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Help...my Elder Brother Is Acting Foolish Towards Women. by MiamiLord(op): 8:17am On Mar 13

He got married years back, a very lavish traditional and white wedding, you will think is a governor's son that is doing all this.
After everything he took the girl to Europe, she became something else, he saw her knacking one white head...that's how the marriage ended.

Fortunately for her, she is still there in Europe doing good for herself....from trenches to Europe.

Today again, he is planning on marrying another girl from trenches and he wants to take her to Europe.
Why sense dey far from my brother like this?

Mind you, he has never taken any of his siblings to Europe to go and hussle.

He doesn't take advise.

I have stopped giving him advise.

Re: Help...my Elder Brother Is Acting Foolish Towards Women. by DeltaBachelor(m): 8:34am On Mar 13

Chai. Truly, you can take a horse to the stream, but can not force it to drink water. I hope this one favours him because from your post, upheld has decided already and is not someone to change his mind like that

Re: Help...my Elder Brother Is Acting Foolish Towards Women. by gabriel88(m): 10:15am On Mar 13

Advise Advise Advise.........Advise Advise Advise Advise.......

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Re: Help...my Elder Brother Is Acting Foolish Towards Women. by Thomthom(m): 11:11am On Mar 13

gabriel88:
Advise Advise Advise.........Advise Advise Advise Advise.......

where your bros base wey him dey send women go Yankee.

Re: Help...my Elder Brother Is Acting Foolish Towards Women. by Starboytwo(m): 12:30pm On Mar 13

Why don't you just leave him alone then??

Na by force to carry you go Europe??

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Re: Help...my Elder Brother Is Acting Foolish Towards Women. by SixSeven: 2:13pm On Mar 13

MiamiLord:
He got married years back, a very lavish traditional and white wedding, you will think is a governor's son that is doing all this.
After everything he took the girl to Europe, she became something else, he saw her knacking one white head...that's how the marriage ended.

Fortunately for her, she is still there in Europe doing good for herself....from trenches to Europe.

Today again, he is planning on marrying another girl from trenches and he wants to take her to Europe.
Why sense dey far from my brother like this?

Mind you, he has never taken any of his siblings to Europe to go and hussle.

He doesn't take advise.

I have stopped giving him advise.

It is his money. He can spend it as he wishes.
"Mind you, he has never taken any of his siblings to Europe to go and hussle" sounds like entitlement. Why is he responsible for your life and you're now jealous that he wants to take care of another woman? Can any of you give your brother sexual satisfaction? Can you give him kids? Are you telling us he doesn't send you money but you are now analyzing another man's financial + romantic decision making matrix by saying that you should be the one to leave the 'trenches', not these girls? What kind of support are you giving him? Did you find one good girl for him to take abroad? Instead of you to help him since you are so concerned about his love life, you want to tell him what he doesn't want to hear. Since his first marriage failed, you can suggest girls you know will do a better job.

Do not give advice to anyone who is not ready to receive it. Therefore, do not disturb Nairaland to give him advice. Let your brother do what he likes. He is an adult. There are many people who go abroad and do well. Have you asked him why he didn't marry a woman from there? Why do you think divorcees remarry? Just because their last marriage failed does not mean the next one will so leave them alone, it is giving failure signal for his second attempt at love. Leave him alone. The best advice to give here is to MIND YOUR BUSINESS. Honestly, it will help you. And if you want him to help you travel to Europe, tell him. If he says NO, don't take it to heart, just accept it like that. The only business you should be minding is your own. Allow him to make profit or loss on his own business.

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Re: Help...my Elder Brother Is Acting Foolish Towards Women. by SirCloudControl: 2:21pm On Mar 13

Leave him that's his own destiny grin

Re: Help...my Elder Brother Is Acting Foolish Towards Women. by Fiscus105(m): 4:14pm On Mar 13

MiamiLord:
He got married years back, a very lavish traditional and white wedding, you will think is a governor's son that is doing all this.
After everything he took the girl to Europe, she became something else, he saw her knacking one white head...that's how the marriage ended.

Fortunately for her, she is still there in Europe doing good for herself....from trenches to Europe.

Today again, he is planning on marrying another girl from trenches and he wants to take her to Europe.
Why sense dey far from my brother like this?

Mind you, he has never taken any of his siblings to Europe to go and hussle.

He doesn't take advise.

I have stopped giving him advise.

You stop giving him advise yet you took his private issues to public forum to discuss.

Do away with entitlement mentality and allow your brother to do whatever pleases him.

