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Why Men Are Obsessed With Women's Bodies by KobolanderSegun(op): 10:51pm On Apr 20
Men work very hard and alot of men use their bodies, from Bricklayers, Carpenters, Painters. Even if you are a white collar worker you sit behind a desk for hours. Men work till they are tired and their bodies pain them. Men work till they are drained. Men almost destroy their bodies.

Women generally have soft bodies and men are highly visual. Men after working are full of pain, muscle pain. In that pain men reach for women who are softer by nature so that they can feel the softness.
Re: Why Men Are Obsessed With Women's Bodies by kpankpangolo: 10:54pm On Apr 20
https://www.nairaland.com/8601145/it-finished

KobolanderSegun:
Men work very hard and alot of men use their bodies, from Bricklayers, Carpenters, Painters. Even if you are a white collar worker you sit behind a desk for hours. Men work till they are tired and their bodies pain them. Men work till they are drained. Men almost destroy their bodies.

Women generally have soft bodies and men are highly visual. Men after working are full of pain, muscle pain. In that pain men reach for women who are softer by nature so that they can feel the softness.
Re: Why Men Are Obsessed With Women's Bodies by Cousin9999: 11:20pm On Apr 20
It's biology and evolution. Big hips and big boobs are indicators of health, fertility, and that a woman can birth a healthy baby. Men react to these things without being aware of why.

Also, testosterone increases your sex drive. The same applies to women. And men who are more physically active have higher testosterone. Sunlight also raises testosterone.
Re: Why Men Are Obsessed With Women's Bodies by SixSeven: 12:48am On Apr 21
Cousin9999:
It's biology and evolution. Big hips and big boobs are indicators of health, fertility, and that a woman can birth a healthy baby. Men react to these things without being aware of why.

Also, testosterone increases your sex drive. The same applies to women. And men who are more physically active have higher testosterone. Sunlight also raises testosterone.
Interesting. I want to read more from you. Do you mind writing more?
Re: Why Men Are Obsessed With Women's Bodies by Cousin9999: 1:49am On Apr 21
SixSeven:
Interesting. I want to read more from you. Do you mind writing more?
Here's a quote from an article on evolutionary biology and why males are attracted to big butts:

About 100 men rated the attractiveness of several manipulated images displaying spinal curves ranging across the natural spectrum. Men were most attracted to images of women exhibiting the hypothesized optimum of 45 degrees of lumbar curvature.

“This spinal structure would have enabled pregnant women to balance their weight over the hips,” Lewis said. “These women would have been more effective at foraging during pregnancy and less likely to suffer spinal injuries. In turn, men who preferred these women would have had mates who were better able to provide for fetus and offspring, and who would have been able to carry out multiple pregnancies without injury.”
https://news.utexas.edu/2015/03/19/mens-preference-for-certain-body-types-has-evolutionary-roots/
Re: Why Men Are Obsessed With Women's Bodies by brain54(m): 3:12am On Apr 21
Cousin9999:
It's biology and evolution. Big hips and big boobs are indicators of health, fertility, and that a woman can birth a healthy baby. Men react to these things without being aware of why.

Also, testosterone increases your sex drive. The same applies to women. And men who are more physically active have higher testosterone. Sunlight also raises testosterone.
Not every man likes big busts, hips and butts...


Infact, in some cultures and climes flatter (for want of a better word) and less curvy women are more admired and more attractive to men.

Japanese women for example go to great lengths to look flat using their customs and attire to hide curves and make their features less obvious. The less the more attractive for their men!
Re: Why Men Are Obsessed With Women's Bodies by Cousin9999: 3:46am On Apr 21
brain54:
Not every man likes big busts, hips and butts...

Infact, in some cultures and climes flatter (for want of a better word) and less curvy women are more admired and more attractive to men.

Japanese women for example go to great lengths to look flat using their customs and attire to hide curves and make their features less obvious. The less the more attractive for their men!
Throughout history, men all over the world have preferred the shape I described (or their version of it). Art over the ages depicts the same shape across races and cultures. It is only when politics, classism, racism, cultural pressures and expectations, and other factors come into play that things change.

