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Who is still doing burden in the name of girlfriend

Make everyone go and hustle & take themselves wherever they want, I am not taking anyone anywhere

No be those bukka operators wey dey grind maggot infested tomatos , count me out.

When we dey university that time, you need to come see slay girls and queen remove wigs dey chop hot Amala wey soaked inside correct draw soup with meat. You would see beautiful ladies dey chop the hot Amala with their bare hands, nah me sometimes dey form dey use spoon dey chop the Amala- those ladied no send.

folake4u:
If you take me to a food Bukka, I'd assume you hate me. Some of us have sensitive stomach and always prone to food poisoning.

Then, you should opt and be ready to pay for the expensive food since you're a rich girl from a rich home. Let the guy breathe.

How about the Female dolls wey unah dey use that time, e no dey market again?

Sonnobax15:

It's really pathetic indeed.

As in, spending huge amount of money on someone who wouldn't appreciate it simply because she has something that's in-between her legs

I wish God can just make an alternative for it,so that men would stop spending their hard earned money on it . Something else like a konji collector, not located in the body of a woman . Na me go happy pass.

Samantha125:
And when I tell people that I don't eat food from those local street restaurants, they think I'm acting all uppity, which is not the case... I'm all about supporting local businesses, I wouldn't even mind if my man took me to one of those restaurants, but unfortunately, I can't keep going where my health is being compromised.

you and packaging ba👆

Why I break up with one girl she insisted I must carry her go chop for restaurants , when I get better food stuffs for house to cook

And you think those top restaurants are not the same charm?

Samantha125:
What if the lady is like some of us and doesn't eat food from those local street restaurants?

No doubt, the food is delicious, but I've only had bad experiences with them... Each time I eat them, I have this tendency of either getting a bad runny stomach or heartburn... My mother then once said something that made me to entirely stop eating them, she told me how some of those local street restaurants use good luck charms to be attracting customers and that my body is probably resisting them.

I'm not a huge fan of Bukka though

[quote author=EmmyMaestro post=139435836]“Stop taking your girlfriend to restaurant, Bukka is better” – Man sparks debate over dating cost advice

A Nigerian man has sparked reactions online after sharing his opinion about dating expenses and where men should take their partners on outings.

In a video shared on X (formerly Twitter), he advised men to stop taking their girlfriends to expensive restaurants, claiming that local “Bukkas” are more affordable and practical.

In his words, he said:

“Bukka is better than restaurant, stop taking your girlfriend to restaurant and send 15k but here you will spend only 4k. All the girls in my life I take them to Bukka.

All those girls are not worth spending your money on. You meet a girl today, you’re spending 40k on her.”

According to him, spending money on restaurant dates is unnecessary when cheaper alternatives like local restaurants exist.

His statement has since sparked mixed reactions online, with many social media users criticizing his views on relationships and spending, while others argued that dating expenses should be based on individual financial capacity and preferences.

One user wrote, “Bukka or restaurant, if she likes you she go follow you go anywhere 😂.”

Another added, “Na why some men no dey enjoy relationship, everything na calculation.

“Buka is better than restaurant, stop taking your girlfriend to restaurant & send 15k but here you will spend only 4k, all the girls in my life I take them to Buka, all those girls are not worth spending your money on, you meet a girl today you’re spending 40k on her”

“Buka is better than restaurant, stop taking your girlfriend to restaurant & send 15k but here you will spend only 4k, all the girls in my life I take them to Buka, all those girls are not worth spending your money on, you meet a girl today you’re spending 40k on her”

—-Nigerian… pic.twitter.com/aUV8ROgv4I

— D3VID 🐢 (@DurkioWiz) May 16, 2026

Stopped this long ago,if you cannot talk to me outside leave am

EmmyMaestro:
You are right. But there some restaurants that are also unhygienic and use good luck charms

like the one rat was kissing the burger

Samantha125:
What if the lady is like some of us and doesn't eat food from those local street restaurants?

No doubt, the food is delicious, but I've only had bad experiences with them... Each time I eat them, I have this tendency of either getting a bad runny stomach or heartburn... My mother then once said something that made me to entirely stop eating them, she told me how some of those local street restaurants use good luck charms to be attracting customers and that my body is probably resisting them.

It's your mind. The day I nearly died from food poisoning it was from a popular restaurant in Festac

Samantha125:
What if the lady is like some of us and doesn't eat food from those local street restaurants?

No doubt, the food is delicious, but I've only had bad experiences with them... Each time I eat them, I have this tendency of either getting a bad runny stomach or heartburn... My mother then once said something that made me to entirely stop eating them, she told me how some of those local street restaurants use good luck charms to be attracting customers and that my body is probably resisting them.

Truly speaking,but not all.All you need do is to identify a restaurant and make inquiry about it,then you're good to go.

Samantha125:
What if the lady is like some of us and doesn't eat food from those local street restaurants?

No doubt, the food is delicious, but I've only had bad experiences with them... Each time I eat them, I have this tendency of either getting a bad runny stomach or heartburn... My mother then once said something that made me to entirely stop eating them, she told me how some of those local street restaurants use good luck charms to be attracting customers and that my body is probably resisting them.

