by these sweet-turned-sour affairs.

The main reason young people will keep having unpleasant experiences from boyfriend and girlfriend romantic relationships is because what they are doing was never in the original Will and Plan of God - the Wise Creator of everything, in the first place.

The Will of God is that when a man (not a boy) has attained a certain stature where marriage can be embraced, (after such a man has discovered his identity and purpose on earth), He (God) should be approached to provide a woman (not a girl) who will become his wife. After God has provided the woman, prior to marriage, the couple embark on what we call courtship, where they learn to know more about themselves (in an attempt to make necessary adjustments before they tie the knot), and must not defile the marriage bed during the courting period (that is, must not indulge in premarital sex).

Anything contrary to this perfect Will of God always bring heartaches, headaches and 'soul-aches'.

So, what should happen when your boyfriend/girlfriend is disturbing you for sex? Number one, realise the relationship is built on a wrong foundation and retrace your steps immediately by dissolving such relationship and breaking every connection and ties (physical, emotional, spiritual, etc).

Then, go back to the root by making peace with God and finding your identity in Him. You must make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior before anything else. If you have not discovered your true identity and purpose (which can only be known through Faith in Jesus Christ), you shouldn't complicate your life with a romantic relationship

So, if you are yet to make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior, or you are backsliden already, simply ask Him for forgiveness of sins, and say "Lord, have mercy on me".

This will get your eyes opened, and you will realize that you are destined to be a Royal Priesthood: a king and a priest meant to rule the earth through power gotten via an eternal relationship with God

That is, you are meant to have dominion over everything - dominion and control over your sexual urges, over fornication, over poverty, over sin, etc. You won't do what true Royals won't do - you won't defile yourself with illegal and illicit actions, for reputation sake. Since it is illegal and illicit as a child of God to have sex before marriage, you should flee anyone trying to lure you into such.

Remember, many guys and ladies out there luring others into sexual immorality, are not ordinary humans. They are terrible witches and wizards, evil people from the marine kingdom, possessed with demonic spirits and have diabolical powers. They are beautiful and handsome in appearance, and they have an innocent outlook - so they could easily lure preys into the trap of everlasting anguish and despair. Your boyfriend or girlfriend is likely one of them! Run! Save your life and destiny!

Run into the waiting arms of Christ!

*Confession:*
I acknowledge that sex is a sacred act, designed by God for divine purposes. By His grace, I will honor and uphold its sanctity. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.[/quote]

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by MaxInDHouse(m): 4:03pm On Feb 14

Kalulu44:
Both your spiritual and physical analysis makes no sense. They're many people out there who have live to the fullest of their lives who s*x with different partners didn't affect their destinies and long life. Make una leave all these cock and bull stories.
Elon Musk, Dangote, Obj, IBB, Davido, Wizkid and millions out there are example of people who have slept with multiple partners and yet still successful and aging gracefully.

I know most people hate to hear anything from someone who believes in God but at times it's good to reason with ourselves, i don't believe in destiny too.

Perhaps you will apply the same logic and tell the World Health Organization (WHO)

"There are many change smokers who are aging gracefully, so the idea that smokers are liable to die young is a lie"

Or you could as well say

"Many AS got married to AS and they had who children are sound in health"

Note that i'm not talking from religious point of view rather i'm talking from the SCIENTIFIC POINT OF VIEW.

So i'm not interested in whatever you think about God or religion rather i'm for health in general many rich people are living with STDs and looking healthy because they can bear the cost and others may have the inborn genetic strength to withstand many things just as some smokers would live long but it's been scientifically proven that smokers who lived up to 80/90 could have live longer if they weren't smokers at all.🙂

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Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by Kalulu44: 4:13pm On Feb 14

MaxInDHouse:
I know most people hate to hear anything from someone who believes in God but at times it's good to reason with ourselves, i don't believe in destiny too.

Perhaps you will apply the same logic and tell the World Health Organization (WHO)

"There are many change smokers who are aging gracefully, so the idea that smokers are liable to die young is a lie"

Or you could as well say

"Many AS got married to AS and they had who children are sound in health"

Note that i'm not talking from religious point of view rather i'm talking from the SCIENTIFIC POINT OF VIEW.