There are also other factors. For example, in some parts of Asia, due to poverty, very slim bodies were normalized just like shorter height and smaller private parts. There's also the fact that one cannot develop a taste for something they have no or limited access to. For example, most nonblacks have flat asses and very thin lips.
Re: Why Men Are Obsessed With Women's Bodies by brain54(m): 4:15am On Apr 21
Cousin9999:
Throughout history, men all over the world have preferred the shape I described (or their version of it). Art over the ages depicts the same shape across races and cultures. It is only when politics, classism, racism, cultural pressures and expectations, and other factors come into play that things change.

There are also other factors. For example, in some parts of Asia, due to poverty, very slim bodies were normalized just like shorter height and smaller private parts. There's also the fact that one cannot develop a taste for something they have no or limited access to. For example, most nonblacks have flat asses and very thin lips.
You would have to supply a verifiable data that most/more men at least...
(Not all)

Generally Prefer bountiful cargos than the opposite prefer to back this claim of yours about evolution.

If one cannot develop a taste for what is limited or has no access to then how come through out history men all over the world have preferred the shape you described (Big butts, hips and bust) especially considering that features of women are pronounced and differ all over the world by region. For example you are more likely to find women with those features you described in west Africa than in eastern Africa and even less in Europe.


Also my evolution and biology knowledge makes me understand that some of those features you listed (particularly busts) were primarily just a female's mamalia gland used for feeding her children and until much recently wasn't considered a sexual attraction/arousal for man or related to sex in any way.


In other words man only recently started associating those body parts with sex.

Politics, classism, racism etc are also relatively new concepts and I don't see how it goes far deeply to correspond with your theory about evolution.


As I said earlier though what would convince me about your theory in relation to the subject is if you can prove with verifiable evidence that majority of men all over the world as you claim prefer those features you listed!
Re: Why Men Are Obsessed With Women's Bodies by Cousin9999: 4:30am On Apr 21
brain54:
You would have to supply a verifiable data that most/more men at least...
(Not all)

Generally Prefer bountiful cargos than the opposite prefer to back this claim of yours about evolution.

If one cannot develop a taste for what is limited or has no access to then how come through out history men all over the world have preferred the shape you described (Big butts, hips and bust) especially considering that features of women are pronounced and differ all over the world by region. For example you are more likely to find women with those features you described in west Africa than in eastern Africa and even less in Europe.


Also my evolution and biology knowledge makes me understand that some of those features you listed (particularly busts) were primarily just a female's mamalia gland used for feeding her children and until much recently wasn't considered a sexual attraction/arousal for man or related to sex in any way.


In other words man only recently started associating those body parts with sex.

Politics, classism, racism etc are also relatively new concepts and I don't see how it goes far deeply to correspond with your theory about evolution.


As I said earlier though what would convince me about your theory in relation to the subject is if you can prove with verifiable evidence that majority of men all over the world as you claim prefer those features you listed!
Just checked your profile. Bye, troll.
Re: Why Men Are Obsessed With Women's Bodies by brain54(m): 4:34am On Apr 21
Cousin9999:
Just checked your profile. Bye, troll.
Lol...

Nice way to dodge. That's how they run away when they have no response to problems they create.

You spoke about a theory you couldn't defend. Even though you were responding with ai.

Respond to the questions on ground forget who is a troll or not.

So much for evolution... I was actually hoping you could convince me.

Bye!
Re: Why Men Are Obsessed With Women's Bodies by Love800(m): 6:06am On Apr 21
The same way women wants to have a feel of men's strong and steel bodies.

Na both gender.
Re: Why Men Are Obsessed With Women's Bodies by KobolanderSegun(op): 6:40am On Apr 21
kpankpangolo:
https://www.nairaland.com/8601145/it-finished
Jesus is Lord......... Nollywood style....... To God Be The Glory
Re: Why Men Are Obsessed With Women's Bodies by Diamond098454(f): 6:59am On Apr 21
Hmmmm Cousin9999
Cousin9999:
It's biology and evolution. Big hips and big boobs are indicators of health, fertility, and that a woman can birth a healthy baby. Men react to these things without being aware of why.

