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For some days, the internet has been on fire over the alleged affair between the wife of Nigerian TV personality, Frank Edoho and singer, Chike.

I am not the type of person that spends much time online following trending stories, and all that, but one thing I noticed is that each time the story pops up, and I view the comments, I feel so ashamed at some of our young Nigerian mothers. What are you teaching your sons and daughters when you openly support a cheating wife? Would you openly showcase such support if the victim happens to be your brother or son?

Now, to the young men out there, let me give you a candid advice, and this is the gospel truth. Not every man out there is as meek as Frank Edoho. Some men out there are tigers and lions that belong to various cult groups. If you sleep with their wives, they will spend their time and money to make sure that you either leave the surface of the Earth, or you lose your hands and legs, and become useless in life.

My secondary school classmate had his head butchered with a matchet, and his right leg cut off at Isolo, Lagos for romancing with another man's wife. Unfortunately, he could not make it, as he died in the hospital after four days.

Whether a man is taking care of his wife or not, leave them alone. It is a family affair. God did not create you to be providing comfort or romance for women who lack such in their marriage. Please, it is not your duty to provide succour to a woman who lacks romance or care in her home. Just because you have six packs and a handsome face. Many men have gone. Be wise!

This is not a bro code. It is a warning. There is something Warri people call 'To die kamala'. It means to die for something that is not worth it.

Y would any guy b turned on by another man's wife....that a red line

No guy sees him as a role model. Women who have failed in relationships are the ones that are supporting him cos he is making old cargoes feel like they are still desirable

What Chike did was extremely bad, whichever you look at it.

All this chike narrative by all of una go still trend Comot.


Make una rest abeg!!!

He is matured, same as the woman.

Today na Monday, make una go hustle for money, leave chike alone

Thou shall not commit adultery.

Grave sin

It’s hard not to feel a bit of whiplash when looking at social media commentary these days. One minute a platform is a space for lighthearted memes, and the next, it’s a battleground of intense, sometimes shocking opinions. It makes complete sense why you’d feel frustrated and deeply concerned by what you’re seeing online. When public commentary seems to normalize betrayal or overlook real-world consequences, it can feel like a complete breakdown of basic empathy and common sense.

The internet has a strange way of dehumanizing situations. People typing behind screens often treat real lives like fictional soap operas, rooting for "drama" without stopping to think about the actual families involved, or the values they are projecting to the next generation. It’s entirely valid to look at that and worry about the example being set for young people.

However, when we look at the other side of this conversation, the focus shifts from online commentary to the very real, very dangerous reality of street violence.

The story you shared about your classmate is tragic, and it highlights a grim reality: we live in a world where some people react to betrayal with devastating, unlawful violence. Cautioning young men to avoid meddling in marriages isn't just about "bro code"—it is, at its core, a plea for self-preservation and respect for boundaries. Marital issues are deeply personal and incredibly complex; entering that space as an outsider is always a massive gamble with high stakes.

At the same time, framing this strictly around the fear of violent retaliation—likening men to "lions and tigers" in cults—creates a tense dynamic. While it's vital to warn people about the extreme dangers that exist out there, relying purely on the threat of brutal consequences can sometimes obscure the fundamental moral reason to stay away: respecting commitments and avoiding the destruction of a family unit.

Ultimately, your frustration stems from a desire to see more accountability, better values, and fewer senseless tragedies. Whether the goal is protecting one's life or protecting one's integrity, the takeaway remains clear: entering into a marriage that isn't yours is a boundary that shouldn't be crossed.

What do you think is the biggest driver behind why online commentary has become so disconnected from these real-world consequences?

Rapmoney:
For some days, the internet has been on fire over the alleged affair between the wife of Nigerian TV personality, Frank Edoho and singer, Chike.

I am not the type of person that spends much time online following trending stories, and all that, but one thing I noticed is that each time the story pops up, and I view the comments, I feel so ashamed at some of our young Nigerian mothers. What are you teaching your sons and daughters when you openly support a cheating wife? Would you openly showcase such support if the victim happens to be your brother or son?

Now, to the young men out there, let me give you a candid advice, and this is the gospel truth. Not every man out there is as meek as Frank Edoho. Some men out there are tigers and lions that belong to various cult groups. If you sleep with their wives, they will spend their time and money to make sure that you either leave the surface of the Earth, or you lose your hands and legs, and become useless in life.

My secondary school classmate had his head butchered with a matchet, and his right leg cut off at Isolo, Lagos for romancing with another man's wife. Unfortunately, he could not make it, as he died in the hospital after four days.

Whether a man is taking care of his wife or not, leave them alone. It is a family affair. God did not create you to be providing comfort or romance for women who lack such in their marriage. Please, it is not your duty to provide succour to a woman who lacks romance or care in her home. Just because you have six packs and a handsome face. Many men have gone. Be wise!

This is not a bro code. It is a warning. There is something Warri people call 'To die kamala'. It means to die for something that is not worth it.

