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I meet her Monday called her that night
We spoke and immediately she started yelling me about her dad having stroke and she need money to go buy drugs for him...


I told her point blank that I don't spend on girls I haven't slept with.

She wan chop my money just like that
Immediately I told her that she disappear

They want to make rules
But when a guy makes his own rules they complain.

Lol

Sometimes I wonder... If all guys start telling girls this, will girls buckle up and become stronger to fend for, and protect themselves, or they'll break and all become straight-up hores?

I wonder what sort of girls you lot meet that need you to solve their financial problems. And I wonder how you meet them so they think you are their financial problem solvers.

In my dating days, it was men who used to require financial assistance from women. But I suppose I'm talking of school days when women fed you broke men.

As for you, RollinTNDA, perhaps stop chasing baby cats so you don't need to pay for what you get in return. There's girls out there who'd willingly pay you if what you offer is worth it.

May I suggest you try to stop meeting random girls and let them meet and talk to you?

The cannot meet, talk, and still bill you.

badthinds:
Lol

Sometimes I wonder... If all guys start telling girls this, will girls buckle up and become stronger to fend for, and protect themselves, or they'll break and all become straight-up hores?

I was trying to talk sexy to her and she shut it down saying that she really needs money.

I told her.. I don't do free money
I suffer to get my money
I must collect OPUEH before I get involved financially with her

chatinent:
May I suggest you try to stop meeting random girls and let them meet and talk to you?

The cannot meet, talk, and still bill you.

Dey play. Come Lagos fine girl go bill you for street

That guy who used to chant "Nigerian girls are us*less" spoke the truth. They're poor in every aspect of their being.

budaatum:
I wonder what sort of girls you lot meet that need you to solve their financial problems. And I wonder how you meet them so they think you are their financial problem solvers.

In my dating days, it was men who used to require financial assistance from women. But I suppose I'm talking of school days when women fed you broke men.

As for you, RollinTNDA, perhaps stop chasing baby cats so you don't need to pay for what you get in return. There's girls out there who'd willingly pay you if what you offer is worth it.

My brother in this present day, no girl is ready to pay you, no matter your worth, it seems all of them are getting advice from one main source on how to deal with men ruthlessly

RollinTNDA:
Dey play. Come Lagos fine girl go bill you for street

That's a good point to notify Yabaleft about a roamer. I mean, if we will secure them from being on the streets.

Besides, I'm in Lagos.

budaatum:
I wonder what sort of girls you lot meet that need you to solve their financial problems. And I wonder how you meet them so they think you are their financial problem solvers.

In my dating days, it was men who used to require financial assistance from women. But I suppose I'm talking of school days when women fed you broke men.

As for you, RollinTNDA, perhaps stop chasing baby cats so you don't need to pay for what you get in return. There's girls out there who'd willingly pay you if what you offer is worth it.

Dey play

He be like na YK u dey...

budaatum:
I wonder what sort of girls you lot meet that need you to solve their financial problems. And I wonder how you meet them so they think you are their financial problem solvers.

In my dating days, it was men who used to require financial assistance from women. But I suppose I'm talking of school days when women fed you broke men.

As for you, RollinTNDA, perhaps stop chasing baby cats so you don't need to pay for what you get in return. There's girls out there who'd willingly pay you if what you offer is worth it.

Lol. You really are out of touch with today's reality.

RollinTNDA:
I was trying to talk sexy to her and she shut it down saying that she really needs money.

I told her.. I don't do free money
I suffer to get my money
I must collect OPUEH before I get involved financially with her

you did well bro.

RollinTNDA:
Dey play. Come Lagos fine girl go bill you for street

these nairalnders are out of touch with reality. or maybe dem no dey lag. Two possible scenarios

Didn't your mothers bill your fathers before getting down with them?🤔🤔🤔

Samantha125:
Didn't your mother's bill your fathers before getting down with them?🤔🤔🤔

Were you there?

Someone here quoted about meeting random ladies with aimlessly plans for dem. No real idealistic intent on why you need dem. Thats why they are quick to request for your money.

Yea, all ladies request for money, but your purpose and where you approach these women will make them reduce the urgent need to ask for cash, and make you feel at peace.

There are still firm ladies out there.

You're not answering my question... You can't ask a question on top of another question.

Or is it that you lack common sense?🤔🤔🤔

RealityKings1:
Were you there?

