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Good day lovely Nairalanders, wishing you a happy raining day from my end.
There's this worrying trend I have noticed among our Nigerian men.
Though, not like it started today, but it's getting rampant now.

I work in an hospitality industry (Hotel/Guest house).
Everyday I see guys both young and old bringing in babes to come and have fun.
But I hardly never see anyone that goes straight into their rooms with the girls without coming to the bar to buy one alcoholic drinks or the other.
.
Not to talk of the ones that comes with different types of smokes and drugs.
Is it that our nowadays men can't have s*x with a woman without taking something or feeling intoxicated?
Where are our men of 70s, 80s, like me that have natural strength and don't depends on these alcohols and drugs.
For example, I tasted my first alcohol in the year 2010 when I was 30. Before then I have been knacking very well with my God given natural strength and quickly having my 3 kids before hanging my boots.

So what's happening to our nowadays guys and even some men of back then that can't do without drugs and alcohol before knacking a woman.

Let's discuss, what's your take on this growing trend?

Bro, that's the trend now.

Personally, I'm a teetotaler cuz I don't take alcohol and I don't smoke,but when it comes to bedmatics session,my naturally be like that of terminator

Jokes apart,I only pity single men like us. Cuz lots of us will definitely end up marrying women who have been chewed by men who took different kind of smokes and alcoholics .

If to say kpekus dey get metre wey dey read how many diicks e don service,many of us for no dey think of marriage at all

Sonnobax15:

Bro, that's the trend now.

Personally, I'm a teetotaler cuz I don't take alcohol and I don't smoke,but when it comes to bedmatics session,my naturally be like that of terminator

Jokes apart,I only pity single men like us. Cuz lots of us will definitely end up marrying women who have been chewed by men who took different kind of smokes and alcoholics .

If to say kpekus dey get metre wey dey read how many diicks e don service,many of us for no dey think of marriage at all

Honestly you're not far from the truth. I deliberately omitted the ladies from the intake just to focus on men, ladies too takes nonsense in terms of alcohol and smoke.
Just like you said, if to say kpekus get metre wey dey read, many of these girsl no go see husband. The thing is getting out of hand

Kalulu44:
Honestly you're not far from the truth. I deliberately omitted the ladies from the intake just to focus on men, ladies too takes nonsense in terms of alcohol and smoke.
Just like you said, if to say kpekus get metre wey dey read, many of these girsl no go see husband. The thing is getting out of hand

. My shop is directly opposite a hotel. And there's one small ghetto kiosk close to us here that sells all sorts of roots missed with alcohol. Na only God know wetin these guys dey take especially when Dem dey expect banny.

Sonnobax15:
. My shop is directly opposite a hotel. And there's one small ghetto kiosk close to us here that sells all sorts of roots missed with alcohol. Na only God know wetin these guys dey take especially when Dem dey expect banny.

Lolz! Make I burst your brain, one of the guys working in that our guest house two days ago was expecting a banny. There's nothing he didn't take both roots, alcohol and smoke.
Before banny could even come (she eventually didn't come) our guy don go do meeting with the most "highs". Lolz!
As I am talking to you now, na this morning him just dey recover small, no be say him don recover finish, cus him eyes still dim.
They're three guys working there, I am the fourth as their security and also supervisor.
The first is 28 and the oldest, the second which is the one that went to meet the most highs is 25 and the last is 23.
You won't believe all three smokes and takes different types of drugs. Me that is their senior by far don't do such, apart from occasional taking of bitter drinks and alcohol.
Shey you see where our youths and guys dey head to

Wow😲😲😲😲 TERMINATOR? Hmmm hmmm hmmm

Sonnobax15:

Bro, that's the trend now.

Personally, I'm a teetotaler cuz I don't take alcohol and I don't smoke,but when it comes to bedmatics session,my naturally be like that of terminator

Jokes apart,I only pity single men like us. Cuz lots of us will definitely end up marrying women who have been chewed by men who took different kind of smokes and alcoholics .

