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A video currently circulating online shows a woman appealing to Nigerian men to consider marriage with several women she says are looking for life partners.
In the clip, the woman—who identifies herself as a matchmaker—explains that she has many women searching for husbands and is asking interested men to reach out.

According to her, the women are mostly in their 30s to 50s. She specifically mentions ages such as 33, 38, 45, 48, and 50.
She says she has already successfully matched several couples but adds that many more women are still hoping to find partners.

The matchmaker also appealed to widowers and responsible single fathers to consider reaching out if they are interested in marriage.

She further stated that even a married man who is looking for a second wife can contact her, adding that the women she represents are serious and ready to settle down.

In her appeal, she repeatedly urges Nigerian men who are ready for marriage to reach out and help these women find husbands.

The video has since sparked conversations online about modern matchmaking and the challenges some individuals face when searching for life partners.

Watch the full video and share your thoughts on the growing trend of modern matchmaking.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mQjGefTO2Ow?si=zK5LEYCOUiIX8B7c

Summary:

A matchmaker has appealed to Nigerian men to marry women in their 30s to 50s who she says are seriously seeking husbands. She claims to have already matched several couples and is encouraging widowers, responsible single fathers, and even married men seeking a second wife to reach out, sparking online discussions about modern matchmaking.

What does men Benefit from the so called marriage. This trend will continue until at a point women will be openly asking men for marriage.

Am married and I know what am saying

No...Men who are not simps must avoid left overs. There are many under 25s deserving of your attention.

What about men interested in the matchmaker, is she also available?


I am asking for a friend's uncle's son, thank you

saintopus:
What does men Benefit from the so called marriage. This trend will continue until at a point women will be openly asking men for marriage.

Am married and I know what am saying

I see a future where more men will ask the question you are asking and the answer they will always get is "nothing". In the very near future, fewer men will be interested in marriage and it is the shallow mindedness of women that will take us there.

Nobody wants liabilities. Do they have jobs? Gen Z married men open shops for their wives. Leave “my wife must be a housewife” to Boomers.

If they agree to be 2nd or 3rd wives, then no problem...

POLYGAMY IS NOT A SIN.

Hahaha..you better come out plain maybe you will see your type here..jeneyclay and her crew are here on nairaland.. available offline but unavailable online 😂😂

franchasofficia:
What about men interested in the matchmaker, is she also available?


I am asking for a friend's uncle's son, thank you

How can one reach the matchmaker?

Glimpsetv:
A video currently circulating online shows a woman appealing to Nigerian men to consider marriage with several women she says are looking for life partners.
In the clip, the woman—who identifies herself as a matchmaker—explains that she has many women searching for husbands and is asking interested men to reach out.

According to her, the women are mostly in their 30s to 50s. She specifically mentions ages such as 33, 38, 45, 48, and 50.
She says she has already successfully matched several couples but adds that many more women are still hoping to find partners.

The matchmaker also appealed to widowers and responsible single fathers to consider reaching out if they are interested in marriage.

She further stated that even a married man who is looking for a second wife can contact her, adding that the women she represents are serious and ready to settle down.

In her appeal, she repeatedly urges Nigerian men who are ready for marriage to reach out and help these women find husbands.

The video has since sparked conversations online about modern matchmaking and the challenges some individuals face when searching for life partners.

Watch the full video and share your thoughts on the growing trend of modern matchmaking.

Cc: Nlfpmod


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mQjGefTO2Ow?si=zK5LEYCOUiIX8B7c

How can I reach the matchmaker...interested

I will encourage or advise ladies to try as much as possible to do away from unnecessary billings from Man.

Too much billings is part of reasons why most responsible Guys are doing away from some ladies.

Only you, you never eat, gas finish, you wan do your hair, Aso Ebi, Nepa bills and the list are endless.

You are now waiting for marriage, as how naw?

I just say i should update you ladies, too much billing is part of reason why guys are avoiding you.

If you now get bad characters join, nobody can rescue you unless you turn a better leaf.

Normal normal, your boyfriend or fiancee can be of help, nothing bad in it when neccesary.

But if you now chose billing as a way of life, sorry is your case.

Why will I leave the succulent bodies, standing b00bs and topnotch fertile wombs of under 25 girls and marry the ENPs? Is it that I enjoy being accused of sterility when the ENP can't conceive for me due to menopause and fibroids or what? The truth is that no young man in his right senses would choose to marry any woman from 26 and above unless they have the ulterior motives of cashing out and using such women to achieve financial success.