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Re: Help...my Elder Brother Is Acting Foolish Towards Women. by brainbox1000(m): 5:04pm On Mar 13

Your brother Dey do poverty alleviation program for women 😂😂

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Re: Help...my Elder Brother Is Acting Foolish Towards Women. by DonKuti(m): 5:47pm On Mar 13

brainbox1000:
Your brother Dey do poverty alleviation program for women 😂😂

Axxin😂😂

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Re: Help...my Elder Brother Is Acting Foolish Towards Women. by Maj196(m): 6:50pm On Mar 13

brainbox1000:
Your brother Dey do poverty alleviation program for women 😂😂

We thank your brother oo, the lord is his strength

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Re: Help...my Elder Brother Is Acting Foolish Towards Women. by Cum4me(m): 7:11pm On Mar 13

SixSeven:
It is his money. He can spend it as he wishes.
"Mind you, he has never taken any of his siblings to Europe to go and hussle" sounds like entitlement. Why is he responsible for your life and you're now jealous that he wants to take care of another woman? Can any of you give your brother sexual satisfaction? Can you give him kids? Are you telling us he doesn't send you money but you are now analyzing another man's financial + romantic decision making matrix by saying that you should be the one to leave the 'trenches', not these girls? What kind of support are you giving him? Did you find one good girl for him to take abroad? Instead of you to help him since you are so concerned about his love life, you want to tell him what he doesn't want to hear. Since his first marriage failed, you can suggest girls you know will do a better job.

Do not give advice to anyone who is not ready to receive it. Therefore, do not disturb Nairaland to give him advice. Let your brother do what he likes. He is an adult. There are many people who go abroad and do well. Have you asked him why he didn't marry a woman from there? Why do you think divorcees remarry? Just because their last marriage failed does not mean the next one will so leave them alone, it is giving failure signal for his second attempt at love. Leave him alone. The best advice to give here is to MIND YOUR BUSINESS. Honestly, it will help you. And if you want him to help you travel to Europe, tell him. If he says NO, don't take it to heart, just accept it like that. The only business you should be minding is your own. Allow him to make profit or loss on his own business.

with your nonsense write up. A Mad man is a fun to the society but a deep pain to his family. If it's your brother I hope you will be happy as his embarrassing the whole family.

Re: Help...my Elder Brother Is Acting Foolish Towards Women. by SixSeven: 7:45pm On Mar 13

Cum4me:
with your nonsense write up. A Mad man is a fun to the society but a deep pain to his family. If it's your brother I hope you will be happy as his embarrassing the whole family.

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Re: Help...my Elder Brother Is Acting Foolish Towards Women. by DuttyChuks: 12:44am On Mar 14

If not that my sister is married and live in yankee, i for tell you say mek we plan something out, if its successful, she will betray your brother and bring you ova. Find another girl wey go enter his eyes pass the one wey he dey with.

Re: Help...my Elder Brother Is Acting Foolish Towards Women. by Kobojunkie: 12:54am On Mar 14

MiamiLord:
He got married years back, a very lavish traditional and white wedding, you will think is a governor's son that is doing all this.
After everything he took the girl to Europe, she became something else, he saw her knacking one white head...that's how the marriage ended.
Fortunately for her, she is still there in Europe doing good for herself....from trenches to Europe.
Today again, he is planning on marrying another girl from trenches and he wants to take her to Europe.
Why sense dey far from my brother like this?
Mind you, he has never taken any of his siblings to Europe to go and hussle.
He doesn't take advise. I have stopped giving him advise.

As long as the money he is spending is his, you shouldn't worry yourself much.🥱🥱🥱

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Re: Help...my Elder Brother Is Acting Foolish Towards Women. by oz4real83(m): 5:51am On Mar 14

Where did he see the simp blood? Hope no be your papa oo?😏 This why simps shouldn't give birth, they will most likely transfer their "simpmatozoa" to their children"💔

Re: Help...my Elder Brother Is Acting Foolish Towards Women. by Villa12(m): 7:22am On Mar 14

Cum4me:
with your nonsense write up. A Mad man is a fun to the society but a deep pain to his family. If it's your brother I hope you will be happy as his embarrassing the whole family.

please tell me how he's embarrassing the family? He should choose his siblings over his wife and kids?? You can give him sexual satisfaction? You can give him kids? It is not his responsibility to send you to Europe. Stop being entitled

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Re: Help...my Elder Brother Is Acting Foolish Towards Women. by Day169: 10:19am On Mar 14

MiamiLord:
He got married years back, a very lavish traditional and white wedding, you will think is a governor's son that is doing all this.
After everything he took the girl to Europe, she became something else, he saw her knacking one white head...that's how the marriage ended.

Fortunately for her, she is still there in Europe doing good for herself....from trenches to Europe.

Today again, he is planning on marrying another girl from trenches and he wants to take her to Europe.
Why sense dey far from my brother like this?

Mind you, he has never taken any of his siblings to Europe to go and hussle.

He doesn't take advise.

I have stopped giving him advise.

I made 2 observations from your write up..
1. Your last sentence is the most reasonable item in your post.
2. Quit the entitlement mentality of him taking you abroad, ahead of any lady he calls his wife. undecided

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