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It's crazy how women keep raising the bar higher and higher for men, the type of men they want while men keep lowering the bar for women.


Something as basic as virginity which should be the least a man should expect from a woman is now seen as asking for too much?


In the past you don't dare say you have a boyfriend but these days a lady with numerous body count would be so bold to display it and expecting a rich handsome disciplined man who earns nothing less than $50M a month.


But would be guilt tripping you for only wanting a girl that hasn't slept with anyone before.

They even go as far as demanding much from a man for a single mother of 3!!!


Wonders!!!

Men need to do better, some keep lowering the bar but right from ages women keep raising the bar!


Back in the days you only need to have a farm to be considered as the ideal man, but as bicycle came it become the new norm.

And today if you have a bicycle no girl will want to look at you, they'll keep broke shaming you, preferring a guy with a car as the ideal man.

They keep raising the bar higher and higher for men to work harder, but they want men to accept less.

Most men aren't even asking for too much, just a decent virgin girl, no house, no car, no fat bank account.

Over the centuries men hardly raised the bar, but women want a man they set very high standard for to marry a lady that the whole neighborhood has pipped, a lady with zero sexual purity, a single mother of 3 or so.




But

I have relationship standards too, I'm not cheap.

Some men and women weren't raised well and/or lack education, so they don't view relationships and other people normally. That's why a single (not divorced/widowed) mother of three even exists and why she expects a rich man to chase her. That's also why there are males obsessed with virginity and finding a wife 20 years younger than them.

It's also a response to sexism. The harder men make womens' lives, the colder women become.

But also, women spent generations having to rely on men for survival because law and society was so sexist. A lot of guys got women mainly for that reason.

Like they always say “Men are in love, women are in business”

OlaOfLagos:
Like they always say “Men are in love, women are in business”

Lol no lies

lovediehatelive:
It's crazy how women keep raising the bar higher and higher for men, the type of men they want while men keep lowering the bar for women.


Something as basic as virginity which should be the least a man should expect from a woman is now seen as asking for too much?


In the past you don't dare say you have a boyfriend but these days a lady with numerous body count would be so bold to display it and expecting a rich handsome disciplined man who earns nothing less than $50M a month.


But would be guilt tripping you for only wanting a girl that hasn't slept with anyone before.

They even go as far as demanding much from a man for a single mother of 3!!!


Wonders!!!

Men need to do better, some keep lowering the bar but right from ages women keep raising the bar!


Back in the days you only need to have a farm to be considered as the ideal man, but as bicycle came it become the new norm.

And today if you have a bicycle no girl will want to look at you, they'll keep broke shaming you, preferring a guy with a car as the ideal man.

They keep raising the bar higher and higher for men to work harder, but they want men to accept less.

Most men aren't even asking for too much, just a decent virgin girl, no house, no car, no fat bank account.

Over the centuries men hardly raised the bar, but women want a man they set very high standard for to marry a lady that the whole neighborhood has pipped, a lady with zero sexual purity, a single mother of 3 or so.




But

Rig it back. Dating is not by force

A man is capable of rigging every established system to his advantage that even highly prized women become mere tools in his hands but yet men of these days cry foul play. Too many sons of women.

Because an average Nigerian man has no standard. Just get fine face and big yansh. They will like you and want to marry you , hence, the women are not even putting efforts and they keep raising their standards because these f**ls wont stop running after them

Some men like me have standard, you're either working or you're unqualified. I cant be sweating days and night to feed a liability who doesn't understand how money work

COMRADES, any guy who allows his standard to be rigged in a relationship by whatsoever criteria. I have a pity for him

Hustle well, hustle tight, hold your side, women will chase you.

Totally true
I dare not say i want 5 wives now but my granpops had 8 wives with just farm and houses, mudhouse o

lovediehatelive:
It's crazy how women keep raising the bar higher and higher for men, the type of men they want while men keep lowering the bar for women.


Something as basic as virginity which should be the least a man should expect from a woman is now seen as asking for too much?


In the past you don't dare say you have a boyfriend but these days a lady with numerous body count would be so bold to display it and expecting a rich handsome disciplined man who earns nothing less than $50M a month.


But would be guilt tripping you for only wanting a girl that hasn't slept with anyone before.

They even go as far as demanding much from a man for a single mother of 3!!!


Wonders!!!

Men need to do better, some keep lowering the bar but right from ages women keep raising the bar!


Back in the days you only need to have a farm to be considered as the ideal man, but as bicycle came it become the new norm.

And today if you have a bicycle no girl will want to look at you, they'll keep broke shaming you, preferring a guy with a car as the ideal man.

They keep raising the bar higher and higher for men to work harder, but they want men to accept less.

Most men aren't even asking for too much, just a decent virgin girl, no house, no car, no fat bank account.

Over the centuries men hardly raised the bar, but women want a man they set very high standard for to marry a lady that the whole neighborhood has pipped, a lady with zero sexual purity, a single mother of 3 or so.




But

It's not possible to have virgins ladies when you and your fellow men are on a sex rampage with women. The non virgin ladies were made so by your fellow men. If you want virgin women then tell your fellow men to stop fvcking around.

lovediehatelive:
It's crazy how women keep raising the bar higher and higher for men, the type of men they want while men keep lowering the bar for women.


