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Re: Wine, Women And Sex, The Worrying Trend Among Our Men by Hezmatosky210: 5:09pm On May 09
You opened a hotel and complain about customers bringing their partners and having funs there? What exactly do you opened a hotel for? Go to places of worship, you will still meet people there. Go to food stuff markets, you will also find customers there. Mind your business bro, do your work and go home angry
Re: Wine, Women And Sex, The Worrying Trend Among Our Men by Mitsurugi(m): 5:10pm On May 09
davillian:
Please what’s the name of your hotel
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Re: Wine, Women And Sex, The Worrying Trend Among Our Men by DuttyChuks: 5:33pm On May 09
Diamond098454:
Wow😲😲😲😲 TERMINATOR? Hmmm hmmm hmmm
You seems to like that dude, send him a pm cool
Re: Wine, Women And Sex, The Worrying Trend Among Our Men by Pootle: 5:46pm On May 09
op na you and sonnobax get the thread abi grin
Re: Wine, Women And Sex, The Worrying Trend Among Our Men by Wotowotoman: 5:49pm On May 09
davillian:
Please what’s the name of your hotel
You want to go terminate him yansh for there abi? embarassed
Re: Wine, Women And Sex, The Worrying Trend Among Our Men by Wotowotoman: 5:55pm On May 09
DickenClarq:
As a Lady, If I noticed you took any rubbish to sleep with me, I will not allow you to touch me.

Sex enhancement drugs are meant to be used on prostitutes, Escorts, call girls etc. not on your Wife or Serious Girlfriend.

Except you are having Erectile Issues then it is understandable.

In addition, the rate the young folks now smoke weed openly is very alarming. Teenagers between the ages of 16 - 20 years now smoke weed openly in Bars, Hotels, Clubs etc. without fear.
Some even post pictures of them self smoking weed and kissing their underage girlfriend on their social media status. While, the small small girls now twerk and upload soft porn on their status.

NIGERIA IS IN BIG TROUBLE


May God help us
Anyone that believes this comment 👆was written by a woman deserves 100 strokes of the cane on their bald head angry
Re: Wine, Women And Sex, The Worrying Trend Among Our Men by Wotowotoman: 5:56pm On May 09
prigoz:
Unfortunately non if them disturbs me, I don't drink, smoke nor womanize and marriage will be 20 yes by this December, I have never slept with another woman apart from my wife , also I am not the type my wife control with sex.
This Ogbeni 👆 go dey soapy well well embarassed
Re: Wine, Women And Sex, The Worrying Trend Among Our Men by Wotowotoman: 5:57pm On May 09
Pootle:
op na you and sonnobax get the thread abi grin
Ahnie angry
Re: Wine, Women And Sex, The Worrying Trend Among Our Men by dododawa1: 5:58pm On May 09
Men


And


Women




Matters far
Re: Wine, Women And Sex, The Worrying Trend Among Our Men by dalitigator(m): 5:59pm On May 09
Kalulu44:
Good day lovely Nairalanders, wishing you a happy raining day from my end.
There's this worrying trend I have noticed among our Nigerian men.
Though, not like it started today, but it's getting rampant now.

I work in an hospitality industry (Hotel/Guest house).
Everyday I see guys both young and old bringing in babes to come and have fun.
But I hardly never see anyone that goes straight into their rooms with the girls without coming to the bar to buy one alcoholic drinks or the other.
.
Not to talk of the ones that comes with different types of smokes and drugs.
Is it that our nowadays men can't have s*x with a woman without taking something or feeling intoxicated?
Where are our men of 70s, 80s, like me that have natural strength and don't depends on these alcohols and drugs.
For example, I tasted my first alcohol in the year 2010 when I was 30. Before then I have been knacking very well with my God given natural strength and quickly having my 3 kids before hanging my boots.

So what's happening to our nowadays guys and even some men of back then that can't do without drugs and alcohol before knacking a woman.

Let's discuss, what's your take on this growing trend?
Like this, I am looking for money to buy a massive expanse of land in Ogun, Badadry or Epe. Why?

Next 10 years is when the results will show up. If you have a large hall with bunk beds, homeless people can rent and pay per day.

Then have large farmland where they can earn a living wage. Then a soup kitchen where they can eat decent meals.

The next 10 years, even Rehabs won't have the strength for what is coming. Even FG go fear begin fire brigade approach. This I am certain of.

Shalom
Re: Wine, Women And Sex, The Worrying Trend Among Our Men by Pootle: 6:02pm On May 09
dalitigator:
Like this, I am looking for money to buy a massive expanse of land in Ogun, Badadry or Epe. Why?

Next 10 years is when the results will show up. If you have a large hall with bunk beds, homeless people can rent and pay per day.

Then have large farmland where they can earn a living wage. Then a soup kitchen where they can eat decent meals.

The next 10 years, even Rehabs won't have the strength for what is coming. Even FG go fear begin fire brigade approach. This I am certain of.

