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Before I start, I must admit that this is a very awkward topic. At the same time, it is an interesting one. I have come across it several times on social media, and the comment sections of such posts never fail to make me laugh. They are hardly factual, but they can be very entertaining. So, don’t take this personally. Just enjoy the gist, drink some cold water, and allow your blood pressure to regulate itself.

In my opinion, wherever human beings work together, whether of the same or opposite sex, depending on their sexual orientation, copulation tends to take place. It is a normal human phenomenon. From my anecdotal observations, any occupation in which people are confined to the same place for long hours each day becomes a red zone where people are easily tempted to sleep with each other.

The tendency is even higher where teamwork and collaboration are essential to getting the job done. As people spend long hours together, official and unofficial conversations begin to flow. Desires and admiration gradually kick in. Conflicts and resolutions also occur. Consciously or unconsciously, people start to see their colleagues as part of their extended family. Familiarity grows, and interests develop.

The progression is usually simple. It innocently starts with a smile, then moves to small talk, then a handshake, and eventually a light hug. Over time, the hugs become tighter and longer — chest to chest.

Those who are very self-controlled keep their fantasies to themselves and suppress those feelings. Others who are more vulnerable find themselves caught in a romantic web without much thought about the future or any proper risk assessment. At that point, people become emotionally entangled and begin to act impulsively.

This is the same technique used by reality shows to foster romantic relationships among participants. They place young people in the same environment, make them do activities together, encourage interactions, and cut off communication with the outside world. Gradually, people begin to lose touch with reality and develop what are often phantom feelings for those around them. I call this the “Big Brother reality show syndrome,” coined from the popular Big Brother television series.

The Healthcare and Social Care Sector

I have worked in Nigeria and the United Kingdom for over a decade combined, across different sectors. From my observation, the healthcare sector, which includes doctors, nurses, and support workers, is one environment where workplace romances frequently emerge.

In the UK, working hours in the health and social care sector can be extremely long. For support staff, the pay is not always fantastic. To make ends meet, many workers pick up multiple shifts. The implication is that people often end up working simply to survive rather than truly living their lives. Other aspects of life may become neglected. For those who are married, even their intimate relationships may suffer.

To compound the situation, the risk increases when staff sit idle during night shifts in residential settings. The UK weather is often cold, and that naturally makes people seek human warmth and companionship. In such circumstances, people who spend long hours together may gradually grow closer.

Anyone who has worked in the health and social care sector in the UK will likely have heard rumours of colleagues becoming romantically involved. Sometimes it almost feels like an unofficial part of workplace culture. Many of these relationships begin as simple friendships before gradually becoming something more.

Often, it starts with a supportive colleague who becomes a trusted confidant — the “work bestie.” Over time, emotional bonds deepen. What may initially feel like a one-time mistake sometimes becomes a repeated pattern.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F2RZwcT52NU?si=fCYAEwYj0ru0Qsva

Another topic Nairaland children will masturbate over.

uche87:
Before I start, I must admit that this is a very awkward topic. At the same time, it is an interesting one. I have come across it several times on social media, and the comment sections of such posts never fail to make me laugh. They are hardly factual, but they can be very entertaining. So, don’t take this personally. Just enjoy the gist, drink some cold water, and allow your blood pressure to regulate itself.

In my opinion, wherever human beings work together, whether of the same or opposite sex, depending on their sexual orientation, copulation tends to take place. It is a normal human phenomenon. From my anecdotal observations, any occupation in which people are confined to the same place for long hours each day becomes a red zone where people are easily tempted to sleep with each other.

The tendency is even higher where teamwork and collaboration are essential to getting the job done. As people spend long hours together, official and unofficial conversations begin to flow. Desires and admiration gradually kick in. Conflicts and resolutions also occur. Consciously or unconsciously, people start to see their colleagues as part of their extended family. Familiarity grows, and interests develop.

The progression is usually simple. It innocently starts with a smile, then moves to small talk, then a handshake, and eventually a light hug. Over time, the hugs become tighter and longer — chest to chest.

Those who are very self-controlled keep their fantasies to themselves and suppress those feelings. Others who are more vulnerable find themselves caught in a romantic web without much thought about the future or any proper risk assessment. At that point, people become emotionally entangled and begin to act impulsively.

This is the same technique used by reality shows to foster romantic relationships among participants. They place young people in the same environment, make them do activities together, encourage interactions, and cut off communication with the outside world. Gradually, people begin to lose touch with reality and develop what are often phantom feelings for those around them. I call this the “Big Brother reality show syndrome,” coined from the popular Big Brother television series.