Also, testosterone increases your sex drive. The same applies to women. And men who are more physically active have higher testosterone. Sunlight also raises testosterone.
Re: Why Men Are Obsessed With Women's Bodies by Diamond098454(f): 7:08am On Apr 21
I know you like slim girls
brain54:
Lol...

Nice way to dodge. That's how they run away when they have no response to problems they create.

You spoke about a theory you couldn't defend. Even though you were responding with ai.

Respond to the questions on ground forget who is a troll or not.

So much for evolution... I was actually hoping you could convince me.

Bye!
Re: Why Men Are Obsessed With Women's Bodies by brain54(m): 7:12am On Apr 21
Diamond098454:
I know you like slim girls
Slim, petite and portable...

Nicely packaged.

Diamond girl how are you?

Smiles, smiles, smiles! 😊
Re: Why Men Are Obsessed With Women's Bodies by Diamond098454(f): 7:13am On Apr 21
I'm not thick, I'm not fat and I'm not slim
That means no boyfriend for me in 🇳🇬

No big boobs
No big hip

It's time I consider BBL
Re: Why Men Are Obsessed With Women's Bodies by Diamond098454(f): 7:15am On Apr 21
Hmmmm I see smiles smiles

Very well and you?
brain54:
Slim, petite and portable...

Nicely packaged.

Diamond girl how are you?

Smiles, smiles, smiles! 😊
Re: Why Men Are Obsessed With Women's Bodies by brain54(m): 7:19am On Apr 21
Diamond098454:
I'm not thick, I'm not fat and I'm not slim
That means no boyfriend for me in 🇳🇬

No big boobs
No big hip

It's time I consider BBL
Not thick, not fat, not slim...? 🤔

Some men consider more than big hips and butts. They are many things that add up and combine to make a woman a spec.

Besides they is a woman for every man.

I'm doing great!
Re: Why Men Are Obsessed With Women's Bodies by Diamond098454(f): 7:34am On Apr 21
Nothing for girls that are moderate
Smiles smiles smiles
brain54:
Not thick, not fat, not slim...? 🤔

Some men consider more than big hips and butts. They are many things that add up and combine to make a woman a spec.

Besides they is a woman for every man.

I'm doing great!
Re: Why Men Are Obsessed With Women's Bodies by brain54(m): 7:47am On Apr 21
Diamond098454:
Nothing for girls that are moderate
Smiles smiles smiles
Moderate girls have the best chances...


Because they balance things up between the two other groups.


I call them the balancing crew. tongue

Seriously though a man can say he likes or prefers a woman with big juggs but end up with a woman that has microscopic features, especially when his consideration and intentions isn't any longer just sexual.


That's why I said in the end different things combine and add up to make a woman a man's spec.


Besides I think most men's spec change over time especially as they grow older.


Short of my epistle is that they is and always will be a man for you irrespective of slim, moderate or full option!
Re: Why Men Are Obsessed With Women's Bodies by Diamond098454(f): 7:53am On Apr 21
Smiles smiles smiles
How do you know all this things? Bad guy for real
brain54:
Moderate girls have the best chances...


Because they balance things up between the two other groups.


I call them the balancing crew. tongue

Seriously though a man can say he likes or prefers a woman with big juggs but end up with a woman that has microscopic features, especially when his consideration and intentions isn't any longer just sexual.


That's why I said in the end different things combine and add up to make a woman a man's spec.


Besides I think most men's spec change over time especially as they grow older.


Short of my epistle is that they is and always will be a man for you irrespective of slim, moderate or full option!
Re: Why Men Are Obsessed With Women's Bodies by brain54(m): 7:58am On Apr 21
Diamond098454:
Smiles smiles smiles
How do you know all this things? Bad guy for real
I guess I've been a man all my life...

That's why.

