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Please can someone assist me with this lady contact or phone number.
I will pay the person awesomely. I sincerely need to reach out to her very urgently.
I can be reach on email: richpet1985@gmail.com and Phone number: +2348062713905

I would marry you but I need a job to be able to take responsibility

Lovelink1991:
There is a saying that women are nothing without men, it is true.

A lady of 39 years has cried out for help that she need a man to marry her that she is get old.

Watch and see her story of what led to her being single.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h4CLKB8L0I8?si=nCgxhGO5EcMo_l2F

Phyde:
Finance is another problem, forget this sex talk.

Yes I agree to this but some of the ladies are financially buoyant but no serious man

koladata:
It's their making o .... It's impossible for a good lady to lack husband. The number of men looking for a good wife actually out ways the number of ladies looking for a good husband. That's a fact.

..... outweighs not out ways

thanks

uvie66:
..... outweighs not out ways

Wealthyonos:
Come make I marry you

I bet she will say you don't have the bolls to do that

Me too I want to marry this year... Let her reach out to me I'll marry her. I'm very serious, mind you I'm working and earning my own money.
Why marriage is becoming hard is because a lot of guys in their 30s don't have a source of livelihood yet, some are still in their father's house. So it's not the ladies fault not to have suitors but our messed up country

Bluearrow:
It is hard to avoid loneliness at old age especially as a man. My mom's elder sister is around 79 years, she has more than 8 children, but now live alone. My mom told me they got a paid maid to be coming around to do her chores. My point is regardless of marital status, everyone should partially prepare for loneliness at age.

GBAM! Parents of children who have japa'd to various locations should have understood this by now. Nigerians need to separate their desire for children from companionship. Both are different.

brain54:
I didn't watch the video...


Majority of times it's their making irrespective of whatever defense they have to say.


Seen the script so many times!

So they should get married to anyone because they have a clock, you don't have spec, why are you not married to reduce the unmarried population, how women have you had s#x with before with getting married to them, I am a man but you always feel is women's fault, pray all your siblings get married easily

Jman06:
Many of them are yet to come to terms with that fact. They still live with the delusion that they can get a man anytime they want.

Even on this forum, I remember arguing with Pocohantas one day and she was arguing that older men would find it difficult to get a younger teenage girl to marry. Not long after that our arguement, I met my fiancee who's just 19yo, very intelligent and mentally mature girl.

Ladies should learn how not to compare themselves with men when it comes to relationships and marriage choices. This is because unlike them, men can easily find a partner even at older ages!

A man who has a Duplex, 3 cars, has good Job/Biz has the command of women, from 18 up to any age.SO why should such man go for a woman who is Older and live w ith her parents ?Them never know.

Harry830:
So they should get married to anyone because they have a clock, you don't have spec, why are you not married to reduce the unmarried population, how women have you had s#x with before with getting married to them, I am a man but you always feel is women's fault, pray all your siblings get married easily

SO out of 10 men who was chatting her up no spec there? plz let us be realistic. I once went to a friend of the family and her daughter replied to a question from the Aunt that one of her bfs head is too big hence she cant marry him ahaha, head big and brains full am,cos the guy got a Job i n the US the nxt year.

Iseddy:
Me too I want to marry this year... Let her reach out to me I'll marry her. I'm very serious, mind you I'm working and earning my own money.
Why marriage is becoming hard is because a lot of guys in their 30s don't have a source of livelihood yet, some are still in their father's house. So it's not the ladies fault not to have suitors but our messed up country

Well both guys and girls live in this messed up country and they should adjust, start from Self con then one bed,hustle well and leave the rest for baba God.Nobody came to this earth with cash

When you were younger, you were climbing beds, tables and fridges as if nothing else mattered.
Now reality dawns on you. Street ti take over.

Bluntguy:
Some times it's not their making. Did you listen to her or you just rushed to comment?

Accountability and women na like oil and water,them no dey ever mix.

Lovelink1991:
With today kind of men it is difficult to get a good man. A lot of them just want to take advantage of her by sleeping with her with the promise that I wants to marry you. There are no good men

That depends on your definition of a good man.

To most of you that definition is highly subjected to the contents of the pocket of the said man.

When your expectations on a man is as tall as Mount Everest,this is what happens.

sammiewrite:
Religious associations will not substitute the place of being the kind of human people want to relate with. I mean, religion will not fix a shitty person or a person with major character flaws.

The other five girls you are talking about, maybe you should have tried to start a relationship with one of them to really understand why they were single for that long. I was born into a Christian home and my immediate will be 30 by september without even a boyfriend let alone a husband. I tell you what, though, she is one of the most religious persons I know but with a major flaw: arrogance. She is always right. She don't listen to or take advise from anyone, not even her parents. She doesn't take correction. She never apologises! As a man, tell me how you want to have productive discussions or build with a woman like this.

To an outsider like yourself who don't know about this side of her, you will say my sister is still single because she is a naive church girl who got caught up in her naiveness of romantic relationships.

Ndi "A woman can never be wrong".