The Healthcare and Social Care Sector

I have worked in Nigeria and the United Kingdom for over a decade combined, across different sectors. From my observation, the healthcare sector, which includes doctors, nurses, and support workers, is one environment where workplace romances frequently emerge.

In the UK, working hours in the health and social care sector can be extremely long. For support staff, the pay is not always fantastic. To make ends meet, many workers pick up multiple shifts. The implication is that people often end up working simply to survive rather than truly living their lives. Other aspects of life may become neglected. For those who are married, even their intimate relationships may suffer.

To compound the situation, the risk increases when staff sit idle during night shifts in residential settings. The UK weather is often cold, and that naturally makes people seek human warmth and companionship. In such circumstances, people who spend long hours together may gradually grow closer.

Anyone who has worked in the health and social care sector in the UK will likely have heard rumours of colleagues becoming romantically involved. Sometimes it almost feels like an unofficial part of workplace culture. Many of these relationships begin as simple friendships before gradually becoming something more.

Often, it starts with a supportive colleague who becomes a trusted confidant — the “work bestie.” Over time, emotional bonds deepen. What may initially feel like a one-time mistake sometimes becomes a repeated pattern.

Every job is involved if people find an attractive colleague

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No job is excluded, it just depends on the individuals involved, it is even rampant in the religious sector, a sector we all feel should be disciplined and above this issue😏

I don know this one tey tey...

We wey dey work 9>5 ...we spend more hours at work than at home...

So if u suspect your wife is having an affair...its most likely with a colleague at work.

Why will any sensible human today expect absolute fidelity from his or her partner in our world today with over 3 billion people? The possibility of your partner meeting someone like you or someone better than you in all ramifications is very high today.


If you want to live a fulfilled life devoid of unnecessary worries and drama, please don't expect much from anybody. Always have the but in your heart for everyone so that if anything happens you won't be shocked, you will just take it as part of life.



HIV now have a preventive injectable vaccine that can cover you for a whole year and it's very affordable. Hepatitis B and C have their own vaccine too, please endeavor to take them for your own safety and health, those are the most dangerous STDs in the world today, so protect yourself from them, most others can be treated



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People sleeping recklessly with one another in all professions, you only seeing the ones in your own environment and thinking it's the highest.

Have you gone to university community and see how recklessly they sleep with students, married and unmarried female staff?

What about film industry? All these upcoming actresses are food to devour.

You can also go to local government as well, you will think no other sector can beat them, when it comes to immoral affairs. I know a wife who is leaving with two different men for past 5 years. She works in "out-station" while husband staying in the capital city, by weekend, she stays with husband, and during the midweek, Monday to Friday's morning, she stays in concubine' house.

What about banking sector? Among traders? I will advise you to go and do enquiry about butchers, they sleep with all shades of women, married ones inclusive, even religions' houses are the the worst.

Wherever men and women meet, it's bound to be romantic relationships.

Just avoid this topic if you don't wanna get paranoid or have a heart attack. Life these days is what it is.

It's normal for work colleagues to find each other attractive, then sexually attractive since they are from the same parents.
It happens on every job

franchasng:
Why will any sensible human today expect absolute fidelity from his or her partner in our world today with over 3 billion people? The possibility of your partner meeting someone like you or someone better than you in all ramifications is very high today.


If you want to live a fulfilled life devoid of unnecessary worries and drama, please don't expect much from anybody. Always have the but in your heart for everyone so that if anything happens you won't be shocked, you will just take it as part of life.



HIV now have a preventive injectable vaccine that can cover you for a whole year and it's very affordable. Hepatitis B and C have their own vaccine too, please endeavor to take them for your own safety and health, those are the most dangerous STDs in the world today, so protect yourself from them, most others can be treated



Heading back to board flight to Tehran to snitch on IRGC members

Heading back to board flight to Tehran to snitch on IRGC members
Ah comrade 😂🙌👌

Fiscus105:
People sleep recklessly with each other in all professions, you only withness the one you work in and think it's the highest.

Have you gone to university community and see how recklessly they sleep with both students, married and unmarried women?

What about film industry? All these upcoming actresses are food to devour.

Also go to local government, you will think, no other sectors can beat them. I know a wife that leaving with two different men for past 5 years. She works in outstation while husband staying in the capital city, by weakened she stays with husband and for workday, she is a food for the concubine, she stays in concubine' house from Monday till Friday morning.

What about banking sector, among traders, I will advise you to go and do enquiry about butchers, they sleep with all shades of women, married one inclusive, even religion houses is the the worst.

Where men and women meet there must be romantic relationships.

