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When a woman marries as a virgin it benefits both her and her husband.

She has no comparison. She has no craving rooted in memory. Her loyalty is not divided by experience.

As a man you have a choice. You can seek a woman you can build with from a clean foundation. Or you can seek a woman who comes with history and start wondering why peace is hard to find at home.

This is not about judging women. It is about understanding what you are choosing and accepting the full weight of that choice. There is no neutral ground. Every decision has a consequence.

It is supposed to be value in exchange for value. Aura for aura.

Does a woman's past affect her ability to be a loyal wife?

marcusverum:
When a woman marries as a virgin it benefits both her and her husband.

She has no comparison. She has no craving rooted in memory. Her loyalty is not divided by experience.

As a man you have a choice. You can seek a woman you can build with from a clean foundation. Or you can seek a woman who comes with history and start wondering why peace is hard to find at home.

This is not about judging women. It is about understanding what you are choosing and accepting the full weight of that choice. There is no neutral ground. Every decision has a consequence.

It is supposed to be value in exchange for value. Aura for aura.

Does a woman's past affect her ability to be a loyal wife?

Once a woman is virgin, so she can't cheat in marriage, you never see stubborn virgin wey go choke you till depression for marriage,
Once a woman is taste sex, craving go come from another person, once he is tired of you in marriage, but Dem no get mind do am, if opportunity trigger, you go know sey wetin you write up there na nonsense

If virginity is a man’s priority, he will learn to ask about it. If it isn’t, life continues. In this day and age that every woman claims she was raped as her first experience, I have no advice for men.

You just proved my point without realising it.
You said it yourself, she has the craving but does not have the mind to act on it. That restraint is exactly what I am talking about. A woman with no history has no reference point for that craving. She does not know what she is missing. The woman with history knows exactly what she is missing and one day the opportunity will not just trigger, it will win.

You are not arguing against virginity. You are arguing for why experience makes temptation harder to resist. That is my entire point.

A woman with no comparison has nothing to compare you to. That is not nothing. That is everything.

Powerbandooo:
Once a woman is virgin, so she can't cheat in marriage, you never see stubborn virgin wey go choke you till depression for marriage,
Once a woman is taste sex, craving go come from another person, once he is tired of you in marriage, but Dem no get mind do am, if opportunity trigger, you go know sey wetin you write up there na nonsense

It's crazy how women keep raising the bar higher and higher for men, the type of men they want while men keep lowering the bar for women.


Something as basic as virginity which should be the least a man should expect from a woman is now seen as asking for too much?


In the past you don't dare say you have a boyfriend but these days a lady with numerous body count would be so bold to display it and expecting a rich handsome disciplined man who earns nothing less than $50M a month.


But would be guilt tripping you for only wanting a girl that hasn't slept with anyone before.

They even go as far as demanding much from a man for a single mother of 3!!!


Wonders!!!

This is exactly it.

Standards have been inverted. Women have been told their value increases with experience while a man's value is measured by his bank account, his height, his status and his ambition. She brings nothing to the table and negotiates like she owns the restaurant.

A single mother of three is not a woman with baggage. She is a woman with a track record and that track record tells you everything about her judgement, her choices and what she prioritises.

The man who accepts that deal is not loving. He is desperate.

Virginity is not asking for too much. It is asking for the minimum. The fact that the minimum is now considered unrealistic tells you everything about where we are.

Standards do not lower themselves. Men lower them and then wonder why they are unhappy.

Hold the line.

- MV.

lovediehatelive:
It's crazy how women keep raising the bar higher and higher for men, the type of men they want while men keep lowering the bar for women.


Something as basic as virginity which should be the least a man should expect from a woman is now seen as asking for too much?


In the past you don't dare say you have a boyfriend but these days a lady with numerous body count would be so bold to display it and expecting a rich handsome disciplined man who earns nothing less than $50M a month.


But would be guilt tripping you for only wanting a girl that hasn't slept with anyone before.

They even go as far as demanding much from a man for a single mother of 3!!!


Wonders!!!

marcusverum:
When a woman marries as a virgin it benefits both her and her husband.

She has no comparison. She has no craving rooted in memory. Her loyalty is not divided by experience.

As a man you have a choice. You can seek a woman you can build with from a clean foundation. Or you can seek a woman who comes with history and start wondering why peace is hard to find at home.

