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| Pls How Can I Forget This Girl In My Life ,I Am Getting Depressed. by NotSidestory(op): 7:00pm On Mar 20 |
So this girl that I love is getting married to someone else and I have not being my self since then. The thing that is hurting deeply is me imagining the person that will take her that means the (husband). Like having s*x with her not me . This days even focusing on my job is hard as I keep thinking that ,it is not possible to find someone like her. I can't take it anymore.i did everything to forget about her but I can't. I feel like this is the end of my life. I sleep lately smoking just because of her but no any positive result. 😢 Pls what advice and motivation will you give me. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Pls How Can I Forget This Girl In My Life ,I Am Getting Depressed. by immortalcrown(m): 7:04pm On Mar 20 |
I will start with a question. Why didn't you marry her? 3 Likes |
| Re: Pls How Can I Forget This Girl In My Life ,I Am Getting Depressed. by goodoo: 7:08pm On Mar 20 |
NotSidestory:Healing is process, gather enough encouragement u will surly get Better. 1 Like |
| Re: Pls How Can I Forget This Girl In My Life ,I Am Getting Depressed. by NotSidestory(op): 7:13pm On Mar 20 |
immortalcrown:I'm young now I need to reach to a level of life at least. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Pls How Can I Forget This Girl In My Life ,I Am Getting Depressed. by nwakgr8(m): 7:16pm On Mar 20 |
Drink alcohol and go to club to forget all sorrows my brother. Drink Hot gin 🙌🏾 1 Like |
| Re: Pls How Can I Forget This Girl In My Life ,I Am Getting Depressed. by immortalcrown(m): 7:20pm On Mar 20 |
NotSidestory:Did you date her? 1 Like |
| Re: Pls How Can I Forget This Girl In My Life ,I Am Getting Depressed. by NotSidestory(op): 7:30pm On Mar 20 |
immortalcrown:yes just for one month. |
| Re: Pls How Can I Forget This Girl In My Life ,I Am Getting Depressed. by Menses: 7:39pm On Mar 20 |
Where's Kobojunkie Make e con judge this matter...🤣🤣 Try deh take mkpurumiri u no go reason am 5 Likes |
| Re: Pls How Can I Forget This Girl In My Life ,I Am Getting Depressed. by immortalcrown(m): 7:43pm On Mar 20 |
NotSidestory:1. You dated her for only one month. Your love for her might have either increased or reduced if the relationship had lasted longer. Since the relationship lasted for only 1 month, do not act as if you have studied her for a decade. 2. You are not even sure she would have accepted you if she remained single until you were prepared for marriage. 3. If she is actually so good, it is wisdom that guided you to recognise her value and date her. The same wisdom can still enable you to identify and date another girl that is either as good as or better than her. It might even be that she is not as good as you think but you are narrow-minded to have quickly concluded that she is so good. 4 Likes |
| Re: Pls How Can I Forget This Girl In My Life ,I Am Getting Depressed. by NotSidestory(op): 8:30pm On Mar 20 |
immortalcrown:wow thanks seems you are a psychologist. |
| Re: Pls How Can I Forget This Girl In My Life ,I Am Getting Depressed. by laivwire(m): 8:39pm On Mar 20 |
NotSidestory:I would thnk we all have this type of girl at one point in our lives. A massive crush that was just not meant to happen. Give it time, you would get over it. 5 Likes |
| Re: Pls How Can I Forget This Girl In My Life ,I Am Getting Depressed. by Ernerstdavid55(m): 8:44pm On Mar 20 |
U never lose 2shure odd before i swear u go 4get Ur birthday self  2 Likes |
| Re: Pls How Can I Forget This Girl In My Life ,I Am Getting Depressed. by doctore212(m): 8:51pm On Mar 20 |
My brother, just forget her. Use ur school fees money go carry beta olosho ( x2). You will not regret it. Make sure no CD ooo. Those in Obalende are a cheaper but u fit carry Gono go house |
| Re: Pls How Can I Forget This Girl In My Life ,I Am Getting Depressed. by pansophist(m): 9:18pm On Mar 20 |
More sauce please, so I can answer properly. 1. How old are you and her? 2. Is she your first love? 3. Have you guys ever dated ? If yes, who initiated the break up and why? 4. By your own assessment, are you financially stable ? More sauce please 5 Likes |
