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"Zimbabwe Women Have Taken All Our Men In The UK" - Nigerian Lady Låments

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A UK-based Nigerian lady has taken to social media to express her concern about how Zimbabwean women are increasingly attracting and entering serious relationships with Nigerian men in the UK.

According to her, almost every Zimbabwean woman she has met in the UK has openly confessed to being in a committed or serious relationship with a Nigerian man. This observation has deeply tr○vbled her and prompted her to question Nigerian men directly: Why are they choosing Zimbabwean women over their fellow Nigerian women?

She went on to praise Nigerian men, describing them as some of the best when it comes to fulfilling responsibilities, providing for their partners, and taking care of family duties. In her view, it feels unfair and dis4ppointing for them to "choose outsiders" instead of supporting and building with Nigerian women, who she believes possess all the desirable qualities, such as beauty, intelligence, resilience, cultural compatibility, and strong family values.

Her post has sparked discussions online, with some people debating cultural differences, attitudes in relationships abroad, and perceptions of loyalty or homemaking between the two groups of women. Others argue that love and compatibility are personal choices that transcend nationality, and that such trends simply reflect individual preferences in the diaspora rather than a deliberate rejection of anyone.

Ladies, gentlemen, I may have to urgently travel to Zimbabwe to verify something

https://www.facebook.com/share/18GcnPngAt/


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Dont sweat it.

The Nigerian guys u underrate and complain about is appreciated by Zimbabwean babes.

Balance the equation.
E fit be say the Zimb babes do not appreciate their men too. So there's an opening for you.

In that same UK. Look for Zimb guys, click and connect.

Some Nigerian woman and taking responsibility be like opposite terms wey nor dey attract.

Now na to blame the Zimbabwe women abi; maybe na una attitude towards una fellow country men make dey go dey follow the Z-babes.

Nigerian men are choosing peace of mind over truck load of wahala that were privileged to find themselves abroad.

But I'm curious, how do you guys cope with the culture shocks that come with transnational marriages?

Samantha125:
But I'm curious, how do you guys cope with the culture shocks that come with transnational marriages?

I think we are built to adapt to any situation or change

Then come back home, look for a home base and click. And remember to take him along abroad.

I'm also in an intercultural or should I say transnational marriage of some sort, because my husband is originally from Lesotho, but grew up here in SA... My tribe and his tribe are somehow closely related, so it wasn't a big deal for me.

But I'm not gonna lie, I somehow tend to feel threatened by those ladies from Lesotho... ... I don't even care about SA Sotho ladies, it's always those ones from Lesotho that are giving me sleepless nights whenever I think about them... Those ladies are beautiful...🤦🤦🤦... We recently moved to a predominantly Basotho territory and now I can't even differentiate between who's a South African Sotho and who's from Lesotho, only they can differentiate each other...😭😭😭

Nnamdipapa:
I think we are built to adapt to any situation or change

I got into inter tribal marriage for a reason, it's fun.


My wife is now learning my language while I also understand hers to some extent.

If the Zimbabwean women are after Nigerian men, Nigerian women should go for Zimbabwean men. Chikina!

Nnamdipapa:
"Zimbabwe Women Have Taken All Our Men In The UK" - Nigerian Lady Låments

A UK-based Nigerian lady has taken to social media to express her concern about how Zimbabwean women are increasingly attracting and entering serious relationships with Nigerian men in the UK.

According to her, almost every Zimbabwean woman she has met in the UK has openly confessed to being in a committed or serious relationship with a Nigerian man. This observation has deeply tr○vbled her and prompted her to question Nigerian men directly: Why are they choosing Zimbabwean women over their fellow Nigerian women?

She went on to praise Nigerian men, describing them as some of the best when it comes to fulfilling responsibilities, providing for their partners, and taking care of family duties. In her view, it feels unfair and dis4ppointing for them to "choose outsiders" instead of supporting and building with Nigerian women, who she believes possess all the desirable qualities, such as beauty, intelligence, resilience, cultural compatibility, and strong family values.

Her post has sparked discussions online, with some people debating cultural differences, attitudes in relationships abroad, and perceptions of loyalty or homemaking between the two groups of women. Others argue that love and compatibility are personal choices that transcend nationality, and that such trends simply reflect individual preferences in the diaspora rather than a deliberate rejection of anyone.

Ladies, gentlemen, I may have to urgently travel to Zimbabwe to verify something

https://www.facebook.com/share/18GcnPngAt/

How many Nigerian women abroad shower their men with gifts and genuinely show care without feeling entitled or setting very high standards and expecting the man to meet it.

Why won't a man go for a Zimbabwean that will give peace of mind, contributes to his life emotionally and financially without creating unnecessary standards? Men need peace and Zimbabwean ladies give it. These Nigerian ladies should try other men from other countries, then they will get to understand what they lost.

Zimbabwe men are not regarded by there women atall...there women see them as lazy with no drive for success while on the other hand an average 9ja man got the drive to hustle and hunt for success.

edogu:
If the Zimbabwe women are after Nigerian men, Nigerian women should go for Zimbabwe men. Chikina!

Best thing to do.

Natbrowny:
Dont sweat it.

The Nigerian guys u underrate and complain about is appreciated by Zimbabwean babes.

Balance the equation.
E fit be say the Zimb babes do not appreciate their men too. So there's an opening for you.

In that same UK. Look for Zimb guys, click and connect.

Renewed shege for Nigerian girls if they go by your logic and try Zimbabwe men

Zimbabwean women respect men.

