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Don't Help A Woman For Free by Goo0dHardDick(op): 1:22pm On Apr 22
Helping a woman for free without any tangle value in return does the following.

1. she instantly sees you as a "mugu" ( a phrase meaning fool)

2. She immediately places you for the role of a provider, and not a lover!

3. Helping a woman is like pouring water in a basket.

4. Entitlement mentality kicks in.

5. She immediately increases her standard because there's a man somewhere helping her funds her lifestyle.

Understand this, it is never your duty or responsiblity to help any girl. Ur duty is to listen to her but glue your pockets. Don't buy any girl a phone, or train her in school, or buy clothes for her! You're not her father! As a man invest in yourself until people starts investing in you. Women don't want men who will solve their problems. This is where the bad guys are separated from the nice guys. Learn game or perish.
Re: Don't Help A Woman For Free by Love800(m): 3:42pm On Apr 22
I understand where you are going to.

But sometimes when you help without anything attached, that is when you get gigs coming your way.
Re: Don't Help A Woman For Free by otipoju(m): 4:21pm On Apr 22
If you help a woman and dont demand sex in return...or reject it immediately she offers it.

It sets you apart completely and if you maintain your masculine frame and continue to do well for yourself, and she sees you dating other women, she will spend her lifetime doing stuff to please you.
Re: Don't Help A Woman For Free by Holluwhakemmy(f): 8:53pm On Apr 22
You have started your miserable story again .
The other time you were saying you asked a woman to look for customer for you before you give her anything, to tell us what you are selling you couldn't say a word.
If you don't careful enough about all your hatred for women, I don't see you moving upward in life because it will damage a lot of things in your life.
If you have any problem with your past girlfriends, the earlier you move on and forget whatever that happened in order to avoid depression and hypertension drugs are much more expensive now.
IIre oooo
Re: Don't Help A Woman For Free by ManknowThyself(m): 10:16pm On Apr 22
I will always help women i don't know and our part never cross again in life.

Help people truly in need either man or woman and never expect anything in return.
Re: Don't Help A Woman For Free by fyneboi79(m): 11:39pm On Apr 22
ManknowThyself:
I will always help women i don't know and our part never cross again in life.

Help people truly in need either man or woman and never expect anything in return.
An unexamined life is not worth living...."man know thyself ".
Re: Don't Help A Woman For Free by tanigororo: 11:48pm On Apr 22
If you want to help, help irrespective of gender. If you don't want to help, don't help. I don't tolerate entitlement mentality
Re: Don't Help A Woman For Free by SixSeven: 12:45am On Apr 23
Love800:
I understand where you are going to.

But sometimes when you help without anything attached, that is when you get gigs coming your way.

Re: Don't Help A Woman For Free by meobizy(m): 12:46pm On Apr 23
I never take write-ups in this forum serious. I’ve seen a good number of you children. Living well doesn’t come to mind if I want to describe how most of you appear.
Re: Don't Help A Woman For Free by Love800(m): 1:31pm On Apr 27
I appreciate.[quote author=SixSeven post=139185578][/quote]
Re: Don't Help A Woman For Free by Savedday2: 2:42pm On Apr 27
The truth about helping a woman is that she will only need you when she need that help again.

After rendering that help for free, you become useless till she needs you to help her for free again.
Re: Don't Help A Woman For Free by Exceed15: 9:27am On Apr 28
Nice guys are used and dumped.
Re: Don't Help A Woman For Free by Samantha125(f): 12:08pm On Apr 28
What about me? Can you describe me based on my appearance? grin grin grin
meobizy:
I never take write-ups in this forum serious. I’ve seen a good number of you children. Living well doesn’t come to mind if I want to describe how most of you appear.
Re: Don't Help A Woman For Free by meobizy(m): 4:52pm On Apr 28
Thamsanqa, leave me alone.

