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KobolanderSegun:
Nigerian men in 2026 are still struggling with what women want because those men don't even understand what they want .

Why are Women so Money Minded ?

Only someone who needs psychiatric intervention will say money is not important. Money is used to buy food, eating food is how we survive.

Why men need to value themselves more to understand how women value themselves

Most men do not value themselves at all, they place more value on other people ahead of themselves.

Let us assume you are sitting down in your house minding your business and a friend on your street knocks on your gate and says " A friend of mine wants to see you for business, come to my house ".

In Nigeria almost 90 percent of people will follow their friend immediately only 10 percent will ask themselves or their friend " Why can he not come and see me, after all if it was that important to him he will get up and come and see me ".

The person who wonders why someone cannot find the strength to come and see him but wants him to find the strength to see them is a person who is wise . A wise person will calculate how much energy he is going to spend to see that person. The average person does not place any Value on himself and will be grateful someone wants to see him.

Pursuit is Proof of Desire.

How does a man know someone wants his services in a job related arrangement ? The client will pursue the individual by calling, WhatsApp. The client will do all the chasing because the client wants the service

In business you set your price not because you don't want to do the job but because you want to make sure you don't fall sick or lose time and energy. You put that in your costs.

Having said that we move forward to why women are money minded as I said money is very important because it helps you get what you need and want.

Women want to be in relationships with men but they want to make sure they are not beaten, insulted, Killed or mistreated.

The reason why women want you to spend on them is it is a barometer to see how much you are really interested in them. Because of so many stories that touch the heart from their mothers, sisters, aunties women are always on the defensive they don't want to fall victim like their friend, aunty so they are always looking out for themselves. For a woman to trust a man that does take some time it is only when the man has proven himself that the woman begins to relax.


Why women ask for so much on dates.

If a business associate told me to come and see him the first thing on my mind is what's in it for me. If the richest man in Africa called me by phone that he wants to see me I will not go. From past experiences with Nigerian Billionaires they give their word and break it the next second, having a billion naira does not impress me it's thinking about me that does.

Let's say for a business meeting someone calls me for, I always ask for Bolt Ride or Indrive money to be sent into my account. I even ask for entertainment money of N5k that is for me to buy soft drinks and Fab biscuits to make myself happy then I ask for N25k to N50k just to attend the meeting. If you cannot pay then I continue to drink my garri and groundnut in my house like the ijebu boy I am .
The reason why I am billing them is because I do not have time for sme same or nonsense, they don show me in the past, I no get time to go meeting and be speaking English,....." Show me the money "


When men are asking women to go on dates, the woman is happy staying at home eating indomie and egg watching her favorite telenovela. She is happy..... you are the one trying to break her cycle and schedule, it had better be worth it.

Asking for a Woman to pay half when you asked her to go out with you is a dumb move.
A dumb move because the date was your idea. She did not want to go ....you put small pressure on her and she is on the date with you. .... Bros are you ok ?

Splitting the bill on the first date is a black flag not even a red flag, it was your idea and you have to give her a good time. A good time is not taking her to an expensive restaurant that is foolishness on a man's part but taking her to an eatery like Tantalizers, Tastee Fried Chicken is good enough but do not ask to split the bill it looks very cheap for a guy to do that . You can even take her to a nameless eatery as long as the place is clean and no area boys are hanging around but for safety the above named eateries are the best they have security and area boys dislike clean environments.

Women are not complicated at all they simply don't want to be taken for a ride that is why they do not easily trust. They do not want to be used and dumped .

The reason why women bill

Women bill for two reasons they don't like you and they want to get as much as they can from you. This is Financial Billing

The next type of Billing is Emotional Billing
Emotional Billing is when a woman is dying for you she will nag you for not calling her she will demand you call her morning noon and night. She will ask you to do things for her all the same. She will ask you to buy her things that are not expensive. She will want you to attend parties with her. This is the best type of relationship for any man to be in.