They are mostly respectful of Nigerian men, because of their enterprise.

On top, they come get big bakassi.

Make una continue to dey fight your men for yonder.

Flangelo12:
Zimbabwean women respect men.

They are mostly respectful of Nigerian men, because of their enterprise.

On top, they come get big bakassi.

Make una continue to dey fight your men for yonder.

Its because most naija women are no nicer than demons. Once they are abroad with u if they dont report u to police or cheat, they will accuse u of rape or wife battery and make u regret even meeting them. Let them stay single

As una turn relationship to poverty alliviation scheme,while won't they run? Na Cape Verde me dey port go pick one like this.. Una mind go dey .. Make una go marry alhaji or una sugar daddy that can take care of una very well. Confused molda 4 cars

Samantha125:
But I'm curious, how do you guys cope with the culture shocks that come with transnational marriages?

What is culture shock compared to Love? The equation is like 90/10 in favour of love

kenuoyibo:
Its because most naija women are no nicer than demons. Once they are abroad with u if they dont report u to police or cheat, they will accuse u of rape or wife battery and make u regret even meeting them. Let them stay single

Even devil dey fear Naija ladies

When my younger brother was in the UK for about a year, and retirned for a short rest, he complained that Nigerian women love money.

That was when i knew he would marry a foreigner.

My older beother who has been there since his teenage years complained that our women were always sizing him up. He eventually married a Turk. She herself admitted she married him when he was a pauper. There were times they didnt have money to buy bread.

Now they are living well.

Zambian women are taught from young ages how to be wives. I believe Zimbabwean ones will have a similar culture. Nigerian women learn from each other how to treat men. Home based men settle for anything so far kpekus is offered occasionally. Outside our shores, there is variety. Our men won’t settle, they will seek the best. She will learn with time.

Ìṣele ni ọ rú wọn dé ìta.
Charity begins at home

lionphil:
How many Nigerian women abroad shower their men with gifts and genuinely show care without feeling entitled or setting very high standards and expecting the man to meet it.

Why won't a man go for a Zimbabwean that will give peace of mind, contributes to his life emotionally and financially without creating unnecessary standards? Men need peace and Zimbabwean ladies give it. These Nigerian ladies should try other men from other countries, then they will get to understand what they lost.

I watched a video some hours ago last night where a Southern African national (I suspect he might be Zimbabwean) and a Nigerian discuss the attitude of West African ladies especially Nigeria and Ghana and in all honesty, they too are tired of the annoying behaviors of our ladies.

Nigerian women that like to measure shoulder with men.

When I look nigerian women, I observed that maybe most of them don't like being a woman.

Always angry for nothing

Nigerian women wey dey evict their husbands for UK anyhow.
They go just call police,give flimsy excuses that will make you look as a bad guy, next thing you know, the police don evict you from the house, even if na you get the the house.
Men prefer peace of mind.

Bendeco02:
Nigerian women that like to measure shoulder with men.

When I look nigerian women, I observed that maybe most of them don't like being a woman

Always angry for nothing

Lol... It's funny but not far from the truth

The level of misbehavior of Nigerian women to their husbands is horrible. Almost every man out there is managing their wives. Sad thing is that they gave up so much to come to the UK hence, they are mindful of decisions that will rock the boat.
Sadly infidelity isn't something I encourage but you will weep for men when they tell you their stories.

Most Nigerian men in the UK are almost like glorified house help. They isn't anything you do for the unreasonable Nigerian wife that is enough. The more you do, the more they demand from you.

Love alone doesn't build a successful relationship or marriage.

Emdi1914:
What is culture shock compared to Love? The equation is like 90/10 in favour of love

Nigeria ladies are no different from those busy body white women that love to trouble their husband and call the police on the father of their children.
Zim and Uganda women aren't brainwashed by hateful zombist feminist lots

Gotocourt:
Even devil dey fear Naija ladies

Nah only Nigeria men fit handle them. Apart from naija men. Which other country men dey talk about naija women value? None.
Same in western countries. Those whites are tired of their women. Their rush to assian countries and even africa to marry a wife is on the rise

Our men ma foot

Nnamdipapa:
"Zimbabwe Women Have Taken All Our Men In The UK" - Nigerian Lady Låments

A UK-based Nigerian lady has taken to social media to express her concern about how Zimbabwean women are increasingly attracting and entering serious relationships with Nigerian men in the UK.

According to her, almost every Zimbabwean woman she has met in the UK has openly confessed to being in a committed or serious relationship with a Nigerian man. This observation has deeply tr○vbled her and prompted her to question Nigerian men directly: Why are they choosing Zimbabwean women over their fellow Nigerian women?

She went on to praise Nigerian men, describing them as some of the best when it comes to fulfilling responsibilities, providing for their partners, and taking care of family duties. In her view, it feels unfair and dis4ppointing for them to "choose outsiders" instead of supporting and building with Nigerian women, who she believes possess all the desirable qualities, such as beauty, intelligence, resilience, cultural compatibility, and strong family values.

Her post has sparked discussions online, with some people debating cultural differences, attitudes in relationships abroad, and perceptions of loyalty or homemaking between the two groups of women. Others argue that love and compatibility are personal choices that transcend nationality, and that such trends simply reflect individual preferences in the diaspora rather than a deliberate rejection of anyone.

Ladies, gentlemen, I may have to urgently travel to Zimbabwe to verify something

https://www.facebook.com/share/18GcnPngAt/

what do Nigerian women need men for exactly? I thought you guys said you will choose bear over men.
We don't need no woman who don't knw our value