So i'm not interested in whatever you think about God or religion rather i'm for health in general many rich people are living with STDs and looking healthy because they can bear the cost and others may have the inborn genetic strength to withstand many things just as some smokers would live long but it's been scientifically proven that smokers who lived up to 80/90 could have live longer if they weren't smokers at all.🙂

Hahahaha, live longer like up to 120-150. You too wouldn't want that.
Anyways I get your perspective, I thought it's those perspective of s*x with anyhow person will cause you misfortune, that was why I brought up those richmen analysis.
If it's about diseases and STDs, that one day but can also be contracted by someone who did it with just one person

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by MaxInDHouse(m): 4:28pm On Feb 14

Kalulu44:
Hahahaha, live longer like up to 120-150. You too wouldn't want that.
Anyways I get your perspective, I thought it's those perspective of s*x with anyhow person will cause you misfortune, that was why I brought up those richmen analysis.
If it's about diseases and STDs, that one day but can also be contracted by someone who did it with just one person.

Of course it could also happen with one person but what we are saying now is if both of them remain chaste and focused on each other all such would be prevented.
If i'm able to live forever i will really really appreciate it and that's the reason for my faith in what God purposed for mankind! John 3:16

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by Kalulu44: 4:31pm On Feb 14

MaxInDHouse:
Of course it could also happen with one person but what we are saying now is if both of them remain chaste and focused on each other all such would be prevented.
If i'm able to live forever i will really really appreciate it and that's the reason for my faith in what God purposed for mankind! John 3:16

Hahahaha, don't pray to live forever. Unless your forever means you will continue to be just as you're now.
Cus old age no be joke o, you go even hate yourself

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by MaxInDHouse(m): 4:38pm On Feb 14

Kalulu44:
Hahahaha, don't pray to live forever. Unless your forever means you will continue to be just as you're now.
Cus old age no be joke o, you go even hate yourself.

When we talk about living forever it's not the way people are living now though you won't buy it since you don't believe in the Bible but what the Bible says is that Adam and Eve were created to live as youths forever so oldage and death wasn't part of the plan!🙂

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by DextrousD: 5:26pm On Feb 14

PurityOrNothing:
*Purity or Nothing Global Movement*
DAILY PURITY DIGEST

Date: *14th February 2026*

Topic: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day

Scripture:
"But at the beginning of creation God 'made them male and female.' 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.'" - Mark 10:6-8

*THE PURE WORD*

Truthfully, romantic relationship with the opposite gender has placed many young folks into terrible issues that has left terrible indelible scars on a lot of them; while some have been unfortunately sent directly or indirectly to their early graves by these sweet-turned-sour affairs.

The main reason young people will keep having unpleasant experiences from boyfriend and girlfriend romantic relationships is because what they are doing was never in the original Will and Plan of God - the Wise Creator of everything, in the first place.

The Will of God is that when a man (not a boy) has attained a certain stature where marriage can be embraced, (after such a man has discovered his identity and purpose on earth), He (God) should be approached to provide a woman (not a girl) who will become his wife. After God has provided the woman, prior to marriage, the couple embark on what we call courtship, where they learn to know more about themselves (in an attempt to make necessary adjustments before they tie the knot), and must not defile the marriage bed during the courting period (that is, must not indulge in premarital sex).

Anything contrary to this perfect Will of God always bring heartaches, headaches and 'soul-aches'.

So, what should happen when your boyfriend/girlfriend is disturbing you for sex? Number one, realise the relationship is built on a wrong foundation and retrace your steps immediately by dissolving such relationship and breaking every connection and ties (physical, emotional, spiritual, etc).

Then, go back to the root by making peace with God and finding your identity in Him. You must make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior before anything else. If you have not discovered your true identity and purpose (which can only be known through Faith in Jesus Christ), you shouldn't complicate your life with a romantic relationship

So, if you are yet to make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior, or you are backsliden already, simply ask Him for forgiveness of sins, and say "Lord, have mercy on me".

This will get your eyes opened, and you will realize that you are destined to be a Royal Priesthood: a king and a priest meant to rule the earth through power gotten via an eternal relationship with God

That is, you are meant to have dominion over everything - dominion and control over your sexual urges, over fornication, over poverty, over sin, etc. You won't do what true Royals won't do - you won't defile yourself with illegal and illicit actions, for reputation sake. Since it is illegal and illicit as a child of God to have sex before marriage, you should flee anyone trying to lure you into such.

Remember, many guys and ladies out there luring others into sexual immorality, are not ordinary humans. They are terrible witches and wizards, evil people from the marine kingdom, possessed with demonic spirits and have diabolical powers. They are beautiful and handsome in appearance, and they have an innocent outlook - so they could easily lure preys into the trap of everlasting anguish and despair. Your boyfriend or girlfriend is likely one of them! Run! Save your life and destiny!

Run into the waiting arms of Christ!

*Confession:*
I acknowledge that sex is a sacred act, designed by God for divine purposes. By His grace, I will honor and uphold its sanctity. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

Thank you for this accurate message sir.