Samantha125:
What about me? Can you describe me based on my appearance? grin grin grin
Re: Don't Help A Woman For Free by Samantha125(f): 5:37pm On Apr 28
At bolded, what's that?
meobizy:
Thamsanqa, leave me alone.
Re: Don't Help A Woman For Free by LIVINGICONREBOR: 7:00pm On Apr 28
Samantha125:
What about me? Can you describe me based on my appearance? grin grin grin
You are very "bony" with very little flesh in the right places. I can use 5 of you in body weight to do bench press.🥱🥱
Re: Don't Help A Woman For Free by gutss(m): 7:04pm On Apr 28
Women Aren’t Saints, Men Aren’t Demons… The Truth Will Trigger You

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ukGLB-kKmFk
Re: Don't Help A Woman For Free by Samantha125(f): 8:39pm On Apr 28
Okay, cool.
LIVINGICONREBOR:
You are very "bony" with very little flesh in the right places. I can use 5 of you in body weight to do bench press.🥱🥱
Re: Don't Help A Woman For Free by ridwintin89(m): 1:58am On Apr 29
Holluwhakemmy:
You have started your miserable story again .
The other time you were saying you asked a woman to look for customer for you before you give her anything, to tell us what you are selling you couldn't say a word.
If you don't careful enough about all your hatred for women, I don't see you moving upward in life because it will damage a lot of things in your life.
If you have any problem with your past girlfriends, the earlier you move on and forget whatever that happened in order to avoid depression and hypertension drugs are much more expensive now.
IIre oooo
Must they help you.

Team entitlement mentality.

Era of no husband is here, nobody is ready to take a liability any longer except those ignorant SIMP
Re: Don't Help A Woman For Free by Holluwhakemmy(f): 12:50pm On Apr 29
ridwintin89:
Must they help you.

Team entitlement mentality.

Era of no husband is here, nobody is ready to take a liability any longer except those ignorant SIMP
You are saying rubbish
Re: Don't Help A Woman For Free by Goo0dHardDick(op): 3:06pm On Apr 29
Savedday2:
The truth about helping a woman is that she will only need you when she need that help again.

After rendering that help for free, you become useless till she needs you to help her for free again.
Completely true 💯

This is exactly why nice guys finish last.
Re: Don't Help A Woman For Free by Tenrack: 7:18am On Apr 30
Holluwhakemmy:
You are saying rubbish
Ogbeni stfu.
Re: Don't Help A Woman For Free by Holluwhakemmy(f): 9:20am On Apr 30
Tenrack:
Ogbeni stfu.
what's your problem?
Re: Don't Help A Woman For Free by imagrg(m): 5:36am On May 01
I can see you are really pained by his write-up.
Can any woman give a man somethingf or nothing?
Holluwhakemmy:
You have started your miserable story again .
The other time you were saying you asked a woman to look for customer for you before you give her anything, to tell us what you are selling you couldn't say a word.
If you don't careful enough about all your hatred for women, I don't see you moving upward in life because it will damage a lot of things in your life.
If you have any problem with your past girlfriends, the earlier you move on and forget whatever that happened in order to avoid depression and hypertension drugs are much more expensive now.
IIre oooo
Re: Don't Help A Woman For Free by DickenClarq(f): 9:47am On May 01
Sometimes you guys make some kind of comment here which make me wonder whether you don't have sisters or female relatives in your life.

Just one bad experience with one woman you will come here and start generalizing.

I'm a lady with brothers and males relatives even though I have gone through heartbreaks and disappointments, that won't stop me to render help to any man who genuinely need one.

May God help us all.
Re: Don't Help A Woman For Free by aswani(m): 5:21pm On May 01
Samantha125:
What about me? Can you describe me based on my appearance? grin grin grin
Anti, are you not the one that allows strangers to buy you free food, when you can afford it yourself, and think life is sweet as a result?
Re: Don't Help A Woman For Free by essentialone(m): 10:05pm On May 01
Once a lady starts telling you, "You are actually a good guy", just know that either she wants to Reject you, or she wants to Dump you.
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