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"My ex is not my enemy” — Lady says as she attends her ex-boyfriend's wedding.


Neche's Treats writes:

I woke up this morning with this strange heavy feeling in my chest... I didn't understand why. I kept asking myself, "what is it?"

Only for me to check the date and realize... Today is 28th of April.

My ex's birthday

This particular ex eh... no be small thing. This is someone I built with, someone I gave my full support, my time, my everything.
But what did he do? He left me... and went to marry his village girl. Said his people insisted he must marry from home.
Omo... e pain me, I won't lie

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7633767456628018454?_r=1&_t=ZS-95yR7kQCMGT

See as your Ex dey blow kiss ontop ya Nose.

I hope OKAFOR'S LAW of Congoelasticity will not play out........

GOFRONT:
See as your Ex dey blow kiss ontop ya Nose.

I hope OKAFOR'S LAW of Congoelasticity will not play out........

Okafors Law Always remains constant……


Please stand corrected


My peace I leave you

What is the rationale behind people inviting their ex to their wedding?
Do they do that with the knowledge/consent of the person they're marrying?
It doesn't make sense.

You don't have to prove anything by going to your ex's wedding.
No hard feelings.

GOFRONT:
See as your Ex dey blow kiss ontop ya Nose.

I hope OKAFOR'S LAW of Congoelasticity will not play out........

Oga. Okafor's law is a mathematical constant.

GOFRONT:
See as your Ex dey blow kiss ontop ya Nose.

I hope OKAFOR'S LAW of Congoelasticity will not play out........

Better don't waste that your hope.

You already know OKAFOR is right.

Mariangeles:
You don't have to prove anything by going to your ex's wedding.
No hard feelings.

You don't have to prove anything by NOT GOING to your ex's wedding.

Life goes on .

Mariangeles:
What is the rationale behind people inviting their ex to their wedding?
Do they do that with the knowledge/consent of the person they're marrying?
It doesn't make sense.

You don't have to prove anything by going to your ex's wedding.
No hard feelings.

Your ex is not your enemy

Ogbanjee no wan give up

MarkNsukkaBread:
Your ex is not your enemy

Still, you don't have to prove it.
You owe yourself that respect.

Women don't forget. A help is a debt owed...

Feed a woman for life, no worries. Let a woman feed you for lunch, Kilimanjaro will hear about it. Men, take note. Women don't help like that. You are the provider, not her. Beware of Greek gifts.

The symptom of being dicknified n dickmatised detected...they always go back, all of them

Thst is called Maturity

Okafo law remix if u know u know

Mariangeles:
What is the rationale behind people inviting their ex to their wedding?
Do they do that with the knowledge/consent of the person they're marrying?
It doesn't make sense.

You don't have to prove anything by going to your ex's wedding.
No hard feelings.

If there's no hard feelings, then you can attend. Your ex becomes a friend or ex lover. Even if you divorced the person, I don't see anything wrong in visiting them. This life na one. Those who carry war on their head were the 2 kids fighting. I attended my ex wedding. The separation was matured so no hard feelings. I don't get it why people will sever ties just because they stopped a love relationship, that's childish. You can maintain distance if you are afraid of catching feelings but you were just a chapter in my life. Next chapter.

The dynamics of modern relationships are becoming insane. Everybody na someone ex. We are just recycling fairly-used. May God help us.

An Ex is an Ex. There's nothing to do with an Ex. Ever since I divorced my Ex wife, nothing fit make us be in talking terms again! I have even forgotten about her for ever!

Mariangeles:
What is the rationale behind people inviting their ex to their wedding?
Do they do that with the knowledge/consent of the person they're marrying?
It doesn't make sense.

You don't have to prove anything by going to your ex's wedding.
No hard feelings.

The same rationale behind people having opposite sex as beastie.

They want to eat their cake and still having it.

Humans had been deceiving themselves from garden of Eden.

She's jobless


Seun loud am

I believe people calling this "maturity" are just being sarcastic. This speaks a lot about the respect she accords herself and the value she placed on the man she's with. Practically no self respecting woman should do this. I'm not someone to judge anybody by their looks, but the vibe she's exuding from her appearance says a lot. I wonder if their brain is positioned180° south of how it's supposed to be positioned.

Some even still have that disgusting practice of keeping contacts of their exes (like this one) and still following them on social media. Like what do you still want? Any self respecting man who sees that cannot take you serious. He'll "enjoy" himself and ditch you for another lady capable of loyalty and actual maturity.

Man or woman, please STOP contacting your exes nor keeping their contacts (except for rare reasons which is the exception), you position yourself as a disloyal person.

So if she's already married, she'll still attend the wedding? Then we wonder why adultery is common and marriages are hitting the rocks.

No wonder Nkechi and Amaka have been calling my number

Those babes no gree me rest for Kano

Last last na me run commot

That nose reminds me of my course mate's nose (Believe) that year.

His nickname was "nobody NOSE it all"

SixSeven:
If there's no hard feelings, then you can attend. Your ex becomes a friend or ex lover. Even if you divorced the person, I don't see anything wrong in visiting them. This life na one. Those who carry war on their head were the 2 kids fighting. I attended my ex wedding. The separation was matured so no hard feelings. I don't get it why people will sever ties just because they stopped a love relationship, that's childish. You can maintain distance if you are afraid of catching feelings but you were just a chapter in my life. Next chapter.

Oh, you even know you can catch rekindle feelings? Keep it up.

Wen they are deceiving person it's better o, but once you started DECEIVING urself, it's finished.

I see nothing bad in attending the wedding of an ex

Two highly irresponsible idiots

Oisagbai78:
An Ex is an Ex. There's nothing to do with an Ex. Ever since I divorced my Ex wife, nothing fit make us be in talking terms again! I have even forgotten about her for ever!

That must have been a very toxic relationship

Fiscus105:
Oh, you even know you can catch rekindle feelings? Keep it up.

Human beings can always do this. That's why I wrote divorcees too but you must remember that this life, you came alone and you will go alone so don't be too attached to anyone or think that without them you can't live anymore. Lies.

Women are the ones likely to catch feelings because as a man, you have moved on but for them, even if they thought they made the best decision, they will still compare what they have and what they once had. A man who keeps improving himself will age like fine wine and be more attractive as he matures. The same cannot be said for women. Once they throw darts, it's for better for worse. God help them it's the better option. Women can be easily seduced and that's why male logic applies brakes to their tricks.

Mariangeles:
What is the rationale behind people inviting their ex to their wedding?
Do they do that with the knowledge/consent of the person they're marrying?
It doesn't make sense.

You don't have to prove anything by going to your ex's wedding.
No hard feelings.

If you're my ex I will invite you to my wedding

femi4:
The symptom of being dicknified n dickmatised detected...they always go back, all of them

This is not true.

I have exes I communicate with and we exchange birthday greetings yet we have not see physically in over 10 years

GOFRONT:
See as your Ex dey blow kiss ontop ya Nose.

I hope OKAFOR'S LAW of Congoelasticity will not play out........

Okafors law is unavoidable with what I am seeing here.

She will live long. People with attitude like that live long.