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Hello everyone, how is your day going.Trust you are doing well.
There is this girl am dating, she doesn't listen to corrections.She likes to argue,likes attention and she has anger issues but she cools down after sometimes and starts trying to please me.
Well she is very jealous.When we argue, she will be like "I am tired of this relationship,i will leave bla bla bla"but she never leaves.There was even a time I distance myself from her so that she can leave but she never does.She stalked me everywhere then.Though i dont see any sign she is cheating.
Anytime she sees me with a lady, she is always jealous and hot tempered (something Yoruba calls Ara gbigbona) and she will try her possible best to be humble to me and use bad eyes to look at the other lady and sometimes challenge the other lady (I don't know if you get what i mean) She is a Leo by zodiac sign and she is very smart
Well I have two girls as a serious replacement for her already if her cup don full
The reason why I am still considering her is because she is hard working and she doesn't ask me for money or bill me.We are both bankers but mine is zenith and her's is Eco bank.She has this hard working spirit and she likes to share to.She is open as well, she doesn't hide anything from me

Release her or you would regret it in future.

Advise her on the necessity of change in behavior and even suggest a therapy sessions.
If she reacts negatively to these suggestions, and flares up, just know that you can never handle a cobra with bare hands if you still love your life.
Being hardworking and sharing are useless if she's extremely hot tempered and jealous.
Jealousy and anger in one body is as lethal as the tetrodoxin in the extremely venomous bite of the blue ringed octopus.
It's great that you have serious potential replacements for her.

that is a sign
that she truly cares for you!

Onyiiobi7735:
Advise her on the necessity of change in behavior and even suggest a therapy sessions.
If she reacts negatively to these suggestions, and flares up, just know that you can never handle a cobra with bare hands if you still love your life.
Being hardworking and sharing are useless if she's extremely hot tempered and jealous.
Jealousy and anger in one body is as lethal as the tetrodoxin in the extremely venomous bite of the blue ringed octopus.
It's great that you have serious potential replacements for her.

Hmmm thanks for this

muyico:
that is a sign
that she truly cares for you!

Don't believe that.

She's erratic and jealous.

A bad combination.

She'll reveal her worst part at the worst moment.

muyico:
that is a sign
that she truly cares for you!

Really

Flangelo12:
Don't believe that.

She's erratic and jealous.

A bad combination.

She'll reveal her worst part at the worst moment.

As in ehn

You are welcome

Solofresh2:
Hmmm thanks for this

farano,Rotation,dominique please I need more opinions on this matter
It's serious for my future

Jealous woman is like 5&6
Avoid them like plague
Run for your dear life

Hope you hear about a woman that Kai her 3 children and herself just that she is suspecting her husband was charting

Better run for your peace and mental health!!!!!!!

That's not love but control

Send me her phone number I want to ask her something

It appears her age is fast advancing and she sees you as possibly her last hope to get married, please end the relationship now if you have no intention of getting married to her

That's the only way to keep her on her toes. Don't rub it on her face though.

There's no genuine love without jealousy. If you like,listen to those sadists up there and lose the one who truly love you . You say you have two others as her replacement already but don't worry, by the time this your current girlfriend finally leaves you,na then you go realize say na cray fish full inside the same sea wey you think say many fishes be dey back then

Sonnobax15:

There's no genuine love without jealousy. If you like,listen to those sadists up there and lose the one who truly love you . You say you have two others as her replacement already but don't worry, by the time this your current girlfriend finally leaves you,na then you go realize say na cray fish full inside the same sea wey you think say many fishes be dey back then

Sonnobax, e be like say you chop your favourite food this afternoon; you come make sense for here.

she genuinely loves you that's why she's jealous when she sees you with another lady, and it's like you have wandering eyes since you already have two replacements let her go you don't love and deserve her.

Flangelo12:
Release her or you would regret it in future.

Most adults are yet to find a closure to their childhood trauma and they carry their burden on their significant other in relationships 💔

Sonnobax15:

There's no genuine love without jealousy. If you like,listen to those sadists up there and lose the one who truly love you . You say you have two others as her replacement already but don't worry, by the time this your current girlfriend finally leaves you,na then you go realize say na cray fish full inside the same sea wey you think say many fishes be dey back then

My elder sister have actually told me she noticed that this my babe really likes me oo.Even my friend.My family knows her as my girl to a fault.But this argument and temperament of a a thing ehn.She will now later apologize and try to please me after keeping calm.
For the jealousy part, I will learn handle it.
What actually feels special about her to me is that, this girl has never billed me for once.I do buys things for her when I feel like.She doesn't hide things from me, She dey even posts pics wey we snap together for her whatsapp status sometimes.I go come dey wonder

Paige001:
she genuinely loves you that's why she's jealous when she sees you with another lady, and it's like you have wandering eyes since you already have two replacements let her go you don't love and deserve her.

I don't take the other two girls serious though and even my own sister have confirmed it that she actually loves me
I will sort things out with her

Solofresh2:
She is a Leo by zodiac sign

What's your own Sun sign?

Karlifate:
What's your own Sun sign?

Am Taurus
The 🐂

Same way you will feel if you see her with another guy

Solofresh2:
Hello everyone, how is your day going.Trust you are doing well.
There is this girl am dating, she doesn't listen to corrections.She likes to argue,likes attention and she has anger issues but she cools down after sometimes and starts trying to please me.
Well she is very jealous.When we argue, she will be like "I am tired of this relationship,i will leave bla bla bla"but she never leaves.There was even a time I distance myself from her so that she can leave but she never does.She stalked me everywhere then.Though i dont see any sign she is cheating.
Anytime she sees me with a lady, she is always jealous and hot tempered (something Yoruba calls Ara gbigbona) and she will try her possible best to be humble to me and use bad eyes to look at the other lady and sometimes challenge the other lady (I don't know if you get what i mean) She is a Leo by zodiac sign and she is very smart
Well I have two girls as a serious replacement for her already if her cup don full
The reason why I am still considering her is because she is hard working and she doesn't ask me for money or bill me.We are both bankers but mine is zenith and her's is Eco bank.She has this hard working spirit and she likes to share to.She is open as well, she doesn't hide anything from me

Anger is a red flag. She might cause you a lot of damage in future.

You are confused and have no bearing