Shalom
when agbero homeless man slap you like 3times na free him go dey sleep for ya shelter
Re: Wine, Women And Sex, The Worrying Trend Among Our Men by dalitigator(m): 6:12pm On May 09
Pootle:
when agbero homeless man slap you like 3times na free him go dey sleep for ya shelter
You go put who Sabi them in charge na. Na madness dem take dey cure madness.
Re: Wine, Women And Sex, The Worrying Trend Among Our Men by Pootle: 6:18pm On May 09
dalitigator:
You go put who Sabi them in charge na. Na madness dem take dey cure madness.
shelter no fit work for nigeria, for abroad they need to evaquate the place for morning but i doubt them go wan comot as them no get where to go. the place go be den of thieves and picking pocket, drubs too police raid etc go frustrate you
Re: Wine, Women And Sex, The Worrying Trend Among Our Men by babajero(m): 6:30pm On May 09
Kalulu44:
Good day lovely Nairalanders, wishing you a happy raining day from my end.
There's this worrying trend I have noticed among our Nigerian men.
Though, not like it started today, but it's getting rampant now.

I work in an hospitality industry (Hotel/Guest house).
Everyday I see guys both young and old bringing in babes to come and have fun.
But I hardly never see anyone that goes straight into their rooms with the girls without coming to the bar to buy one alcoholic drinks or the other.
.
Not to talk of the ones that comes with different types of smokes and drugs.
Is it that our nowadays men can't have s*x with a woman without taking something or feeling intoxicated?
Where are our men of 70s, 80s, like me that have natural strength and don't depends on these alcohols and drugs.
For example, I tasted my first alcohol in the year 2010 when I was 30. Before then I have been knacking very well with my God given natural strength and quickly having my 3 kids before hanging my boots.

So what's happening to our nowadays guys and even some men of back then that can't do without drugs and alcohol before knacking a woman.

Let's discuss, what's your take on this growing trend?
All these lifestyles was influenced by the garbage people assimilate all in the name of entertainment Musics, Home videos etc but mostly music.
Re: Wine, Women And Sex, The Worrying Trend Among Our Men by MrNipplesLover(m): 6:32pm On May 09
God didn't create deekkk (for men) and pousee (for women) for marriage purposes...

The purpose na for pleasure and procreation...

Na u go choose ur own side of the usefulness...

If u don't enjoy this life while u still have that time, u go regret ur existence when ur old age reach...

All this no concern me....

Enjoyment and flexing is my own grind,...
Re: Wine, Women And Sex, The Worrying Trend Among Our Men by Kalulu44(op): 6:47pm On May 09
babajero:
All these lifestyles was influenced by the garbage people assimilate all in the name of entertainment Musics, Home videos etc but mostly music.
You're not far from the truth
Re: Wine, Women And Sex, The Worrying Trend Among Our Men by Kalulu44(op): 6:52pm On May 09
dalitigator:
Like this, I am looking for money to buy a massive expanse of land in Ogun, Badadry or Epe. Why?

Next 10 years is when the results will show up. If you have a large hall with bunk beds, homeless people can rent and pay per day.

Then have large farmland where they can earn a living wage. Then a soup kitchen where they can eat decent meals.

The next 10 years, even Rehabs won't have the strength for what is coming. Even FG go fear begin fire brigade approach. This I am certain of.

Shalom
Mehn! What you just suggested is an eye opener. It has already started sef.
Where I am now, you won't believe the house opposite the hotel I am working. It was ystday I noticed they're staying 4 people per one room. They all work for a Chinese company close to us here, and the Chinese company rented the place for them. And I heard they still remove 3k each from them every month as house rent.
Imagine 10 rooms with 4 per each with 1 toilet and one bathroom.
People are really suffering.
And if you see the way most of the girls staying there are doing shakara eh
Re: Wine, Women And Sex, The Worrying Trend Among Our Men by Wotowotoman: 6:56pm On May 09
dalitigator:
Like this, I am looking for money to buy a massive expanse of land in Ogun, Badadry or Epe. Why?

Next 10 years is when the results will show up. If you have a large hall with bunk beds, homeless people can rent and pay per day.

Then have large farmland where they can earn a living wage. Then a soup kitchen where they can eat decent meals.

The next 10 years, even Rehabs won't have the strength for what is coming. Even FG go fear begin fire brigade approach. This I am certain of.

Shalom
Where homeless person go get money to pay you per day? Why do you think the person is homeless if he get that kind money? Ooooh to drop better konk on person bald head dey hungry me fa. Walahi angry
Re: Wine, Women And Sex, The Worrying Trend Among Our Men by Wotowotoman: 6:58pm On May 09
Pootle:
when agbero homeless man slap you like 3times na free him go dey sleep for ya shelter
Ahnie angry
Re: Wine, Women And Sex, The Worrying Trend Among Our Men by pusapou(m): 7:01pm On May 09
i love this write up. thumbs up. you are indeed OLD SCHOOL
Re: Wine, Women And Sex, The Worrying Trend Among Our Men by tropaz(m): 7:03pm On May 09
Smiles.....