God bless

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by olamilekan1715(m): 5:32pm On Feb 14

God we increase your inner wisdom and knowledge in Jesus name AMEN.

PurityOrNothing:
*Purity or Nothing Global Movement*
DAILY PURITY DIGEST

Date: *14th February 2026*

Topic: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day

Scripture:
"But at the beginning of creation God 'made them male and female.' 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.'" - Mark 10:6-8

*THE PURE WORD*

Truthfully, romantic relationship with the opposite gender has placed many young folks into terrible issues that has left terrible indelible scars on a lot of them; while some have been unfortunately sent directly or indirectly to their early graves by these sweet-turned-sour affairs.

The main reason young people will keep having unpleasant experiences from boyfriend and girlfriend romantic relationships is because what they are doing was never in the original Will and Plan of God - the Wise Creator of everything, in the first place.

The Will of God is that when a man (not a boy) has attained a certain stature where marriage can be embraced, (after such a man has discovered his identity and purpose on earth), He (God) should be approached to provide a woman (not a girl) who will become his wife. After God has provided the woman, prior to marriage, the couple embark on what we call courtship, where they learn to know more about themselves (in an attempt to make necessary adjustments before they tie the knot), and must not defile the marriage bed during the courting period (that is, must not indulge in premarital sex).

Anything contrary to this perfect Will of God always bring heartaches, headaches and 'soul-aches'.

So, what should happen when your boyfriend/girlfriend is disturbing you for sex? Number one, realise the relationship is built on a wrong foundation and retrace your steps immediately by dissolving such relationship and breaking every connection and ties (physical, emotional, spiritual, etc).

Then, go back to the root by making peace with God and finding your identity in Him. You must make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior before anything else. If you have not discovered your true identity and purpose (which can only be known through Faith in Jesus Christ), you shouldn't complicate your life with a romantic relationship

So, if you are yet to make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior, or you are backsliden already, simply ask Him for forgiveness of sins, and say "Lord, have mercy on me".

This will get your eyes opened, and you will realize that you are destined to be a Royal Priesthood: a king and a priest meant to rule the earth through power gotten via an eternal relationship with God

That is, you are meant to have dominion over everything - dominion and control over your sexual urges, over fornication, over poverty, over sin, etc. You won't do what true Royals won't do - you won't defile yourself with illegal and illicit actions, for reputation sake. Since it is illegal and illicit as a child of God to have sex before marriage, you should flee anyone trying to lure you into such.

Remember, many guys and ladies out there luring others into sexual immorality, are not ordinary humans. They are terrible witches and wizards, evil people from the marine kingdom, possessed with demonic spirits and have diabolical powers. They are beautiful and handsome in appearance, and they have an innocent outlook - so they could easily lure preys into the trap of everlasting anguish and despair. Your boyfriend or girlfriend is likely one of them! Run! Save your life and destiny!

Run into the waiting arms of Christ!

*Confession:*
I acknowledge that sex is a sacred act, designed by God for divine purposes. By His grace, I will honor and uphold its sanctity. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by Cheapfoodstuff: 5:59pm On Feb 14

oluwaseunamos33:
share gift to pple in need

what of those in need of gift of sex

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by okerekingsley90: 8:53pm On Feb 14

Kalulu44:
Abeg comot here if you want to bring in Bible bulshit and balderdash.
Why is the indulging in sex with just anyone not affecting the lives and destiny of Davido, Wizkid, Dangote, Elon Musk and co. Abi na only poor people the s*x dey affect their destinies

Abeg the bros don answer you? grin

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by Kalulu44: 9:18pm On Feb 14

okerekingsley90:
K

Abeg the bros don answer you?

For where

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by themanderon: 2:43pm On Feb 15

AllBlack:
No be only marine kingdom. Na Desert kingdom.

How old are you? even in the next ten years you will still be talking TALES BY MOONLIGHT

The things of God is foolishness to them that perish. You will meet your maker someday whether you like it or not.

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by themanderon: 2:44pm On Feb 15

geoworldedu:
Archaic belief.

Archaic? The devil has utterly blinded you. You will find out soon enough.

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by AllBlack: 4:59pm On Feb 15

themanderon:
The things of God is foolishness to them that perish. You will meet your maker someday whether you like it or not.

And when I meet him/her wetin go happen?

Will he/she tell me the cure for cancer or simply continue to allow human race suffer?

will he tell me why there is so much evil in the world?

what exactly will happen?

