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SpencerForbes:
Make person no go carry wife way go break my tiny heart.

We all know say Temu no dey ever give person original spec. Imagine saying I order 6ft model wife, only for them to ship one 4ft portable 'pocket-size' dwarf give me. Abeg, I go just stick to the ones I see for my backyard. I no fit shout before Temu will give me what I ordered vs what I got.

SIRTee15:
first thing u need to realize and acknowledge is women are hypergamous in nature. women at the same status as yourself will desire a man above your level. women above your status - financial or career or accomplishment wise will not want u bocs u are beneath them.
women below your status will naturally gravitate towards u by default. That how the dating game works.

Now, do u have the time, resources and energy to prove yourself to women above your economic and social status that u will make a good husband and they wont regret picking u?
do u have the what it takes to compete with other men for women at the same level as your socio-economic status and make them look your direction or u just go for the easy pick- ones below u?

what u need to ask yourself is what do I want in a woman I want to marry? do u want a well domesticated lady or a beautifully endowed woman or goal/career oriented woman or u looking for a woman that will give u peace of mind. what about personality- whats your preference? Lively, feminine or quiet type or u want a serious lady as wife/ do u want a socialite as a wife or more of family oriented wife.
are u looking into 50-50 wife or u prefer absolute submission and loyalty.

Look here, at the end of it all, what count is the kind of woman u will be compatible with. forget all these high flying babes, what matter is if I marry her, will I enjoy my marriage? No need marrying a woman that will end up causing u troubles and all u do is fight all day. such negative energy drains u.

There's nothing as beautiful as an enjoyable marriage. The stability and happiness it brings is unmatched. A woman that will give u that should be your preference.

Maj196:
There are more good girls in the north than your east

Gerrard59:


Suffice to say, many Nigerians aren't that clean. Constant heat without adequate bathing worsens things. Imagine living in Enugu where water is rationed?!

SpencerForbes:
We order them from Jumia. I think Black Friday is next week, maybe they might be cheap if we wait till then

Kaido:
A time will come when you realise that women can never cure your loneliness.

Bostin:
If you choose a woman below you , you've just bought a commodity with a price tag to love and accept you for benefit , once you stop providing or go broke , you will loose values to them because that was the reason they choose you . Everything you enjoyed with them comes with price tag and not love .

If you choose woman in your class or above you , you've gotten yourself an asset with conditions and guildlines . They chose you because they see values in you that aligned with what they have or owned. They will love you genuinely if they truly choose you . You can build together and multiply in wealth and success .

Mind you , both category of woman have bad characters and can cheat .

These are my options, make your choice wisely .

ravensckar:
Bros, I disagree completely.

If a man chooses a woman that is above him, he has just signed himself up for a life of constant strife, pressure and tribulation. Even the devil will automatically leave him alone.

ayoncox:
Yoruba calls it Oja Okunkun, meanwhile dark market, Na you go take touch light go the market , and keep searching until you get what you want. Meanwhile that doesn't mean what you get will be 100% perfect, Na manage you go manage am.

Also take note that ladies are typically hypergamous and For GEN Z they are woke, even Deeper Life girls don tear eyes

Na you go up your game

Bostin:
If you choose a woman below you , you've just bought a commodity with a price tag to love and accept you for benefit , once you stop providing or go broke , you will loose values to them because that was the reason they choose you . Everything you enjoyed with them comes with price tag and not love .

If you choose woman in your class or above you , you've gotten yourself an asset with conditions and guildlines . They chose you because they see values in you that aligned with what they have or owned. They will love you genuinely if they truly choose you . You can build together and multiply in wealth and success .

Mind you , both category of woman have bad characters and can cheat .

These are my options, make your choice wisely .

Drifter02:
I have a job. Earning a decent salary and my own place.

Yet all the women I keep talking to don't seem to want something to do with me.

I'm not being pathetic. That's how it is actually. There's always some other guy that outspends and competes for their attention.

The other ones I see are soo downright immature. Just babies masquerading as women, girls that have never faced adversity, girls that have no sense of responsibility. Attention-sucking leeches. Girls that can't even make up their own minds. Girls that keep running to their mothers for any single thing.

Other ones fancy themselves as hustlers and are always so difficult. Those ones are always competing with you for dominance. Soo crazy man.

And there are the brokies. Liabilities. No job. Nothing.

Omo I'm always so alone staying in my room, particularly at night. I feel soo alone.

I don't want a woman because of sex. Sex is sooo trivial. I honestly don't even care. Next time I have sex, it'd be to make a child.

