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I have done some travelling in recent months and most especially I've interacted with black women from my extended family and from my remote work who live in different foreign countries, and we all feel the same on the issue

Why is it hard for a black woman to find partners from other races? Why is it that when a white guy wants to date outside of his race, he would rather date an Asian lady or an Indian lady or a Latina.

We black women are equally as beautiful too. We even have better bodies than these other women yet these men would rather date women with flat buttocks and small breasts

Some of my friends are very intelligent and very educated. They speak well and are well mannered. I really struggle to see why they don't can't asked out by foreign men

If you want to hear the real truth, it will pain you a lot.

If men from other races didn't like dating black or African women, then I believe we wouldn't be having an entire coloured community here in SA.

I've also heard some stories of how some SA ladies used to have secret affairs with those white South Africans during the apartheid era, but would normally unalive their biracial babies upon birth due to shame.

otipoju:
If you want to hear the real truth, it will pain you a lot.

What is this truth? I want to hear it

Samantha125:
If men from other races didn't like dating black or African women, then I believe we wouldn't be having an entire coloured community here in SA.

I've also heard some stories of how some SA ladies used to have secret affairs with those white South Africans during the apartheid era, but would normally unalive their biracial babies upon birth due to shame.

I'm specifically referring to serious relationships that usually lead to marriage, as opposed to flings or hookups that lead to pregnancy

OP you said African women has great bodies than white women. Jokes!

Is it those fats and flesh sagging down your waist that you called great!, Lol.

Samantha125:
If men from other races didn't like dating black or African women, then I believe we wouldn't be having an entire coloured community here in SA.

I've also heard some stories of how some SA ladies used to have secret affairs with those white South Africans during the apartheid era, but would normally unalive their biracial babies upon birth due to shame.

Rape of black women by white men.

Some still do get married to them... But I think they mostly go for Asians due to similarities in physical features.

Or they probably just don't find black or African women attractive, I mean why get a black or African woman with fake Asian or native American hair when you can get yourself a real deal?

Devdevdev:
I'm specifically referring to serious relationships that usually lead to marriage, as opposed to flings or hookups that lead to pregnancy

Black women are strong. Well, a strong black woman may prove too tough to handle by a Chad or Brad, who just wants peace and quiet, and they know it. As White people like intelligence and creativity, naturally, they would prefer a STEM graduate to the person that shakes her ass on online for money. Also, many bad behaviours displayed online by black women group confirms the stereotypical beliefs. Lastly, BBC factor.

Yes, but for some, it was consensual.

jamesversion:
Rape of black women by white men.

Samantha125:
Some still do get married to them... But I think they mostly go for Asians due to similarities in physical features.

Or they probably just don't find black or African women attractive, I mean why get a black or African woman with fake Asian or native American hair when you can get yourself a real deal?

I think it's because of racism. Like how will their other white counterpart view them when walking with a coloured woman. The intending partner interested in a black woman may not share this sentiments but at the same time is concerned with the views of other white people.

Maybe, but I think we all get concerned when getting into a new relationship with our intended partners regardless of race.

Interracial marriages aren't really as different from intertribal marriages, but many people still get into intertribal marriages anyways.

otemeh01:
I think it's because of racism. Like how will their other white counterpart view them when walking with a coloured woman. The intending partner interested in a black woman may not share this sentiments but at the same time is concerned with the views of other white people.

If Nigerian women had better character, the boycott from the men’s side would have been balanced long ago. But most Nigerian men know that if they try it, their mornings would be filled with nothing but heavy sighs and regret.

These foreign guys aren't blind; they see exactly how our women 'deal' with their own men —they aren't ready for that kind of stress.

Devdevdev:
I have done some travelling in recent months and most especially I've interacted with black women from my extended family and from my remote work who live in different foreign countries, and we all feel the same on the issue

Why is it hard for a black woman to find partners from other races? Why is it that when a white guy wants to date outside of his race, he would rather date an Asian lady or an Indian lady or a Latina.

We black women are equally as beautiful too. We even have better bodies than these other women yet these men would rather date women with flat buttocks and small breasts

Some of my friends are very intelligent and very educated. They speak well and are well mannered. I really struggle to see why they don't can't asked out by foreign men

In all those countries there are many other Black people as well, and many people from Latin America, and especially from Asia. Why is it important that he be “white”?

I can give you a precise and accurate answer to your question, but before that I want to read your answer to my question.


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Let me point this out to you right away, before you answer or try to answer.

In the title of the topic you mentioned men of other races, only to refer a few sentences later specifically to “white” men.

From the start, you’re not being honest but rather strategic. You see, before any real discussion even begins, you’re not being open and direct—yet you expect an answer.

Samantha125:
If men from other races didn't like dating black or African women, then I believe we wouldn't be having an entire coloured community here in SA.

I've also heard some stories of how some SA ladies used to have secret affairs with those white South Africans during the apartheid era, but would normally unalive their biracial babies upon birth due to shame.

It happened a lot during the slave trade era. Lords sleeping with black slave and it became issues with the Lords wife. But the kids are heirs🤷🏿

It's just racism. Most people from other race just doesn't want anything to do with black people either man or woman. Because they know their kids being black would have it hard navigating the world especially in the middle of the race

Samantha125:
If men from other races didn't like dating black or African women, then I believe we wouldn't be having an entire coloured community here in SA.

I've also heard some stories of how some SA ladies used to have secret affairs with those white South Africans during the apartheid era, but would normally unalive their biracial babies upon birth due to shame.