This is not about judging women. It is about understanding what you are choosing and accepting the full weight of that choice. There is no neutral ground. Every decision has a consequence.

It is supposed to be value in exchange for value. Aura for aura.

Does a woman's past affect her ability to be a loyal wife?

Where you wan see virgin adult woman these days? If you can point me to one non disabled adult female virgin then I will eat my head 😄
No go toast underage o. Nah prison be that for u o 🤣

marcusverum:
The fact that they are rare is the point not the excuse.

Rare things have value precisely because they are hard to find. Gold is not worthless because it is scarce. It is valuable because it is scarce.

The question is not whether virgin women exist. The question is whether you have positioned yourself as the kind of man a woman of that calibre would choose to give that to.

Most men asking where the virgins are have nothing to offer a woman who has everything to give.

Work on yourself first. Then ask the question.

Lol you are not in tune with reality. No need for sweet lies that people love to hear. Go into life and live or go sit down like always

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Your value is in your virginity, believe it or not. Or your purity, you require higher standards than men. Don't let men get into your pants anyhow, men are opportunists, protect yourself.

You are not sure of a man's intention until he has you.

Education is your best investment. E get whu

Character is beauty. Men will eventually get tired of the boobs and ass. They always claim they want peace. Peace comes from feminity not masculinity.

The more you act like a man, you make a man take the back seat. Never help a man too much, you will kill his hunting spirit.
A woman is a man who doesn't have to be a man. A man is a woman who is not allowed to be a woman.

Be careful about the man who you let into your body. Ask yourself, will I like to have a baby like him?

Before you make decisions about men, ask another trusted man that doesn't want anything from you. They can separate logic from emotions. A kind man is better than a good man and a good man is better than a bad boy and a bad boy is better than a manipulator.



Assume that your fellow woman doesn't have the best interest in you as she always wants your downfall or wants you to be in the same level with her but on the other hand, men are not your best friends Women tend to groupthink and FOMO

Crab Mentality pic.twitter.com/rk8TJJwOaZ

— Why women get Ls (@ywomendeservles) April 26, 2026

The fact that they are rare is the point not the excuse.

Rare things have value precisely because they are hard to find. Gold is not worthless because it is scarce. It is valuable because it is scarce.

The question is not whether virgin women exist. The question is whether you have positioned yourself as the kind of man a woman of that calibre would choose to give that to.

Most men asking where the virgins are have nothing to offer a woman who has everything to give.

Work on yourself first. Then ask the question.

Mercury12:
Where you wan see virgin adult woman these days? If you can point me to one non disabled adult female virgin then I will eat my head 😄
No go toast underage o. Nah prison be that for u o 🤣

Mercury12:
Where you wan see virgin adult woman these days? If you can point me to one non disabled adult female virgin then I will eat my head 😄
No go toast underage o. Nah prison be that for u o 🤣

Virgin adult dey but they no dey attractive enough for us

Virginity has never, and will never determine the happiness in, and strength of a relationship.

Lots of divorces happen with virgins... Why? They thought being a virgin was the only requirement and never got to build themselves character-wise or learn to be useful to others.

Nothing interests me about romance right now. I'm only thinking about Survival. How do I survive these harsh times when I have nobody?

Una country is in the worse state its ever been in, even the civil war era, Nigeria wasn't this bad but na irrelevant matter like a woman's viriginity dey bother una. Truly u deserve the leaders u get.

Na condition that makes some people marry as a virgin,even if some women walk the street naked,men won’t still look atvthem

Virgins plenty during Jonathan and OBJ time

Immediately APC enter.

Virgins started selling their Virginity to survive

Omo, nothing beats marrying a virgin👍
A virgin will always bring you good luck as a man👍

to see a virgin nowadays not even among our secondary skools .Even over pampered/protective pastors/imams children don collect better GBOLA ,dey sniff join

marcusverum:
When a woman marries as a virgin it benefits both her and her husband.

She has no comparison. She has no craving rooted in memory. Her loyalty is not divided by experience.

As a man you have a choice. You can seek a woman you can build with from a clean foundation. Or you can seek a woman who comes with history and start wondering why peace is hard to find at home.

This is not about judging women. It is about understanding what you are choosing and accepting the full weight of that choice. There is no neutral ground. Every decision has a consequence.

