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I'm curious. As a guy, have you ever had a meaningful conversation with a female? As in she gave you real update that worked for you, or insights that truly changed you?

If you have, tell us, and also mention her nationality.

Kick off the thread with your own experience.

badthinds:
I'm curious. As a guy, have you ever had a meaningful conversation with a female? As in she gave you real update that worked for you, or insights that truly changed you?

If you have, tell us, and also mention her nationality.

When she called me that she was pregnant and didn't have any intention of keeping the baby. I told her I don't have any hand in abortion that we should talk to our parents.
We had a long discussion and she convinced me to raise 40k for her. Some how, I got the money.
A day later I saw her friend. she laughed at me and told me she was never pregnant. I called her and asked her why she used such to lie to me... Long and short, that was the end.

kpankpangolo:
Kick off the thread with your own experience.

Well, that makes sense.

I'm beginning to realize that my time with most ladies only cost me resources, and worse, my time!

Last week, a friend pleaded with me to come over to her place, so I did, reluctantly.

I left one of my guys to go there. With my guy, we were seriously discussing formats and updates. But upon getting to the girl, hmmm...

We had a very lengthy chat, but everything was very superficial. Just n0ncense to be honest.

While driving back home, I just couldn't help but think about all my previous conversations with her and other girls in my life. Now I cant un-notice how superficial those conversations were. No updates, no insights, no nothing.

There are so many instances, and I wonder if its just me.

That's why I'm asking you people (men) to recall your previous conversations with woman and share. I'm trying to find out if this is just a "Nigerian girl" problem too.

Well,it all depends on the kind of females you've met and interacted with.

Personally, I'd say the person who rebranded my entire hustle mentality for good was a lady. Whenever we were together,she was always seeing the positive part of me and that really helped in shaping my mindset. Honestly,I've never met any guy with the level of IQ this lady in particular has. Very hardworking and motivative. Yeah,she used to be my bestie,not until she got married recently and I had to pass that title over to her husband,but we're still cool even tho we are now at a very far distance apart from each other. I'm really happy for her husband in particular cuz the dude just got married to a very wonderful woman.

You have to narrow it down to female friends and potential romance partners. If you include every female a man knows, I can fill this page with wise advice from female family members.

One of my sisters is in the tech industry. She has talked more substance than I’ve read in Nairaland’s technology section. Another is a medical doctor. When she talks about situations in her place of work, I cement my mind that this forum does not deserve a health section. The last one does three side hustles for a living. Advice regarding mental and financial perseverance are abundant whenever we sit down to talk.

When it comes to romantic partners, all we do is share life experiences. Doing so mostly throws me into the friend zone. I dust myself and move on. I will never learn what women want past physical appearance.

badthinds:
Well, that makes sense.

I'm beginning to realize that my time with most ladies only cost me resources, and worse, my time!

Last week, a friend pleaded with me to come over to her place, so I did, reluctantly.

I left one of my guys to go there. With my guy, we were seriously discussing formats and updates. But upon getting to the girl, hmmm...

We had a very lengthy chat, but everything was very superficial. Just n0ncense to be honest.

While driving back home, I just couldn't help but think about all my previous conversations with her and other girls in my life. Now I cant un-notice how superficial those conversations were. No updates, no insights, no nothing.

There are so many instances, and I wonder if its just me.

That's why I'm asking you people (men) to recall your previous conversations with woman and share. I'm trying to find out if this is just a "Nigerian girl" problem too.

If you've never had, then you need to change your circle.

badthinds:
Well, that makes sense.

I'm beginning to realize that my time with most ladies only cost me resources, and worse, my time!

Last week, a friend pleaded with me to come over to her place, so I did, reluctantly.

I left one of my guys to go there. With my guy, we were seriously discussing formats and updates. But upon getting to the girl, hmmm...

We had a very lengthy chat, but everything was very superficial. Just n0ncense to be honest.

While driving back home, I just couldn't help but think about all my previous conversations with her and other girls in my life. Now I cant un-notice how superficial those conversations were. No updates, no insights, no nothing.

There are so many instances, and I wonder if its just me.

That's why I'm asking you people (men) to recall your previous conversations with woman and share. I'm trying to find out if this is just a "Nigerian girl" problem too.

At this point, it's a YOU problem because why you do keep attracting, and why are you friends with shallow women?

kpankpangolo:
You have to narrow it down to female friends and potential romance partners. If you include every female a man knows, I can fill this page with wise advice from female family members.

One of my sisters is in the tech industry. She has talked more substance than I’ve read in Nairaland’s technology section. Another is a medical doctor. When she talks about situations in her place of work, I cement my mind that this forum does not deserve a health section. The last one does three side hustles for a living. Advice regarding mental and financial perseverance are abundant whenever we sit down to talk.

When it comes to romantic partners, all we do is share life experiences. Doing so mostly throws me into the friend zone. I dust myself and move on. I will never learn what women want past physical appearance.

It is a good thing you have accomplished sisters. Men with sisters like that often speak more calmly, even when they have had bad experiences with some women. You won't find my brothers generalizing negatively about women. A lot of men who constantly insult women online were shaped by unhealthy environments growing up, and it shows in their mindset.

