₦airaland Forum

Samantha125:
All those things you mentioned are determined by emotions.

I shake my head for you.You have a long way to go.

GUNITGuy:
They sometimes behave confused until they meet more beautiful women around you from other countries then they tend to get humbled ... Beautiful women of other countries would walk up to you and greet you ...Naija woman particularly Yoruba women would wait for you to say hi even when they know you all the time ....Until when they get married then they start respecting you again ...
If you've not associated with other women of other countries am not talking of Ghana here ...South Africa, Congolese, Carribeans, Even Black Americans and British you may not know how sweet a womans demeanor is,,,
They would smile at you and you just be gentle no matter your financial standings ...
But naija women would have size you up before she even look your face and your pocket determine the kind of gesture she would give you...

E REMAIN TO BRING OUT CALCULATOR DO FINANCIAL ASSESSMENT BEFORE U GET ONE SMILE. ODIEGWU O

NDI BUY ME GUCCI BAG BEFORE I SMILE

Okay.

Emdi1914:
I shake my head for you.You have a long way to go.

Stephen0mozzy:
Some Nigerian woman and taking responsibility be like opposite terms wey nor dey attract.

Now na to blame the Zimbabwe women abi; maybe na una attitude towards una fellow country men make dey go dey follow the Z-babes.

Nigeria girls only have three colors as there flag

Money , disrespect, feminist,

While Zimbabwe girls be like Zibra
Any how you give how be by you

Samantha125:
Okay.

say ok till next year

Number one get respect
This what every man crave for in his woman

Nigeria women are troubled in one bottle and corked, waiting to explode.
Men no dey find war but Nigeria women are seeking wars.

omooba969:
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You probably have no idea what you're on about bro. Those Congolese and black american women are mostly no go area, you've got to be wary of them.

My 2kobo. ✌️

Thank you. ....but have been with Kenyan, Zimbabwe, Carribean women, even some white women, Indians lol ...You would feel like you're in heaven ....Just

Well, I'm not every man's woman.

bewla:
say ok till next year

Number one get respect
This what every man crave for in his woman

Question she should ask and find answers to is why Nigerian women are the least desired in the world. If a Nigeria woman travels to Europe. The high chance that she will not marry is 95%. The high chance that she will marry a sugar boy is 95%. And the high chance that she will end up with a man below her status due to her old age is 95%.

Samantha125:
The food, language, beliefs, parenting, different cultural upbringings and expectations from each other.

Igbos and Hausas are within the same country and are familiar with each other's cultures.

You may be surprised that Igbos and hausas do not understand each other's cultures and, hardly intermarry.

I was taking a walk today in Lagos and say two individuals talking to each other. The girl was around 15 and in school uniform. The other guy looked like 16, and they were walking by the side of the road.

I overheard the small girl insulting the guy, laughing while calling him " stupid," "idiot' and all kinds of unprintable names.

The kind of aggression of our ladies starts from an early age. They only respect you when they need something from you.

But they do share some cultural similarities in terms of language( Pidgin), food, and socio-economic crisis.

Nnamdipapa:
You may be surprised that Igbos and hausas do not understand each other's cultures and, hardly intermarry.

Cause they know what a man want

Tinyemeka:
What exact culture shock are you talking about? Care to elaborate please?

Would you the same question arise between an Igbo and Hausa relationship?

When I first saw this video early this year, I asked a Zim lady what she thought and her response was that Zim women still maintain traditional values regarding the role of women in a relationship in respecting the views and catering to the needs of a man in a relationship.

A Nigerian guy is looking for peace of mind which the UK ones seem to have found in the Zim ladies (who mostly are reserved/quiet compared to Nigerian ladies), while most of the Zim guys are rough/randy, prowling for white ladies to hook up with.

Honestly, it will be EXTREMELY difficult for a single Naija guy coming to the UK and seeing the options available, to finally settle down with a Nigerian lady. Just God's grace to be honest.

Your post is quite an eye opener.

Why e be say British universities no get plenty of scholarships ni?

A British girl does not do billings. Instead she'll be the one spending on the guy or at least sharing expenses.

A Zim/Kenyan/Ugandan lady is naturally packed front and back and does not see sex as a transactional business like most Nigerian ladies do. Will cook and host the guy proper. All she needs is his love and attention.

Romanians (including some Polish girls) are hunting black guys to sample their bedmatic skills for free, based on stories that they've heard.

And you want a Naija guy to come and be listening to Naija girls with their sense of entitlements and loud talk?

Maybe because they don't view sex in a prudish and sanctimonious manner as we do. Sexually liberal Nigerian ladies are categorised as "ashawo".

In my books, Nigerian men and women fit themselves. They are made for each other (preferably of the same ethnic group).

Samantha125:
But they do share some cultural similarities in terms of language( Pidgin), food, and socio-economic crisis.

The bold is where it stops.

The foods are markedly different. Hausas and Igbos have nothing in common other than being Nigerians. The Hausas who are married to Igbos are mostly, if not all, Christians and as you can see, it's religion related.