| Re: Pls How Can I Forget This Girl In My Life ,I Am Getting Depressed. by Hypnotise: 9:21pm On Mar 20 |
NotSidestory:Who love epp  strong your mind like a soldier who no dey love 3 Likes |
| Re: Pls How Can I Forget This Girl In My Life ,I Am Getting Depressed. by obinna58(m): 9:48pm On Mar 20 |
Life haven’t tormented you yet and you’re thinking of suicide, by the time life torments you’ll be laughing at this your stupidity. You’ll make money and sample pussies, chill ok 5 Likes |
| Re: Pls How Can I Forget This Girl In My Life ,I Am Getting Depressed. by Twenty8: 9:55pm On Mar 20 |
doctore212:This one weak me o😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 |
| Re: Pls How Can I Forget This Girl In My Life ,I Am Getting Depressed. by VaginaAcademic: 10:05pm On Mar 20 |
You be werey girl wey no send you na you dey depressed for. Na who love me I go love abi how dem take sing am 1 Like |
| Re: Pls How Can I Forget This Girl In My Life ,I Am Getting Depressed. by NotSidestory(op): 11:11pm On Mar 20 |
pansophist:1-late 20s 2-no 3- just met 1 month ago / she just ghosted me ,4- no not really |
| Re: Pls How Can I Forget This Girl In My Life ,I Am Getting Depressed. by oz4real83(m): 1:37am On Mar 21 |
Nobody is indispensable, you just have to get yourself very busy to get her off your mind. Idleness is never a good thing especially when dealing with heartbreak. 1 Like |
| Re: Pls How Can I Forget This Girl In My Life ,I Am Getting Depressed. by APOPTOSIS: 4:11am On Mar 21 |
NotSidestory:Does she have U. S. GreenCard? Is she an asset or a liability? IF she's a liability......... please don't disturb us again here. U should channel every energy of yours to assets. Start choosing your friends yourself. 7 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Pls How Can I Forget This Girl In My Life ,I Am Getting Depressed. by franchasofficia: 6:44am On Mar 21 |
NotSidestory:You are making a huge mistake. Redirect your energy to things that would improve your financial life. The reason you are this worried about a girl you dated for just one month and she ghosted you is because you are struggling financially and you have limited access to women of your taste and by chance or luck or whatever you met this very lady who happened to be your spec physically or beauty wise and as she ghosted you, you have not been able to meet a girl as beautiful as she is or more prettier than her, hence you feel that you have lost a rare gem that you can never find again. That is the reason you are feeling suicidal, and you are committing a big fallacy. Let me enlighten you, as a man, what makes you a man of value, the dream man of most women is your financial worth (ability to provide without stress) not your handsome look, not your 9 packs, not your intelligence, not the length of your Gbola or how good you are in bed. Focus on what makes you a valuable man; finance. Get it right and watch prettier, classier, hotter, better ladies become easily available to you such that you will be wondering what made you fell so badly for this girl of today. By then, you might see the girl and even feel ashamed that you once felt like committing suicide because of her. The older a man grows in financial wealth, the better he becomes and the more he becomes more appealing to women. You have not even seen women my brother, just work on improving your financial life and you will have the opportunity to travel around and see that God really created beautiful women beyond the ones you are seeing now lol. To make you understand where I am coming from, I am a happily married man with kids. As beautiful as my wife is, when I visit some places and see some ladies and how gorgeous they are, I just smile and say wow God de create lol. If I decide to marry again today, I will marry a lady prettier and hotter than my wife, with even good character join, and you know why? Because I am financially better today than when I married my wife and I have become the dream man of so many classy ladies unlike when I just finished NYSC that I was the dream man of few mgbekes and maybe some local beauties In this beautiful life, you should only be worried about two things: 1.) things that affect your health negatively 2.) things that reduces your finances With the above two things in tact, my brother the world is yours as a man so better wake up and face your job or business and start thinking of how to improve yourself to enable you get promoted, secure a juicer job or grow in your business if you are a businessman. 18 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: Pls How Can I Forget This Girl In My Life ,I Am Getting Depressed. by Cum4me(m): 7:10am On Mar 21 |