A very wise advise, but bro this generation is something else

To me eh, sometimes i don't blame women on infidelity stuffs. Men are evil to their fellow men. Of all the best foods in this life, na person wife hungry you fuaaaah

Please take ur story out of the public view.. Nobody cares!!

I don't know what you expect from someone who named an album... Boo of the booless

VDM: For this act, Chike will miss out on juicy invitations like marriage ceremonies.

Women: We won't allow that to happen.

Men to women: Let’s see. Una don sponsor any marriage before?

No man will be happy to invite anyone whose stories are all over the social media for sleeping with a married woman. The only way for him is to organise a tour for his teeming female supporters.

Half a word is enough for the wise !

One of the hardest sexual temptation to flee from is that of a married woman

You go dey run she go Dey pursue you. "Na so one touch my guy dick say... gimme this thing naaaaaa". One shook me , and used the finger to scractch my palm. No be signal be that?

The temptation to test it is soooooooo high. Na only grace you need to jump and pass

Ha! abeg ooo

If I were already married and caught my wife in any of the comment sections supporting Chike or Frank's wife, she'd be on my watchlist for the longest time, and things would never return to normal. For the guys cheering Chike, they'd never understand what it feels like, until they have a firsthand experience.

donleo92:
All this chike narrative by all of una go still trend Comot.


Make una rest abeg!!!

He is matured, same as the woman.

Today na Monday, make una go hustle for money, leave chike alone

The same men you dey cheer up go knack your wife too

Stupeeed post on a Monday morning.....

Honestly, this is so spot on. I just wish these youth will learn. They tend to be infatuated by MILFs and Cougars, despite the dangers involved

Helinuss:
The same men you dey cheer up go knack your wife too

Swears

Make them all getaway

Hezmatosky210:
To me eh, sometimes i don't blame women on infidelity stuffs. Men are evil to their fellow men. Of all the best foods in this life, na person wife hungry you fuaaaah

Have you tried to ponder on why women are referred to as the 'gate keepers of s3x'?

I blame the woman here, her reaction to whatever abuse she might have supposedly suffered in her marriage can be seen as f00lish and very damaging.

I did count it as task, is not new to me. My ex told me that she can't date her course mate, that same course mate late take her to bed and have sex with her. You see, just few of the gender are good. 95% of woman are useless.

Let's assume he accidentally fell into this entanglement........ He did not know Sandra was a married woman....... 😂🤣

It's the women cheering him on that's worrying

donleo92:
All this chike narrative by all of una go still trend Comot.


Make una rest abeg!!!

He is matured, same as the woman.

Today na Monday, make una go hustle for money, leave chike alone

you wey dey hustle for money wetin you dey do here? Abi how much you don make? Una go just dey lie lie to unaself say una dey useful ..dey whine yourself ontop that dirty mat you are lying on

K

Rapmoney:
For some days, the internet has been on fire over the alleged affair between the wife of Nigerian TV personality, Frank Edoho and singer, Chike.

I am not the type of person that spends much time online following trending stories, and all that, but one thing I noticed is that each time the story pops up, and I view the comments, I feel so ashamed at some of our young Nigerian mothers. What are you teaching your sons and daughters when you openly support a cheating wife? Would you openly showcase such support if the victim happens to be your brother or son?

Now, to the young men out there, let me give you a candid advice, and this is the gospel truth. Not every man out there is as meek as Frank Edoho. Some men out there are tigers and lions that belong to various cult groups. If you sleep with their wives, they will spend their time and money to make sure that you either leave the surface of the Earth, or you lose your hands and legs, and become useless in life.

My secondary school classmate had his head butchered with a matchet, and his right leg cut off at Isolo, Lagos for romancing with another man's wife. Unfortunately, he could not make it, as he died in the hospital after four days.

Whether a man is taking care of his wife or not, leave them alone. It is a family affair. God did not create you to be providing comfort or romance for women who lack such in their marriage. Please, it is not your duty to provide succour to a woman who lacks romance or care in her home. Just because you have six packs and a handsome face. Many men have gone. Be wise!

This is not a bro code. It is a warning. There is something Warri people call 'To die kamala'. It means to die for something that is not worth it.

If the accusation against Chike is true, then karma would catch up with him. He would reap what he sows

EponObi:
...Walahi na to find private investigators to do check on my future partners because what I read on the net about this Chike saga is mind blowing. Make person no go marry unnecessary nonsense. I couldn't believe some guys could even post something like that.

It shows the poor quality of our reasoning as a people. It shows how repugnant and distasteful are judgement can be. It is equally evident in our choice of political leaders. It explains a defect in the equipment of our brains and the ignorance of our dissonance.

Our value system is 👎👎👎

It's a tragedy!

fyneboi79:
you wey dey hustle for money wetin you dey do here? Abi how much you don make? Una go just dey lie lie to unaself say una dey useful ..dey whine yourself ontop that dirty mat you are lying on

My grandma fit still guide pass the werey. 😂