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| Females, Lets Be Clear....and Real....a Man Isn't Cheating With You by toria12(f): 10:44pm On Oct 04, 2012 |
Females, lets be clear....and REAL....a man isn't cheating with you because you are so good at being the other woman....he's cheating with you because you aren't good enough to be THE WOMAN. I laugh at women that brag about being the "go to" woman when the man gets bored at home, & you try to put down a submissive woman for being who God designed her to be. Learn what submission really means... A submissive woman is far from weak, because a true submissive woman knows how to carry the load for him and her both without him even having to know it. She knows how to speak to his spirit & not his lusts. She knows how to push him to his dreams instead E of pulling him to destruction. She knows how to pray with him and not play with him. She knows how to be quiet even when her flesh wants to speak. She knows the value of his hard work & not just his money. A submissive woman is his "LIFETIME" but you are just a "GOOD TIME"...and that's all you will ever be. He knows that he can throw a few money & material possessions your way & that's all you will ever expect. The other woman makes it easy for a man, the submissive woman makes it easy for herself by making him EARN & not buy her. You are the O.T.H.E.R. woman...an Overplayed Toy He Eventually Releases — |
| Re: Females, Lets Be Clear....and Real....a Man Isn't Cheating With You by Nobody: 10:51pm On Oct 04, 2012 |
toria12: Females, lets be clear....and REAL....a man isn't cheating with you because you are so good at being the other woman....he's cheating with you because you aren't good enough to be THE WOMAN. I laugh at women that brag about being the "go to" woman when the man gets bored at home, & you try to put down a submissive woman for being who God designed her to be. Learn what submission really means... A submissive woman is far from weak, because a true submissive woman knows how to carry the load for him and her both without him even having to know it. She knows how to speak to his spirit & not his lusts. She knows how to push him to his dreams instead E of pulling him to destruction. She knows how to pray with him and not play with him. She knows how to be quiet even when her flesh wants to speak. She knows the value of his hard work & not just his money. A submissive woman is his "LIFETIME" but you are just a "GOOD TIME"...and that's all you will ever be. He knows that he can throw a few money & material possessions your way & that's all you will ever expect. The other woman makes it easy for a man, the submissive woman makes it easy for herself by making him EARN & not buy her. You are the O.T.H.E.R. woman...an Overplayed Toy He Eventually Releases — crap! female crap. so when a man is cheating on his wife, she can feel proud because she is THE WOMAN? and be proud because the other woman is just there for the sake of having a good time. I am sorry that despite the submissive features the wife displays she is not enough. and has it ever crossed your mind that some women prefer to have a good time and get some presents while THE WOMAN does all the work. Lord have mercy! 1 Like |
| Re: Females, Lets Be Clear....and Real....a Man Isn't Cheating With You by 190: 11:30pm On Oct 04, 2012 |
where this particular OP from come  |
| Re: Females, Lets Be Clear....and Real....a Man Isn't Cheating With You by UjSizzle(f): 11:34pm On Oct 04, 2012 |
And as usual men always miss the point. I think she's trying to say girls shldnt be sooo proud of being thhe kept woman...nothing remarkable about that position. |
| Re: Females, Lets Be Clear....and Real....a Man Isn't Cheating With You by Nobody: 11:57pm On Oct 04, 2012 |
carefreewannabe:gbam!!! nuff said. |
| Re: Females, Lets Be Clear....and Real....a Man Isn't Cheating With You by Nobody: 12:03am On Oct 05, 2012 |
being too submissive will get you put out your house while the other woman moves in. many submissive women have sat idly by while THEY became the 2nd wife. if you discover your husband's infidelities and do nothing to address the situation, you are contributing to your own demise. it is one thing to give him honor and respect as the man, but to sit by while he exposes you to disease, risk illegitimate children, and use household money on his gfriends, is mad! the man may be the head, but it is because he is appointed by God. thus it means that if he is Christian, he is under the direction of the Spirit. if he is outside of that, he needs to be reminded of his commitment and responsibilities whether through a pastor, the family, or koboko on his back! i know a few "other" women who are living the high life, while the poor wife is struggling to survive  3 Likes |
| Re: Females, Lets Be Clear....and Real....a Man Isn't Cheating With You by Nobody: 12:06am On Oct 05, 2012 |
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| Re: Females, Lets Be Clear....and Real....a Man Isn't Cheating With You by ijebabe: 12:28am On Oct 05, 2012 |
Women will always be fools in this issue. There's no point arguing which side is right. Fools for being the good wife and fools for being the cheap s l u t. Talk to any runs girl (plenty full NL ) and they will have an excuse for their existence.Women keep sabotaging their fellow woman, and for what I constantly I ask myself  I have taken the men out of the equation here because I feel the women play a much bigger role in this than the men.A wife should be submissive to her husband as the head of the house, but not be a doormat who cannot speak up for what she believes in and taking charge in running her family, even the finances. At the end of the day what matters is that a woman needs to be ready for marriage mentally and emotionally to be able to pick the right man for herself and handle tough situations as they come because they will come. A wife can only control her actions but not that of the husband or the Off to bed with my hmmm  G'nite!  2 Likes |
| Re: Females, Lets Be Clear....and Real....a Man Isn't Cheating With You by frederal(m): 2:43am On Oct 05, 2012 |
Nice one , op |
| Re: Females, Lets Be Clear....and Real....a Man Isn't Cheating With You by 190: 7:07am On Oct 05, 2012 |
ijebabe do u mind telling us who these sluts in nairaland are |
| Re: Females, Lets Be Clear....and Real....a Man Isn't Cheating With You by ijebabe: 8:51am On Oct 05, 2012 |
190: ijebabe do u mind telling us who these sluts in nairaland areif i mention them all, my handle will be banned for life. |
| Re: Females, Lets Be Clear....and Real....a Man Isn't Cheating With You by UjSizzle(f): 1:48pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
190: ijebabe do u mind telling us who these sluts in nairaland are hehehe aproko |
| Re: Females, Lets Be Clear....and Real....a Man Isn't Cheating With You by Mynd44: 2:51pm On Oct 05, 2012 |
ijebabe:Abeg name them jorh. Or mail me. Yeah that's better mail me |
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