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LordIsaac:
Until they clock 50 ...Then the realization!

Maeve7:
We were told we would regret and be desperate at 30. Since it didn’t happen, the new age of regret has been adjusted to 50.

folake4u:
It shows that we are doing great, soon it will shift to 60.

Aluta continua!

Maeve7:
Then 85

folake4u:
The final goalpost will be 100.

May God spare our lives till then.

Kipaji:
I get you. But aren't these kinds of men the ones who procreate the most?

I believe that, for the most part, women know the kind of men who would not be caring fathers. Sure we can make mistakes, we can misjudge people, but more often than not, I would say that the women went in knowing that this person is just not that type of guy.

I'm sure that we all know at least one good-for-nothing bum who has girls chasing him and at least one great guy on paper who has no woman around.

budaatum:
There must be reasons most modern women who "hold on to their choices tenaciously like the grip of a 20-foot python on a helpless goat" refuse to hold on to some.

emmaodet:
I think the past experience of their mothers, grandmothers is what is making them to be more ruthless in their choices else, they will fall into the same pit.
Let's be frank, so many men out there are nothing to write home about.
They are very very irresponsible who just want to bang, no support for the woman's kids or pregnancy or upkeep.
Do you expect such men to procreate? And cause more wahala for us?

Love800:
Am very organise when with a woman. All my speech, point, summary, wish and objective of my attending to ladies are ironed out straight according to my account. Once i tell you no, take it like dat, and yes, take it also like dat. No bending. I can choose not to even communicate with you for a month. If you see anything wrong with it, i don't see any.

Just be precisely with your thoughts towards women. Don't ever bend your wish for dem cos they don't send you.

Kipaji:
And so what? What does it have to do with you? OK, when they get 50, they may regret. But does that improve your life in any way?

Live your life bro. Let women live theirs. And if they (ever) regret, that's their personal problem.

Instead of expecting women to regret their dating and mating choices when they reach 50, focus on ensuring that you won't regret your own choices when you reach 50.

Maeve7:
We were told we would regret and be desperate at 30. Since it didn’t happen, the new age of regret has been adjusted to 50.

pansophist:
This image wey you attach to many of your post, you no dey tire ?

LordIsaac:
Until they clock 50 ...Then the realization!

Gerrard59:
As Mr Emma has stated, they have seen their mothers' conditions and have decided "it can never be me". At the same time, they now earn equally as men, so the competition for already scarce resources have stiffened.

It is why I keep preaching that young men should focus on their economic wellbeing rather than whether a woman would get married or not, because these women are not hell-bent on the institution as their mothers. They have fought societal shackles; they possess economic and birth rights. Also, it is why I keep harping that today's world is that of a woman, and only a man's own when he is financially comfortable.


Women who are looking for sperm donors? Women who have decided that if dem no born, nothing much as long as they keep earning money? Women who are travelling around yanfu-yanfu? See, at 50, society looks at your economic achievement, not whether you don born or not. So, I find it funny when lads mock women with that in today's age given that women are getting plum jobs and building profitable businesses. In fact, most of the men who mock these women online MIGHT never get to live the lives these women have, and that is the most important metric - your economic prosperity, not whether she is unmarried at 50 or childless at 40.

Chikarata2020:
The same men complaining about how ruthless women are will still be the ones to give women all the power and positions, when they become wealthy. We Men hardly help our self's so it's bcm an advantage to the other gender. They are brutal because they know that many rich simps are ready to come under their terms and conditions

Chikarata2020:
The same men complaining about how ruthless women are will still be the ones to give women all the power and positions, when they become wealthy. We Men hardly help our self's so it's bcm an advantage to the other gender. They are brutal because they know that many rich simps are ready to come under their terms and conditions

NaijaHelper1:
I think your comment is naive. Yes women are empowered. But it is men who have empowered them. Don't think there is any competition. You're commenting like someone who is outside looking in without any nuance nor context. Women who are high up are put there by men. More so, they need men to remain on top. I dint believe you have interacted with any high status woman for you to hold these type of beliefs.