I'm one of the few good guys left o! tongue
Re: Why Men Are Obsessed With Women's Bodies by Diamond098454(f): 8:06am On Apr 21
Hahaha haha haha haha
You are among the few good guys left........huh?? I can't stop laughing
brain54:
I guess I've been a man all my life...

That's why.

I'm one of the few good guys left o! tongue
Re: Why Men Are Obsessed With Women's Bodies by Felabrity: 11:24am On Apr 21
Shey na man body dem need before? undecided angry
Re: Why Men Are Obsessed With Women's Bodies by KobolanderSegun(op): 12:07pm On Apr 21
brain54:
Not every man likes big busts, hips and butts...


Infact, in some cultures and climes flatter (for want of a better word) and less curvy women are more admired and more attractive to men.

Japanese women for example go to great lengths to look flat using their customs and attire to hide curves and make their features less obvious. The less the more attractive for their men!
Thank you for shedding the light on the real laws of attraction. Alot of so called Scientist journals are writing with Zero data from other. The scientist just writes according to his own mind. Me that I like big breasts and big Yansh I am deeply attracted to a woman who is flat chested with zero shape.

The laws of Attraction are highly layered. Their is Eye Attraction 2 Physical Attraction 3. Emotional Attractive 4. Sexual Attraction 5. Loneliness Attraction. 6. Trust Attraction.

There are alot reasons why man are attracted to women but it commulates in women being being viewed as a counterfoil for men.

People do not Try this at Home :

Even in sexual relationships of two men, one takes the position of the dominant partner while one takes the submissive role.

You cannot have two captains in one ship seems to be the rule of relationships.
Re: Why Men Are Obsessed With Women's Bodies by KobolanderSegun(op): 12:09pm On Apr 21
Love800:
The same way women wants to have a feel of men's strong and steel bodies.

Na both gender.
For the attraction to be complete both parties most bring something unique to the table
Re: Why Men Are Obsessed With Women's Bodies by KobolanderSegun(op): 12:13pm On Apr 21
Cousin9999:
Throughout history, men all over the world have preferred the shape I described (or their version of it). Art over the ages depicts the same shape across races and cultures. It is only when politics, classism, racism, cultural pressures and expectations, and other factors come into play that things change.

There are also other factors. For example, in some parts of Asia, due to poverty, very slim bodies were normalized just like shorter height and smaller private parts. There's also the fact that one cannot develop a taste for something they have no or limited access to. For example, most nonblacks have flat asses and very thin lips.
The view of what is attractive has always changed even in the west. Standards of Beauty and Attraction are not static but always changes. This is how it is.

I have Spoken.
Re: Why Men Are Obsessed With Women's Bodies by SixSeven: 12:52pm On Apr 21
Cousin9999:
Here's a quote from an article on evolutionary biology and why males are attracted to big butts:



https://news.utexas.edu/2015/03/19/mens-preference-for-certain-body-types-has-evolutionary-roots/
Is this what makes boys at puberty start recognizing this body part they used to ignore before they reached that age 🤔

About the woman's hips and weight during pregnancy, yes. Anyone who's seen birth delivery will recognize how even a slim body starts to change so when it's term, the body does its work. Another reason why VVF is a customer to those who put young girls in family way early even if they've started developing beasts but you know, this world is wonderful, back then, some girls got pregnant at 14 etc. Back to your story, it's funny that the female body had always been one of discussion in history. Abroad, you see women and their bodies sculptured... All of a sudden, fashion moguls sold the false narrative of slim to sell their products and use young women for trade until they are ready to dump them.... In South Korea, the beauty standards is a ritual that people go through surgery for it but in South Africa, a big butt is everyday life. I've ranted enough. My question to you is, is there a biological reason why men tend to look at a woman's behind just the way they see her front?
Re: Why Men Are Obsessed With Women's Bodies by olioxx(m): 1:04pm On Apr 21
brain54:
Moderate girls have the best chances...


Because they balance things up between the two other groups.