There are days when I'm looking fly and hot that women I do not know ask me to buy them pure water or buy them soft drinks. It is not because those women are poor it is because they want a piece of me. They might not even throw the empty soft drink away but keep it as a souvenir.

Finally you guys should stop saying women do not have a heart or women do not love. The key to loving a woman is loving yourself first and loving her after.

Also if you are a billionaire get a prenuptial agreement because people can change. I did not say women can change but people can change .

Founders of companies go their separate ways all the time.

That is why self love is so important when love dies you have the love for yourself.

MoeGood:
They love using men like it's POS

BigYash:
Women are naturally manipulative.So they always win in the game of manipulation which people call love relationship.Until men learn the game of manipulation,the ladies will continue to beat you hands down. That's why the red pillers and simps comes in.. Simp will always be used by these ladies.

MoeGood:
They love using men like it's POS

KobolanderSegun:
Haba bros. You have a mother and sisters are they not trying for you ?

KobolanderSegun:
Nigerian men in 2026 are still struggling with what women want because those men don't even understand what they want .

Why are Women so Money Minded ?

Only someone who needs psychiatric intervention will say money is not important. Money is used to buy food, eating food is how we survive.

Why men need to value themselves more to understand how women value themselves

Most men do not value themselves at all, they place more value on other people ahead of themselves.

Let us assume you are sitting down in your house minding your business and a friend on your street knocks on your gate and says " A friend of mine wants to see you for business, come to my house ".

In Nigeria almost 90 percent of people will follow their friend immediately only 10 percent will ask themselves or their friend " Why can he not come and see me, after all if it was that important to him he will get up and come and see me ".

The person who wonders why someone cannot find the strength to come and see him but wants him to find the strength to see them is a person who is wise . A wise person will calculate how much energy he is going to spend to see that person. The average person does not place any Value on himself and will be grateful someone wants to see him.

Pursuit is Proof of Desire.

How does a man know someone wants his services in a job related arrangement ? The client will pursue the individual by calling, WhatsApp. The client will do all the chasing because the client wants the service

In business you set your price not because you don't want to do the job but because you want to make sure you don't fall sick or lose time and energy. You put that in your costs.

Having said that we move forward to why women are money minded as I said money is very important because it helps you get what you need and want.

Women want to be in relationships with men but they want to make sure they are not beaten, insulted, Killed or mistreated.

The reason why women want you to spend on them is it is a barometer to see how much you are really interested in them. Because of so many stories that touch the heart from their mothers, sisters, aunties women are always on the defensive they don't want to fall victim like their friend, aunty so they are always looking out for themselves. For a woman to trust a man that does take some time it is only when the man has proven himself that the woman begins to relax.


Why women ask for so much on dates.

If a business associate told me to come and see him the first thing on my mind is what's in it for me. If the richest man in Africa called me by phone that he wants to see me I will not go. From past experiences with Nigerian Billionaires they give their word and break it the next second, having a billion naira does not impress me it's thinking about me that does.

Let's say for a business meeting someone calls me for, I always ask for Bolt Ride or Indrive money to be sent into my account. I even ask for entertainment money of N5k that is for me to buy soft drinks and Fab biscuits to make myself happy then I ask for N25k to N50k just to attend the meeting. If you cannot pay then I continue to drink my garri and groundnut in my house like the ijebu boy I am .
The reason why I am billing them is because I do not have time for sme same or nonsense, they don show me in the past, I no get time to go meeting and be speaking English,....." Show me the money "


When men are asking women to go on dates, the woman is happy staying at home eating indomie and egg watching her favorite telenovela. She is happy..... you are the one trying to break her cycle and schedule, it had better be worth it.

Asking for a Woman to pay half when you asked her to go out with you is a dumb move.
A dumb move because the date was your idea. She did not want to go ....you put small pressure on her and she is on the date with you. .... Bros are you ok ?

