I know of a couple who hav bin married 4 21yrs, der marriage is in turmoil al cos d wife whom afta recently getn a doctorate degree 4rm abroad, got a job wit an oil company and she earns about 100times wat her hubby earns (as in her chedar runs into millions wile dat of her hubby is witn d thousand mark). she started disn d hubby cos she knows his pay is notn compared 2 hers, evn their kids (who r my cousins) dont go 2 their dad 4 money cos dey no dat he wil say no 2 dem, not cos he doesnt hav or cant giv, but cos dey nid d money 4 stupid reasons. Their marriage is hitn rock bottom and my family is kinda worried bout dem and wants 2 intervene since we r family.
ladies i wana know wuld u do d same if u were in my uncles wifes shoes?
Guys wat wuld u do if dis were 2 hapn 2u?
shuld my family intervene?

That's what happens when a woman is given the role of leadership in the family.
She would totally see to it that she ruins that family.


@Topic:
Tell your uncle to go on living his life. But if his wife starts insulting him and he feels he can't take it any more, then he should quit

@ iice
he didnt dis her in any way, he was evn pleased wen he heard she would b bringn in a lot of income 4 d family not knowin he was married 2 a chameleon 4 21yrs, cos she just changed her appearance due 2 unforseen circumstances (the fact dat shes now filthy rich)

@ iice
he didnt dis her in any way, he was evn pleased when he heard she would b bringn in a lot of income 4 d family not knowin he was married 2 a chameleon 4 21yrs, because she just changed her appearance due 2 unforseen circumstances (the fact that shes now filthy rich)

That's what happens when a woman becomes the breadwinner of the family.
She would see to it that she tramples completely on the man.

women.bet things would have been diffrent if it were the other way around

@iice
shes got girlfriends dat she gets advice frm, my family is tinkn dat dey myt b responsible 4 her sudden change in character cos she is closer 2 dem, most especially one hippy lady whose ideals about evrytin is messd up. i evn bliv dat d hippy lady married her hubby 4 money cos does notin but attend socialite parties and events all over d face of dis earth

she needs to remeber that the man is the head of the family and not the money

Its mot money that is her problem its how to manage money that is the problem here. the fact that she got a good job should make their lives sweeter and more peaceful as they wont have to think of what to eat or how much will remain if they buy something they need.The husband should ignore her actions and talk to her about spoiling their kids the way she indulges them even when it is clear they dont use money wisely he should talk to his kids too so that in future they wont blame him for letting then rot in ignorance if they refuse to listen to word themn he should let them be they will realize their folly in future.

Like iicey said, get d most influential person in ur family 2 talk some sense in2 her. . .
Its imperative dat y'all try as much as p'sible 2 keep it within d family. C'ld messy with outsiders involved.

To the thread starter,

who's family do you belong to, the richer wfe or the husband??
If I am guessing you are from the less richer husband's side of the family why should anyone believe that your opinion is not biased? or do you live with them to know the full unadultrated facts??