Ladies in that age bracket should look for widowers or polygamous men to marry them. Alternatively, they can settle for the struggling guys out there who may want to be helped financially. Unfortunately, many women are too selfish to fancy the idea of helping their men financially, yet many of them fail to marry when the odds were still in their favour.

LordIsaac:
No...Men who are not simps must avoid left overs. There are many under 25s deserving of your attention.

U must be a kid to think like this. There are many under 25s who have sooooo messed up their bodies than a 40 year old

Hope it's not fetish. Because anything God is not involved is not worth it.

I need matchmaking contact

CJStarz:
U must be a kid to think like this. There are many under 25s who have sooooo messed up their bodies than a 40 year old

I'm not referring to such left overs. A younger car with lower mileage is better any day any time.

It is always in Nigeria. Everything of this nature concerning finding husband is always in Nigeria, despite poverty margin and p00r living standards.

From what I understand about matchmaking platforms, both men and women register profiles and seek for partners. Even the dating and meet up zone section on Nairaland has men seeking partners. How come its only this one's platform has only women looking for men for marriage?

LordIsaac:
No...Men who are not simps must avoid left overs. There are many under 25s deserving of your attention.

Correct...we are proud of you

The government should pass a law giving tax breaks and financial incentives to men who marry more than 1 wife

What do they do for a living?
Hope not liabilities and entitlement type of women who think only through their wig and eye lashes.

LilMissFavvy:
It is always in Nigeria. Everything of this nature concerning finding husband is always in Nigeria, despite poverty margin and p00r living standards.

Are you on dollarland.com in new york
How woukd you know
Its everywhere
I know of china for sure and america will catch up too dont worry

LilMissFavvy:
It is always in Nigeria. Everything of this nature concerning finding husband is always in Nigeria, despite poverty margin and p00r living standards.

So are you saying that people who want to get married should not do so because the poverty level in the country is high?

saintopus:
What does men Benefit from the so called marriage. This trend will continue until at a point women will be openly asking men for marriage.

Am married and I know what am saying

It's already happening regularly.

Wahala don dey.
​This "woke" approach to feminism clearly isn’t working. In my view, men and women should see themselves as equal partners in dating and marriage; and that means equality in finances and responsibilities. When both parties contribute, neither becomes a liability to the other.

​Don't go into debt for an expensive wedding. Start as friends first. Focusing on partnership over performance reduces the risk of failed marriages—the kind that leads to the "emergency" matchmaking we see on TikTok and with the likes of Lege Miami.

Real equality prevents the desperation we see in the dating market later in life.

Someone said, Men who are not simps must avoid left overs. There are many under 25s deserving of your attention.

saintopus:
What does men Benefit from the so called marriage. This trend will continue until at a point women will be openly asking men for marriage.

Am married and I know what am saying

Hmm. Sir, I'm 26, male, and looking to settle down soon. Please what advice(s) do you have for me to look out for to be sure I choose the right partner 🙏

dominique:
From what I understand about matchmaking platforms, both men and women register profiles and seek for partners. Even the dating and meet up zone section on Nairaland has men seeking partners. How come its only this one's platform has only women looking for men for marriage?

What is the ratio of men to women

Na 18 to 24 year old some of the men are looking for even if they themselves are in their 50’s. Then them go be shouting cheating.

Glimpsetv:
A video currently circulating online shows a woman appealing to Nigerian men to consider marriage with several women she says are looking for life partners.
In the clip, the woman—who identifies herself as a matchmaker—explains that she has many women searching for husbands and is asking interested men to reach out.

According to her, the women are mostly in their 30s to 50s. She specifically mentions ages such as 33, 38, 45, 48, and 50.
She says she has already successfully matched several couples but adds that many more women are still hoping to find partners.

The matchmaker also appealed to widowers and responsible single fathers to consider reaching out if they are interested in marriage.

She further stated that even a married man who is looking for a second wife can contact her, adding that the women she represents are serious and ready to settle down.

In her appeal, she repeatedly urges Nigerian men who are ready for marriage to reach out and help these women find husbands.

The video has since sparked conversations online about modern matchmaking and the challenges some individuals face when searching for life partners.

Watch the full video and share your thoughts on the growing trend of modern matchmaking.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mQjGefTO2Ow?si=zK5LEYCOUiIX8B7c