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| Reasons Why Several Guys Do Not Want To Marry Single Mums by ebubeson(op): 3:33pm On Mar 21 |
We have single Mums that can make good wives, and no matter what the society says, there are single Mums that can make good homes. If you look deeply, a single Mum having a child may not be the main issue of many guys, but below may be the issue many guys avoid single Mums in marriage. (1) Fear of she cheating with her baby daddy: Do you know how painful it may be loving and supporting a single Mum only to discover she is sleeping with her baby daddy who may be so irresponsible. (2) Fear of not being a father to her child or children: If after a man marries a single Mum and treats her child or children so well like a true father, and gets dumped in the future because he is not their biological, such may be so painful to him. (3) Fear of divided emotions: A single Mum may be emotionally connected to both her husband and baby daddy. This might make her husband feel unsafe in the marriage; and if he expressed his concern, there may be outburst that he is just being insecure. As a lady, never accept to get pregnant before marriage, no matter the promises given. Just avoid pre-marital sex. Again, if baby Daddies had married their baby Mamas, this issue may have subsided.
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| Re: Reasons Why Several Guys Do Not Want To Marry Single Mums by SeverusSnape(m): 3:50pm On Mar 21 |
No matter how perfect or well behaved a single mother is, The only condition that might make me marry her is if her baby daddy is deceased. ![]() |
| Re: Reasons Why Several Guys Do Not Want To Marry Single Mums by Mcreloaded(m): 4:03pm On Mar 21*. Modified: 5:48pm On Mar 22 |
SeverusSnape:Even at that, most baby mama are seriously damaged and toxic goods. |
| Re: Reasons Why Several Guys Do Not Want To Marry Single Mums by ibechris(m): 4:06pm On Mar 21*. Modified: 8:48am On Mar 22 |
If u are not a single father,avoid that path. It's a journey of regret and disappointment. |
| Re: Reasons Why Several Guys Do Not Want To Marry Single Mums by floss(m): 4:15pm On Mar 21 |
Even as a single father, don’t marry a single mother…. Not to talk about being a single guy |
| Re: Reasons Why Several Guys Do Not Want To Marry Single Mums by Mariangeles(f): 4:23pm On Mar 21 |
Mcreloaded:How are they so? Because they were impregnated, and chose to have the baby? Na this kind of your comment dey make some young girls flush pikin wey them suffer born inside toilet, because of shame and fear. Make una dey try do better. After all, na men like una impregnate those ladies, come abandon them. |
| Re: Reasons Why Several Guys Do Not Want To Marry Single Mums by Nobody: 4:24pm On Mar 21 |
Rule No 1, never start a game with a goal down. |
| Re: Reasons Why Several Guys Do Not Want To Marry Single Mums by BigYash: 4:28pm On Mar 21 |
Dated one for two weeks last month. She was just over doing things. Any small thing,she will say she told her pastor about me ,this and that. I even lied to her at some point. She came back to tell me her pastor saw the thing coming,that I should be prayerful. I just know say the pastor sef dey use her headShe was constantly disturbing for the D ,like she is s*ex starved. But I sensed she wanted to take in for me by all means. The way I cut her off en. I am sure she will still be wondering till now "which kind boy I jam" |
| Re: Reasons Why Several Guys Do Not Want To Marry Single Mums by Mariangeles(f): 4:28pm On Mar 21*. Modified: 10:13pm On Mar 21 |
floss:Naso! So, you can put your baggage on others, but can't handle other's baggage, abi? |
| Re: Reasons Why Several Guys Do Not Want To Marry Single Mums by floss(m): 4:34pm On Mar 21 |
Mariangeles:Men have no baggage’s , we travel light…. But you see women …. Even the single ones are baggages not to talk about when they’ve complicated their lives in the name of marriage… It’s better to marry a widow after I’ve verified what and how the husband died …. If everything seems natural I go ahead. It’s better than marrying a single mother…. |
| Re: Reasons Why Several Guys Do Not Want To Marry Single Mums by Mcreloaded(m): 4:42pm On Mar 21 |
Mariangeles:Many single mothers are on a revenge mission and some that unfortunately have daughters end up teaching their daughters to hate and use men with so much hate and crafty attitude. The final lesson they impact on their daughters is to encourage them to leave any marriage or relationship that they cannot controll the man, after all their mother trained their daughters singlehandedly. It takes the grace of God for a.single mother not to be damaged and by extension raising her daughter to be toxic towards the opposite sex and the cycle continue |
| Re: Reasons Why Several Guys Do Not Want To Marry Single Mums by Mariangeles(f): 4:50pm On Mar 21 |
Mcreloaded:What about the ones that raise sons? What become of the sons [men]? Single mothers don't only raise daughters, you know? |
| Re: Reasons Why Several Guys Do Not Want To Marry Single Mums by Jman06(m): 5:29pm On Mar 21 |
Mariangeles:Were they raped? No! They consented to having premarital sex with guys they consider attractive, so they should be ready to carry their crosses without seeking sympathy from other guys who are not responsible for their predicaments. |
| Re: Reasons Why Several Guys Do Not Want To Marry Single Mums by marlow1962(m): 5:45pm On Mar 21 |
