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Jman06:
You lied when you said that girls from rich homes marry their age mates! How many examples of such marriages do you honestly have? Girls naturally are attracted to older guys and the reason is due to hypergamy as I mentioned above.

Once again, read to understand. You will need it in your marriage. No rich man would give you his 19yo daughter and you proved me right. No need saying I lied when you have said yourself that you will train her in school after she borns one for you. My parents aren't even rich, but they trained me in school and I didn't have to negotiate my womb for BSc.

No, I didn't lie. Your engagement is proof that I have been right all along.

I didn't read the first two paragraphs, they are unnecessary. Thank you

Gerrard59:
Polygamy in today's world favours women more than men. Marrying a woman means taking responsibility of her and the offsprings (if they are). Many men would rather rent the cow than purchase it which leads to owning and catering to a ranch. The aim is to get the milk (side chick), so why buy the cow (polygamy)?

Current side chick model favours men.

Of course renting it favours men
Buying favours women. The thing with men is that we make the sacrifice but women claim the victim. Raising multiple women and kids take it's toll on men. But women makes it look like polygamy favours men. Like we were enjoying..what is few sex compared to the misery of dealing with rmany women and their offspring. Mentally, financially.

The Bible had already foretold it that the day comes when a woman will tell a man to allow her bear his name and she'll be satisfied.

pocohantas:
Once again, read to understand. You will need it in your marriage. No rich man would give you his 19yo daughter and you proved me right. No need saying I lied when you have said yourself that you will train her in school after she borns one for you. My parents aren't even rich, but they trained me in school and I didn't have to negotiate my womb for BSc.

No, I didn't lie. Your engagement is proof that I have been right all along.

I didn't read the first two paragraphs, they are unnecessary. Thank you

Most rich men don't prevent their adult daughters from getting married if they want to marry early even at 19. I'm sure you don't have any evidence to buttress the suggestion that rich men prevent their teenage girls from marrying older men of their choices. It's just a figment of your imagination.

What usually happens is that because girls from such homes are usually in schools at that age and are fixated on graduating and getting jobs, some of them make the mistake of not wanting to marry when suitors come at that age. They are often misled by the woke feminist mindsets of focusing on graduating and building careers before marriage. However, they often realise much later that their they should have married earlier when they attain certain age without being married. Many of them live in regrets all their lives.

There are still smart girls that understand the fact that time is not in favour of women when it comes to marriage. Such girls marry early and still go to schools and build careers even while married.

For your information, I'm not marrying my girl solely for her womb like you made it look like in your post. We are both in love with each other and have resolved to combine our marriage with her education and career. Genuine love is what drives our union!

Jman06:
Most rich men don't prevent their adult daughters from getting married if they want to marry early even at 19.

And you couldn't get one for yourself?
Which most rich men do you know whose daughters married at 19? Abi you will marry Elumelu's daughter at 19 to train her in school? Abeg go sit one side.

pocohantas:
And you couldn't get one for yourself?
Which most rich men do you know whose daughters married at 19? Abi you will marry Elumelu's daughter at 19 to train her in school? Abeg go sit one side.

I explained to you earlier why such girls may not want to marry early. It's not that their dads would prevent them if they want to. Unlike before, girl children enjoy more freedom of marital choices now.

Lol all these videos are becoming too common lately

Jman06:
I explained to you earlier why such girls may not want to marry early. It's not that their dads would prevent them if they want to. Unlike before, girl children enjoy more freedom of marital choices now.

There is no rich man that will give you his daughter at 19. Yes, their dads will prevent them. My dad chased away the people that came for me at that age and he is not rich!

pocohantas:
There is no rich man that will give you his daughter at 19. Yes, their dads will prevent them. My dad chased away the people that came for me at that age and he is not rich!

pocohantas baby
what color of panties are u putting on?