God bless the senior Man 📌💯.
Omorr, Religious houses and Butchers dey collect on a steady 🙌.

Fiscus105:
People sleep recklessly with each other in all professions, you only withness the one you work in and think it's the highest.

Have you gone to university community and see how recklessly they sleep with both students, married and unmarried women?

What about film industry? All these upcoming actresses are food to devour.

Also go to local government, you will think, no other sectors can beat them. I know a wife that leaving with two different men for past 5 years. She works in out-station while husband staying in the capital city, by weekend she stays with husband and for work-day, she is a food for the concubine, she stays in concubine' house from Monday till Friday morning.

What about banking sector? Among traders? I will advise you to go and do enquiry about butchers, they sleep with all shades of women, married ones inclusive, even religion houses is the the worst.

Where men and women are meeting, there must be romantic relationships.

curious about how Butchers do it ... Tech guys are not left out, Mobile Phone and Laptop service repair men, not left out too. Gym Bros and Gym Instructors, omo the hormones get stronger. But butchers okay that's new ... 😂

WantsandMore:
curious about how Butchers do it ... Tech guys are not left out, Mobile Phone and Laptop service repair men, not left out too. Gym Bros and Gym Instructors, omo the hormones get stronger. But butchers okay that's new ... 😂

The largest customers of butcher are women and women like free gifts, so, they are using meat as a bait to lure them to bed.

Besides, some women most especially in "face me and face u" like to compete with one another, for the type of meat as their soup ingredients. Meanwhile, they don't have resources to get the meat, most especially single mothers. Many of them using their body to get free/cheap meat from butchers, and brag about it,for their co-tenants at home.

bestman09:
Every job is involved if people find an attractive colleague

Not every jobs
You can't try this as a site engineer especially mechanical and civil engineering

Too late...😭😭😭

thrillionaire:
Just avoid this topic if you don't wanna get paranoid or have a heart attack. Life these days is what it is.

Fiscus105:
The largest customers of butcher are women and women like free gifts, so, they are using meat as a bait to lure them to bed.

Besides, some women most especially in "face me and face u" like to compete with one another, for type of meat they use to cook soup, meanwhile, they don't have resources to get the meat, most especially single mothers, so,many of them using their body to get free/cheap meat, in which they are using to brag for their Co-tenants at home.

Go and rewatch that thing. It is not the butchers who lure women rather It is the women who lure the butchers because they want free meat. The same thing for tailors, taxi drivers, landlords, lawyers, pastors etc.

It is women who initiate sex and lure men. But what happens is that after that first trap has worked, then the man starts running with it which is what you see.

Because everyman is tagged a womanizer they tend to stay away from women so women have to draw and lure men.

Just imagining it is nauseating, like wtf.
I will love somebody to the extend we get married and have babiessss, only for the person to be finding another man sexually attractive.
If we are talking about single ladies, I'd say there's and exception to it, but a married woman finding a man( single or married) sexually attractive is a big red flag. You might as well stay single, rather than leave with the trauma of you knowing your wife is shagging you and a co-worker.

marlow1962:
Just imagining it is nauseating, like wtf.
I will love somebody to the extend we get married and have babiessss, only for the person to be finding another man sexually attractive.
If we are talking about single ladies, I'd say there's and exception to it, but a married woman finding a man( single or married) sexually attractive is a big red flag. You might as well stay single, rather than leave with the trauma of you knowing your wife is shagging you and a co-worker.

That is because the person is a work mate and they don't live together. Your partner spends more time with this person than you. That person puts up a good behaviour at work because they have to earn money, so it is easy to get carried away by the fantasy of that person being so cool until you LIVE WITH THEM. Covid 19 proved that many couples were escaping from their homes and they had to live together for the first time without going outside. The human mind likes to explore and escape reality sometimes until it's time to wake up and smell the coffee. The OP thinks it is only work place but does not know that traders too are like this. The attraction is that you can escape. You can have an affair with this person without having to live with them. Who doesn't want a free lunch? It's like teenagers who want to have sex but when they have a child or a disease, they wake up. That is the main attraction. You just have to be disciplined in anything you do.

osmosis101:
Not every jobs
You can't try this as a site engineer especially mechanical and civil engineering

YT he female colleagues dey be like man na

Fiscus105:
The largest customers of butcher are women and women like free gifts, so, they are using meat as a bait to lure them to bed.

Besides, some women most especially in "face me and face u" like to compete with one another, for type of meat they use to cook soup, meanwhile, they don't have resources to get the meat, most especially single mothers, so,many of them using their body to get free/cheap meat, in which they are using to brag for their Co-tenants at home.