..story 🙄

Where is this location? I suspect this place to be Ore rd, along sagamu express.

Sonnobax15:

It's really pathetic indeed.

As in, spending huge amount of money on someone who wouldn't appreciate it simply because she has something that's in-between her legs

I wish God can just make an alternative for it,so that men would stop spending their hard earned money on it . Something else like a konji collector, not located in the body of a woman . Na me go happy pass.

This Ogbeni 👆go dey soapy well well

Some body that is coming to be a pest that will not add any value except to collect .

Sonnobax15:

It's really pathetic indeed.

As in, spending huge amount of money on someone who wouldn't appreciate it simply because she has something that's in-between her legs

I wish God can just make an alternative for it,so that men would stop spending their hard earned money on it . Something else like a konji collector, not located in the body of a woman . Na me go happy pass.

Funny enough, dude is 💯 right

SpencerForbes:
Buka is sweet—until you are buying drugs for typhoid. Not all bukkas are good. If you can comfortably afford a proper restaurant, then there's no harm in upgrading. Don't let the temporary sweetness of the food make you forget the dangers of poor preservation and zero hygiene.

Ask yourself, how many clean bukkas are in my area and if you can't mention a good one, go to a restaurant or prepare something at home.

Wetin this one dey talk? So na for restaurant you no fit get typhoid? Abeggi!

AJSfan:
local or standard restaurant, many businesses use charms to attract customers. Whether na woli, babalawo or alfa dem dey go. The safest option is cooking at home.

And talking about using charms. They're not using charms to kill anybody. Just to get high patronage. Nothing concerns charms and their foods been good or not

Inosky:
If I take you out as a girl, it's either snacks and mineral we will take there. If you want to eat rice or swallow you come to my house or you can buy it yourself. I am a conservative.

Gbamsolutely

nick50:
Most of these ladies that pretend they don't eat from local food vendors are actually forming immediately dem meet a new maga(guy)..secretly they eat from road side vendors right from thier childhood till now..there is this roadside food vendor in front of my shop in lagos every day u need to see the calibre of gals that always patronise them but here online they will be forming...no be today I dey see women and propaganda..them too like fake life I swear

You really know them finish

Samantha125:
What if the lady is like some of us and doesn't eat food from those local street restaurants?

No doubt, the food is delicious, but I've only had bad experiences with them... Each time I eat them, I have this tendency of either getting a bad runny stomach or heartburn... My mother then once said something that made me to entirely stop eating them, she told me how some of those local street restaurants use good luck charms to be attracting customers and that my body is probably resisting them.

Then use your money and go-to the restaurant

Una still dey take woman out? Na before I dey do that nonsense,not anymore...if you no fit find me come house then dey your dey...These women no worth to spend penny on.

Inosky:
Then, you should opt and be ready to pay for the expensive food since you're a rich girl from a rich home. Let the guy breathe.

The guy would be happy to spend more at a restaurant for my sake, don't worry about me.

Sonnobax15:

It's really pathetic indeed.

As in, spending huge amount of money on someone who wouldn't appreciate it simply because she has something that's in-between her legs

I wish God can just make an alternative for it,so that men would stop spending their hard earned money on it . Something else like a konji collector, not located in the body of a woman . Na me go happy pass.

When i read your comment, I liked it but I Forget i Already liked it i wan come relike am again lols

Pastoshizzy:
Wise guy.
Na true o.
In my time, na straight to market.
You cook, we eat and we do the doo.

The good old days.

Some go even branch market on the way coming and pick the needed
She cook and you go dey there dey help and vibe her up. Later she go baff and then wrap your towel and/wear your T-shirt which most times will be oversize for her.

Then una go run the matta, sleep small if time dey, then run am before she go back.

Men don dey old shall

ideatoprince18:
How do guys do it?? .... Taking girls to eatery on date??

All the dates I have had has either been at a park, cinema, recreation center. I think there's more Fun there than carrying a lady to a place where she will go and fill her guts with food.

Even when they reach the UK here, they will still turn down coffee dates or funtime at the best of parks you will ever see.

You go hear stuff like, 'I get coffee for house na' or shey na chips and chicken I no fit afford for myself?'

Very weird species.

All the more reason why it works since the average man sees it as a low quality idea.

Oceanjagaban:
sorry to say but na poor man mentality be that

Makinaki:
Wetin this one dey talk? So na for restaurant you no fit get typhoid? Abeggi!

Everything comes with chances. Your chances of getting typhoid from Chicken Republic are probably lower than from the average roadside bukka. But I understand some of you prefer food sold beside gutters, under rusty sheds, with flies hovering around like loyal customers. To each their own taste.

In have been doing just that.

Oluwaseunomo:
Then use your money and go-to the restaurant

My mind had never had any issues with eating from local street restaurants before.

Mitsurugi:
It's your mind. The day I nearly died from food poisoning it was from a popular restaurant in Festac