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I mean come to think of it, it seems ladies have totally lost interest in online communication in this generation people are all over social media but they are not really communicating or communicating very little, they may jump on trends, make comments but never communicate directly with each other, I remember in the days of 2go people are so eager to chat like crazy, it seems the steam has died down now.

These days I can bet you that if you collect the number of 10 ladies only 2 or 3 will reply you the way you want to be replied , I use to think the women do not chat a guy because they are not interested but I later realised it's not really so because even my girlfriend does the same thing she is so lazy to chat online.

Maybe the world is drifting back to the days of physical communication as online communication is getting boring and emotionless.

Nice observation...


I didn't think of that before. But I don't think communication is reverting to being physical as it used to be previously.


I think communication generally is reducing. More people are withdrawing into their shells and don't waste their communication anyhow. People now only communicate when is absolutely necessary.

So I don't think it's only online but physically too!

brain54:
Nice observation...


I didn't think of that before. But I don't think communication is reverting to being physical as it used to be previously.


I think communication generally is reducing. More people are withdrawing into their shells and don't waste their communication anyhow. People now only communicate when is absolutely necessary.

So I don't think it's only online but physically too!

If that's the case then there is a big problem because communication is life, even a new born baby still communicates with their body language and gestures,the world will collapse without communication.

Goodmarlian:
If that's the case then there is a big problem because communication is life, even a new born baby still communicates with their body language and gestures,the world will collapse without communication.

It will be done when it's essential and necessary...


So the world won't collapse!

Just make moni forget women
How Una even take dei ask women out?
If babe likes u even if na cough u cough she go run cm ur house cm find u
No be till u cm dei bomb ppl chats
MONEY SOLVES ALL PROBLEMS THESE DAYS

Do it with video, people no longer read especially ladies.

Use yourself do content creation.

Lol u go chop billing ur eye go clear...

Whatsapp is for people that are already friends, family or colleagues. Its weird wooing a lady you dont know on whatsapp

WhatsApp is for business around here

Goodmarlian:
I mean come to think of it, it seems ladies have totally lost interest in online communication in this generation people are all over social media but they are not really communicating or communicating very little, they may jump on trends, make comments but never communicate directly with each other, I remember in the days of 2go people are so eager to chat like crazy, it seems the steam has died down now.

These days I can bet you that if you collect the number of 10 ladies only 2 or 3 will reply you the way you want to be replied , I use to think the women do not chat a guy because they are not interested but I later realised it's not really so because even my girlfriend does the same thing she is so lazy to chat online.

Maybe the world is drifting back to the days of physical communication as online communication is getting boring and emotionless.

They are chatting too many people that collected their number. Except you make a good first impression when you collected her number, that is when she will scale your priority up

Your right. Me if not yes, no, OK, then na audio notes... Lols

Leave me unnecessary message in my chat box and wait 100years for a reply
The important thing is keeping contact and not making unnecessary talks/chats

You're absolutely correct. But there are few persons who still eager to communicate on WhatsApp. I think the reason for the reduction in interest is down to our busy schedules. Everyone is trying to make money so there's very little time to spare.

Its simple put pictures of you in luxury hotels and restaurants or put pictures of you in expensive cars ... Once she see them , you go chat tire

Goodmarlian:
I mean come to think of it, it seems ladies have totally lost interest in online communication in this generation people are all over social media but they are not really communicating or communicating very little, they may jump on trends, make comments but never communicate directly with each other, I remember in the days of 2go people are so eager to chat like crazy, it seems the steam has died down now.

These days I can bet you that if you collect the number of 10 ladies only 2 or 3 will reply you the way you want to be replied , I use to think the women do not chat a guy because they are not interested but I later realised it's not really so because even my girlfriend does the same thing she is so lazy to chat online.

Maybe the world is drifting back to the days of physical communication as online communication is getting boring and emotionless.

So you collects someone’s number for them to reply you the way you want not the way they want ?

After exchanging a few dull chats with even duller Nigerian bannies, na you go even vess delete their number.

It's tiktok, so that you can show them fake life that they are easily moved by

Of course online communication will get boring because of same old format every now and then

A lot will be observed better in offline communication, so the physical one is always the best, with that self, amaka no go fit collect t-fare and refuse to show up.

You've a point that there has been an online fatigue especially for older Gen-Zs. But then, women have changed in the past decade and also, younger women have so many suitors/admirers. They have a limited mental span and time to respond accordingly to all.

I don't like chatting, I prefer calling

Telegram is the key now, wake up

I don't think so, a lady will surely communicate with a guy she deeply in love with, if she's lazy on texting messages, she will apply voice note.

The main thing that enhance quick response to messages on WhatsApp or on other communication apps, it's the value that particular text carrying.

Conclusively, interest is the main factor that encourage responding to text messages simply because the world cannot do without communication.

Everyone is focused on the grind now. Ladies are heavily into online marketing, trading, and various side hustles. Do you really expect them to drop all that just to start a 'talking stage'?

Time is money. Even as a guy, if I spend too much time chatting, I start feeling like I’m wasting my life. But the downside is this: once you reach the apex and the success starts showing, they start trooping in. At that point, you can't even love properly anymore because you’ll always feel they’re only there for the results of your hustle. This exact mentality is why Asake said it’s "Lonely at the Top."

We've become dxxmber as species, it's just that simple.

Na money matter now, I guess... That's what has destroyed it all

That's one of the big difference between oyinbo/foreign babes and naija babes.... most naija babes are very very boring to chat with, even if u make effort, the response sef go leave u very disinterested in going forward😏.

Crazily, 70% of the time it's not that they're not interested in you or only interested in your money, cos even if u flash the money and they follow u, u will still get nothing more than sex and very boring dates/relationship.

They just don't know how to engage with u properly , but if na to analyze movies or trending clothes or wig, den be queen😹

....oyinbo babes chai, una go get to know the person thoroughly ,the likes , dislikes,hobbies, personality even learn intellectual stuffs outside things that has to do with the person.

In your view
many ladies do communicate online

Na money matter now, I guess... That's what has destroyed it all.

A woman thinks "how much can he give me"?

A man thinks, "As long as I have money, it doesn't matter where I get it from or how I get it, I can lay any woman. They all want money".

With that mentality, love and emotions - which is what grows thr emotions needed to have proper conversations, whether in person or on digital media like WhatsApp.

Because she isn't into you. When a lady is into you, she would be replying with lightning speed and even be angry if you don't reply fast as she is doing.

I have chatted with numerous ladies that were not replying wen we started chatting, but as time goes on, they are the same persons, angry with me for not replying them.

Understand woman and stop given your self heart attack, go for women who like you and stop chasing unwilling women.

Excellent observation. A few months I bought a new phone and haven't bothered downloading the time wasting app. Good luck to those successfully using it for business and education.

A man who is busy chasing the bag won't be bothered about how women reply to his messages on Whatsapp