Splitting the bill on the first date is a black flag not even a red flag, it was your idea and you have to give her a good time. A good time is not taking her to an expensive restaurant that is foolishness on a man's part but taking her to an eatery like Tantalizers, Tastee Fried Chicken is good enough but do not ask to split the bill it looks very cheap for a guy to do that . You can even take her to a nameless eatery as long as the place is clean and no area boys are hanging around but for safety the above named eateries are the best they have security and area boys dislike clean environments.

Women are not complicated at all they simply don't want to be taken for a ride that is why they do not easily trust. They do not want to be used and dumped .

The reason why women bill

Women bill for two reasons they don't like you and they want to get as much as they can from you. This is Financial Billing

The next type of Billing is Emotional Billing
Emotional Billing is when a woman is dying for you she will nag you for not calling her she will demand you call her morning noon and night. She will ask you to do things for her all the same. She will ask you to buy her things that are not expensive. She will want you to attend parties with her. This is the best type of relationship for any man to be in.


There are days when I'm looking fly and hot that women I do not know ask me to buy them pure water or buy them soft drinks. It is not because those women are poor it is because they want a piece of me. They might not even throw the empty soft drink away but keep it as a souvenir.

Finally you guys should stop saying women do not have a heart or women do not love. The key to loving a woman is loving yourself first and loving her after.

Also if you are a billionaire get a prenuptial agreement because people can change. I did not say women can change but people can change .

Founders of companies go their separate ways all the time.

That is why self love is so important when love dies you have the love for yourself.

goran3310:
I can clearly see that I will never free myself from the habit of paying prostitutes. From this text, that is more than obvious. I am disgusted.🤮🤮🤮🤮

Maj196:
Wrote all these junks because of women. Mtcheeew

Maj196:
Wrote all these junks because of women. Mtcheeew

KobolanderSegun:
Keep them as friends and you'll begin to have too many orphans of which they'll think you must be responsible for, cut off your cord that feeds them and they're gone!

Why will you pay prostitutes ? I'm very Happily married and I have never been with a prostitute before. Spend more time focused on your work and become a mentor to a woman and give her free advice without s,ex involved , just have platonic female friends and stop seeing women as sexual tools. Did you bother to read my initial post ? This is even written more for men than it is for women. I'm showing men how to be smart in business and with women

Alikoooooooooo:
Are you saying men should have nothing to do with women ?

KobolanderSegun:
You heard him nah..... Most likely he is doing a job that requires little thinking so if you are a little thinker you don't need women, if you are a massive thinker you need women badly to cool the brain down. That is why the bible calls women assistant to give you assist while you do the scoring

Alikoooooooooo:
Very true

eepeepook:
https://www.nairaland.com/8601145/it-finished

KobolanderSegun:
Why will you pay prostitutes ? I'm very Happily married and I have never been with a prostitute before. Spend more time focused on your work and become a mentor to a woman and give her free advice without s,ex involved , just have platonic female friends and stop seeing women as sexual tools. Did you bother to read my initial post ? This is even written more for men than it is for women. I'm showing men how to be smart in business and with women

goran3310:
Of course I read your post.
My situation is specific...

Baddest0007:
In this our economy you are still talking about women ?

Tosinville:
Simp talk, all junks because of women

Tosinville:
Simp talk, all junks because of women

MoeGood:
They love using men like it's POS

Diamond098454:
Hmmmm essential where are you❓

KobolanderSegun:
Nigerian men in 2026 are still struggling with what women want because those men don't even understand what they want .

Why are Women so Money Minded ?

Only someone who needs psychiatric intervention will say money is not important. Money is used to buy food, eating food is how we survive.

Why men need to value themselves more to understand how women value themselves

Most men do not value themselves at all, they place more value on other people ahead of themselves.

Let us assume you are sitting down in your house minding your business and a friend on your street knocks on your gate and says " A friend of mine wants to see you for business, come to my house ".