Gerrard59:
As Mr Emma has stated, they have seen their mothers' conditions and have decided "it can never be me". At the same time, they now earn equally as men, so the competition for already scarce resources have stiffened.

It is why I keep preaching that young men should focus on their economic wellbeing rather than whether a woman would get married or not, because these women are not hell-bent on the institution as their mothers. They have fought societal shackles; they possess economic and birth rights. Also, it is why I keep harping that today's world is that of a woman, and only a man's own when he is financially comfortable.


Women who are looking for sperm donors? Women who have decided that if dem no born, nothing much as long as they keep earning money? Women who are travelling around yanfu-yanfu? See, at 50, society looks at your economic achievement, not whether you don born or not. So, I find it funny when lads mock women with that in today's age given that women are getting plum jobs and building profitable businesses. In fact, most of the men who mock these women online MIGHT never get to live the lives these women have, and that is the most important metric - your economic prosperity, not whether she is unmarried at 50 or childless at 40.

Rapmoney:
Have you noticed something in most modern women? They are very brutal when it comes to making choices, and they hold on to their choices tenaciously like the grip of a 20-foot python on a helpless goat. Modern women do not involve emotions, past acts of kindness, sympathy, empathy, etc, when they make choices. That is why a woman can easily switch lanes; she can easily throw you under the bus, no matter what you have done for her, if she sees another man that can take her to the next level.

As a man, you need to be brutal in your choices of life. You need to choose you first. You need to be at least 85% selfish. This is not some redpiller talk. Neither is it just another advice. It is a prerequisite for survival and success in a complex society filled with hypergamous women.

Whenever there is conflict between what a woman wants and a course that can upgrade your life, always go for the latter, because if you don't, she would do the exact opposite without remorse if placed in your shoe.

As a man, always put yourself first. No let anybody whine you. Poor man house dey always dey far. If house fall, goat go climb the roof. Do not let them meet you at the same spot they left you.

olioxx:
Word on marble. Never sugar coat words with women cause they hate accountability. What you want, what you won't accept, what you deserve, from day 0 state it to her.
It will save you in the long run.



You see this things you wrote here is my mantra henceforth.



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How women have master the art of resource extraction from men is something to study. They are on average broke and without money cause they spend frivolously.

IbrahimSola:
You see that laying out what you want from day 0? It doesn't work 90% of instances because for Christians, the Bible has already told them that they should love their wives. And this kind of love blinds the men easily and at the start they tend to do the exact opposite of what you advise here. They hate to hurt her feelings unnecessarily. And WOMEN HATE ACCOUNTABILITY. Nothing scares women like a countability. They do everything to avoid it, while putting pressure on the men to be accountable.

The point here is that one way or the other, men still cower to the antics of women. But yes, men should stay conscious and look out for some tell tale signs.

Women have used social media to their own advantage while painting the men as sinners and women as angels. It's a complicated loop that each man should learn how to break and take control.

Olatara:
Don't take life too serious.
Ugh!!! On top woman matter.
If you do this with your career, you should be wealthier than Bezo not Elon

Rapmoney:
Have you noticed something in most modern women? They are very brutal when it comes to making choices, and they hold on to their choices tenaciously like the grip of a 20-foot python on a helpless goat. Modern women do not involve emotions, past acts of kindness, sympathy, empathy, etc, when they make choices. That is why a woman can easily switch lanes; she can easily throw you under the bus, no matter what you have done for her, if she sees another man that can take her to the next level.

As a man, you need to be brutal in your choices of life. You need to choose you first. You need to be at least 85% selfish. This is not some redpiller talk. Neither is it just another advice. It is a prerequisite for survival and success in a complex society filled with hypergamous women.

Whenever there is conflict between what a woman wants and a course that can upgrade your life, always go for the latter, because if you don't, she would do the exact opposite without remorse if placed in your shoe.

As a man, always put yourself first. No let anybody whine you. Poor man house dey always dey far. If house fall, goat go climb the roof. Do not let them meet you at the same spot they left you.