You never see anything. |
| Re: Pls How Can I Forget This Girl In My Life ,I Am Getting Depressed. by TheWolfen(m): 7:13am On Mar 21 |
If u already made. Nah u she for marry nah. Women marry who is ready. Just focus on your job and upgrading your living condition. Women plenty and they will fall over u 3 Likes |
| Re: Pls How Can I Forget This Girl In My Life ,I Am Getting Depressed. by FalseProphet1(m): 7:19am On Mar 21 |
pansophist:Don't stress yourself, he's a teenager infatuated with her. What he's calling love isn't. The girl married someone who was ready, he should be happy. 4 Likes |
| Re: Pls How Can I Forget This Girl In My Life ,I Am Getting Depressed. by franchasofficia: 7:38am On Mar 21 |
APOPTOSIS:Very good questions. Op, is the lady a US citizen?  |
| Re: Pls How Can I Forget This Girl In My Life ,I Am Getting Depressed. by jackmrandy: 7:42am On Mar 21 |
NotSidestory:I don't respond to stuff like this any more. But for your sanity sake let me do. From what i can see in your write you are only concerned about the sex. The fact your mind points to that sex aspect clearly shows you are lust over the girl. Lust is not love. that sex you are craving and fantasizing there is every possibility if she gives you, you won't love her again by then your eyes will now be open to certain aspect of here yoi could not notice. Now back to the point of marriage , marriage is not sex. thou its a minor part of it but the bulk load of it balls down to financial responsibility , emotional maturity cos its not for children cos in one of your response you just said you are still young amd i can sense that financial stability is not there. Go and get yourself busy go make money, go solve problems women will be the one coming after you. Drinking, partying might not work for all, get busy with something. delete her contact for now may be later in this future when you have let go and not worried again you can resave it. The fact she said yes to another guy/man clearly shows she does not love you. so think well before you go harm yourself 3 Likes |
| Re: Pls How Can I Forget This Girl In My Life ,I Am Getting Depressed. by Usmanovic95(m): 8:05am On Mar 21 |
You want to get depressed because of a girl who doesn't give a fhvk about your existence? You should even be thankful to God for chasing such a girl away from your life because she was likely in a multiple relationship and must have assess your financial capabilities before settling for the most stable man. Oga if you kpai yourself, life won't stop o hope say you know. Cheer up, step out there are other girls in your neighborhood wey dey feel your vibes. 2 Likes |
| Re: Pls How Can I Forget This Girl In My Life ,I Am Getting Depressed. by eteebanky1: 8:41am On Mar 21 |
You're a fool. |
| Re: Pls How Can I Forget This Girl In My Life ,I Am Getting Depressed. by NotSidestory(op): 8:54am On Mar 21 |
franchasofficia:wow this your write up really motivates me thanks very much 🙏 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Pls How Can I Forget This Girl In My Life ,I Am Getting Depressed. by floss(m): 9:04am On Mar 21 |
Go and listen to that zlatan ft flavour song, I think “genesis “ is the name…. Do you know that a man can make another man lose his fiancée ? Do you know that a girl that has said yes to a man can be begging you to be in your life ? Do you know that women see value in a man’s life 15years away from the present moment ? Do you know that you’re capable of making her feel depressed and having sleepless nights rather than you doing it ? Do you know that you’re only feeling this way because you’re still struggling… ? The only solution to your problem right now is MONEY MONEY MONEY Just make money and see that your infatuation become clearer 3 Likes |
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