Let me tell you a secret. Most guys just have sex for fun without emotional connection. With a clear eyes, Most guys are not actually interested in sex. Sometimes, you have to get high to do the shit. Without alcohol, when you have sex with a woman you don't have feelings for, you eventually feel guilty after you cum. As soon as you cum, you come to your senses 😂.... The shayo is not just for manpower but most times to make you do the shit.... Just don't forget condom ooooo 😂

Any man that likes to sleep around without alcohol is irredeemable.... Just call Jesus for him or leave him .. cos he's a lost dog 🐕🐕🐕
Re: Wine, Women And Sex, The Worrying Trend Among Our Men by omojeesu(m): 7:07pm On May 09
End times things...

Secure your life in Jesus Christ!
Re: Wine, Women And Sex, The Worrying Trend Among Our Men by Adeoye11(m): 7:23pm On May 09
Bros our girls now are like machines so therefore there's need to be intoxicated before you can satisfy them or else one $200yahoo go knack am wetin no good




Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Bro, that's the trend now.

Personally, I'm a teetotaler cuz I don't take alcohol and I don't smoke,but when it comes to bedmatics session,my naturally be like that of terminator angry

Jokes apart,I only pity single men like us. Cuz lots of us will definitely end up marrying women who have been chewed by men who took different kind of smokes and alcoholics angry.

If to say kpekus dey get metre wey dey read how many diicks e don service,many of us for no dey think of marriage at all
Re: Wine, Women And Sex, The Worrying Trend Among Our Men by Diamond098454(f): 7:24pm On May 09
Who is this?
DuttyChuks:
You seems to like that dude, send him a pm cool

Re: Wine, Women And Sex, The Worrying Trend Among Our Men by Kalulu44(op): 7:26pm On May 09
ZombieTERROR:
There's a different between love making and sex

love died in Nigeria since 2015
immediately this evil party came to power
everything went south

Right about now
it's sad to see youths fall apart
Really really sad honestly
Re: Wine, Women And Sex, The Worrying Trend Among Our Men by Kalulu44(op): 7:27pm On May 09
sigmax:
That's why I don't like going out because of temptation.
Lolz! Can't you hold yourself when you go out
Re: Wine, Women And Sex, The Worrying Trend Among Our Men by Kalulu44(op): 7:28pm On May 09
fyzaila:
I thank God my man isn't part of these irresponsible categories
Lolz! Are you sure about that
Re: Wine, Women And Sex, The Worrying Trend Among Our Men by Kalulu44(op): 7:31pm On May 09
walosky:
Instead of ingesting all manner of aphrodisiacs all drugs get your self Samsun oil apply thoroughly and thank me later
Hmmmm.. which one is samsun oil again
Re: Wine, Women And Sex, The Worrying Trend Among Our Men by Kalulu44(op): 7:32pm On May 09
DickenClarq:
As a Lady, If I noticed you took any rubbish to sleep with me, I will not allow you to touch me.

Sex enhancement drugs are meant to be used on prostitutes, Escorts, call girls etc. not on your Wife or Serious Girlfriend.

Except you are having Erectile Issues then it is understandable.

In addition, the rate the young folks now smoke weed openly is very alarming. Teenagers between the ages of 16 - 20 years now smoke weed openly in Bars, Hotels, Clubs etc. without fear.
Some even post pictures of them self smoking weed and kissing their underage girlfriend on their social media status. While, the small small girls now twerk and upload soft porn on their status.

NIGERIA IS IN BIG TROUBLE


May God help us
My dear you have said it all, nothing to add or remove.
Re: Wine, Women And Sex, The Worrying Trend Among Our Men by Kalulu44(op): 7:33pm On May 09
prigoz:
Unfortunately non if them disturbs me, I don't drink, smoke nor womanize and marriage will be 20 yes by this December, I have never slept with another woman apart from my wife , also I am not the type my wife control with sex.
Good for you and I glad for you
Re: Wine, Women And Sex, The Worrying Trend Among Our Men by Kalulu44(op): 7:34pm On May 09
Dogalmighty17:
OP, How you Siddon and na wetin come your mind be dis?

Anyways, I am a proud two minutes man. There is no point impressing a borehole that has swallowed multiple massive rods. Rods that will put a horse to shame.
Lolz! Many things dey happen for our society wey man supposed talk about nah.
The rate our youths are going now, it's amazing
Re: Wine, Women And Sex, The Worrying Trend Among Our Men by abdsamad(m): 7:52pm On May 09
The problem isn't them bringing in all sorts of girls, it's that they are adding drugs to the mix, abi. Continue!

Whatever is worth doing ba?

If you want to do good, go all in. And if someone will do the wrong thing, why blame them for trying to get A+. Sorry, F+, abi minus

It's like complaining that politicians used to steal money with excuses and hidden projects but now they just do it blatantly. Isn't the problem that they're stealing the money in the first place.
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