Adakintroy:
Even for village weh People poor pass city them de marry mor than one. Suffa you can feed them. Those who can afford it will all fingers are not equal. The money weh many take de carry girls rent for outside apartment reach to bring them come one huz. Na either religion impede them or legally they are not suppose to.

Polygamy in today's world favours women more than men. Marrying a woman means taking responsibility of her and the offsprings (if they are). Many men would rather rent the cow than purchase it which leads to owning and catering to a ranch. The aim is to get the milk (side chick), so why buy the cow (polygamy)?

Current side chick model favours men.

Madam what happened to the single men , you wan chop man when don balance but dr run from the one when jist start to build , thief

erico2k2:
A man who has a Duplex, 3 cars, has good Job/Biz has the command of women, from 18 up to any age.SO why should such man go for a woman who is Older and live w ith her parents ?Them never know.

Exactly! Many of them don't reason well, that's why they believe that they can get any man at older ages.

Jman06:
Exactly! Many of them don't reason well, that's why they believe that they can get any man at older ages.

Nah dat age men sef dey use dem pass cos dem go enter despirado league come dey competit with those 25 years old on ground

Keep it gangster dogg! Keep it gangster!!

Little did they know that they are the cause of all these.

You want to date a lady and the very first thing she's looking at is your pocket. "Can you take care of me"? Spending on them is how love is interpreted to them.

When you meet a guy, the very first thing should be to study him and get to know him. Know if he's someone you can marry or not. But no! The genuine guy that's ready doesn't have money. The one that has money is already taken and only wants to chop and clean mouth.

You invite a girl and the first thing is she wants you to pay her transport to come.

They need to think.

Jman06:
Even on this forum, I remember arguing with Pocohantas one day and she was arguing that older men would find it difficult to get a younger teenage girl to marry. Not long after that our arguement, I met my fiancee who's just 19yo, very intelligent and mentally mature girl!

I never said you will find it harder to get a younger girls. Stop telling lies. I said most young girls from stable homes are tilting towards their mates, but if you look towards poorer families, you stand a high chance. Which was exactly what you did. You went for a 19yo who you will train in university.

No well to do man will give his teenager to an ancestor like Regina (or you) which was the case study that day.

Marry your teenager and stop having guilty conscience over huge age-gap marriages.

cr7lomo:
In Akwakwa voice.... una go cry!!! ..... in VDM voice...u gonna learn ...u gonna learn the hard way ....

Learn and cry over what exactly? Why you are having an emotional breakdown in my mention?

Bluntguy:
Some times it's not their making. Did you listen to her or you just rushed to comment?

is always their making oga. She had a20yr window

Lovelink1991:
With today kind of men it is difficult to get a good man. A lot of them just want to take advantage of her by sleeping with her with the promise that I wants to marry you. There are no good men

why is she sleeping with men before marriage
You ppl choose to be rebellious now is time for breakfast

Satazaa:
The disproportionate numbers of women seeking men for marriage is neither the of the men nor women but purely economic,

the economy is their fault
It didn't fall from heaven
They refused to do the needful and now the chickens are coming home to roost

Nigeria economy has continually declined in the past twenty years and that has affected ability of men to provide housing, feeding, clothing and the general welfare of women and children, In a cash and carry society like Nigeria nobody will respect or listen to a man who doesn't have the resources to cater for a family

Adakintroy:
Even for village weh People poor pass city them de marry mor than one. Suffa you can feed them. Those who can afford it will all fingers are not equal. The money weh many take de carry girls rent for outside apartment reach to bring them come one huz. Na either religion impede them or legally they are not suppose to.

If you know the danger of over population you will not encourage such. Even China with lots of infrastructure and good economy are looking for a way to reduce their population take less of Nigeria

Wealthyonos:
Come make I marry you

You must be broke

pocohantas:
I never said you will find it harder to get a younger girls. Stop telling lies. I said most young girls from stable homes are tilting towards their mates, but if you look towards poorer families, you stand a high chance. Which was exactly what you did. You went for a 19yo who you will train in university.

No well to do man will give his teenager to an ancestor like Regina (or you) which was the case study that day.

Marry your teenager and stop having guilty conscience over huge age-gap marriages.

Lolzzz @me being ancestor. My dear, I'm a young man in my mid 30s. Like I alluded to that day, marriage is much better when the man is far older than the woman because women age faster than men. The huge age gap would make the man remain attracted to the woman for a larger part of the marriage. This is unlike what normally obtains when man marries his age mate or ladies closer to his age; whereby the man readily gets tired of the woman while the attraction dies.

Also, our culture and religion still places the man as the provider and protector of the his home! You'll agree with me that asking a guy to provide for his age mate creates an awkward situation because most age mates tend to be on the same level both financially and otherwise, therefore, expecting the man to provide in that kind of marriage is not sustainable. However, if the man marries a much younger girl, provision comes naturally because most men would generally want to provide for the women who are not their equals financially.

You lied when you said that girls from rich homes marry their age mates! How many examples of such marriages do you honestly have? Girls naturally are attracted to older guys and the reason is due to hypergamy as I mentioned above.