Lovelink1991:
With today kind of men it is difficult to get a good man. A lot of them just want to take advantage of her by sleeping with her with the promise that I wants to marry you. There are no good men

There are good men. There are good women too. The grand question now is, “how do we find them?” “Most men will proclaim every one his own goodness: but a faithful man who can find?”(Proverbs 20:6). “ Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.”(Proverbs 31:10).

pocohantas:
There is no rich man that will give you his daughter at 19. Yes, their dads will prevent them. My dad chased away the people that came for me at that age and he is not rich!

He chased your suitors at 19 because of his ignorance, not that he was doing you any good! And I hope you're now married? Or has the reality of those girls who fail to marry early dawned on you? Any man who is well-informed will not prevent his daughter from marrying early provided she's up to legal age of consent.

Jman06:
He chased your suitors at 19 because of his ignorance, not that he was doing you any good! And I hope you're now married? Or has the reality of those girls who fail to marry early dawned on you? Any man who is well-informed will not prevent his daughter from marrying early provided she's up to legal age of consent.

He chased them away because he preferred to train us himself and he saw no need in rushing us into marriage without education and financial security. Whether I am married or not now is irrelevant. The koko is I didn't exchange my womb for a BSc. My father trained me himself. God bless my daddyyy. 🤸‍♀️ 🤸‍♀️ 🤸‍♀️

Bluntguy:
Some times it's not their making. Did you listen to her or you just rushed to comment?

Do you think since she was 18yrs old, its married men that has been dating her? Na married man collect her virginity?... Oga no dey believe all these girls that have used their prime years to explore all types of d*ck sizes jare.

DMCA:
pocohantas baby
what color of panties are u putting on?

Stop quoting me with nonsense all over NL. I won't be responding to you except you speak to me appropriately and respectfully.

Thank you

Lovelink1991:
With today kind of men it is difficult to get a good man. A lot of them just want to take advantage of her by sleeping with her with the promise that I wants to marry you. There are no good men

Is she a virgin?

Lovelink1991:
With today kind of men it is difficult to get a good man. A lot of them just want to take advantage of her by sleeping with her with the promise that I wants to marry you. There are no good men

Fa fa fa , foul! Its a big fat lie! There is no lady that didnt see a serious guy in their 20s. A friend of mine when we were in the bank, he toasted one ajebutter girl from covenant university. She started asking for data rvery now and then. Few years later he got married. Most of u especially in Nigeria . U will spend ur 20s broke shaming men, and jumping from bed to bed with bad boys and parties. The moment u clock 30. U will soft pedal and start looking for mircacle husband from church to church. I know one stupid yellow fine igbo girl that didnt want me . She came from east to visit Lagos and was rolling with people shorter and uglier than me. I asked her why she didnt inform me she was in Lagos . She blocked me and deleted by number . 5 years down the line ( 2026 ) she travels to Lagos to pray for husband (ZION MINISTRIES ) . Now she is calling me "baby" after having a 2 year old girl. Her trap is waiting for her . Me too i will cut my own share of the cake, in the fullness of time. Let him fall into my trap

brain54:
I didn't watch the video...


Majority of times it's their making irrespective of whatever defense they have to say.


Seen the script so many times!

Oh please make we.hear.word. Do.you know her at all? You don't just rush to make blanket statements about people or situations you have no clue about.

kenuoyibo:
Fa fa fa , foul! Its a big fat lie! There is no lady that didnt see a serious guy in their 20s. A friend of mine when we were in the bank, he toasted one ajebutter girl from covenant university. She started asking for data rvery now and then. Few years later he got married. Most of u especially in Nigeria . U will spend ur 20s broke shaming men, and jumping from bed to bed with bad boys and parties. The moment u clock 30. U will soft pedal and start looking for mircacle husband from church to church. I know one stupid yellow fine igbo girl that didnt want me . She came from east to visit Lagos and was rolling with people shorter and uglier than me. I asked her why she didnt inform me she was in Lagos . She blocked me and deleted by number . 5 years down the line ( 2026 ) she travels to Lagos to pray for husband (ZION MINISTRIES ) . Now she is calling me "baby" after having a 2 year old girl. Her trap is waiting for her . Me too i will cut my own share of the cake, in the fullness of time. Let him fall into my trap

What trap of yours? What a pathetic man you are. You have a bad character. You’re still not married? That’s because you’re a quality man. Women run away from quality men, right?
Not for a single second did it occur to you to do something with yourself. How could it, with a character like yours?😏😏😏😏

With your actions, you only confirm your bad thinking and your miserable character.