If to say kpekus dey get metre wey dey read how many diicks e don service,many of us for no dey think of marriage at all

There’s no real "feeling" in this generation. Everyone just wants to have their way. These days, guys are getting lazier; nobody wants to hit the gym, and with all the junk we eat, that raw natural strength just isn't there anymore.

Secondly, the internet has messed with men's expectations. Everyone online claims they can go for hours just to boost their ego. Now, a guy who can naturally do 40 minutes feels inadequate because he’s trying to hit a "2-hour internet standard," so he resorts to all kinds of herbs and "manpower." On the other side, ladies are way too quick to label someone a "two-minute man," and no man wants to carry that kind of shame.

Another reason is that many ladies have pleasured themselves with different toys, to the point where regular sex hardly hits the spot anymore. A guy trying to please someone used to high-grade silicon has to overwork himself just to be noticed. If he doesn’t "last," he faces the embarrassment of being embarrassed online or in person.

Have seen young guys abusing tramadol and some other drugs just to be able to perform during sex and I just wonder how does it help, rather it destroys and makes you more impotent.
Our generation are just destroying themselves with hard drugs and alcohol both boys and girls, it's just a pity.

Kalulu44:
Good day lovely Nairalanders, wishing you a happy raining day from my end.
There's this worrying trend I have noticed among our Nigerian men.
Though, not like it started today, but it's getting rampant now.
I work in an hospitality industry (Hotel/Guest house).
Everyday I see guys both young and old bringing in babes to come and have fun.
But I hardly never see anyone that goes straight into their rooms with the girls without coming to the bar to buy one alcoholic drinks or the other.
.
Not to talk of the ones that comes with different types of smokes and drugs.
Is it that our nowadays men can't have s*x with a woman without taking something or feeling intoxicated?
Where are our men of 70s, 80s, like me that have natural strength and don't depends on these alcohols and drugs.
For example, I tasted my first alcohol in the year 2010 when I was 30. Before then I have been knacking very well with my God given natural strength and quickly having my 3 kids before hanging my boots.
.
So what's happening to our nowadays guys and even some men of back then that can't do without drugs and alcohol before knacking a woman.
Let's discuss, what's your take on this growing trend?

Please what’s the name of your hotel

davillian:
Please what’s the name of your hotel

Where is your location?

Sonnobax15:

Bro, that's the trend now.

Personally, I'm a teetotaler cuz I don't take alcohol and I don't smoke,but when it comes to bedmatics session,my naturally be like that of terminator

Jokes apart,I only pity single men like us. Cuz lots of us will definitely end up marrying women who have been chewed by men who took different kind of smokes and alcoholics .

If to say kpekus dey get metre wey dey read how many diicks e don service,many of us for no dey think of marriage at all

Of course every poor men always know how to knack, that's their only area of interest.

SpencerForbes:
There’s no real "feeling" in this generation. Everyone just wants to have their way. These days, guys are getting lazier; nobody wants to hit the gym, and with all the junk we eat, that raw natural strength just isn't there anymore.

Secondly, the internet has messed with men's expectations. Everyone online claims they can go for hours just to boost their ego. Now, a guy who can naturally do 40 minutes feels inadequate because he’s trying to hit a "2-hour internet standard," so he resorts to all kinds of herbs and "manpower." On the other side, ladies are way too quick to label someone a "two-minute man," and no man wants to carry that kind of shame.

Another reason is that many ladies have pleasured themselves with different toys, to the point where regular sex hardly hits the spot anymore. A guy trying to please someone used to high-grade silicon has to overwork himself just to be noticed. If he doesn’t "last," he faces the embarrassment of being embarrassed online or in person.

Hmmm.. Well analyse

ikeno:
Have seen young guys abusing tramadol and some other drugs just to be able to perform during sex and I just wonder how does it help, rather it destroys and makes you more impotent.
Our generation are just destroying themselves with hard drugs and alcohol both boys and girls, it's just a pity.