I call them the balancing crew. tongue

Seriously though a man can say he likes or prefers a woman with big juggs but end up with a woman that has microscopic features, especially when his consideration and intentions isn't any longer just sexual.


That's why I said in the end different things combine and add up to make a woman a man's spec.


Besides I think most men's spec change over time especially as they grow older.


Short of my epistle is that they is and always will be a man for you irrespective of slim, moderate or full option!
At the bolded you are very very very correct.

You see the Ayra Starr body type girls, they are spec anyday anytime.

Moderate in every area. Now crown it up with caramel skin and leggings style legs, that's a blast combo.

But then some men actually appreciate the physical features and would love for some emotional, social and core intelligence.

Also I dont understand women that think artificial enhancement in any form is attractive, gosh it isn't.

I love it all natural, same way I barb clean low cut and trim my stubble beard is how I want my women to be natural.

Abeg plait all back I dont mind, wear plain no branded tees, clean natural color trousers or fitted skirt. Go easy on the earrings, I prefer studs.

It's not even too much to ask

SixSeven:
Is there a biological reason why men tend to look at a woman's behind just the way they see her front?
Humans tend to appreciate what they dont have, or what doesn't come easy.

In the case of bum/butt/bum bum, the female have it bigger than the male due to hormones which triggers storage of fat and omega3 in that area which in turn is helpful during pregnancy, child birth and caring for the little ones especially when backing the baby.

Also it's visible to the human eyes as well. One truth I want to spill today is other women notice their fellow women bumbum, infact they jest amongst themselves about it. Even till today I jest and compliment my female friends bout their ass, cause even they themselves love their asses big.
Re: Why Men Are Obsessed With Women's Bodies by SixSeven: 2:28pm On Apr 21
olioxx:
At the bolded you are very very very correct.

You see the Ayra Starr body type girls, they are spec anyday anytime.

Moderate in every area. Now crown it up with caramel skin and leggings style legs, that's a blast combo.

But then some men actually appreciate the physical features and would love for some emotional, social and core intelligence.

Also I dont understand women that think artificial enhancement in any form is attractive, gosh it isn't.

I love it all natural, same way I barb clean low cut and trim my stubble beard is how I want my women to be natural.

Abeg plait all back I dont mind, wear plain no branded tees, clean natural color trousers or fitted skirt. Go easy on the earrings, I prefer studs.

It's not even too much to ask



Humans tend to appreciate what they dont have, or what doesn't come easy.

In the case of bum/butt/bum bum, the female have it bigger than the male due to hormones which triggers storage of fat and omega3 in that area which in turn is helpful during pregnancy, child birth and caring for the little ones especially when backing the baby.

Also it's visible to the human eyes as well. One truth I want to spill today is other women notice their fellow women bumbum, infact they jest amongst themselves about it. Even till today I jest and compliment my female friends bout their ass, cause even they themselves love their asses big.
So I also wanted to add, for those Chinese where the body part in most places is generally slim, what do they appreciate? 🤔


About your last paragraph, I just appreciate over time that we are still animals wink Especially when I watch animal wild documentaries and see how other animals behave and we do the same thing. 😂

Your bolded is the reason why people need to appreciate who they are. It affects many women. What they see and want to become. A man who doesn't have 6 packs won't kill himself for that. Men too get jealous but I think it comes differently. For instance, some short men go to the gym to compensate for height. Also, there is some science to the idea that women look up, which makes them likely to choose a man taller than them. It is a form of natural security even if the guy may be weak but he has height advantage.
Re: Why Men Are Obsessed With Women's Bodies by Diamond098454(f):
🤣🤣

Brain54
brain54:
I guess I've been a man all my life...

That's why.

I'm one of the few good guys left o! tongue
Re: Why Men Are Obsessed With Women's Bodies by brain54(m): 3:19pm On Apr 21
Diamond098454:
Check your mail
Brain54
That's my old email...


I no longer have access to that email account.


The one I registered on nl with. I've been trying to edit it on my profile but it's not happening. It seems Someone cant edit their profile here!
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