I just don't know how single men honestly cope. It's so crazy out here

Drifter02:
I have a job. Earning a decent salary and my own place.

Yet all the women I keep talking to don't seem to want something to do with me.

I'm not being pathetic. That's how it is actually. There's always some other guy that outspends and competes for their attention.

The other ones I see are soo downright immature. Just babies masquerading as women, girls that have never faced adversity, girls that have no sense of responsibility. Attention-sucking leeches. Girls that can't even make up their own minds. Girls that keep running to their mothers for any single thing.

Other ones fancy themselves as hustlers and are always so difficult. Those ones are always competing with you for dominance. Soo crazy man.

And there are the brokies. Liabilities. No job. Nothing.

Omo I'm always so alone staying in my room, particularly at night. I feel soo alone.

I don't want a woman because of sex. Sex is sooo trivial. I honestly don't even care. Next time I have sex, it'd be to make a child.

I just don't know how single men honestly cope. It's so crazy out here

SIRTee15:
first thing u need to realize and acknowledge is women are hypergamous in nature. women at the same status as yourself will desire a man above your level. women above your status - financial or career or accomplishment wise will not want u bocs u are beneath them.
women below your status will naturally gravitate towards u by default. That how the dating game works.

Now, do u have the time, resources and energy to prove yourself to women above your economic and social status that u will make a good husband and they wont regret picking u?
do u have the what it takes to compete with other men for women at the same level as your socio-economic status and make them look your direction or u just go for the easy pick- ones below u?

what u need to ask yourself is what do I want in a woman I want to marry? do u want a well domesticated lady or a beautifully endowed woman or goal/career oriented woman or u looking for a woman that will give u peace of mind. what about personality- whats your preference? Lively, feminine or quiet type or u want a serious lady as wife/ do u want a socialite as a wife or more of family oriented wife.
are u looking into 50-50 wife or u prefer absolute submission and loyalty.

Look here, at the end of it all, what count is the kind of woman u will be compatible with. forget all these high flying babes, what matter is if I marry her, will I enjoy my marriage? No need marrying a woman that will end up causing u troubles and all u do is fight all day. such negative energy drains u.

There's nothing as beautiful as an enjoyable marriage. The stability and happiness it brings is unmatched. A woman that will give u that should be your preference.

SAMBARRY:
wait till December when them organise shiloh in winners Chapel ota you go see single women of all ages brekete in surplus then you choose your spec

Gerrard59:
I can imagine!

The day girls for Deeper Life, Mountain of Life and the Lord's Chosen tear eyes, then it is finished! Imagine those at Christ Embassy, HOTR, CCI etc?

MarketDispatch:
Like one person suggested, go to banks ( a lady that is already at her workplace) than someone you just meet on the road.

Ikennaford:
What do you mean, Northern girls that's loose and cheap, kaduna, nasarawa, plateU, jos,,, omo those ones bad, infections everywhere don't advice any man from east to marry from northern states, biko

ravensckar:
Leave am! Na after marriage him go realize.

Women get time to keep any man company? He'll understand why married men are even lonelier than single men.

After childbirth, it's they and their children. If she's business or career oriented, you go complain tire because her attention will always be on her business/career. Come pray make she no be the type wey like "social life". Friendship, girlie, bestie, etc. She'll always be out hanging out with her girls. Loneliness and boredom go kill her husband.

The truth about that creature is that they are selfish by default; them no really send any man. If a woman is being good to you, it's because she needs something from you.

It's why a man shouldn't throw away his hobbies after marriage. You see those things wey dey give you joy before marriage, hold them well because you'll need them after marriage. Hanging out with your paddy them, puffing, drinking, watching football, video games, no joke with those things o. Any man wey place him happiness for woman hand, hand go touch am o.

#Picks_tooth

Drifter02:
I have a job. Earning a decent salary and my own place.

Yet all the women I keep talking to don't seem to want something to do with me.

I'm not being pathetic. That's how it is actually. There's always some other guy that outspends and competes for their attention.

The other ones I see are soo downright immature. Just babies masquerading as women, girls that have never faced adversity, girls that have no sense of responsibility. Attention-sucking leeches. Girls that can't even make up their own minds. Girls that keep running to their mothers for any single thing.

Other ones fancy themselves as hustlers and are always so difficult. Those ones are always competing with you for dominance. Soo crazy man.

And there are the brokies. Liabilities. No job. Nothing.

Omo I'm always so alone staying in my room, particularly at night. I feel soo alone.

I don't want a woman because of sex. Sex is sooo trivial. I honestly don't even care. Next time I have sex, it'd be to make a child.

I just don't know how single men honestly cope. It's so crazy out here