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EmmyMaestro:
On top of everything, we will now hear that he never collected opueh even once,

weslay:
Dem suppose flog this half man

maasoap:
Well, the lady in question too may later realise that the pasture is not always greener on the other side. You don't know the value of what you have until you lose it

SpencerForbes:
Someone’s dad 😏 He’s above 40 so I don’t blame him.

Solofresh2:
She won't 'realize' anything. That's romantic fantasy. Women don't 'realize the value' of a man they rejected.They rationalize why he wasn't enough. By the time he's successful elsewhere, she'll tell herself she 'dodged a bullet' or 'he changed.' The pasture always looks greener because she's standing in a different field now. He wasn't 'value' to her. He was a stepping stone. And stepping stones exist to be walked on and left behind.

Bahamas95:
This mooo- mooo will never buy beer for a fellow guy, but he dey sponsor woman education.



Baba God please don't give me any child that would bring shame to my generation.

ComingKing:
I think the man is heart broken and is yet to recover, so he is looking for love at all cost. Giving out money to the lady is a dopamine form him, coupled with the fake attention given to him.

The best way for the man is not marry a real mature lady not less than 38 years, these one have preparedness to marry. Or possibly a young widow both of them will be living to pity each other.

maasoap:
If your opinion is truly true, it doesn't explain why many of them go back to the guys they rejected or dumped. Or, you want to tell me that you are not aware that happens all the time

spiceadole:
His fellow guy go give am opueh?

Bahamas95:
Na the opueh put am for the problem wey he dey so.

shiffynaani:
thanks for this post my bro. My ex and I broke up a week ago and I've been contemplating of going back to tell her some simping things

Your words already healed me. We're the price when it comes to women and we don't know our worth I don't know why it usually happens

AMI3:
Who sent him?
There was no signing off papers
Even he sue her there is no evidence.

Can a lady trained a guy in school ?
The answer is no.
Why then do men easily fall into such scammed ?

ufotunang:
.. guys next time should do an agreement with their girl friend documented and signed by the guy, girl friend, a lawyer and police will a sign in the document
That if the girl refused to marry him after sponsoring her education that she must refund all the money spent on her education if not she will be presecuted and jailed .. especially if the girl has agreed to marry him after when she graduates and after her guy has sponsored her education

ComingKing:
I think the man is heart broken and is yet to recover, so he is looking for love at all cost. Giving out money to the lady is a dopamine form him, coupled with the fake attention given to him.

The best way for the man is not marry a real mature lady not less than 38 years, these one have preparedness to marry. Or possibly a young widow both of them will be living to pity each other.

SpencerForbes:
Someone’s dad 😏 He’s above 40 so I don’t blame him.

marlow1962:
First of all, you know say you no go marry the dude, but you dy happy as him dy spend he hard earned money dy sponsor you for school ( something your shameless father no do). Na so people take dy die throway. Shay if the guy use anger and pain take lack u juju now, you go begin run from one fake pastor to the other.

Secondly, the guy man na ozzor. If him fellow guy take am now say, abobi I no get shishi to take soak garri, the malu go say em no get, but em dy sponsor woman. Men like that they always learn the hard way.

Fellas, no train person pikin with the intention say u go marry her. Make her family train her, or marry her first before you begin train her for school. If you disregard this advice, you go dy like this malu wer them create this news for.

Mcslize:
Thank God you learned something from the post. Don't do it. Do not go back to beg her. If you do, that will be the end of her respect for you, and you will keep begging and begging. She will even intentionally disrespect you cuz she knows you will run back to beg. Don't dignify her with that.

Don't forget, as a man, you are the one doing most of the spending in any relationship. Men are the ones that carry the responsibility of every relationship.

A woman is supposed to value you and treat you like her personal Lord and saviour. They ain't adding anything to our lives. That's why we make sure we go for the most respectful ones among the thousands.

There are fraction of sane and respect girls out there that will value you as a man and give you peace of mind. Don't waste your time on any that is treating you badly and not according you the respect and value you deserve.

ceejay80s:
So above 40 can't find love and get married?
Wait ur turn,
U too go reach 40

spiceadole:
At 40,a man is still very young.
Only women grow old.
Men grow wiser and stronger.
At 70,a man can still marry a 20 year old woman.

Leepeak:
Lol na my papa be that