It is supposed to be value in exchange for value. Aura for aura.

Does a woman's past affect her ability to be a loyal wife?

Oga, everything should not be about sex! In marriage, sex is not the most important thing. Therefore, it should not be the basis for marriage. Virgin or not, only an insecure man will use virginity as a yardstick for marriage

I always beg virgins to remain the way they are. It's quite easy to remain a virgin for as long as possible than to taste the experience and want to stop it.

You may call them anything, but they are in a better state than you who now can't control your urge.

It helps in marriage too as op stated

marcusverum:
When a woman marries as a virgin it benefits both her and her husband.

She has no comparison. She has no craving rooted in memory. Her loyalty is not divided by experience.

As a man you have a choice. You can seek a woman you can build with from a clean foundation. Or you can seek a woman who comes with history and start wondering why peace is hard to find at home.

This is not about judging women. It is about understanding what you are choosing and accepting the full weight of that choice. There is no neutral ground. Every decision has a consequence.

It is supposed to be value in exchange for value. Aura for aura.

Does a woman's past affect her ability to be a loyal wife?

This topic is very important. But you know what, after 2027 I will begin to find it extremely important to comment; otherwise, as for now, 2027 does not allow me to comment on some things these days.

Marrying a virgin has its advantage but a woman with good character is better

There are non-virgins with good character, if you find one, please marry her

I have seen to many ladies that married as virgins, but their character is nauseating and their husbands regrets marrying them

If you can find a virgin with good character? Men that's gold!

Actually, a woman who gets married while she is a virgin, knows only one size of her man's manhood. Therefore, the size will not have any effect on her because she gets fitted to her man's pintle regardless of the size.

On the other hand, if a woman experienced different pintle sizes before getting married, when she gets married, the size of her man's manhood will have an impact on her.

Such a woman will begin to complain that her husband doesn't satisfy her in bed because she begins to compare her man's manhood strength, sizes, and weight with what she got outside from her ex fúckérs.

Remember, a child who has never been trained to eat outside, will always believe that her mother's food is the sweetest and the best. Such a child will never know that her mother's food is not sweet.

But the pièce de résistance is, no man can satisfy a woman; man does not owe a woman satisfaction. What a man owes a woman is love, care and to get her pregnant; because, the greatest joy of a woman in a marriage is when you give her a child, a family.

The only problem here is where you gonna find the virgin wife in this corrupt nigerian society where most girls get disvirgined in their teenage years?

There was a time a woman's virginity was the main requirement for marriage_without it, no marriage!

But these days, how many women are marrying as virgins? Very few. Even in churches, many aren't.

However, a woman's virginity cannot save a marriage but her love for her husband and vice versa.

That means as soon she finish her waec exams, you just marry her straight.
Abi how will you know a virgin who already has started leaving home without parents monitoring, or is employed at a workplace!

Same as a man, thank God I am a virgin.

One of the best decisions of my life. Marrying a virgin, after so many years of philandering.

The upsides beat the downsides. She come from home where father figure is honored.

lovediehatelive:
It's crazy how women keep raising the bar higher and higher for men, the type of men they want while men keep lowering the bar for women.


Something as basic as virginity which should be the least a man should expect from a woman is now seen as asking for too much?


In the past you don't dare say you have a boyfriend but these days a lady with numerous body count would be so bold to display it and expecting a rich handsome disciplined man who earns nothing less than $50M a month.


But would be guilt tripping you for only wanting a girl that hasn't slept with anyone before.

They even go as far as demanding much from a man for a single mother of 3!!!


Wonders!!!

Which lady is looking for a guy that earns $50m a month? That's definitely overexaggeration even top international companies in nigeria like shell, mtn, chevron can't even pay their managing directors such mind-boggling amount.

Aren't we tired of these silly ans childish conversations?

Negroid001:
One of the best decisions of my life. Marrying a virgin, after so many years of philandering.

The upsides beat the downsides. She come from home where father figure is honored.

This is very interesting to read

Mrchippychappy:
Una country is in the worse state its ever been in, even the civil war era, Nigeria wasn't this bad but na irrelevant matter like a woman's viriginity dey bother una. Truly u deserve the leaders u get.

Honestly, the kind of conversations are really baffling