SeverusSnape:Even if her baby daddy is deceased, you will still not be the first choice. |
| Re: Reasons Why Several Guys Do Not Want To Marry Single Mums by Eddodoh(m): 6:32pm On Mar 21 |
BigYash:They are usually like that. They believe that the best way to tame a man is to spread their legs. So u will enjoy excess seggz when u date them and they are usually sweet. They rush things and want to manipulate u into marrying them. I have one currently. She's not bad. I toasted her some years ago she refused, last Xmas I shoot my shot again and it clicked. She told me about her baby & the baby daddy who is an Army. Though I didn't know that she's a single mom initially. She told me how she has being the one taking care of the kid bcuz the guy is married to another woman. She was happy having me around her and always talk about marriage. She requested that I support her to learn Make-up Artistry so she can also support me when we eventually marry. I collect enough opueh and japa!! |
| Re: Reasons Why Several Guys Do Not Want To Marry Single Mums by Mcreloaded(m): 6:53pm On Mar 21 |
Mariangeles:You are very very right it's more easier to raise a son by a single mother compared to raising a daughter, but if there is no strong discipline when a single mother raises a son then ur guess is as good as mine. Mind you not all single mothers are damaged goods as I have seen some single mothers who went through he'll to be a good single mother. Circumstances can do a lot of damage and you can't necessarily blame the mother. |
| Re: Reasons Why Several Guys Do Not Want To Marry Single Mums by UKEMY(m): 7:01pm On Mar 21 |
Eddodoh:Na wetin I wan do single mom wey get, I go promise them love and affection,smack wetin I want then japa. |
| Re: Reasons Why Several Guys Do Not Want To Marry Single Mums by kiddaz: 7:11pm On Mar 21 |
Mcreloaded:A single mother can never raise a son properly. Never, they're not built for that. There has to be a stronger male influence over that child |
| Re: Reasons Why Several Guys Do Not Want To Marry Single Mums by meobizy(m): 7:21pm On Mar 21 |
The same topic for the nth time. Welcome to Nairaland. |
| Re: Reasons Why Several Guys Do Not Want To Marry Single Mums by Mcreloaded(m): 7:41pm On Mar 21 |
kiddaz:That's why I said but if there is no strong discipline when a single mother raises a son then ur guess is as good as mine. The strong discipline comes from the man always |
| Re: Reasons Why Several Guys Do Not Want To Marry Single Mums by cr7lomo: 8:05pm On Mar 21 |
Mariangeles:Why should u get pregnant in the first place and why should u demand a man to marry a single mother?? Do men demand women to marry broke men ?? |
| Re: Reasons Why Several Guys Do Not Want To Marry Single Mums by Mariangeles(f): 8:11pm On Mar 21*. Modified: 10:12pm On Mar 21 |
cr7lomo:Why should you have sex with a lady you're not married to in the first place? Why would you impregnate her and not take responsibility? Isn't that reckless, irresponsible, and cowardly of you? |
| Re: Reasons Why Several Guys Do Not Want To Marry Single Mums by Precious201010(m): 8:15pm On Mar 21 |
Eddodoh:
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| Re: Reasons Why Several Guys Do Not Want To Marry Single Mums by Esthered: 8:24pm On Mar 21*. Modified: 5:17am On Mar 22 |
There's a thread where a guy in the comment section was praising his industrious single mother turned wife and he plans on buying an industrial machine for her to scale her fashion design business after leaving his wife whom he claimed was lazy. Some single mothers made mistakes, took the lessons and became better version of themselves. |
| Re: Reasons Why Several Guys Do Not Want To Marry Single Mums by Flangelo12: 8:54pm On Mar 21 |
Guys hardly leave a good woman. |
| Re: Reasons Why Several Guys Do Not Want To Marry Single Mums by pocohantas(f): 9:02pm On Mar 21 |
The ones wey una marry, no be them dey cry everyday for Tiktok. Abeg leave single mothers alone. Create more threads on the ones you are dating and married to. |
| Re: Reasons Why Several Guys Do Not Want To Marry Single Mums by SixSeven: 9:42pm On Mar 21 |
Esthered:Single mother wife 👀 |
| Re: Reasons Why Several Guys Do Not Want To Marry Single Mums by Justdogood(m): 10:02pm On Mar 21 |
Simple. Women always over emphasise their importance |
| Re: Reasons Why Several Guys Do Not Want To Marry Single Mums by spiceadole(f): 10:03pm On Mar 21 |
Mariangeles:Men are very smart people. Even single fathers demonize single mothers but you will see a lady who has never given birth before accepting to marry a man with baggages. Women are so foo. Lish. When I was single, the moment I find out you already have a child, I just ghost. I ghosted one guy who had a 10 year old son. He couldn't believe it. |
| Re: Reasons Why Several Guys Do Not Want To Marry Single Mums by ecomallchemistt: 10:04pm On Mar 21 |
Make I date you for what and as what… Match don start 2 - 0 , how you want make I take equalize… Abeg deal with your problem and take care of your pikin before you carry family problem come put for my head. |
| Re: Reasons Why Several Guys Do Not Want To Marry Single Mums by osuofia2(m): 10:06pm On Mar 21 |
If you de follow gehgeh you no fit fall for any trap of single mother, single fathers can marry single mothers, |
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I just know say the pastor sef dey use her head