The type of women you attract in your life are mostly a reflection of your character as a man...🚶🏾‍♀️🚶🏾‍♀️🚶🏾‍♀️

badthinds:
Well, that makes sense.

I'm beginning to realize that my time with most ladies only cost me resources, and worse, my time!

Last week, a friend pleaded with me to come over to her place, so I did, reluctantly.

I left one of my guys to go there. With my guy, we were seriously discussing formats and updates. But upon getting to the girl, hmmm...

We had a very lengthy chat, but everything was very superficial. Just n0ncense to be honest.

While driving back home, I just couldn't help but think about all my previous conversations with her and other girls in my life. Now I cant un-notice how superficial those conversations were. No updates, no insights, no nothing.

There are so many instances, and I wonder if its just me.

That's why I'm asking you people (men) to recall your previous conversations with woman and share. I'm trying to find out if this is just a "Nigerian girl" problem too.

The10G:
When she called me that she was pregnant and didn't have any intention of keeping the baby. I told her I don't have any hand in abortion that we should talk to our parents.
We had a long discussion and she convinced me to raise 40k for her. Some how, I got the money.
A day later I saw her friend. she laughed at me and told me she was never pregnant. I called her and asked her why she used such to lie to me... Long and short, that was the end.

That was a meaningful conversation...?


@op If you have never had a meaningful conversation with an entire gender that might say more about you... your experiences, environment or attitude!

badthinds:
Well, that makes sense.

I'm beginning to realize that my time with most ladies only cost me resources, and worse, my time!

Last week, a friend pleaded with me to come over to her place, so I did, reluctantly.

I left one of my guys to go there. With my guy, we were seriously discussing formats and updates. But upon getting to the girl, hmmm...

We had a very lengthy chat, but everything was very superficial. Just n0ncense to be honest.

While driving back home, I just couldn't help but think about all my previous conversations with her and other girls in my life. Now I cant un-notice how superficial those conversations were. No updates, no insights, no nothing.

There are so many instances, and I wonder if its just me.

That's why I'm asking you people (men) to recall your previous conversations with woman and share. I'm trying to find out if this is just a "Nigerian girl" problem too.

And for you guys, how many of you can have meaningful conversations, rather to talk down and lamenting on woman issues 24/7

Go to front front page and see how Ur gender change topic and start attacking, lamenting, complaining and condermination if every post that hit the front page

badthinds:
Well, that makes sense.

I'm beginning to realize that my time with most ladies only cost me resources, and worse, my time!

Last week, a friend pleaded with me to come over to her place, so I did, reluctantly.

I left one of my guys to go there. With my guy, we were seriously discussing formats and updates. But upon getting to the girl, hmmm...

We had a very lengthy chat, but everything was very superficial. Just n0ncense to be honest.

While driving back home, I just couldn't help but think about all my previous conversations with her and other girls in my life. Now I cant un-notice how superficial those conversations were. No updates, no insights, no nothing.

There are so many instances, and I wonder if its just me.

That's why I'm asking you people (men) to recall your previous conversations with woman and share. I'm trying to find out if this is just a "Nigerian girl" problem too.

And for you guys, how many of you can have meaningful conversations, rather to talk down and lamenting on woman issues 24/7

Go to front front page and see how Ur gender change topic and start attacking, lamenting, complaining and conderming if every post that hit the front page

badthinds:
Well, that makes sense.

I'm beginning to realize that my time with most ladies only cost me resources, and worse, my time!

Last week, a friend pleaded with me to come over to her place, so I did, reluctantly.

I left one of my guys to go there. With my guy, we were seriously discussing formats and updates. But upon getting to the girl, hmmm...

We had a very lengthy chat, but everything was very superficial. Just n0ncense to be honest.

While driving back home, I just couldn't help but think about all my previous conversations with her and other girls in my life. Now I cant un-notice how superficial ;Dthose conversations were. No updates, no insights, no nothing.

There are so many instances, and I wonder if its just me.

That's why I'm asking you people (men) to recall your previous conversations with woman and share. I'm trying to find out if this is just a "Nigerian girl" problem too.

Lmao you sound like a little girl

Arrrrrrrrrgggghhhhhh

Not this again!!!

Some of you don't even remember the most meaningful conversation you've had with yourselves.

badthinds:
I'm curious. As a guy, have you ever had a meaningful conversation with a female? As in she gave you real update that worked for you, or insights that truly changed you?

If you have, tell us, and also mention her nationality.

Yeah met an intelligent girl. We discuss philosophy, talk about Greek mythology, even the idea that the biblical God should not have a male gender. Very intelligent girl. We even discuss literature. Show her my poems and she likes it. We also talk about scientific inventions.
The issue with mist guys is that they have not met intelligent girls before. Maybe they meet girls that shake their yansh on social media.
Il be honest some girls are even more intelligent than men. Guys have just not met them.

See this girl
Motunrayo sanyaolu
Check out her name online.
That's not the girl I met. But I'm giving you an example of an intelligent girl