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by MaxInDHouse(m): 5:18pm On Feb 15

AllBlack:
And when I meet him/her wetin go happen?
Will he/she tell me the cure for cancer or simply continue to allow human race suffer?
will he tell me why there is so much evil in the world?
what exactly will happen?

The highlighted has been answered in a satisfying way if you care really to know.

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by AllBlack: 6:42pm On Feb 15

MaxInDHouse:
The highlighted has been answered in a satisfying way if you care really to know.

How about other questions I asked abi na selective answers dey your hand?

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by MaxInDHouse(m): 7:10pm On Feb 15

AllBlack:
How about other questions I asked abi na selective answers dey your hand?

AllBlack:
And when I meet him/her wetin go happen?

You can't meet the Bible God if you are not qualified for Paradise so don't worry about meeting Him.

AllBlack:
Will he/she tell me the cure for cancer or simply continue to allow human race suffer?

Sickness came as a result of mankind's rebellion so when the Bible God begins to apply the benefits of Christ's ransom sacrifice no one will be sick again! Isaiah 34:24

AllBlack:
what exactly will happen?

Only those qualified for Paradise should be thinking of what will happen, as for all those who don't bother about Him the Bible God doesn't have any business with them! Psalms 9:11

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by themanderon: 8:04pm On Feb 15

AllBlack:
And when I meet him/her wetin go happen?

Will he/she tell me the cure for cancer or simply continue to allow human race suffer?

will he tell me why there is so much evil in the world?

what exactly will happen?

You will find out soon enough.

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by AllBlack: 1:46am On Feb 16

MaxInDHouse:
You can't meet the Bible God if you are not qualified for Paradise so don't worry about meeting Him.

Na you be GOD wey everybody dey talk about?

such a shallow and narrow minded child trying to use the FEAR FACTOR by all means.

Class captain of heaven. How are you doing?

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by AllBlack: 1:47am On Feb 16

themanderon:
You will find out soon enough.

And you can't tell me? Shame.

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by MaxInDHouse(m): 6:59am On Feb 16*

AllBlack:
Na you be GOD wey everybody dey talk about?
such a shallow and narrow minded child trying to use the FEAR FACTOR by all means.
Class captain of heaven. How are you doing?

I'm just telling you what the Bible God said about people who don't bother about Him.

The wicked will retreat toward the Grave, All the nations who forget God. Psalms 9:17

The Bible God said all those who don't care about what He has to say will be forgotten so if you don't have anything to do with what God said you need not worry because He has nothing to do with you!🤔

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by AllBlack: 7:54am On Feb 16

MaxInDHouse:
I'm just telling you what the Bible God said about people who don't bother about what Him.

Who or What is the Bible?
Your slave master's hypnosis book?
would you be telling me about the bible if you were born in 3rd dynasty China or 9th century Saudi Arabia?

But here we are in 2026. You were born less than 300 years ago and you think you have the ultimate knowledge and unshakable fact? Eyyah! Chai...

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by MaxInDHouse(m): 8:08am On Feb 16

AllBlack:
Who or What is the Bible?
Your slave master's hypnosis book?
would you be telling me about the bible if you were born in 3rd dynasty China or 9th century Saudi Arabia?
But here we are in 2026. You were born less than 300 years ago and you think you have the ultimate knowledge and unshakable fact? Eyyah! Chai...

If you also have a God in whom you trust please let me know what such a God says about the topic of discussion it doesn't matter how i come in contact with the God of my choice what really matters is how certain i am with what i'm saying.
Meanwhile i have brothers and sisters in all the countries of the world today who have come to know the one and only true God so speak about yours if you have one!🙂

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by CosmoGlitch(m): 9:11am On Feb 16

Some people are mixing love with lust

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by AllBlack: 11:06am On Feb 16

MaxInDHouse:
If you also have a God in whom you trust please let me know

You don taya to pour hell fire threats?

Mr Gate Keeper of the whole bible heaven

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by MaxInDHouse(m): 11:51am On Feb 16*

AllBlack:
You don taya to pour hell fire threats?
Mr Gate Keeper of the whole bible heaven

There is no threat regarding hell all dead people goes there and regarding heaven i'm not going there so if you don't know what the Bible teach ask questions!

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by themanderon: 12:39pm On Feb 16

AllBlack:
And you can't tell me? Shame.

I am not your creator. The one you deny awaits you. Not a question of if but when.

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by AllBlack: 2:29pm On Feb 16

themanderon:
I am not your creator. The one you deny awaits you. Not a question of if but when.

Await me.... so?

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by themanderon: 11:35pm On Feb 16

AllBlack:
Await me.... so?

Till then.

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