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Goo0dHardDick:
Do you want to get customers for me and earn commission?

I don't throw my money away like some losers! If you want urgent 2k from me, you have to earn it!

U were asked a simple question oga.

Amotolongbo:
Trolling or not, be happy to tell us what you sell or we consider you as one of those idle guys who sell “lamba” here.

As long as it makes you sleep well at night!

DonEd:
U were asked a simple question oga.

And I choose not to answer

Katell:
Why bringing your personal issues to the unserious forum ?

Are you sure it is not you that is not serious ? Check within

U can read and scroll to the next thread. My post my rules. I chose to answer whatever questions I want and the above question is completely irrelevant

Cum4me:
simple question.. oga what are you selling. You rant too much

Comma collect my phone and type what I am selling 🤡

Goo0dHardDick:
Do you want to get customers for me and earn commission?

I don't throw my money away like some losers! If you want urgent 2k from me, you have to earn it!

She asked you a simple and innocent question for Christ sake.

kingthreat:
Lol, you want turn person to marketer by force over 5k.

I tire some guys are just not okay mentally. This one go hardly see woman wen go take am serious.

Op, we are still waiting for your answer ooo.
You must tell us what you are selling today, we want to patronize you😁😁
You must make it by fire by force.....now kindly come out and tell us what you're selling, we are lining up to do business with you Sir.😆

Cum4me:
you go like too much talk and a very stungine man also.

What is this? Stingy you mean? How is he stingy? Only beggars and entitled people usually refer to others as stingy. Every adult should work for their money

And you call yourself Badharddick? this guy sells nothing. he needs Clients.
That is why the girl never responded.



Whatever, you sells, it is a Hard sell.

Hmmm

floss:
One funny thing people don’t know is that they don’t know the calibre of people reading their comments online….

Op you might feel that Nairaland is an unserious platform but a lot of opportunities lies inside this unserious platform…. Me for example has been able to start 3 businesses here in the US as a result of the information and knowledge I got here on Nairaland some years back I applied same strategy and today I’m reaping the reward … it depends on what you’re looking for in Nairaland…. And don’t miss the opportunity of getting your biggest client because most big sales happen jokingly in a casual manner… your biggest client might be reading the nonsense you wrote

I don't mind learning the strategy

Dshocker:
She asked you a simple and innocent question for Christ sake.

and I choose not to answer!

Cum4me:
I tire some guys are just not okay mentally. This one go hardly see woman wen go take am serious.

You want a woman to take you serious because you're giving her money? 🤡

Na your type dey pay for love and affection.

Goo0dHardDick:
You want a woman to take you serious because you're giving her money? 🤡

Na your type dey pay for love and affection.

dose love exist is there any relationship that can be healthy without money. Keep playing

Cum4me:
dose love exist is there any relationship that can be healthy without money. Keep playing

Yes there is. Plus we're not in any relationship. Perhaps you didn't read the post carefully because you've been used to buying love and affection. 🤡

Goo0dHardDick:
Yes there is. Plus we're not in any relationship. Perhaps you didn't read the post carefully because you've been used to buying love and affection. 🤡

hmmmn sorry o, how is your health? 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂

Let's pretend that this story is true but if I'm the girl I'll do the same. If you haven't meet Neolife you won't know how hard it is to convince people.

Ah, the “5k test” — you just found out what she really wanted from you 😅

*What actually happened here:*

1. *She asked for 5k*: Classic early-stage “let me see if he’s a mugu” move. For some people, 4 weeks of vibing = time to test if you’re ATM-compliant.
2. *You flipped the script*: Instead of “send aza” or “come over,” you said “bring me business.” You turned a transaction into a partnership. She expected _consumption_, you offered _production_.
3. *“Anything you want”*: That was her script. She assumed every guy wants sex for cash. When you didn’t, her playbook crashed. No more lines left.
4. *Radio silence after*: Because she wasn’t there to work. If she genuinely vibed with you or had hustle spirit, she’d have said “Oya, send me your flyers” or “What do you sell?” The fact that she ghosted tells you the vibe wasn’t mutual — it was extraction.

*Why your move was smart*

1. *Filtered intentions fast*: 5k + 6 days = ₦0 spent, clarity gained. Cheaper than 3 months of “urgent 2k” before you realize.
2. *Respect test*: Someone who likes you will respect that you value business. Someone who only likes your money will vanish when you attach work to it.
3. *Set the tone*: You told her, day 1: “I don’t dash money. I invest it.” That repels opportunists and attracts partners.

*Why she was “dumbfounded”*

Most guys fold at “anything you want.” You didn’t. You treated her like a human with agency, not just a body. Ironically, that’s what made her uncomfortable — because she didn’t have a non-sexual value proposition ready.

In Lagos/Warri/Abuja dating scene, “anything you want” is code for “I have nothing but sex to trade.” You called her bluff without insulting her.

*What this tells you about her*

1. *Not business-minded*: If she had sense, she’d see commission as easy 5k+. Post your stuff on status, tell 2 friends, done. But she didn’t even try.
2. *Entitlement*: Expected free 5k for “vibes.” When you added conditions, vibe died. So the vibe was conditional on your wallet.
3. *She’s gone*: And that’s a win. You dodged a “billing cycle” relationship.

*Bottom line*: You didn’t lose a girl. You lost a bill.

Real ones will say “Omo, I don’t have customers now, but I can share your page” or “What if I don’t get customers, can I pay back later?” They negotiate. Ghosting = she never planned to give _any_ value back.

Keep that energy. The right woman will hear “bring customers” and think “opportunity,” not “insult.”