Lovelink1991:
With today kind of men it is difficult to get a good man. A lot of them just want to take advantage of her by sleeping with her with the promise that I wants to marry you. There are no good men

Don’t. Forget those stories. That’s a template learned from the internet. Don’t get involved with bums and failures. Choose a partner based on your real value. It’s very simple.
Think about what you give and offer, and what you are asking for.Think about who you are, what you are, and what kind of person you are, and who he is, what he is, and what kind of person he is.
So that tomorrow there’s no argument over three pieces of chicken from that lousy KFC.

koladata:
thanks

...wow this is a fine Nigerian that accepts correction. If it where some other people Na insult them go take respond.

lol... I'm actually one of those people that often preach against bullying on this forum. We can have decent argument without exchanging bad comments but unfortunately there are too many kids here. Ones again thanks for the correction, surprisingly many people saw my comment including people that knows me personally and if not for your correction I wouldn't have gone back to edit the mistake.

uvie66:
...wow this is a fine Nigerian that accepts correction. If it where some other people Na insult them go take respond.

Freeze007:
I would marry you but I need a job to be able to take responsibility

buda does not respond to pms. They can be emailed at gmail.

Buda are you a spirit, was a few minutes reading about you, can we have a chitchat?

budaatum:
buda does not respond to pms. They can be emailed at gmail.

Freeze007:
Buda are you a spirit, was a few minutes reading about you, can we have a chitchat?

This is like asking if I am a bot, lol.

Seun specifically created Nairaland so we can chitchat with one another, so please be welcome.

I honestly need a job it's been tough on my side, depending on what I deal on is not enough could you please recommend me if you have the capabilities

budaatum:
This is like asking if I am a bot, lol.

Seun specifically created Nairaland so we can chitchat with one another, so please be welcome.

Freeze007:
I honestly need a job it's been tough on my side, depending on what I deal on is not enough could you please recommend me if you have the capabilities

Freeze, there are lots of people out there who need jobs, and some think better than some.

It's after all your brain and mind that I'd be hiring so why would I recommend yours?

https://www.nairaland.com/4363094/what-happens-when-youre-dead/5#124374685

koladata:
lol... I'm actually one of those people that often preach against bullying on this forum. We can have decent argument without exchanging bad comments but unfortunately there are too many kids here. Ones again thanks for the correction, surprisingly many people saw my comment including people that knows me personally and if not for your correction I wouldn't have gone back to edit the mistake.

... its well, God bless you.

Ok would you be kind to do what you believe is right to do

budaatum:
Freeze, there are lots of people out there who need jobs, and some think better than some.

It's after all your brain and mind that I'd be hiring so why would I recommend yours?

https://www.nairaland.com/4363094/what-happens-when-youre-dead/5#124374685

Freeze007:
Ok would you be kind to do what you believe is right to do

Freeze, you need to do what will make you employable, and believe me when I say you have done its opposite where I am concerned.

I mean, just last week I hired someone frim here to go buy stuff for ma. They'd shown themselves capable and reliable, so they got paid very well.

I am ready for you to teach me to be employable I am not adamant to be taught- I am teachable!

budaatum:
Freeze, you need to do what will make you employable, and believe me when I say you have done its opposite where I am concerned.

I mean, just last week I hired someone frim here to go buy stuff for ma. They'd shown themselves capable and reliable, so they got paid very well.