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The moment you approached a woman, she automatically becomes the PRIZE. There's no second thought about this.

How you decide to play the game and turn the table to make you the man become the prize is a tedious work of seduction that should either be saved or channelled to a woman that first like you.

The thing is that women have a particular men they love. This is aside financial and physical status. Meet any mature woman today, and she will tell you she loves this particular man. She will not wait for that man to approach her, rather she will get closer to the man and send greenlights. Another man chasing this kind of woman is mere wasting his time.

The humiliation ritual you'll face when cold approaching and the later rejection affects you psychologically no matter how much you all try to form Brocks Lesnar. "Oh, her lose, not mine". Bro shut the Bleep up! It is actually your lose because you were the one that approached her, she never cared about your existence not until you decide to jump into her radar.

This is where manipulative women are able to play their script, because they know that it's the man doing the chasing and as a hunter he will try all means to get her down to satiate his ego and increase his notch counts, and in this same process, alter these men into simps.

Not entirely disproving cold approaching women. But the ROI is extremely low and poor. Your only advantage is if you've good aesthetics in looks and good financial standing. You must be constantly showcasing your status to draw women's attention and as well understand how seduction works. And in most cases you end up being a simp. Because you're trying to force a relationship to happen where there should be none in the first place.

This doesn't means you can't seduce a stranger into your bed, but that's possible if you're doing it on a mutual ground, that's after creating some form of rapport rather than just jumping into her front and starts giving lines. She will definitely see you as a 🤡.

Fun fact: every man also has one or two women vying for their attention. The problem is that men don't know how to pick signals from women and/or these women making sexual advances are not sexually appealing to the men.

It's a dilemma: the woman you lust over don't love you; the woman who loves you, you don't lust over.

The thing here is that, in the intersexual dynamics, the relationship moves easier when it's the woman that likes you first. She'll do everything to make the relationship work. That's what is termed Genuine desire.
Reverse cannot be the case because women want to give reverence and adulation for their men and end up being protected by these men.

Stop shooting aimlessly.

Look for the few women that have genuine desire for you and you'll enjoy the game of seduction and the interplay of love and romance.

Guy, go and find work to do. Chasing women is a waste of time and resources.

CaveAdullam:
The moment you approached a woman, she automatically becomes the PRIZE. There's no second thought about this.

How you decide to play the game and turn the table to make you the man become the prize is a tedious work of seduction that should either be saved or channelled to a woman that first like you.

The thing is that women have a particular men they love. This is aside financial and physical status. Meet any mature woman today, and she will tell you she loves this particular man. She will not wait for that man to approach her, rather she will get closer to the man and send greenlights. Another man chasing this kind of woman is mere wasting his time.

The humiliation ritual you'll face when cold approaching and the later rejection affects you psychologically no matter how much you all try to form Brocks Lesnar. "Oh, her lose, not mine". Bro shut the Bleep up! It is actually your lose because you were the one that approached her, she never cared about your existence not until you decide to jump into her radar.

This is where manipulative women are able to play their script, because they know that it's the man doing the chasing and as a hunter he will try all means to get her down to satiate his ego and increase his notch counts, and in this same process, alter these men into simps.

Not entirely disproving cold approaching women. But the ROI is extremely low and poor. Your only advantage is if you've good aesthetics in looks and good financial standing. You must be constantly showcasing your status to draw women's attention and as well understand how seduction works. And in most cases you end up being a simp. Because you're trying to force a relationship to happen where there should be none in the first place.

This doesn't means you can't seduce a stranger into your bed, but that's possible if you're doing it on a mutual ground, that's after creating some form of rapport rather than just jumping into her front and starts giving lines. She will definitely see you as a 🤡.

Fun fact: every man also has one or two women vying for their attention. The problem is that men don't know how to pick signals from women and/or these women making sexual advances are not sexually appealing to the men.

It's a dilemma: the woman you lust over don't love you; the woman who loves you, you don't lust over.

The thing here is that, in the intersexual dynamics, the relationship moves easier when it's the woman that likes you first. She'll do everything to make the relationship work. That's what is termed Genuine desire.
Reverse cannot be the case because women want to give reverence and adulation for their men and end up being protected by these men.

Stop shooting aimlessly.

Look for the few women that have genuine desire for you and you'll enjoy the game of seduction and the interplay of love and romance.

eepeepook:
Guy, go and find work to do. Chasing women is a waste of time and resources.

So in your mind you think he's jobless for trying to educate would-be SIMPs?

When a woman needs you, for sure she will send you greenlights.

Men need a direct and more vivid signs of closeness from these women which only the gold-diggers do. The women that are after your money, resources, do respond fast to men's neediness, thats why they(men) always loose the genuine ladies who are mostly relaxed.

eepeepook:
Guy, go and find work to do. Chasing women is a waste of time and resources.

Meobizy, u don watch that porn finish?🥱

True story: early last year I drove my guy to his birthday, and one babe was acting like Barbie around me. To discharge her, we exchanged contacts, but I snubbed her small after. Weeks ago she posted her swimming video, I hailed her shape, and she confessed she had a strong crush on me from that first day because of how I was acting shameless—walking barefoot in ShopRite and being playful. She wanted to visit yesterday and was in high spirits after we talked but I just sent her 5k and begged her to postpone her visit till when next week. How can she tell me she was attracted to a tout behaviour.

Both approaches have merit, but 'being chosen' is often seen as the gold standard. However, both have their distinct disadvantages.

Cold approaching develops your confidence because the world becomes your training ground. Navigation requires skill, and skills require practice. By viewing the cold approach as a field for growth, you'll be better equipped to recognize the right woman when you meet her. It's important to distinguish between three types of approaches: those for dating, those for sex, and those for friendship. If you focus solely on sex or dating, you risk missing genuine connection, as the interaction may be built on superficialities like money or rehearsed lines. Approaching for friendship, however, offers the advantage of building a strong network and authentic confidence.

Being chosen feels great, but it has a hidden downside. Relying solely on being picked can lead to a dip in self-esteem; you may find yourself losing the ability to talk to women as easily as you do with your friends. Since many women avoid approaching first due to social ego, waiting to be chosen can leave you without the courage to take initiative. While both paths are valid, the best strategy is a hybrid: use the cold approach to build social skills and friendship, while remaining open to the person who truly chooses you.

SpencerForbes:
Both approaches have merit, but 'being chosen' is often seen as the gold standard. However, both have their distinct disadvantages.

Cold approaching develops your confidence because the world becomes your training ground. Navigation requires skill, and skills require practice. By viewing the cold approach as a field for growth, you'll be better equipped to recognize the right woman when you meet her. It's important to distinguish between three types of approaches: those for dating, those for sex, and those for friendship. If you focus solely on sex or dating, you risk missing genuine connection, as the interaction may be built on superficialities like money or rehearsed lines. Approaching for friendship, however, offers the advantage of building a strong network and authentic confidence.

Being chosen feels great, but it has a hidden downside. Relying solely on being picked can lead to a dip in self-esteem; you may find yourself losing the ability to talk to women as easily as you do with your friends. Since many women avoid approaching first due to social ego, waiting to be chosen can leave you without the courage to take initiative. While both paths are valid, the best strategy is a hybrid: use the cold approach to build social skills and friendship, while remaining open to the person who truly chooses you.

Agree.

We're all still testing the depth of love and romance. As intelligent beings, our aim is to traverse our animalistic instinct and operate in higher realms.

For now, the apex of romance is Devotion. A man and woman totally committed to each other in all its shapes and colours. That's what is most important right now. So, whether through cold approaching or genuine desire, the goal is Devotion. However, genuine desire is closer to it.

Thanks.