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Selling the guy. It seems you don't get it. They should marry him because of what he plans to give them and you are talking rubbish

Geebabs:
He is not forcing anyone. He is selling the guy. Be careful because people could say you are discriminating against the guy.

lordm:
Is this really coming from the pastor?
Are we now taking advantage of poverty in Nigeria.

I don't think so, he's just using living a good life to try and get a wife for the guy.
Normal normal, if that guy no get any shi shi, no woman for him for this life.
That's the only bait that can draw a wife to him, even that is 5/100% to happen

Haydens:
All i can say is this is nonsense and trash. What stopped the pastor from giving him one of his daughters ?

Any woman that married that man is going to suffer the man and herself too because there will be no love in the so called union periodt.

It is still the same type of suffer house girls, teachers or bankers suffer for 40k
So this is good

safarifarms:
Is this recent? I thought I'd already read about this last year or year before last.

That one is for one Nollywood actor

dollynnn:
Hmm, may the lucky woman win 😂😂

You, are you not a woman?

The boy doesn't need a wife, he needs adequate care and intense prayers for full recovery.

Last time I checked, with God nothing is impossible, abi?

Even now, I'm sure plenty of women are weighing the offer, not because of love but for the financial benefits.

Jennyclay, pocohantas, siofra, cococandy
make una see free Salary for life oh

GanagiBitrus:
This doesn't sound right.
Using financial inducement (instead of genuine love) to entrap someone into responsibility of a marriage that is obviously going to be challenging.

He should rather pay for the man to be taken care of.

By who naa? A runs girl?

What's going on here is the boy is coming of age and needs his sexual needs met within marriage. He's unlikely to be able to attract a woman on his own, hence this.

People marry for money all the time, but because this one is upfront with it, you have a problem with it?

lordm:
Is this really coming from the pastor?
Are we now taking advantage of poverty in Nigeria.

How do you mean? The pastor wants to establish a man who didn't have any means to support himself by marrying him a wife and settling their family.
How's that a problem?

Hypocrite of the highest order. You no get daughter for your family. Spit

lordm:
Is this really coming from the pastor?
Are we now taking advantage of poverty in Nigeria.

he is looking out for a child that everyone including his parents forsook.

So yes, he is a pastor and he is doing the work of a pastor.

Don't worry Nigerian girls will line-up for him.

Can I offer my brother's wife? She loves money.

GanagiBitrus:
This doesn't sound right.
Using financial inducement (instead of genuine love) to entrap someone into responsibility of a marriage that is obviously going to be challenging.

He should rather pay for the man to be taken care of.

It's a caregiver of sort. A mature single woman would care for him as a son, but take care of his sexual needs too. The boy does not discriminate

JuanDeDios:
By who naa? A runs girl?

What's going on here is the boy is coming of age and needs his sexual needs met within marriage. He's unlikely to be able to attract a woman on his own, hence this.

People marry for money all the time, but because this one is upfront with it, you have a problem with it?

So you are OK with a Pastor paying & arranging sex for the man. Na waah for you.

Anyway I'm talking about paying for a Care-Giver for him.

Make them call that girl wen won marry Otedola son, she for fit run am for them

Maitunbi:
It's a caregiver of sort. A mature single woman would care for him as a son, but take care of his sexual needs too. The boy does not discriminate

Arranging & paying for a professional Care Giver is OK. No problem.

But arranging & paying for sex for him is not OK.

Chummynoni:
He shouldn't have made it transactional , that's the mistake he made.

If he didn't make it transactional no one will agree to marry the autistic guy

Why advertising such offer on social media, what about ur church members, family relatives or village people, u can offer them such opportunity.

Kalulu44:
That one is for one Nollywood actor

I remember that one. He refused the woman they found for him in Nigeria saying he wants a virgin from Israel

This one don turn to job application

God forbid BAT thing

Pastor de get money o, I wish other pastors would give back to the society instead of keep the breads to themselves. They should practice what they preach

DeltaBachelor:
Chai. Watch how they will flood his DM now

It is matter of choice not force

GanagiBitrus:
So you are OK with a Pastor paying & arranging sex for the man. Na waah for you.

Anyway I'm talking about paying for a Care-Giver for him.

WTH are you talking about? A man is trying to marry for his adopted son (something your grandparents probably did for your parents), you're talking about paying for sex. Na waoh. Yes, I'm ok with it. Why aren't you?

Who told you they haven't paid for what he needs – therapy and all. He doesn't need a nursemaid to carry his urine. He needs a wife to share his bed. Do you understand needs?

Nigerian pastors and theatrics!!!

This is an insult to the women folks

The man should not be seen to be saying this kind of thing

As a pastor and General overseer,
it should be clear to you that not every
human being is destined to marry...


Even Jesus never married... ☝☝☝

These Nigerian pastors mata don tire me.

What does salary for life mean? What happens if the pastor transition to glory? Who will pay the salary?