Terrible example. This is how little you think of yourself with regards to the white man. You’re literally using rape example omg

Samantha125:
Maybe, but I think we all get concerned when getting into a new relationship with our intended partners regardless of race.

Interracial marriages aren't really as different from intertribal marriages, but many people still get into intertribal marriages anyways.

This is slightly different. This is because one race sees himself as more superior to the other one. So their is this general feeling of a down grade.
A good way to understand this is when we have two people getting married from different religions. If one religion is more dormant in that particular place and sees the other religion as inferior, inter marriage between those two religions is often met with resistance by people of the dominant superior mindset. Even the person marrying the person coming from the less dominant religion may feel it's just a compromise to satisfy his emotional need.

Maj196:
It's just racism. Most people from other race just doesn't want anything to do with black people either man or woman. Because they know their kids being black would have it hard navigating the world especially in the middle of the race

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zvuTO0b_pQY?si=0x3WLJnSJcBZ2f2D
Are there any bigger racists than Black people? 😏

otemeh01:
This is slightly different. This is because one race sees himself as more superior to the other one. So their is this general feeling of a down grade.
A good way to understand this is when we have two people getting married from different religions. If one religion is more dormant in that particular place and sees the other religion as inferior, inter marriage between those two religions is often met with resistance by people of the dominant superior mindset. Even the person marrying the person coming from the less dominant religion may feel it's just a compromise to satisfy his emotional need.

And you think we are all the same and equal?
How did you come up with that idea

Love800:
OP you said African women has great bodies than white women. Jokes!

Is it those fats and flesh sagging down your waist that you called great!, Lol.

What he said is true...if you compare the body of a 40 year old African and the body a 40 year old white lady you will realize that whites age faster with wrinkles.

Most blacks have curvy shapes and fleshy behinds, on the other hand a white lady with a curvy or fleshy behind is an exception

SpencerForbes:
If Nigerian women had better character, the boycott from the men’s side would have been balanced long ago. But most Nigerian men know that if they try it, their mornings would be filled with nothing but heavy sighs and regret.

These foreign guys aren't blind; they see exactly how our women 'deal' with their own men —they aren't ready for that kind of stress.

I knew one person suffering from inferiority complex would write nonsense such as this

White men does not like tick body , they prefer model or very skinny body type and its rear to find that among black woomen.. maybe one out of 100

Devdevdev:
I have done some travelling in recent months and most especially I've interacted with black women from my extended family and from my remote work who live in different foreign countries, and we all feel the same on the issue

Why is it hard for a black woman to find partners from other races? Why is it that when a white guy wants to date outside of his race, he would rather date an Asian lady or an Indian lady or a Latina.

We black women are equally as beautiful too. We even have better bodies than these other women yet these men would rather date women with flat buttocks and small breasts

Some of my friends are very intelligent and very educated. They speak well and are well mannered. I really struggle to see why they don't can't asked out by foreign men

goran3310:
And you think we are all the same and equal?
How did you come up with that idea

Allegedly, we are all equal. But in real live and due to social construct. We are not. They are actually man made anyways. It's a mindset problem. Some people will always feel superior to other people. As U are now, U can never marry Dangote or bill gates daughter even tho constitutionally, U are free to marry anyone

MarkNsukkaBread:
I knew one person suffering from inferiority complex would write nonsense such as this

It’s a free world, after all. You’re more than welcome to post your 'superiority complex' manifesto without lurking under my 'inferiority' write-up. I’ve already stated my reasons, so instead of dragging out a pointless argument, just scroll to the bottom and share your own perspective. Let the readers decide.

Problem with some of you is that you just like jumping into conclusions without asking for clarity... I'm speaking based on what I heard from both my grandmother and mother... They even know some of the ladies who used to have some secret affairs with those white men.

I'm not oblivious of what those Jan Van Riebeeck's children did, but what I'm saying is that, some of the intermixing that happened during the apartheid era was consensual, Trevor Noah is a perfect example.

Remember that apartheid began from 1948 to 1994, I can't say much with regard to what transpired prior that.

SenecaTheYonger:
Terrible example. This is how little you think of yourself with regards to the white man. You’re literally using rape example omg

Not going to lie, I prefer that white woman figure type, portable ass and boobs, to what we have around here, big ass and big boobs.

Also, Africa has lost its respect, we’re now looked at as a poor and inferior race of human.
While, our women as always shaking their ass on the internet and being ratchet without any interlects or interesting personality only good for sexual pleasures and nothing more. Same with the men, BBC, thats all and not very good for raising kids with great future prospects.

If we had African Nations doing exceptionally well, less corruption, violence and social vices and contributing more towards the human race, in every sector. I bet you, everybody would want to associate with us. We'd be the hot cake that everyone wants a piece of.

For now, warm eba chop.

right!

Devdevdev:
What is this truth? I want to hear it

Okay. I have errands to run today. Whenever I am chanced ill try and put my thoughts together and say it nicely.

Yea you are partially right.

When in their prime, the whites body is in good condition and allure compare to black.

You want to contrast how whites take care of their bodies and dietary supplements with blacks that eat without food menu!

Talking about sexiness, curves, i prefer the whites kind. Tiny body, tiny curve. Less folding of flesh.

Search sweden and see tantalising waistlines. Not these huge pound of flesh with craters we usually admire here.

Kobicove:
What he said is true...if you compare the body of a 40 year old African and the body a 40 year old white lady you will realize that whites age faster with wrinkles.

Most blacks have curvy shapes and fleshy behinds, on the other hand a white lady with a curvy or fleshy behind is an exception