It's really a pity my brother!

Mirasteel:
Of course every poor men always know how to knack, that's their only area of interest.

Hahaha, wetin you come mean nah?

E get one smallie I handle recently. She no believe say I don cross 40 yrs. She think say I be dose small boys wey dey take nonsense concoctions wey no get stamina naturally.🥱🥱

Its not about natural stamina my bro, it's to put both of you in the mood. For example, if I take a woman home for an all night, I will be with her naturally through out all the night till morning without any enhancer but same cannot be said when I leave my comfort zone.

LIVINGICONREBOR:
E get one smallie I handle recently. She no believe say I don cross 40 yrs. She think say I be dose small boys wey dey take nonsense concoctions wey no get stamina naturally.🥱🥱

Weldone, gbasibe

ikeno:
Have seen young guys abusing tramadol and some other drugs just to be able to perform during sex and I just wonder how does it help, rather it destroys and makes you more impotent.
Our generation are just destroying themselves with hard drugs and alcohol both boys and girls, it's just a pity.

Brain problems, liver problems, heart problems, lungs etc. Indeed education is not a scam and vice is not a wise choice.

Aphrodisiac has been in existence in antiquity
Taking alcohol or drugs to enhance sexxxual performance does not mean that the taker is impotent. Most time mood determine sexxual performance if you rely on your natural strength. Those enhancer will make the taker to have all-time erection whether he is on sexxual mood or not,

These taker do take this enhancer if they will knack Ladies that ware not their wife and especially on short time or one-noght stand.

The poster you re lucky you have not had power failure (erection failure) especially when you paid for instant sexx.

The fact is let's not abuse drugs - it is fatal to abuse sexy enhancers and alcohol

galantjoe:
Aphrodisiac has been in existence in antiquity
Taking alcohol or drugs to enhance sexxxual performance does not mean that the taker is impotent. Most time mood determine sexxual performance if you rely on your natural strength. Those enhancer will make the taker to have all-time erection whether he is on sexxual mood or not,

These taker do take this enhancer if they will knack Ladies that ware not their wife and especially on short time or one-noght stand.

The poster you re lucky you have not had power failure (erection failure) especially when you paid for instant sexx.

The fact is let's not abuse drugs - it is fatal to abuse sexy enhancers and alcohol

Hahahaha

This has been there since not a worrying trend.
A worrying trend should be kidnapping, fake alert and madness in form of content.

What is life without all these?

This is getting worse God

We need to take life easy

That has always been the trend, na social media over cast am

There's a difference between love making and sex

love died in Nigeria since 2015
immediately this evil party came to power
everything went south

Right about now
it's sad to see youths fall apart
They are out there looking for anything to get high, forget their sorrows and die in-between the legs of any girl available

That's why I don't like going out because of temptation.

I thank God my man isn't part of these irresponsible categories

As a Lady, If I noticed you took any rubbish to sleep with me, I will not allow you to touch me.

Sex enhancement drugs are meant to be used on prostitutes, Escorts, call girls etc. not on your Wife or Serious Girlfriend.

Except you are having Erectile Issues then it is understandable.

In addition, the rate the young folks now smoke weed openly is very alarming. Teenagers between the ages of 16 - 20 years now smoke weed openly in Bars, Hotels, Clubs etc. without fear.
Some even post pictures of them self smoking weed and kissing their underage girlfriend on their social media status. While, the small small girls now twerk and upload soft porn on their status.

NIGERIA IS IN BIG TROUBLE


May God help us

Unfortunately non if them disturbs me, I don't drink, smoke nor womanize and marriage will be 20 yes by this December, I have never slept with another woman apart from my wife , also I am not the type my wife control with sex.

OP, How you Siddon and na wetin come your mind be dis?

Anyways, I am a proud two minutes man. There is no point impressing a borehole that has swallowed multiple massive rods. Rods that will put a horse to shame.