Samantha125:
I'm also in an intercultural or should I say transnational marriage of some sort, because my husband is originally from Lesotho, but grew up here in SA... My tribe and his tribe are somehow closely related, so it wasn't a big deal for me.

But I'm not gonna lie, I somehow tend to feel threatened by those ladies from Lesotho... ... I don't even care about SA Sotho ladies, it's always those ones from Lesotho that are giving me sleepless nights whenever I think about them... Those ladies are beautiful...🤦🤦🤦... We recently moved to a predominantly Basotho territory and now I can't even differentiate between who's a South African Sotho and who's from Lesotho, only they can differentiate each other...😭😭😭

Haibooo you can't compete with Lesotho ladies....forget it....

Gerrard59:
The bold is where it stops.

The foods are markedly different. Hausas and Igbos have nothing in common other than being Nigerians. The Hausas who are married to Igbos are mostly, if not all, Christians and as you can see, it's religion related.

I honestly do not know any Igbo married to an Hausa except an igbo individual was born and raised in the north. In the end, religion becomes the biggest deciding factor. I once interacted with a Zimbabwean dude and he sounded like someone from igbo or cross river state. He even spoke Nigerian pidgin English with an Igbo accent. I was shocked when he identified as a Zimbabwean.

Tinyemeka:
What exact culture shock are you talking about? Care to elaborate please?

Would you the same question arise between an Igbo and Hausa relationship?

When I first saw this video early this year, I asked a Zim lady what she thought and her response was that Zim women still maintain traditional values regarding the role of women in a relationship in respecting the views and catering to the needs of a man in a relationship.

A Nigerian guy is looking for peace of mind which the UK ones seem to have found in the Zim ladies (who mostly are reserved/quiet compared to Nigerian ladies), while most of the Zim guys are rough/randy, prowling for white ladies to hook up with.

Honestly, it will be EXTREMELY difficult for a single Naija guy coming to the UK and seeing the options available, to finally settle down with a Nigerian lady. Just God's grace to be honest.

A British girl does not do billings. Instead she'll be the one spending on the guy or at least sharing expenses.

A Zim/Kenyan/Ugandan lady is naturally packed front and back and does not see sex as a transactional business like most Nigerian ladies do. Will cook and host the guy proper. All she needs is his love and attention.

Romanians (including some Polish girls) are hunting black guys to sample their bedmatic skills for free, based on stories that they've heard.

And you want a Naija guy to come and be listening to Naija girls with their sense of entitlements and loud talk?

Na wa o.

You know what I love about Nigerian ladies? All these kind talks don't move them.
Them stand where them stand, agaracha must come back.
Unu fegharichaa, unu efebata.
And come back, y'all must. It is inevitable.

Mariangeles:
You know what I love about Nigerian ladies? All these kind talks don't move them.
Them stand where them stand, agaracha must come back.
Unu fegharichaa, unu efebata.
And come back, y'all must. It is inevitable.

Oskroh no be yer taip wi deh tok

The only biggest obstacle here is your colonial beliefs and nothing more... If you could put those colonial beliefs aside, you'll see that you have a lot more in common than you'd think.

Gerrard59:
The bold is where it stops.

The foods are markedly different. Hausas and Igbos have nothing in common other than being Nigerians. The Hausas who are married to Igbos are mostly, if not all, Christians and as you can see, it's religion related.

Mariangeles:
You know what I love about Nigerian ladies? All these kind talks don't move them.
Them stand where them stand, agaracha must come back.
Unu fegharichaa, unu efebata.
And come back, y'all must. It is inevitable.

Hahahah. I was thinking you ladies would learn a few things from the feedbacks and perhaps try to change. I find our women to be on the masculin and agressive spectrum compared to east or south African ladies. That is sn established fact our ladies need to work on.

Kewtt:
Oskroh no be yer taip wi deh tok

Back to sender!!!

Okay.

Kewtt:
Haibooo you can't compete with Lesotho ladies....forget it....

Mariangeles:
Back to sender!!!

Opiho back to wetin....

At some point it was SA women taking them.
Then they fell out with SA.


Now it is Zimbabwe.

Give it time...

Samantha125:
Okay.

My dear you can't. You simply cannot. Lesotho...those women are something else

Nnamdipapa:
Hahahah. I was thinking you ladies would learn a few things from the feedbacks and perhaps try to change. I find our women to be on the masculin and agressive spectrum compared to east or south African ladies. That is sn established fact our ladies need to work on.

The men determine how their women become.

pocohantas:
At some point it was SA women taking them.
Then they fell out with SA.


Now it is Zimbabwe.

Give it time...

Madam you're "happily" married. Stay out! Or are you searching for side runz

Kewtt:
Opiho back to wetin....

Be gone!!!🔥🔥🔥

Mariangeles:
Be gone!!!🔥🔥🔥

Night nurse forgerrit

pocohantas:
At some point it was SA women taking them.
Then they fell out with SA.


Now it is Zimbabwe.

Give it time...

Admit it that it is paining you that Nigerian mehn are the choicest black men home or abroad!! We are the prize!! Zimbabwe's gain, Naija women's loss. #proudly Nigerian man. #We are kings 👑