Never imagined!!
What a fvckery

Rule no 1

Don’t read people’s comments with all your heart if you’re the type that put all your heart in one woman weda your wife or girlfriend…

You just did, now your mind is telling you your woman is cheating .

Samantha125:
Too late...😭😭😭

🤣
Don't cry eh 🫂

osmosis101:
Not every jobs
You can't try this as a site engineer especially mechanical and civil engineering

Site engineer? You are highly ignorant of happenings in your environment.

All these female labourers, the site engineer and bricklayers sleeping with them steadily.

Just a good, solid job. Nothing to worry about.

What of peeps in remote jobs?? How do they even do that sort of thing??

God forbid I have anything to do with any female co-worker, even as attractive as I am. Our relationship is strictly work related

It's not only on workplace, where I live, I normally leave in the morning for work and comes around 8 pm and One married woman that has a shop where I do park.

Just called me one day and I was surprised to hear from her because I normally share banter with her husband and she started talking what I don't understand but I pretend not to understand her jist and before you know it she started calling every day to check on me and complain about her husband issues with her and her children.

She later suggested to see me privately and spend time with me and then I decided to block her on all social media till date.

eepeepook:
Another topic Nairaland children will masturbate over.

Nothing to say.

Where are Bankers ranked ?
You cannot leave them out.

uche87:
Before I start, I must admit that this is a very awkward topic. At the same time, it is an interesting one. I have come across it several times on social media, and the comment sections of such posts never fail to make me laugh. They are hardly factual, but they can be very entertaining. So, don’t take this personally. Just enjoy the gist, drink some cold water, and allow your blood pressure to regulate itself.

In my opinion, wherever human beings work together, whether of the same or opposite sex, depending on their sexual orientation, copulation tends to take place. It is a normal human phenomenon. From my anecdotal observations, any occupation in which people are confined to the same place for long hours each day becomes a red zone where people are easily tempted to sleep with each other.

The tendency is even higher where teamwork and collaboration are essential to getting the job done. As people spend long hours together, official and unofficial conversations begin to flow. Desires and admiration gradually kick in. Conflicts and resolutions also occur. Consciously or unconsciously, people start to see their colleagues as part of their extended family. Familiarity grows, and interests develop.

The progression is usually simple. It innocently starts with a smile, then moves to small talk, then a handshake, and eventually a light hug. Over time, the hugs become tighter and longer — chest to chest.

Those who are very self-controlled keep their fantasies to themselves and suppress those feelings. Others who are more vulnerable find themselves caught in a romantic web without much thought about the future or any proper risk assessment. At that point, people become emotionally entangled and begin to act impulsively.

This is the same technique used by reality shows to foster romantic relationships among participants. They place young people in the same environment, make them do activities together, encourage interactions, and cut off communication with the outside world. Gradually, people begin to lose touch with reality and develop what are often phantom feelings for those around them. I call this the “Big Brother reality show syndrome,” coined from the popular Big Brother television series.

The Healthcare and Social Care Sector

I have worked in Nigeria and the United Kingdom for over a decade combined, across different sectors. From my observation, the healthcare sector, which includes doctors, nurses, and support workers, is one environment where workplace romances frequently emerge.

In the UK, working hours in the health and social care sector can be extremely long. For support staff, the pay is not always fantastic. To make ends meet, many workers pick up multiple shifts. The implication is that people often end up working simply to survive rather than truly living their lives. Other aspects of life may become neglected. For those who are married, even their intimate relationships may suffer.

To compound the situation, the risk increases when staff sit idle during night shifts in residential settings. The UK weather is often cold, and that naturally makes people seek human warmth and companionship. In such circumstances, people who spend long hours together may gradually grow closer.

Anyone who has worked in the health and social care sector in the UK will likely have heard rumours of colleagues becoming romantically involved. Sometimes it almost feels like an unofficial part of workplace culture. Many of these relationships begin as simple friendships before gradually becoming something more.

Often, it starts with a supportive colleague who becomes a trusted confidant — the “work bestie.” Over time, emotional bonds deepen. What may initially feel like a one-time mistake sometimes becomes a repeated pattern.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F2RZwcT52NU?si=fCYAEwYj0ru0Qsva

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Health workers, topmost on the list.

Civil servants i.e local govt, ministry, secretariat, following closely.

The two categories knack themselves shamelessly without hiding it. The rest dey learn work for where dem dey.

#Picks_tooth.

Fiscus105:
Site engineer? You are highly ignorant of happenings in your environment.

All these female labourers, the site engineer and bricklayers sleeping with them steadily.

I'm an iron worker,we don't usually have ladies on site bro