In Nigeria almost 90 percent of people will follow their friend immediately only 10 percent will ask themselves or their friend " Why can he not come and see me, after all if it was that important to him he will get up and come and see me ".

The person who wonders why someone cannot find the strength to come and see him but wants him to find the strength to see them is a person who is wise . A wise person will calculate how much energy he is going to spend to see that person. The average person does not place any Value on himself and will be grateful someone wants to see him.

Pursuit is Proof of Desire.

How does a man know someone wants his services in a job related arrangement ? The client will pursue the individual by calling, WhatsApp. The client will do all the chasing because the client wants the service

In business you set your price not because you don't want to do the job but because you want to make sure you don't fall sick or lose time and energy. You put that in your costs.

Having said that we move forward to why women are money minded as I said money is very important because it helps you get what you need and want.

Women want to be in relationships with men but they want to make sure they are not beaten, insulted, Killed or mistreated.

The reason why women want you to spend on them is it is a barometer to see how much you are really interested in them. Because of so many stories that touch the heart from their mothers, sisters, aunties women are always on the defensive they don't want to fall victim like their friend, aunty so they are always looking out for themselves. For a woman to trust a man that does take some time it is only when the man has proven himself that the woman begins to relax.


Why women ask for so much on dates.

If a business associate told me to come and see him the first thing on my mind is what's in it for me. If the richest man in Africa called me by phone that he wants to see me I will not go. From past experiences with Nigerian Billionaires they give their word and break it the next second, having a billion naira does not impress me it's thinking about me that does.

Let's say for a business meeting someone calls me for, I always ask for Bolt Ride or Indrive money to be sent into my account. I even ask for entertainment money of N5k that is for me to buy soft drinks and Fab biscuits to make myself happy then I ask for N25k to N50k just to attend the meeting. If you cannot pay then I continue to drink my garri and groundnut in my house like the ijebu boy I am .
The reason why I am billing them is because I do not have time for sme same or nonsense, they don show me in the past, I no get time to go meeting and be speaking English,....." Show me the money "


When men are asking women to go on dates, the woman is happy staying at home eating indomie and egg watching her favorite telenovela. She is happy..... you are the one trying to break her cycle and schedule, it had better be worth it.

Asking for a Woman to pay half when you asked her to go out with you is a dumb move.
A dumb move because the date was your idea. She did not want to go ....you put small pressure on her and she is on the date with you. .... Bros are you ok ?

Splitting the bill on the first date is a black flag not even a red flag, it was your idea and you have to give her a good time. A good time is not taking her to an expensive restaurant that is foolishness on a man's part but taking her to an eatery like Tantalizers, Tastee Fried Chicken is good enough but do not ask to split the bill it looks very cheap for a guy to do that . You can even take her to a nameless eatery as long as the place is clean and no area boys are hanging around but for safety the above named eateries are the best they have security and area boys dislike clean environments.

Women are not complicated at all they simply don't want to be taken for a ride that is why they do not easily trust. They do not want to be used and dumped .

The reason why women bill

Women bill for two reasons they don't like you and they want to get as much as they can from you. This is Financial Billing

The next type of Billing is Emotional Billing
Emotional Billing is when a woman is dying for you she will nag you for not calling her she will demand you call her morning noon and night. She will ask you to do things for her all the same. She will ask you to buy her things that are not expensive. She will want you to attend parties with her. This is the best type of relationship for any man to be in.


There are days when I'm looking fly and hot that women I do not know ask me to buy them pure water or buy them soft drinks. It is not because those women are poor it is because they want a piece of me. They might not even throw the empty soft drink away but keep it as a souvenir.

Finally you guys should stop saying women do not have a heart or women do not love. The key to loving a woman is loving yourself first and loving her after.

Also if you are a billionaire get a prenuptial agreement because people can change. I did not say women can change but people can change .

Founders of companies go their separate ways all the time.

That is why self love is so important when love dies you have the love for yourself.