Something as basic as virginity which should be the least a man should expect from a woman is now seen as asking for too much?


In the past you don't dare say you have a boyfriend but these days a lady with numerous body count would be so bold to display it and expecting a rich handsome disciplined man who earns nothing less than $50M a month.


But would be guilt tripping you for only wanting a girl that hasn't slept with anyone before.

They even go as far as demanding much from a man for a single mother of 3!!!


Wonders!!!

Men need to do better, some keep lowering the bar but right from ages women keep raising the bar!


Back in the days you only need to have a farm to be considered as the ideal man, but as bicycle came it become the new norm.

And today if you have a bicycle no girl will want to look at you, they'll keep broke shaming you, preferring a guy with a car as the ideal man.

They keep raising the bar higher and higher for men to work harder, but they want men to accept less.

Most men aren't even asking for too much, just a decent virgin girl, no house, no car, no fat bank account.

Over the centuries men hardly raised the bar, but women want a man they set very high standard for to marry a lady that the whole neighborhood has pipped, a lady with zero sexual purity, a single mother of 3 or so.
But

Let them keep raising the bar until they are too old to find a bar

femi4:
Let them keep raising the bar until they are too old to find a bar

or d bar will b taller than them

Nefort:
It's not possible to have virgins ladies when you and your fellow men are on a sex rampage with women. The non virgin ladies were made so by your fellow men. If you want virgin women then tell your fellow men to stop fvcking around.

The non virgin women were made so because of iPhone, wigs and social media pressure not men.. They want the kind of monies their fathers never touched in their whole existence

What in the world hasn't been rigged against men?

It's not about the women. It's about the competition amongst men.
Women are just the lucky beneficiary.

Your fellow bros are not your allies when it comes to mating no matter how much you like to pretend. A more powerful man will use his advantage to get the women he wants. It's not that deep.

I only take men that can afford to simp comfortably and still choose not to simp seriously.

shadrach77:
What in the world hasn't been rigged against men?

I tire bruh,
The world is against men in every aspect

I hope you're enjoying the outcome of women being in control?
The society looks very cool now that women have all the rights in the world and can do as they please.
Next is to give right to kids as adults to do as they please as well.
The world would be better for it.

Cousin9999:
Some men and women weren't raised well and/or lack education, so they don't view relationships and other people normally. That's why a single (not divorced/widowed) mother of three even exists and why she expects a rich man to chase her. That's also why there are males obsessed with virginity and finding a wife 20 years younger than them.

It's also a response to sexism. The harder men make womens' lives, the colder women become.

But also, women spent generations having to rely on men for survival because law and society was so sexist. A lot of guys got women mainly for that reason.

Because men are not being men

If men were insisting on only virgins the several ladies want rich guys, maybe there will be general adjustments.

Nefort:
It's not possible to have virgins ladies when you and your fellow men are on a sex rampage with women. The non virgin ladies were made so by your fellow men. If you want virgin women then tell your fellow men to stop fvcking around.

Typical of that gender.......never taking responsibility for their actions.

ebubeson:
If men were insisting on only virgins the several ladies want rich guys, maybe there will be general adjustments.

Virgin or not women are born with inherent value. A man has to earn his value by providing utility. Men will only stop simping when they treat having women and children like a choice not a life achievement.

This modern world is just a scam.

CorperKola:
Totally true
I dare not say i want 5 wives now but my granpops had 8 wives with just farm and houses, mudhouse o

Ifebazz:
I hope you're enjoying the outcome of women being in control?
The society looks very cool now that women have all the rights in the world and can do as they please.
Next is to give right to kids as adults to do as they please as well.
The world would be better for it.

Where in the world are women in control?

Over the centuries men hardly raised the bar, but women want a man they set very high standard for to marry a lady that the whole neighborhood has pipped, a lady with zero sexual purity, a single mother of 3 or so.

Omo the thing tire me o.

Men are the problem, I mean, how can you always be moved by sight alone?

Women are wise in this aspect, if they will be moved, it depends on what they hear. So they will go for the highest bidder.

The 'saner climes' have women with all the rights you can lool about. Or are you still suprised that men are being deported on a daily basis from those places?
I'm yet to see women being deported because a man got tired of her....

Cousin9999:
Where in the world are women in control?

Ifebazz:
The 'saner climes' have women with all the rights you can lool about. Or are you still suprised that men are being deported on a daily basis from those places?
I'm yet to see women being deported because a man got tired of her....

Those men are likely getting deported because they don't know how to act like they have sense. But some of them got scammed, and no gender has a monopoly on that.

My guy, oppression of women isn't normal or good for society. You should consider how similar sexism and racism are. Irrational and unhealthy. And a tool of pathetic people.

Diamonddris:
The non virgin women were made so because of iPhone, wigs and social media pressure not men.. They want the kind of monies their fathers never touched in their whole existence

Stupid comment. Men are the ones demanding for sex. And they are always willing to offer ladies land, house, money, phones etc just to get under a lady's skirt.

If you feel rigged ask your fellow men.

Men rigged relationship against men. The average Nigerian man believes no woman is single she has to be collected, won or hijacked. You can start with that