Love800:
Someone here quoted about meeting random ladies with aimlessly plans for dem. No real idealistic intent on why you need dem. Thats why they are quick to request for your money.

Yea, all ladies request for money, but your purpose and where you approach these women will make them reduce the urgent need to ask for cash, and make you feel at peace.

There are still firm ladies out there.

A woman on survival mode is not suddenly going to have dignity and stop begging because you have good intentions.

Tenrack:
Lol. You really are out of touch with today's reality.

I think I am out of touch with your own reality because your reality is not just mine. I'm after all not a woman in survival mode, as someone has referred to such women, and can very easily stand on my feet and dip my hands in my purse for my own financial needs.

I think it's more to do with the [i]un[/i]education that you lot (both males and females) get today. It doesn't empower you to sweat for your daily bread, so many of you end up grafting however can can with whatever you have, and selling baby cats is all some have, especially if not educated at all.

I just hope your generation does not make the same mistake, and instead educate your daughters so they don't end up having to put food on their table by selling the kittens between their legs.

nnamdi640:
My brother in this present day, no girl is ready to pay you, no matter your worth, it seems all of them are getting advice from one main source on how to deal with men ruthlessly

this is the best comment so far bro

budaatum:
I think I am out of touch with your own reality because your reality is not just mine. I'm after all not a woman in survival mode, as someone has referred to such women, and can very easily stand on my feet and dip my hands in my purse for my own financial needs.

I think it's more to do with the [i]un[/i]education that you lot (both males and females) get today. It doesn't empower you to sweat for your daily bread, so many of you end up grafting however can can with whatever you have, and selling baby cats is all some have, especially if not educated at all.

I just hope your generation does not make the same mistake, and instead educate your daughters so they don't end up having to put food on their table by selling the kittens between their legs.

prove what you have said by watering my signature with a small something

yemiike:
prove what you have said by watering my signature with a small something

I do not need to prove anything to you, and definitely not by allowing myself to be scammed by you!

budaatum:
I think I am out of touch with your own reality because your reality is not just mine. I'm after all not a woman in survival mode, as someone has referred to such women, and can very easily stand on my feet and dip my hands in my purse for my own financial needs.

I think it's more to do with the [i]un[/i]education that you lot (both males and females) get today. It doesn't empower you to sweat for your daily bread, so many of you end up grafting however can can with whatever you have, and selling baby cats is all some have, especially if not educated at all.

I just hope your generation does not make the same mistake, and instead educate your daughters so they don't end up having to put food on their table by selling the kittens between their legs.

are you blaming me for the failures of the girl children parents? How is it my fault that over 80 percent of women in Lagos today between the ages of 19-29 cannot fend for themselves without bothering one poor guy somewhere.

How is it possible that you're blaming me for this? 😂

Tenrack:
are you blaming me for the failures of the girl children parents? How is it my fault that over 80 percent of women in Lagos today between the ages of 19-29 cannot fend for themselves without bothering one poor guy somewhere.

How is it possible that you're blaming me for this? 😂

I am blaming the parents of the girl (and boy) children who don't educate and bring their own children up well to stand on their own feet so they need not bother others for their daily bread.

And I am hoping you are not one of such useless parents, and will instead be a parent who brings up your own children well.

The belows might help.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e3Nhoij_Ogo?si=JrbMYyaKnBDitrQd

budaatum:
I do not need to prove anything to you, and definitely not by allowing myself to be scammed by you!

how is this a scam?
You just proved that u r normL nigerian girl relying on men for survival

budaatum:
I am blaming the parents of the girl (and boy) children who don't educate and bring their own children up well to stand on their own feet so they need not bother others for their daily bread.

And I am hoping you are not one of such useless parents, and will instead be a parent who brings up your own children well.

The belows might help.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e3Nhoij_Ogo?si=JrbMYyaKnBDitrQd

don't worry about me. I don't even got a woman in my life cause I don't think I'm bouyant enough to carry extra responsibility. And you can trust me to give my child the best that's if I eventually have any.

Your structured intentions will stop her taste to want to extort you.
When she see that you are not for a one-night stand and not headlessly chasing her, she will maintain a nice status.

ReacherSaidNoth:
A woman on survival mode is not suddenly going to have dignity and stop begging because you have good intentions.

You cannot avoid billing. Learn to say no to the billing.

nnamdi640:
My brother in this present day, no girl is ready to pay you, no matter your worth, it seems all of them are getting advice from one main source on how to deal with men ruthlessly

no mind that okoko